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    vFk fookglaLdkjfo/ o{;ke%^fookg* mls dgrs gSafd tks iw.kZczp;Zozr ls fo|k cy dks

    izkIr rFkk lc izdkj ls 'kqHk xq.k] deZ] LoHkkoksaesarqY;] ijLijizhfr;qDr gksosQ fuEufyf[kr izek.ks lUrkuksRifk vkSj vius&vius

    o.kkZJe osQ vuqowQy mke deZdjus osQ fy;s L=kh vkSj iq#"k dklEcU/ gksrk gS A blesaizek.kmnx;u vkiw;Zek.ki{ks iq.;s u{k=ks pkSydeksZi&

    u;uxksnkufookgk% AAAAlkoZdkyesosQ fookge~AAAA ;g vk'oyk;u x`lw=k vkSjvkolF;k/kuankjdkys AAAA bR;kfn ikjLdj vkSj

    iq.;s u{k=ks nkjku~oqQohZr AAAAy{k.kiz'kLrku~ oqQ'kysu AAAAbR;kfn xk sfHkyh; x`lw=kvkSj blh izdkj 'kkSud x`lw=k esaHkh gS AA

    vFkZmkjk;.k 'kqDyi{k vPNs fnu vFkkZr~ftl fnu izlUurkgks] ml fnu fookg djuk pkfg;s AAAAvkSj fdrus gh vkpk;ks dk ,slk er gS fd lc dky esafookg

    djuk pkfg;s AAAAftl vfXu dk LFkkiu fookg esa gksrk gS] ml dk ^vkolF;*

    uke gS AAAAizlUurk osQ fnu L=kh dk ikf.kxzg.k] tks fd L=kh loZFkk 'kqHk

    xq.kkfn ls mke gks] djuk pkfg;s AA&AAbl dk le;i`"B & rd esafy[ks izek.ks tkuuk

    pkfg, A o/wvkSj oj dk vk;q] oqQy] okLro LFkku] 'kjhj vkSj LoHkko

    dh ijh{kk vo'; djsa] vFkkZr~ nksuksalKku vkSj fookg dh bPNkdjusokys gksaA L=kh dh vk;qls oj dh vk;q U;wu ls U;wu M~;ks

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    osnku/hR; osnkS ok osnaokfi ;Fkkee~AvfoIyqrczp;ksZ x`gLFkkJeekfo'ksr~ AAAA

    xq#.kkuqer% LukRok leko`kks ;Fkkfof/ Am}gsr f}tks Hkk;klo.kky{k.kkfUorke~AAAAvlfi.Mk p ;k ekrqjlxks=kk p ;k firq% A

    lk iz'kLrk f}tkrhuka nkjdeZf.k eSFkqus AAAAegkUR;fi le`kfu xkstkfo/u/kU;r% AL=khlEcU/s n'kSrkfu oqQykfu ifjotZ;sr~ AAAAghuf;a fu"iq#"ka fu'NUnks jkse'kk'kZle~ A{k;ke;kO;iLekfjf'of=koqQf"BoqQykfu p AAAA

    uks}gsr~dfiykadU;kaukf/dkXhau jksfx.khe~Aukyksfedkaukfryksekau okpkVkau fiXyke~AAAAu{kZo`{kunhukEuha ukUR;ioZrukfedke~ Au i{;fgizs";ukEuhau p Hkh"k.kukfedke~AAAAvO;XkXha lkSE;ukEuha galokj.kxkfeuhe~ A

    ruqykseosQ'kn'kuka e`}Xheq}gsr~ fL=k;e~ AAAAczkks nSoLrFkSok"kZ% izktkiR;LrFkklqj% AxkU/oksZ jk{kl'pSo iS'kkp'pk"Veks/e% AAAAvkPNk| pkpZf;Rok p Jqfr'khyors Lo;e~Avkgw; nkuadU;k;k czkks /eZ% izdhrr% AAAA

    ;Ks rq forrs lE;x`fRots deZ oqQoZrs Avy~R; lqrknkua nSoa /e izp{krs AAAA

    ,oaQ xksfeFkqua }s ok ojknknk; /eZr% AdU;kiznkua fof/onk"kksZ /eZ% l mP;rs AAAAlg ukS pjrka /eZfefr okpkuqHkk"; p AdU;kiznkueH;P;Z izktkiR;ks fof/% Ler% AAAAKkfrH;ks fo.kanok dU;k;S pSo 'kfDrr% AdU;kiznkua fof/on~vklqjks /eZ mP;rs AAAAbPN;kU;ksU;la;ksx% dU;k;k'p ojL; p AxkU/oZ% l rqfoKs;ks eSFkqU;% dkelEHko% AAAA

    fookgizdj.ke~ 97

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    gRok fNok p fHkok p ks'kUrha#nrhax`gkr~Aizl dU;kgj.ka jk{klks fof/#P;rs AAAAlqIrkaekka izekkaok jgks ;=kksixPNfr Al ikfi"Bks fookgkukaiS'kkp'pk"Veks/e% AAAAczkkfn"kq fookgs"kq prq"osZokuqiwoZ'k% AczopZfLou% iq=kk tk;Urs f'k"VlEerk% AAAA:iloxq.kksisrk /uoUrks ;'kfLou% Ai;kZIrHkksxk /e"Bk thofUr p 'kralek% AAAAbrjs"kq rq f'k"Vs"kq u`'kalku`rokfnu% Atk;Urs nqookgs"kq cz/eZf}"k% lqrk% AAAAvfufUnrS% L=khfookgSjfuU|k Hkofr iztk A

    fufUnrSufUnrk u.kkarLekfUuU|ku~footZ;sr~AAAAvFkZczp;Zls pkj] rhu] nks vFkok ,d osn dks

    ;Fkkor~i

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    ihys o.kZokyh] vf/d vXokyh tSlh Naxqyh vkfn] jksxorh(jksfx.kh)] ftl osQ 'kjhj ij oqQN Hkh ykse u gksa] vkSj ftl osQ

    'kjhj ij cM+s&cM+s ykse gksa] O;FkZvf/d cksyusgkjh vkSj ftl osQihys fcYyh osQ ln`'k us=k gksa AAAA

    rFkk ftl dU;k dk ({k) u{k=k ij uke vFkkZr~jsorh] jksfg.khbR;kfn](o{k) pEik] pesyh vkfn](unh) ftl dk xXk] ;equkbR;kfn](vUR;) pk.Mkyh vkfn](ioZr) ftl dk foU;kpykbR;kfn] (i{kh) i{kh ij] vFkkZr~dksfdyk] galk bR;kfn] (vfg)

    vFkkZr~mjxk] Hkksfxuh bR;kfn] (izs";) nklh bR;kfn vkSj ftl dU;kdk (Hkh"k.k) dkfydk] pf.Mdk bR;kfn uke gks] ml ls fookg udjs AAAA

    fdUrqftl osQ lqUnj vX] mke uke] gal vkSj gfLruh osQ ln`'kpkyokyh] ftl osQ lw{e ykse] lw{e osQ'k vkSj lw{e nkar gksa] ftlosQ lc vX dksey gksa] ml L=kh ls fookg djs AAAA

    czk] nSo] vk"kZ] izktkiR;] vklqj] xkU/oZ] jk{kl vkSj iS'kkp];s fookg vkB izdkj osQ gksrs gSaAAAA

    igykczkdU;k osQ ;ksX; lq'khy] fo}ku~iq#"k dk lRdkjdjosQ] dU;k dks oL=kkfn ls vyar djosQ] mke iq#"k dks cqyk]

    vFkkZr~ftl dks dU;k us izlUu Hkh fd;k gks] ml dks nsuk] ogczk*fookg dgkrk gS AAAA nwljknSofoLr`r ;K esacM+s&cM+s fo}kuksa dks oj.k dj]

    ml esadeZdjusokys fo}ku~dks oL=k&vkHkw"k.k vkfn ls dU;k dkslq'kksfHkr djosQ nsuk] og^nSo* fookg gS AAAA

    rhljkvk"kZ ,d xk;] cSy dk tksM+k vFkok nks tksM+soj ls ysosQ /eZiwoZd dU;knku djuk] ogvk"kZ* fookg gS AAAA

    vkSj pkSFkkizktkiR;dU;k vkSj oj dks ;K'kkyk esafof/djosQ lc osQ lkeus rqe nksuksafeyosQ x`gkJe osQ deksdks ;Fkkor~djks] ,slk dgdj nksuksadh izlUurkiwoZd ikf.kxzg.k gksuk] og

    ^izktkiR;* fookg dgkrk gS A ;s pkj fookg mke gSaAAAAvkSj ikapokoj dh tkfrokyksa vkSj dU;k dks ;Fkk'kfDr /u

    ;g ckr feF;k gS] D;ksafd vkxs euqLefr esafu"ks/ fd;k gS vkSj ;qfDrfo#Hkh gS A blfy;s oqQN Hkh u ys&nsdj nksuksa dh izlUurk ls ikf.kxzg.k gksuk^vk"kZ* fookg gS A

    fookgizdj.ke~ 99

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    nsdj gkse vkfn fof/ dj dU;k nsuk]vklqj* fookg dgkrk gS AAAA NBkoj vkSj dU;k dh bPNk ls nksuksadk la;ksx gksuk vkSj

    vius eu esaeku ysuk fd ge nksuksaL=kh&iq#"k gSa] ;g dke ls gqvk^xkU/oZ* fookg dgkrk gS AAAA

    vkSj lkrokguu] Nsnu vFkkZr~dU;k osQ jksdusokyksadkfonkj.k dj ks'krh] jksrh] oaQirh vkSj Hk;Hkhr gqbZdU;k dks cykRdkjgj.k djosQ fookg djuk] og jk{kl* fookg gS AAAA

    vkSj vkBoktks lksrh] ikxy gqbZok u'kk ihdj mUek

    gqbZdU;k dks ,dkUr ikdj nwf"kr dj nsuk] ;g lc fookgksa esauhpls uhp egkuhp] nq"V] vfrnq"V^iS'kkp* fookg gS AAAAczk] nSo] vk"kZvkSj izktkiR; bu pkj fookgksaesaikf.kxzg.k fd;s

    gq, L=kh&iq#"kksals tks lUrku mRiUu gksrs gSa] os osnkfnfo|k ls rstLoh]vkIr iq#"kksaosQ lEer] vR;qke gksrs gSaAAAA

    os iq=k ok dU;k lqUnj :i] cy] ijke] 'kq] cqkfn] mkexq.k;qDr] cgq/u;qDr] iq.;dhreku~vkSj iw.kZHkksx osQ HkksDrk]vfr'k; /ekZRek gksdj o"kZrd thrs gSaAAAA

    bu pkj fookgksals tks ckdh jgs pkj vklqj] xkU/oZ] jk{kl vkSjiS'kkp] bu pkj nq"V fookgksals mRiUu gq, lUrku fufUnr deZdkkZ]

    feF;koknh] osn/eZosQ }s"kh] cM+s uhp LoHkkookys gksrs gSaAAAAblfy;s euq";ksa dks ;ksX; gS fd ftu fufUnr fookgksa ls uhpiztk gksrh gSa] mu dk R;kx vkSj ftu mke fookgksals mke iztkgksrh gSa] mu dks fd;k djsaAAAA

    mR"Vk;kfHk:ik; ojk; ln`'kk; p AvizkIrkefi rkarLeS dU;kan|kf}p{k.k% AAAA

    dkeekej.kkr~fr"Bsn~x`gs dU;rqZeR;fi Au pSoSukaiz;PNskqxq.kghuk; dgfpr~AAAA=khf.k o"kkZ.;qnh{ksr oqQek;Z`rqerh lrh AmQorqdkyknsrLekn~foUnsr ln`'kaifre~AAAAvFkZ;fn ekrk&firk dU;k dk fookg djuk pkgsarks vfr

    mR"V 'kqHkxq.k] deZ] LoHkkookyk] dU;k osQ ln`'k :iyko.;kfnxq.k;qDr oj gh dks]pkgs og dU;k&ekrk dh Ng ih

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    dh mRifk djsaAAAApkgs ej.k&i;ZUr dU;k firk osQ ?kj esafouk fookg osQ cSBh Hkh jgs]

    ijUrqxq.kghu vln`'k] nq"V iq#"k osQ lkFk dU;k dk fookg dHkh u djsvkSj oj&dU;k Hkh vius vki Loln'k osQ lkFk gh fookg djsaAAAA

    tc dU;k fookg djus dh bPNk djs] rc jtLoyk gksus osQfnu ls rhu o"kZdks NksM+osQ pkSFks o"kZesafookg djsAAAA

    iz'u^v"Vo"kkZ Hkosn~xkSjh uoo"kkZ p jksfg.khA*bR;kfn'yksdksadh D;k xfr gksxh \

    mkjbu 'yksdksavkSj bu osQ ekuusokyksadh nqxZfr] vFkkZr~tksbu 'yksdksadh jhfr ls ckY;koLFkk esavius lUrkuksadk fookgdj&djk] mu dks u"V&Hkz"V jksxh vYik;qdjrs gSa] os vius oqQydk tkuks lR;kuk'k dj jgs gSa A blfy, ;fn 'kh?kz fookg djsarksosnkjEHk esafy[ks gq, lksyg o"kZls U;wu dU;k vkSj iPphlo"kZls U;wu iq#"k dk fookg dHkh u djsa&djkosaA bl osQ vkxs ftrukvf/d czp;ZjD[ksaxs] mruk gh mu dks vkuUn vf/d gksxk A

    iz'ufookg fudVokfl;ksals vFkok nwjokfl;ksals djuk pkfg;s\mkj^nqfgrk nqgrk nwjs fgrk Hkorhfr A* ;g fu#Dr dk

    izek.k gS fdftruk nwjns'k esafookg gksxk] mruk gh mUgsavf/d

    ykHk gksxk Aiz'uvius xks=k ok HkkbZ&cfguksadk ijLij fookg D;ksaughagksrk \

    mkj,dnks"k ;g gS fd bu osQ fookg gksus esaizhfr dHkhughagksrh] D;ksafd ftruh izhfr ijks{k inkFkZesagksrh gS] mruh izR;{kesaughavkSj ckY;koLFkk osQ xq.k&nks"k Hkh fofnr jgrs gSarFkk Hk;kfnHkh vf/d ughajgrs A nwljktc rd nwjLFk ,d&nwljs oqQy osQ

    lkFk lEcU/ ughagksrk] rc rd 'kjhj vkfn dh iqf"V Hkh iw.kZughagksrh A rhljknwj lEcU/ gksus ls ijLij izhfr] mUufr] ,s'o;Zc

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    v'oL;k=k tfufiekL; p LofiZqgks fj"k% lEi`pfi% ikfg lwjhu~Avkeklqfi iw"kqZ ijks vfiize`";aukjkfir;ks fo ufi'kUuku`firkfu AAAA

    ea A lw A ea &AA

    o/wfj;a ifrfifEkPNUR;sfifRk ; b ogkfirs efgfi"khfef"kjke~ AvkL;fi JoL;kn~jFk vk pfi ?kks"kkr~iq: lgk ifjfiorZ;krs AAAA

    ea A lw A ea AA

    mifi o ,"ks oU|sfifHk% 'kwiS% iz ;h fnof'Pkr;fifjoSZQ% A

    m"kklkuDrkfi fO

    knq"khfio fo'oek gkfi ogrks eR;fikZ; ;Ke~AAAAea A lw A ea AAvFkZtks (ee`ZT;ekuk%) mke czp;Zozr vkSj lf}|kvksals

    vR;Ur (;qor;%) chlosao"kZls pkSchlosao"kZokyh gSa] os dU;k yksxtSls (vki%) ty ok unh leq dks izkIr gksrh gSa] oSls (vLesjk%)ge dks izkIr gksusokyh] vius&vius izlUu] vius&vius ls Ms

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    tSls jktkfn lc yksx (iw"kqZ) vius uxjksa vkSj (vkeklq) vius ?kjesa mRiUu gq, iq=k vkSj dU;k:i iztkvksa esamke f'k{kkvksa dks (ij%)mke fo}ku~(vize`";e~) 'k=kqvksadks lgus osQ v;ksX;] czp;Zls izkIrgq, 'kjhjkRecy;qDr nsg dks (vjkr;%) 'k=kqyksx (u) ugha(fou'ku~)fouk'k dj ldrs] vkSj (vu`rkfu) feF;kHkk"k.kkfn nq"V nqO;ZluksadksizkIr (u) ugha gksrs] oSls mke L=kh&iq#"kksa dks (qg%) ksg vkfn nqxqZ.kvkSj (fj"k%) glk vkfn iki (u lEi`p%) lEcU/ ugha djrsA fdUrq

    tks ;qokoLFkk esafookg dj izlUurkiwoZd fof/ ls lUrkuksRifk djrsgSa] buosQ (vL;) bl (v'oL;) egku~x`gkJe osQ e; esamkeckydksadk (tfue) tUe gksrk gS A blfy;s gs fL=k ok iq#"k ! rw(lwjhu~)fo}kuksadh (ikfg) j{kk dj A (p) vkSj ,sls x`gLFkksa dks (v=k) blx`gkJe esalnSo (Lo%) lq[k c

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    dks (mi iz ogr%) vPNs izdkj izkIr gks ldrs gSa] vU; ughaAAAAtSls czp;ZesadU;k dk czp;ZosnksDr gS] oSls gh lc iq#"kksa

    dks czp;Zls fo|k i

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    deZvkSj xq.kksals tks czk.k gS] og {kf=k; oS'; 'kw_ vkSj {kf=k;oS'; 'kw rFkk oS'; 'kw o.kZosQ vf/dkj vkSj deksdks izkIr gksrkgS AAAA

    blh izdkj o.kZO;oLFkk gksus ls i{kikr u gksdj lc o.kZmkecus jgrs] vkSj mke cuus esaiz;Ru djrs A vkSj mke o.kZHk; lsfd eSauhp o.kZu gks tkmaQ] blfy;s cqjs deZ NksM+ mke deksghdks fd;k djrs gSaA bl ls lalkj dh cM+h mUufr gS A vk;kZokZns'k esatc rd ,slh o.kZO;oLFkk] iwoksZDr czp;Zfo|kxzg.k mkerkls Lo;aoj fookg gksrk Fkk] rHkh ns'k dh mUufr Fkh A vc Hkh ,slkgh gksuk pkfg;s] ftl ls vk;kZokZns'k viuh iwokZoLFkk dks izkIrgksdj vkufUnr gksos A

    vc o/w&oj ,d&nwljs osQ xq.k] deZvkSj LoHkko dh ijh{kkbl izdkj djsa

    nksuksadk rqY; 'khy] leku cqf] leku vkpkj] leku :ikfnxq.k] vgldrk] lR; e/qjHkk"k.k] rKrk] n;kyqrk]vgVkj] eRlj]bZ";kZ] dke] ks/] fuyksZHkrk] ns'k dk lq/kj] fo|kxzg.k] lR;ksins'kdjus esafuHkZ;rk] mRlkg_ diV] |wr] pksjh] e|&ekalkgkjkfn nks"kksadk R;kx] x`g dkeksaesavfrprqjrk gks A

    tc&tc izkr%lk;aok ijns'k ls vkdj feysa] rc&rc ueLrs*bl okD; ls ijLij ueLdkj dj] L=kh ifr osQ pj.kLi'kZ] ikniz{kkyu]vklunku djs A rFkk nksuksaijLij izse c

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    djus dh lR; izfrKk djrh ok djrk gwwA ml dks ;g dU;k vkSjeSaoj izkIr gksosavkSj viuh izfrKk dks lR; djus osQ fy, n

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    vksalk/qHkokukLrkepZf;";keks HkoUre~AAbl okD; dks cksysaA ml ijojvkse~vpZ; AA

    ,slk izR;qkj nsos Aiqu% tks o/wvkSj dk;ZdkkZus oj osQ fy;s mke vklu fl

    dj j[kk gks] ml dkso/wgkFk esays oj osQ vkxs [kM+h jgosQvksafo"Vjks fo"Vjks fo"Vj% izfrx`rke~AA

    ;g mke vklu gS] vki xzg.k dhft;s A oj

    vksaizfrx`kfe AAbl okD; dks cksyosQ o/wosQ gkFk ls vklu ys] fcNk ml ij

    lHkke.Mi esaiwokZfHkeq[k cSBosQ] ojvksa o"ekZsfLe lekukukeq|rkfeo lw;Z% A

    bearefHkfr"Bkfe ;ks ek d'pkfHknklfr AAbl eU=k dks cksys ArRi'pkr~dk;ZdkkZ,d lqUnj ik=k esaiw.kZty HkjosQ dU;k osQ

    gkFk esansos vkSjdU;kvksaik|aik|aik|aizfrx`rke~AA

    bl okD; dks cksyosQ oj osQ vkxs /js A iqu%ojvksaizfrx`kfe AA

    bl okD; dks cksyosQ dU;k osQ gkFk ls mnd ys ix&iz{kkyudjs vkSj ml le;

    vksa fojktks nksgksfl fojktks nksge'kh; ef; ik|k;Sfojktks nksg% AA

    bl eU=k dks cksys ArRi'pkr~fiQj Hkh dk;ZdkkZnwljk 'kq yksVk ifo=k ty ls Hkj

    dU;k osQ gkFk esansos A iqu%dU;kvkse~v?kksZ?kksZ?kZ% izfrx`rke~AA

    bl okD; dks cksyosQ oj osQ gkFk esansos A vkSjoj

    ;fn ?kj dk izos'kd }kj iwokZfHkeq[k gks rks oj mkjkfHkeq[k vkSj o/w rFkkdk;ZdkkZ iwokZfHkeq[k [kM+s jgosQ] ;fn czk.k o.kZgks rks izFke nf{k.k ixi'pkr~ck;ka] vkSj vU; {kf=k;kfn o.kZ gks rks izFke ck;k ix /ksos] i'pkr~nkfguk A

    fookgizdj.ke~ 107

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    vksaizfrx`kfe AAbl okD; dks cksyosQ dU;k osQ gkFk ls tyik=k ysosQ] ml ls

    eq[kiz{kkyu djs vkSj mlh le;ojeq[k /ksosQvkse~vki LFk ;q"ekfHk% lokZu~dkekuokIuokfu AAvksaleqao% izfg.kksfe Loka;ksfuefHkxPNr Avfj"Vk vLekoaQ ohjk ek ijklsfp eRi;% AA

    bu eU=kksadks cksys A rRi'pkr~osnh osQ if'pe fcNk;s gq, mlh'kqHkklu ij iwokZfHkeq[k cSBs A

    rRi'pkr~dk;ZdkkZ,d lqUnj miik=k ty ls iw.kZHkj] ml esavkpeuh j[k] dU;k osQ gkFk esansos A vkSj ml le;dU;k

    vkse~vkpeuh;ekpeuh;ekpeuh;aizfrx`rke~AAbl okD; dks cksyosQ oj osQ lkeus djs A vkSjojvksaizfrx`kfe AA

    bl okD; dks cksyosQ dU;k osQ gkFk esals tyik=k dks ys lkeus/j] ml esals nfgus gkFk esaty] ftruk vaxqfy;ksa osQ ewy rd igqaps

    mruk ysosQ] ojvkse~vk ekxu~;'klk llt opZlk A

    raek oqQ# fiz;aiztkukef/ir i'kwukefj"V ruwuke~AAbl eU=k ls ,d vkpeu A blh izdkjnwljh vkSj rhljh okjblh eU=k dks i

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    vksansoL;fi Rok lfOkrq% izfilosf'ouksckZgqH;akfi iw".kks gLrkfiH;kaizfrfi x`kfe AA

    bl eU=k dks cksyosQ e/qioZQ osQ ik=k dksoke gkFk esaysos vkSjvksaHkwHkqZo% Lo~% A e/q okrkfi rk;rs e/qfi {kjfURk flU/fio%A

    ekohfiuZ% lURoks"kfi/h% AAAAvksaHkwHkqZo% Lo~% A e/q uDrfieqrks"klks e/qfieRikFkfio jtfi% A

    e/q |kSjfiLrqu% fIkrk AAAA

    vksaHkwHkqZo% Lo~% A e/qfiekUuks ouLifR

    keZ/qfiekvLrq lw;Z% AekohxkZoksfi HkoUrqu% AAAAbu rhu eU=kksalse/qioZQ dh vksj voyksdu djs Avksaue% ';kokL;k;kUu'kus ;k vkfoarks fu"UrkfeAA

    bl eU=k dks i

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    esaMky nsos A rRi'pkr~vkse~ve`rkfi/kuefl Lokgk AAvksalR;a;'k% JheZf; Jh% J;rkaLokgk AA

    bunks eU=kksals nks vkpeu]vFkkZr~,d ls ,d vkSj nwljsls nwljkoj djs A rRi'pkr~oji`"B esa fy[ks izek.ks p{kqjkfnbfU;ksadk ty ls Li'kZdjs A i'pkr~dU;k

    vksa xkSxkSZxkSZ% izfrx`rke~AAbl okD; ls oj dh foufr djosQ viuh 'kfDr osQ ;ksX; oj dks

    xksnkukfn O;] tks fd oj osQ ;ksX; gks] viZ.k djs A vkSjojvksaizfrx`kfe AAbl okD; ls ml dks xzg.k djs A bl izdkj e/qioZQ fof/ ;Fkkor~

    djosQ] o/w vkSj dk;ZdkkZoj dkslHkke.MiLFkku ls ?kj esaystkosQ 'kqHk vklu ij iwokZfHkeq[k cSBkosQ] oj osQ lkeus if'pekfHkeq[ko/wdks cSBkos A vkSj dk;ZdkkZ mkjkfHkeq[k cSBosQ

    vkse~veqd xks=kksRiUukfeekeeqdukEuhe~ vy~rkadU;kaizfrx`krqHkoku~AA

    bl izdkj cksyosQoj dk gkFk pkkvFkkZr~gFksyh mQij j[kosQ]mlosQ gkFk esao/wdk nf{k.k gkFk pkk gh j[kuk]vkSjoj

    vksa izfrx`kfe AA,slk cksyosQvksatjkaxPN ifj/RLo oklks Hkok "VhukefHk'kfLrikokA

    'krap tho 'kjn% lqopkZ j; p iq=kkuuqlaO;;Lok;q"erhnaifj/RLo okl% AA

    bl eU=k dks cksyosQo/wdks mke oL=knsos A rRi'pkr~vksa;k vUrUuo;u~;k vrUor ;k'p nsohLrUrwufHkrks

    rrUFk A rkLRok nsohtZjls laO;;Lok;q"erhnaifj/RLo okl%AAbl eU=k dks cksyosQo/wdks oj mioL=knsos vkSj mu oL=kksa

    dks o/w ys osQ nwljs ?kj esa,dkUr esa tk mUgha oL=kksadks /kj.k djvkSjmioL=k dks ;Kksiohror~/kj.k djs A ;fn lHkke.Mi LFkkiu u fd;k gks rks ftl ?kj esae/qioZQ gqvk gks ml

    ls nwljs ?kj esa oj dks ys tkos A- veqd bl in osQ LFkku esaftl xks=k vkSj oqQy esao/wmRiUu gqbZgks

    ml dk mPpkj.k vFkkZr~ml dk uke ysuk A- ^^veqdukEuhe ~** bl LFkku ij o/w dk uke f}rh;k foHkfDr osQ ,dopu

    ls cksyuk A

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    vksa ifj/kL;S ;'kks/kL;S nh?kkZ;qRok; tjnf"VjfLe A'krap thokfe 'kjn% iq:ph jk;Liks"kefHklaO;f;";s AAbl eU=k dks i

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    vksalefitUrq fo'osfi nsok% lekiks nfi;kfu ukS Alaekfirfj'ok la/krk leq ns"Vhfi n/krqukS AAAA

    bl eU=k dks cksysaA rRi'pkr~oj vius nf{k.k gkFk lso/wdk nf{k.k gkFk idM+osQ

    vksa;nSf"k eulk nwja fn'kksuqioekuks ok Afgj.;i.kksZ oSd.kZ% l Rok eUeulkadjksrqvlkS AAAA

    bl eU=k dks cksyosQ] ml dks ysosQ ?kj osQ ckgj e.MiLFkkuesa oqQ.M osQ lehigkFk idM+s gq, nksuksavkosavkSj o/wrFkk oj

    vksaHkwHkqZo% Lo~% A v?kksfijp{kqjififr?U;sf/ f'

    kok i'kqH;%lqeukfi% lqopfikZ% A ohjlwnsZo`dkfiek L;ksuk 'kauksfi Hko f}ins 'kaprqfi"ins AAAA

    - oj vkSj dU;k ck sysafd (fo'os nsok%) bl ;K'kkyk esa cSBs gq, fo}ku~yksxks ! vki ge nksuksadks (letUrq) fu'p; djosQ tkusafd eSa viuhizlUurkiwoZd bl oj ok bl o/w dks xgkJe esa,d=k jgus osQ fy,,d&nwljs dk Lohdkj djrs gSafd (ukS) gekjs nksuksa osQ (n;kfu) n;(vki%) ty osQ leku (le~) 'kkUr vkSj feys gq, jgsaxsA tSls (ekrfj'ok)

    izk.kok;q ge dks fiz; gS] oSls (le~) ge nksuksa ,d&nwljs ls lnk izlUujgsaxs A tSls (/krk) /kj.k djusgkjk ijekRek lc esa(le~) feyk gqvk

    lc txr~ dks /kj.k djrk gS] oSls ge nksuksa ,d&nwljs dks /kj.k djsaxsAtSls (leqns"Vh) mins'k djusgkjk Jksrkvksa ls izhfr djrk gS] oSls (ukS)gekjs nksuksa dk vkRek ,d&nwljs osQ lkFk n dks tSls (ioeku%)ifo=k ok;q (ok) tSls (fgj.;i.kksZ oSd.kZ%) rstkse; ty vkfn dks fdj.kksals xzg.k djusokyk lw;Z(nwje~) nwjLFk inkFkks vkSj (fn'kksuq) fn'kkvksadksizkIr gksrk gS] oSls rw izseiwoZd viuh bPNk ls eq> dks izkIr gksrh ok gksrkgS A ml (Rok) rq> dks (l%) og ijes'oj (eUeulke~) esjs eu osQ vuqowQy(djksrq) djs vkSj gs (ohj) tks vki eu ls eq> dks (,sf"k) izkIr gksrs gks

    ml vki dks txnh'oj esjs eu osQ vuqowQy lnk jD[ks AAAA

    - gs ojkuus ! (vifrf?u) ifr ls fojks/ u djusgkjh rw ftl osQ (vkse~)vFkkZr~j{kk djusokyk] (Hkw%) izk.knkrk] (Hkqo%) lc nq%[kksa dks nwj djsugkjk](Lo%) lq[kLo:i vkSj lc lq[kksa osQ nkrk vkfn uke gSa] ml ijekRek

    dh ik vkSj vius mke iq#"kkFkZ ls gs (v?kksjp{kq%) fiz;nf"V L=kh(,f/) gks] (f'kok) eXy djusgkjh (i'kqH;%) lc i'kqvksadks lq[knkrk(lqeuk%) ifo=kkUr%dj.k;qDr izlUufpk (lqopkZ%) lqUnj 'kqHk xq.k] deZ]

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    vksaHkwHkqZo% Lo% A lk u% iw"kk f'korekeSj; lk u mQ: m'krhfogj A ;L;keq'kUr% izgjke 'ksiaQ ;L;keqdkek cgoks fufo"VS AA

    bu pkj eU=kksadks oj cksyosQ] nksuksa oj o/w;KoqQ.M dhiznf{k.kk djosQ] oqQ.M osQ if'pe Hkkx esaizFke LFkkiu fd;s gq,vklu ij iwokZfHkeq[k oj osQ nf{k.k Hkkx esao/wvkSj o/wosQ okeHkkx esaoj cSBosQ] o/w

    vksaiz es ifr;ku% iUFkk% dYirk f'kok vfj"Vk ifryksoaQxes;e~AA

    bl eU=k dks cksys ArRi'pkr~ i`"B & esafy[ks izek.ks ;KoqQ.M osQ lehi nf{k.k

    Hkkx esamkjkfHkeq[kiqjksfgr dh LFkkiukdjuhA rRi'pkr~i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks(vkse~ve`rksiLrj.kefl Lokgk) bR;kfn rhu eU=kksals izR;sd eU=k ls ,d&,d vkpeu] oSls rhu vkpeu oj&o/wvkSjiqjksfgr vkSj dk;ZdkkZdjosQ] gLr vkSj eq[k&iz{kkyu ,d 'kqik=kesa djosQ nwj j[kok nsaA gkFk vkSj eq[k iksaNosQ i` esa fy[ks izek.ks;KoqQ.M esa(vksa HkwHkqZo% Lo|kSZfjo) bl eU=k ls vXU;k/ku i esafy[ks izek.ks(vkse~v;Ur be) bR;kfn eU=kksals lfenk&/ku] vkSj i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks(vkse~vfnrsuqeU;Lo)bR;kfn

    rhu eU=kksals oqQ.M osQ rhu vksj] vkSj(vksanso lfor% izlqo)bl eU=k ls oqQ.M osQ pkjksavksj nf{k.k gkFk dh vtfy ls 'kqty lspu djosQ] oqQ.M esaMkyh gqbZlfe/k iznhIr gq, i'pkr~i`"B& esa fy[ks izek.ks o/w&oj iqjksfgr vkSj dk;ZdkkZvk?kkjkokT;Hkkxkgqfr pkj ?kh dh nsosa A rRi'pkr~i esa

    fy[ks izek.ksO;kfr vkgqfr pkj ?kh dh vkSj i`"B & esafy[ks izek.ksv"VkT;kgqfr vkB] ;s lc feyosQ lksygvkT;kgqfr nsosQ iz/ku gkse dk izkjEHk djsaA

    iz/ku gkse osQ le; o/wvius nf{k.k gkFk dks oj osQ nf{k.k

    LoHkko vkSj fo|k ls lqizdkf'kr (ohjlw%) mke ohj iq#"kksa dks mRiUudjusgkjh (nso`dkek) nsoj dh dkeuk djrh gqbZ vFkkZr~fu;ksx dh HkhbPNk djusgkjh (L;ksuk) lq[k;qDr gksosQ (u%) gekjs (f}ins) euq";kfnosQ fy;s ('ke~) lq[k djusgkjh (Hko) lnk gks A vkSj (prq"ins) xk; vkfni'kqvksadks Hkh ('ke~) lq[k nsusgkjh gks A oSls eSa rsjk ifr Hkh okkZd:AAAA

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    LdU/s ij Li'kZdjosQ i` & esa fy[ks izek.ks(vksaHkwHkqZo%Lo%A vXu vk;waf"k) bR;kfn pkj eU=kksals vFkkZr~,d&,d ls,d&,d feyosQ pkj vkT;kgqfr e ls djsaA vkSj

    vksaHkwHkqZo% Lo~%A Rofie;Zek HkfiofLk ;Rduhuka ukefi Lo/koUxqafifcHk"k A vtfUrfi fEk=kalqf/fira u xksfHk;ZEifirh lefiulk .kksf"kLokgkfi AA bneXu;s bnUu ee AA

    bl eU=k dks cksyosQ ikapohavkT;kgqfr nsuh A rRi'pkr~vkse~firk"kkM~r/kfiekfXuXfikZU/oZ% A l ufi bnaczfi {k=kaikfirq

    rLeS Lokgk okV~AA bnerk"kkgs r/kEusXu;s xU/okZ; bnUuee AAAA

    vkse~firk"kkM`r/kfiekfXuXfikZU/oZLrL;kSfi"k/;ksIljlks eqnks ukefiArkH;% Lokgkfi AA bneks"kf/H;ksIljksH;ks eqn~H;% bnUu ee AAAA

    vksalfifgrks fOk'olkfiek lw;ksZxU/oZ% A l ufi bnaczfi {k=kaikfirq rLeSfi Lokgk okV~ AA bnalfgrk; fo'olkEus lw;kZ;xU/okZ; bnUu ee AAAA

    vksalfifgrks fOk'olkfiek lw;ksZxU/oZLrL; ejhfip;ksIljlfi

    vk;qoks ukefi A rkH;% Lokgkfi AA bnaejhfpH;ksIljksH; vk;qH;%bnUu ee AAAAvksalqfi"kqE.k% lwfikZjf'e'pUekfi xU/oZ% A l ufi bnaczfi {k=ka

    ikfirq rLeS Lokgk okV~ AA bnalq"kqE.kk; lw;Zj'e;s pUelsxU/okZ; bnUu ee AAAA

    vksalqfi"kqE.k% lwfikZjf'e'pUekfi xU/oZLrL; u{kfi=kk.;IljlksfiHksoqQjfi;ks ukefi A rkH;% Lokgkfi AA bnau{k=ksH;ksIljksH;ks HksoqQfjH;%

    bnUu ee AAAAvkse~bfif"kjks fOk'oO;fipk okrksfi xU/oZ% A l ufi bnaczfi {k=ka

    ikfirq rLeS Lokgk okV~ AA bnfef"kjk; fo'oO;pls okrk;xU/okZ; bnUu ee AAAA

    vkse~bfif"kjks fOk'oO;fipk okrksfi xU/oZLrL;kiksfi vIljl mQTTkksZukefi rkH;% Lokgkfi AA bneksIljksH;mQXH;Z% bnUu ee AAAA

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    vksa HkqT;q% lqi.kksZ ;Kks xfiU/oZ% A l ufi bnaczfi {k=kaikfirqrLeS Lokgk okV~AA bnaHkqT;os lqi.kkZ; ;Kk; xU/okZ; bnUuee AAAA

    vksaHkqT;q% lqfii.kksZ ;Kks xfiU/oZLrL; nf{kfi.kk vIljlfi Lrkokukefi A rkH;% Lokgkfi AA bnanf{k.kkH;ksIljksH;% LrkokH;% bnUuee AAAA

    vksaiztkififrOk'oofiQekZ euksfi xU/oZ% A l ufi bnaczfi {k=ka

    ikfirq rLeS Lokgk okV~ AA bnaiztkir;s fo'odeZ.ks eulsxU/okZ; bnUu ee AAAA

    vksaiztkififrOk'oofiQekZ euksfi xU/oZLrL;fi DlkekU;fiIljl,"Vfi;ks ukefi A rkH;% Lokgkfi AA bneDlkesH;ksIljksH; ,f"VH;%bnUu ee AAAA

    bu ckjg eU=kksals ckjg vkT;kgqfr nsuh ArRi'pkr~t;kgkse djukvksafpkap Lokgk AA bnafpkk; bnUu ee AAAAvksafpfk'p Lokgk AA bnafp;S bnUu ee AAAA

    vkse~vkowQrap Lokgk AA bnekowQrk; bnUu ee AAAAvksavkowQfr'p Lokgk AA bnekowQR;S bnUu ee AAAAvksafoKkrap Lokgk AA bnafoKkrk; bnUu ee AAAAvksafoKkfr'p Lokgk AA bnafoKkR;S bnUu ee AAAAvksaeu'p Lokgk AA bnaeuls bnUu ee AAAAvksa'kDojh'p Lokgk AA bna'kDojhH;% bnUu ee AAAAvksan'kZ'p Lokgk AA bnan'kkZ; bnUu ee AAAAvksaikS.kZeklap Lokgk AA bnaikS.kZeklk; bnUu ee AAAAvksac`gPp Lokgk AA bnac`grs bnUu ee AAAAvksajFkUrjap Lokgk AA bnajFkUrjk; bnUu ee AAAAvksaiztkifrtZ;kfuUk; o`".ks izk;PNnqxz% i`ruk t;s"kqA rLeS

    fo'k% leueUr lokZ% l mxz% l bgO;ks cHkwo LokgkAA bnaiztkir;s t;kfuUk; bnUu ee AAAA

    bu eU=kksals izR;sd ls ,d&,d djosQ t;kgkse dh rsjgvkT;kgqfr nsuh A

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    rRi'pkr~vH;kru gkse djuk A blosQ eU=k ;s gSavkse~vfXuHkwZrkukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~

    {k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAAbneXu;s Hkwrkukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vkse~bUks T;s"Bkukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~{k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAA

    bnfeUk; T;s"Bkukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksa;e% ifFkO;kvf/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~

    {k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAAbna;ek; ifFkO;k vf/ir;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vksaok;qjUrfj{kL;kf/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~{k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAA

    bnaok;os vUrfj{kL;kf/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksalw;ksZ fnoksf/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~{k=ks&

    L;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k Lokgk AAbnalw;kZ; fnoksf/ir;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vksapUek u{k=kk.kkef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~

    {k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAAbnapUels u{k=kk.kkef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksac`gLifrczZ.kksf/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~

    {k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAAbnac`gLir;s cz.kksf/ir;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vksafe=k% lR;kukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~{k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAA

    bnafe=kk; lR;kukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksao#.kksikef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~{k=ks&

    L;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k Lokgk AAbnao#.kk;kikef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksaleq% ksR;kukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~

    {k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAAbnaleqk; ksR;kukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAA

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    vkse~vUu lkezkT;kukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;&fLeu~{k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;kLokgk AA bneUuk; lkezkT;kukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vksalksevks"k/hukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~{k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAA

    bnalksek; vks"k/hukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksalfork izlokukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~

    {k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAA

    bnalfo=ks izlokukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksa #% i'kwukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~ cz.;fLeu~

    {k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAAbna#k; i'kwukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vksaRo"Vk :ik.kkef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~{k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAA

    bnaRo"Vs :ik.kkef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksafo".kq% ioZrkukef/ifr% l ekoRofLeu~cz.;fLeu~

    {k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAA

    bnafo".kos ioZrkukef/ir;s bnUu ee AAAAvksae#rks x.kkukef/ir;Lrs ekoURofLeu~cz.;fLeu~{k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k LokgkAA

    bnae#n~H;ks x.kkukef/ifrH;% bnUu ee AAAAvksafirj% firkegk% ijsojs rrkLrrkegk bg ekoURofLeu~

    cz.;fLeu~{k=ksL;kekf'k";L;kaiqjks/k;kefLeu~deZ.;L;kansogwR;k Lokgk AA bnafirH;% firkegsH;% ijsH;ksojsH;&LrrsH;LrrkegsH;'p bnUu ee AAAA

    bl izdkj vH;kru gkse dh vBkjg vkT;kgqfr fn;s ihNs] iqu%vkse~ vfXujSrq izFkeks nsorkuk lksL;S iztka eqprq

    e`R;qik'kkr~A rn; jktk o#.kksuqeU;rka;Fks; L=kh ikS=ke?kUujksnkr~Lokgk AA bneXu;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vkse~bekefXuL=kk;rkaxkgZiR;% iztkeL;S u;rqnh?kZek;q%Av'kwU;ksiLFkk thorkeLrqekrk ikS=kekuUnefHkfocq;rkfe;

    Lokgk AA bneXu;s bnUu ee AAAA

    fookgizdj.ke~ 117

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    vksaLofLr uksXus fnok ifFkO;k fo'okfu /s;Fkk ;t=kA;nL;kaef; fnfo tkraiz'kLrarnLeklqfo.ka/sfg fp=kLokgk AA bneXu;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vksalqxUuqiUFkkaizfn'kUu ,fg T;ksfr"e;s tjUuvk;q%AviSrqe`R;qje`rae vkxkn~oSoLorks uksvHk;a.kksrqLokgk AA

    bnaoSoLork; bnUu ee AAAAvksaijae`R;ksvuqijsfg iUFkka;=k uksvU; brjks nso;kukr~A

    p{kq"ers k`.ors rs czohfe ek u% iztkjhfj"kks eksr ohjkURLokgkAAbnae`R;os bnUu ee AAAA

    vksa|kSLrs i`"B j{krqok;q:: vf'oukS p A LruU/;Lrsiq=kkURlforkfHkj{kRokokll% ifj/kukn~ c`gLifro'os nsokvfHkj{kUrqi'pkRLokgk AA bnafo'osH;ks nsosH;% bnUu ee AAAA

    vksaek rs x`gs"kqfuf'k ?kks"k mFkknU;=k Ron~#nR;% lafo'kUrqek Ro #nR;qjvkof/"Bk thoiRuh ifryksosQ fojkt i';Urhiztk lqeuL;ekuk Lokgk AA bneXu;s bnUu ee AAAA

    vkse~viztL;aikS=keR;ikIekueqr okv?ke~A 'kh".kZtfe&

    oksUeqP; f}"k% izfreqpkfe ik'k Lokgk AA bneXu;s bnUuee AAAAbu izR;sd eU=kksals ,d&,d vkgqfr djosQ vkB vkT;kgqfr nhft;sArRi'pkr~i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks (vksaHkwjXu;s Lokgk) bR;kfn

    pkj eU=kksals pkj vkT;kgqfr nhft;s A,sls gkse djosQ oj vklu ls mB iwokZfHkeq[k cSBh o/wosQ lEeq[k

    if'pekfHkeq[k [kM+k jgdj vius okegLr ls o/wdk nfguk gkFkpkk /josQ mQij dks mpkuk A vkSj vius nf{k.k gkFk ls o/wosQmBk;s gq, nf{k.k gLrktfy vaxq"Bklfgr pkh xzg.k djosQ] ojvksax`H.kkfefi rs lkSHkxRok; gLra e;k iR;kfi tjnfif"V;ZFkklfi% A

    Hkxksfi v;Zek lfifO

    krk iqjfifUkeZa RoknqxkZgfiZiR;k; nsok% AAAA- gs ojkuus ! tSls eSa(lkSHkxRok;) ,s'o;ZlqlUrkukfn lkSHkkX; dh c (iR;k) ifr osQ lkFk (tjnf"V%) tjkoLFkk dk s izkIr lq[kiwoZd(vkl%) gks rFkk gs ohj ! eSa lkSHkkX; dh of osQ fy;s vkiosQ gLr dks

    118 laLdkjfof/%

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    vksaHkxfiLrs gLrfiexzHkhr~lfOkrk gLrfiexzHkhr~AiRuh RoefifLk /EfikZ.kkga x`gififRkLrofi AAAAees;efiLrq iks";k eafi Roknkn~ c`gLifrfi% Ae;k iR;kfi iztkofRk 'kathfio 'kjnfi% 'kre~ AAAA

    Ro"Vk oklks O;n/kPNqHks oaQ c`gLirsfi% izf'k"kkfi dohuke~ArsusekaukjhalfOkrk Hkxfi'p lw;kZfefio ifjfi /kkaizt;kfi AAAA

    xzg.k djrh gwa A vki eq> iRuh osQ lkFk okoLFkk i;ZUr izlUu vkSj

    vuqowQy jfg;s A vki dks eSavkSj eq> dks vki vkt ls ifr&iRuh HkkodjosQ izkIr gq, gSa A (Hkx%) ldy ,s'o;Z;qDr (v;Zek) U;k;dkjh(lfork) lc txr~dh mRifk dk dkkZ (iqjfU/%) cgqr izdkj osQ txr~

    dk /kkZijekRek vkSj (nsok%) ;s lc lHkke.Mi esacSBs gq, fo}ku~ yksx(xkgZiR;k;) xgkJe deZ osQ vuq"Bku osQ fy;s (Rok) rq> dks (ee~)

    eq>s (vnq%) nsrs gSa A vkt ls eSavki osQ gLrs vkSj vki esjs gkFk fcdpqosQ gSa] dHkh ,d&nwljs dk vfiz;kpj.k u djsaxs AAAA

    - gs fiz;s ! (Hkx%) ,s'o;Z;qDr eSa (rs) rsjs (gLre~) gkFk dks (vxzHkhr~)xzg.k djrk gwa A rFkk (lfork) /eZ;qDr ekxZ esa izsjd eSa rsjs (gLre~)gkFk dks (vxzHkhr~) xzg.k dj pqdk gwa A (Roe~) rw(/eZ.kk) /eZ lsesjh (iRuh) Hkk;kZ(vfl) gS] vkSj (vge~) eSa /eZ ls (ro) rsjk(xgifr%) xgifr gwaA vius nksuksafeyosQ ?kj osQ dkeksadh flf djsaA

    vkSj tks nksuksa dk vfiz;kpj.k O;fHkpkj gS] ml dks dHkh u djsa A ftlls ?kj osQ lc dke fl] mke lUrku] ,s'o;ZvkSj lq[k dh c dks (ee~) eq>s (vnkr~) fn;k gS] (bne~) ;gh rw txr~ Hkj

    esa esjh (iks";k) iks"k.k djus ;ksX; iRuh (vLrq) gks A gs (iztkofr !)rw(e;k iR;k) eq> ifr osQ lkFk ('kre~) lkS ('kjn%) 'kjn~rq vFkkZr~'kro"kZ i;ZUr ('ka tho) lq[kiwoZd thou /kj.k dj A oSls gh o/w Hkhoj ls izfrKk djkos^gs Hkohj! ijes'oj dh ik ls vki eq>s izkIrgq, gks A esjs fy;s vkiosQ fouk bl txr~esanwljk ifr vFkkZr~ Lokeh ikyudjusgkjk lsO; b"Vnso dksbZugha gSA u eSa vki ls vU; nwljs fdlh dksekuwaxh A tSls vki esjs flok; nwljh fdlh L=kh ls izhfr u djksxs] oSls

    eSa Hkh fdlh nwljs iq#"k osQ lkFk izhfrHkko ls u okkZd:axh A vki esjslkFk lkS o"kZ i;ZUr vkuUn ls izk.k /kj.k dhft;s* AAAA

    - gs 'kq Hkkuus ! tSls (cgLirs%) bl ijekRek dh lf"V esa vkSj ml dh rFkk(dohuke~) vkIr fo}kuksa dh (izf'k"kk) f'k{kk ls nEirh gksrs gSa] (Ro"Vk)

    tSls fctqyh lc dks O;kIr gks jgh gS] oSls rw esjh izlUurk osQ fy;s (okl%)lqUnj oL=k] vkSj ('kqHks) vkHkw"k.k rFkk (de~) eq> ls lq[k dks izkIr

    fookgizdj.ke~ 119

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    bUkXuh |kokfii`fFkoh ekfirfj'okfi fEk=kko#fi.kk Hkxksfi vf'ouksHkkAc`gLifrfieZ#rks cz lksefi beka ukjha izt;kfi o/Z;Urq AAAAvgafo ";kfifEk ef;fi :iefiL;k osnfnr~i';Ueufilk oqQyk;fie~A

    u Lrs;fief eulksnfieqP;s Lo;aJFukuks o#fi.kL; ik'kkfiu~ AAAAbu ikf.kxzg.k osQ Ng eU=kksadks cksyosQ] i'pkr~oj o/wdh

    gLrktfy idM+osQ mBkos vkSj ml dks lkFk ysosQ tks oqQ.M dhnf{k.k fn'kk esaizFke LFkkiu fd;k Fkk] ml dks ogh iq#"k tks dy'k

    gks A bl esjh vkSj rsjh bPNk dks ijekRek (O;n/kr~) fl djs A tSls(lfork) ldy txr~ dh mRifk djusgkjk ijekRek (p) vkSj (Hkx%)iw.kZ ,s'o;Z;qDr (izt;k) mke iztk ls (beke~) bl rq> (ukjhe~) eq>uj dh L=kh dks (ifj/kke~) vkPNkfnr 'kksHkk;qDr djs] oSls eSa (rsu) bllc ls (lw;kZe~ bo) lw;Zdh fdj.k osQ leku rq> dks oL=k vkSj Hkw"k.kkfnls lq'kksfHkr lnk jD[kwaxk A rFkk gs fiz; ! vki dks eSa blh izdkj lw;ZosQ leku lq'kksfHkr vkuUn vuqowQy fiz;kpj.k djosQ (izt;k) ,s'o;ZoL=kkHkw"k.k vkfn ls lnk vkufUnr jD[kwaxh AAAA

    - gs esjs lEcU/h yksxks ! tSls (bUkXuh) fctqyh vkSj izfl vfXu](|kokifFkoh) lw;Z vkSj Hkwfe] (ekrfj'ok) vUrfj{kLFk ok;q] (fe=kko#.kk)

    izk.k vkSj mnku rFkk (Hkx%) ,s'o;Z(vf'ouk) l}S| vkSj lR;ksins'kd(mHkk) nksuksa] (c`gLifr%) Js"B] U;k;dkjh] cM+h iztk dk ikyu djusgkjk

    jktk] (e#r%) lH; euq";] (cz) lc ls cM+k ijekRek] vkSj (lkse%)pUek rFkk lkseyrkfn vks"kf/x.k lc iztk dh o`f vkSj ikyu djrsgSa] oSls (beka ukjhe~) bl esjh L=kh dks (izt;k) iztk ls c

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    osQ ikl cSBk Fkk] oj&o/wosQ lkFk mlh dy'k dks ys pysA;KoqQ.Mdh nksuksaiznf{k.kk djosQ

    vkse~veksgefLe lk Ro lk RoeL;eksge~A lkekgefLeDRoa|kSjgai`fFkoh Roarkoso foogkogS lg jsrks n/kogS AAiztkaiztu;kogS iq=kku~foUnkogS cgwu~rs lUrqtjn"V;%AAlafiz;kS jksfp".kwlqeuL;ekukS A i';se 'kjn% 'krathose 'kjn%'kr k`.kq;ke 'kjn% 'kre~ AAAA

    bu izfrKk&eU=kksals nksuksaizfrKk djosQ

    i'pkr~oj o/w osQ ihNs jgosQ] o/wosQ nf{k.k vksj lehi esatk mkjkfHkeq[k [kM+k jgosQ] o/w dh nf{k.kktfy viuh nf{k.kktfyls idM+osQ nksuksa[kM+s jgsaA vkSj og iq#"k iqu% oqQ.M osQ nf{k.k esady'k ysosQ oSls cSBs A rRi'pkr~o/wdh ekrk vFkok HkkbZ tksizFke pkoy vkSj Tokj dh /k.kh lwi esaj[kh Fkh] ml dks ck;sagkFkesaysosQnfgus gkFk ls o/wdk nf{k.k ix mBokosQ iRFkj dhf'kyk ij p dks (ve%) xzg.kdjrk gwa] oSls (lk) lks eSaus xzg.k dh gqbZ (Roe~) rw eq> dks Hkh xzg.kdjrh gS A (vge~) eSa(lke) lkeosn osQ rqY; iz'kaflr (vfLe) gwa Ags o/w! rw (o~Q) Xosn osQ rqY; iz'kaflr gS] (Roe~) rw (ifFkoh)ifFkoh osQ leku xHkkZfn xgkJe osQ O;ogkjksa dks /kj.k djusgkjh gS vkSjeSa (|kS%) o"kkZdjusgkjs lw;Z osQ leku gwa A og rwvkSj eSa (rkoso) nksuksagh (foogkogS) izlUurkiwoZd fookg djsa] (lg) lkFk feyosQ (jsr%)oh;Z dks (n/kogS) /kj.k djsa A (iztke~) mke iztk dks (iztu;kogS)mRiUu djsa] (cgwu~) cgqr (iq=kku~) iq=kksa dks (foUnkogS) izkIr gksosaA (rs)os iq=k (tjn"V;%) tjkoLFkk osQ vUr rd thou;qDr (lUrq) jgsa](lafiz;kS) vPNs izdkj ,d nwljs ls izlUu] (jksfp".kw) ,d&nwljs esa

    #fp;qDr] (lqeuL;ekukS) vPNs izdkj fopkj djrs gq, ('kre~) lkS'kjn% 'kjn~rqvFkkZr~ 'kr o"kZ i;ZUr ,d&nwljs dks izse dh nf"V ls(i';se) ns[krs jgsa('kra'kjn%) lkS o"kZ i;ZUr vkuUn ls (those) thrs

    jgsa vkSj ('kra'kjn%) lkS o"kZ i;ZUr fiz; opuksa dks (o`.kq;ke) lqursjgsa AAAA

    fookgizdj.ke~ 121

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    vkse~vkjksgsee'ekue'eso Ro fLFkjk Hko AvfHkfr"B i`rU;rksock/Lo i`ruk;r% AAAA

    bl eU=k dks cksys ArRi'pkr~o/woj oqQ.M osQ lehi vkosQ iwokZfHkeq[k nksuksa[kM+s

    jgsa vkSj ;gkao/wnf{k.k vksj jgosQ viuh gLrktfy dks oj dhgLrktfy ij jD[ks A

    rRi'pkr~o/wdh ekaok HkkbZ] tks ck;sa gkFk esa/k.kh dk lwiM+kidM+osQ [kM+k jgk gks] og /k.kh dk lwiM+k Hkwfe ij /j vFkok fdlh

    osQ gkFk esansosQ] tks o/w&oj dh ,d=k dh gqbZvFkkZr~uhps oj dhvkSj mQij o/wdh gLrktfy gS] ml esaizFke FkksM+k ?k`r lpu djosQ]i'pkr~izFke lwi esals nfgus gkFk dh vtfy ls nks okj ysosQ oj&o/wdh ,d=k dh gqbZvtfy esa/k.kh Mkys A i'pkr~ml vtfyLFk/k.kh ij FkksM+k lk ?kh lpu djs A i'pkr~o/woj dhgLrktfy

    lfgr viuh gLrktfy dks vkxs ls uekosQvkse~v;Ze.kansoadU;k vfXue;{kr A l uks v;Zek nso%

    izsrks eqprqek irs% Lokgk AA bne;ZE.ks vXu;s bnUu ee AAAAvkse~b;auk;qZiczwrs yktkukoifUrdk A vk;q"ekuLrqes

    ifrjs/UrkaKkr;ks ee Lokgk AA bneXu;s bnUu ee AAAAvkse~bekYyktkukoikE;XukS le`fdj.karoA ee rqH;ap

    laouuarnfXujuqeU;rkfe; Lokgk AA bneXu;s bnUu ee AAAAbu rhu eU=kksaesa,d&,d eU=k ls ,d&,d okj FkksM+h&FkksM+h

    /k.kh dh vkgqfr rhu okj izTofyr b/u ij nsosQ]ojvksaljLofr izsneo lqHkxs okftuhofr A ;kURok fo'oL;

    HkwrL; iztk;keL;kxzr% A ;L;kaHkwr leHkon~;L;kafo'ofenatxr~A rke| xkFkkaxkL;kfe ;k L=kh.kkeqkea;'k% AAAA

    bl eU=k dks cksyosQ vius te.ks gkFk dh gLrktfy lso/wdh gLrktfy idM+osQ]oj

    vksarqH;exzs i;ZogURlw;kogrquk lg Aiqu% ifrH;ks tk;kank vXus izt;k lg AAAAvksadU;yk firH;% ifryksoaQ ;rh;ei nh{kke;"V A

    dU;k mr Ro;k o;a/kjk mnU;k bokfrxkgsefg f}"k% AAAAbu eU=kksadks i

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    if'pe Hkkx esaiwoZ dh vksj eq[k djosQ FkksM+h nsj nksuksa[kM+s jgsaArRi'pkr~iwoksZDr izdkj dy'k lfgr ;KoqQ.M dh iznf{k.kk dj]

    iqu% nks okj blh izdkj] vFkkZr~lc feyosQ pkj ifjek djosQ]vUr esa;KoqQ.M osQ if'pe esaFkksM+k [kM+k jgosQ] mDr jhfr ls rhu

    okj f;k iwjh gq, i'pkr~;KoqQ.M osQ if'pe Hkkx esaiwokZfHkeq[ko/w&oj [kM+s jgsaA i'pkr~o/wdh ekavFkok HkkbZml lwi dks frjNkdjosQ ml esackdh jgh gqbZ/k.kh dks o/wdh gLrktfy esaMkynsos A i'pkr~o/w

    vksaHkxk; Lokgk AA bnaHkxk; bnUu ee AAbl eU=k dks cksyosQ izTofyr vfXu ij osnh esaml /k.kh dh,d vkgqfr nsos A i'pkr~oj o/wdks nf{k.k Hkkx esa j[kosQ oqQ.MosQ if'pe iwokZfHkeq[k cSBosQ

    vksaiztkir;s Lokgk AA bnaiztkir;s bnUu ee AAbl eU=k dks cksyosQ qok ls ,d ?kr dh vkgqfr nsos ArRi'pkr~,dkUr esatkosQ o/w osQ ca/s gq;s osQ'kksadks ojiz Rokfi eqpkfEk o#fi.kL; ik'kkn~;su Rokcfiukr~lfOkrk

    lq'ksofi%A rL; ;ksukSfi lqrL;fi yksosQfjfi"VkaRok lg iR;kfin/kfe AAAA

    izsrks eqpkfE

    k ukeqrfi% lqckeeqfirLdje~A;Fks;fefiU eh

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    iq=kku~foUnkogS cgwLrs lUrqtjn"V;% AAbl eU=k dks cksyosQ oj vius lkFk o/wdks ysdj bZ'kku fn'kk

    esa ,d ix pys vkSj pykos Avkse~ mQTtsZ f}inh Hko AA bl eU=k ls n wljk Avksa jk;Liks"kk; f=kinh Hko AA bl eU=k ls rhljk Avksa e;ksHkok; prq"inh Hko AA bl eU=k ls pkSFkk Avksa iztkH;% ipinh Hko AA bl eU=k ls ikapoka Avksa rqH;% "kV~inh Hko AA bl eU=k ls NBk A vkSj

    vksa l[ks lIrinh Hko AAbl eU=k ls lkroka ixyk pyukAbl jhfr ls bu lkr eU=kksals lkr ix bZ'kku fn'kk esapykosQ oj&o/wnksuksa xkaB ca/s gq, 'kqHkklu ij cSBsaA

    rRi'pkr~izFke ls tks ty osQ dy'k dks ysosQ ;KoqQ.M osQnf{k.k dh vksj esacSBk;k Fkk] og iq#"k ml iwoZ&LFkkfir tyoqQEHkdks ysosQ o/woj osQ lehi vkos A vkSj ml esals FkksM+k lk tyysosQo/w&oj osQ eLrd ij fNVdkos A vkSjoj

    vkse~vkiks fg "Bk efi;ksHkqoLrk ufi mQtsZ nfi/kru A egs j.kkfi;p{kfils AAAA vksa;ks ofi% f'korfieks jlLrL;fi Hkkt;rsg ufi% Am'krhfjfio ekrjfi% AAAA vksarLek vjfiaxeke oks ;L; {k;kfi;ftUofiFk A vkiksfi tu;fiFkk p u% AAAA

    vkse~vki% f'kok% f'korek% 'kkUrk% 'kkUrrekLrkLrs .oUrqHks"kte~AAAA

    bu pkj eU=kksadks cksys A rRi'pkr~o/w&oj ogkals mBosQvksarPp{kqfinsZofgfiraiqjLrkfiPNqeqPpfijr~A i';sfie 'kjnfi% 'kra

    thosfie 'kjnfi% 'kr 'k`.kqfi;ke 'kjnfi% 'kraiz czfioke 'kjnfi% 'krenhfiuk%L;ke 'kjnfi% 'kraHkw;fi'p 'kjnfi% 'krkr~AAAA

    bleU=k dks i

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    rRi'pkr~ojo/wosQnf{k.k LdU/s ij viuk nf{k.k gkFkysosQml lso/wdk n; Li'kZ djosQ

    vksaee ozrs rs n;an/kfe ee fpkeuqfpkars vLrqAee okpesdeuk tq"kLo iztkifr"V~ok fu;quDrqee~AA

    bl eU=k dks cksys vkSj mlh izdkjo/wHkh vius nf{k.k gkFkls oj osQ n; dk Li'kZ djosQblh mQij fy[ks gq, eU=k dks cksysA

    rRi'pkr~oj o/wosQ eLrd ij gkFk /josQlqeXyhfj;a o/wfjeka lesr i';fir A

    lkSHkkfiX;eL;S nok ;kFkkLra fo ijsfiru AAbl eU=k dks cksyosQ dk;kZFkZvk;s gq, yksxksadh vksj voyksdu

    djuk vkSj bl le; lc yksx^vksalkSHkkX;eLrqA vksa'kqHkaHkorqAA*

    bl okD; ls vk'khokZn nsosaArRi'pkr~o/w&oj ;KoqQ.M osQ lehi iwoZor~cSBosQ] iqu% i`"B

    esafy[ks izek.ks nksuksa(vksa;nL; deZ.kks) blfLo"Vr~eU=k ls gksekgqfr vFkkZr~ ,d vkT;kgqfr vkSj i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks(vksaHkwjXu;s Lokgk) bR;kfn pkj eU=kksals ,d&,d ls ,d&,dvkgqfr djosQ pkj vkT;kgqfr nsosaA vkSjbl izek.ks fookg dk

    fof/ iwjk gq, i'pkr~nksuksa tus vkjke] vFkkZr~ foJke djsaAbl jhfr ls FkksM+k lk foJke djosQ fookg dk mkj&fof/ djsaA

    - gs o/w ! (rs) rsjs (n;e~) vUr%dj.k vkSj vkRek dks (ee) esjs (ozrs)deZ osQ vuqowQy (n/kfe) /kj.k djrk gwa A (ee) esjs (fpkeuq) fpkosQ vuqowQy (rs) rsjk (fpke~) fpk lnk (vLrq) jgs A (ee) esjh(okpe~) ok.kh dks rw (,deuk%) ,dkxzfpk ls (tq"kLo) lsou fd;k

    dj A (iztkifr%) iztk dk ikyu djusokyk ijekRek (Rok) rq> dks(ee~) esjs fy;s (fu;quDrq) fu;qDr djs A

    - oSls gh gs fiz; ohj Lokfeu~! vkidk n;] vkRek vkSj vUr%dj.k esjsfiz;kpj.k deZ esa /kj.k djrh gwa A esjs fpk osQ vuqowQy vkidk fpk

    lnk jgs A vki ,dkxz gksosQ esjh ok.kh dk tks oqQN eSa vkils dgwa] mldklsou lnk fd;k dhft,] D;ksafd vkt ls iztkifr ijekRek us vki dksesjs vk/hu fd;k gS tSls eq> dks vkiosQ vk/hu fd;k gS] vFkkZr~ blizfrKk osQ vuqowQy nksuksaorkZ djsa] ftl ls loZnk vkufUnr vkSj dhreku~]ifrozrk vkSj L=khozr gksosQ lc izdkj osQ O;fHkpkj] vfiz;Hkk"k.kkfn dksNksM+osQ ijLij izhfr;qDr jgsaA

    fookgizdj.ke~ 125

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    ;g mkj&fof/ lco/wosQ ?kj dh bZ'kku fn'kk esa]fo'ks"k djosQ,d ?kj izFke ls cuk j[kk gks] ogka tkosQ djuk A

    rRi'pkr~lw;ZvLr gq, ihNs tc vkdk'k esau{k=k nh[ksa] mlle;o/w&oj ;KoqQ.M osQ if'pe Hkkx esaiwokZfHkeq[k vkluij cSBsavkSj i"B esafy[ks izek.ks vXU;k/ku(vksaHkwHkqZo%Lo|kSZ) bl eU=k ls djsaA ;fn izFke gh lHkke.Mi bZ'kku fn'kkesagqvk] vkSj izFke vXU;k/ku fd;k gks rks vXU;k/ku u djsa A(vksav;Ur be) bR;kfn pkj eU=kksals lfenk/ku djosQ] tc vfXu

    iznhIr gksos rc i`"B & esafy[ks izek.ks(vkse~vXu;s Lokgk)bR;kfn pkj eU=kksals vk?kkjkokT;Hkkxkgqfr pkj vkSj i`"B esa fy[ks izek.ks(vksa HkwjXu;s Lokgk) bR;kfn pkj eU=kksals pkj O;kfr vkgqfr] ;s lc feyosQ vkB vkT;kgqfr nsosaA

    rRi'pkr~iz/ku&gkse djsa fuEufyf[kr eU=kksalsvksays[kklfU/"kqi{eLokjksosQ"kqp ;kfu rs A rkfu rs

    iw.kkZgqR;k lokZf.k 'ke;kE;gaLokgkAA bnadU;k;S bnUu eeAAvksaosQ'ks"kq;Pp ikidehf{krs #fnrs p ;r~A rkfuAAvksa'khys"kq;Pp ikioaQ Hkkf"krs gflrs p ;r~A rkfuAAvkse~vkjksosQ"kqp nUrs"kqgLr;ks% ikn;ks'p ;r~A rkfuAAvkse~mQoksZ#iLFks t;ks% lU/kus"kqp ;kfu rs A rkfuAAvksa;kfu dkfu p ?kksjkf.k lokZXs"kqrokHkou~A

    iw.kkZgqfrfHkjkT;L; lokZf.k rkU;'kh'keaLokgk AAbnadU;k;S bnUu ee AA;s Ng eU=k gSaA bu esa ls ,d&,d eU=k cksy] ,d&,d ls

    Ng vkT;kgqfr nsuh A rRi'pkr~ i`"B esa fy[ks izek.ks(vksaHkwjXu;sLokgk) bR;kfn pkj O;kfr eU=kksals pkj vkT;kgqfr nsosQ

    o/w&ojogka ls mBosQ lHkke.Mi osQckgj mkj fn'kk esatkosaArRi'pkr~oj

    /zqoai'; AA,slk cksyosQo/wdks /zqo dk rkjk fn[kykos vkSjo/wojls cksys fd eSa

    - gs o/w ok oj ! tSls ;g /zqo n

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    i';kfe AA /zqo osQ rkjs dks ns[krh gwaArRi'pkr~o/wcksysvksa/zqoefl /zqokgaifroqQys Hkw;kle~(veq"; vlkS)AA

    bl eU=k dks cksyosQ] rRi'pkr~v#U/rhai'; AA

    ,slk okD; cksyosQojo/wdksv#U/rh dk rkjk fn[kykosAvkSj o/w

    i';kfe AA,slk dgosQ

    vkse~v#U/R;fl #kgefLe (veq"; vlkS) AAbl eU=k dks cksyosQ oj o/wdh vksj ns[kosQ o/wosQ eLrd

    ij gkFk /josQvksa/zqok |kS/zqZok i`fFkoh /qzoafo'ofenatxr~A/qzokl% ioZrk bes /qzok L=kh ifroqQys b;e~ AAvksa/zqoefl /zqoaRok i';kfe /zqoSf/ iks";s ef; A ea

    Roknkn~c`gLifreZ;k iR;k iztkorh latho 'kjn% 'kre~ AA

    - (veq ";) bl in osQ LFkku esa "k"BhfoHkDR;Ur ifr dk uke ck syuk AtSlsf'ko'kekZifr dk uke gks] rks ^^f'ko'keZ.k%** ,slk] vkSj (vlkS)

    bl in osQ LFkku esa o/w vius uke dks izFkekfoHkDR;Ur cksyosQ bl eU=kdks iwjk cksys A tSls^^Hkw;kla lkSHkkX;nkga f'ko'keZ.kLrs** A bl izdkj nksuksain tksM+osQ cksys A

    - (veq";) bl in osQ LFkku esaifr dk uke "k"BUr]vkSj (vlkS) blosQ LFkku esa o/w dk izFkekUr uke tksM+dj cksysgs Lokfeu~ ! lkSHkkX;nk(vge~) eSa(veq";) vki f'ko'kekZ dh v/kZXh (ifroqQys) vkiosQ oqQy

    esa (/qzok) fu'py tSls fd vki (/zqoe~) n

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    bu nksuksaeU=kksadks cksys Ai'pkr~o/wvkSj oj nksuksa;KoqQ.M osQ if'pe Hkkx esaiwokZfHkeq[k

    gksosQ oqQ.M osQ lehi cSBsaA vkSj i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks(vkse~ve`rksiLrj.kefl Lokgk) bR;kfn rhu eU=kksa ls ,d&,d ls

    ,d&,d vkpeu djosQ rhu&rhuvkpeunksuksadjsaA i'pkr~i`"B esafy[kh gqbZlfe/kvksals ;KoqQ.M esavfXu dks iznhIr djosQ]

    i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks ?k`r vkSj LFkkyhikd vFkkZr~Hkkr dks mlh le;cukosaA i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks(vkse~ v;Ur be) bR;kfn pkj

    eU=kksa lslfe/k gksenksuksa tus djosQ] i'pkr~i`"B & esafy[ksizek.ksvk?kkjkokT;Hkkxkgqfr pkj vkSj i`"B esafy[ks izek.ksO;kfr vkgqfr pkj] nksuksa feyosQ vkB vkT;kgqfr oj&o/wnsosaA

    rRi'pkr~tks mQij fl fd;k gqvk vksnu] vFkkZr~Hkkr] mldks ,d ik=k esafudkyosQ ml osQ mQijqok ls ?k`r lspu djosQ]?k`r vkSj Hkkr dks vPNs izdkj feykdj nf{k.k gkFk ls FkksM+k&FkksM+kHkkrnksuksa tus ysosQ

    vkse~vXu;s Lokgk AA bneXu;s bnUu ee AAvksaiztkir;s Lokgk AA bnaiztkir;s bnUu ee AAvksafo'osH;ks nsosH;% Lokgk AA

    bnafo'osH;ks nsosH;% bnUu ee AAvkse~vuqer;s Lokgk AA bneuqer;s bnUu ee AA

    bu esals izR;sd eU=k ls ,d&,d djosQ pkj LFkkyhikd vFkkZr~Hkkr dh vkgqfrnsuh A rRi'pkr~ i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks(vksa

    ;nL; deZ.kks) bl eU=k ls ,dfLo"Vr~vkgqfrnsuh ArRi'pkr~i"B esafy[ks izek.ksO;kfr vkgqfr pkj vkSj i`"B& esafy[ks izek.ksv"VkT;kgqfr vkB] nksuksafeyosQ ckjgvkT;kgqfr nsuh A

    gS A oSls eq> iRuh osQ lkFk mke iztk;qDr gksosQ ('kra'kjn%) lkS o"kZ

    i;ZUr (le~tho) thfo;s rFkk gs ojkuus iRuh ! (iks";s) /kj.k vkSj ikyudjus ;ksX; (ef;) eq> ifr osQ fudV (/qzok) fLFkj (,f/) jg A (ee~)eq> dks viuh eulk osQ vuqowQy rq>s ijekRek us fn;k gS A rw(e;k)eq> (iR;k) ifr osQ lkFk (iztkorh) cgqr mke iztk;qDr gksdj lkS o"kZi;ZUr vkuUniwoZd thou /kj.k dj A o/w&oj ,slh n`

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    rRi'pkr~'ks"k jgk gqvk Hkkr ,d ik=k esafudkyosQ ml ij?k`r&lspu vkSj nf{k.k gkFk j[kosQ

    vkse~vUuik'ksu ef.kuk izk.klw=ks.k i`f'uuk Acukfe lR;xzfUFkuk eu'p n;ap rs AAAAvksa;nsrn~/`n;aro rnLrqn;aee A

    ;fnn n;aee rnLrqn;aro AAAAvkse~vUuaizk.kL; "kM~fo'kLrsu cukfe Rok vlkS AAAA

    bu rhuksaeU=kksadks eu ls tiosQoj ml Hkkr esals izFke FkksM+k

    lk Hk{k.k djosQ] tks mfPN"V 'ks"k Hkkr jgs og viuh o/wosQfy;s [kkus dks nsos A vkSj tc o/wml dks [kk pqosQ] rc o/w&oj;K&e.Mi esa lUu gq, 'kqHkklu ij fu;e izek.ks iwokZfHkeq[k cSBsavkSj i`"B & esa fy[ks izek.ks lkeosnksDr egkokensO;xku djsa A

    rRi'pkr~i`"B & esafy[ks izek.ksbZ'oj dh LrqfrizkFkZuksikluk]LofLrokpu] 'kkfUrdj.kdeZdjosQ {kkj yo.k jfgr fe"V]nqX/] ?krkfnlfgr Hkkstu djsaA

    rRi'pkr~i`"B ] esafy[ks izek.ks iqjksfgrkfn lehZvkSjdk;kZFkZbdV~Bs gq, yksxksadks lEekukFkZmke Hkkstu djkuk A

    rRi'pkr~;Fkk;ksX; iq#"kksadk iq#"k vkSj fL=k;ksadk L=kh vknj&lRdkj djosQ fonk dj nsoas A

    rRi'pkr~n'k ?kfVdk jkr tk;] rc o/wvkSj oj iFko~Q&iFko~QLFkku esaHkwfe esafcNkSuk djosQ rhu jkf=ki;ZUr czp;Zozr lfgrjgdj 'k;u djsavkSj ,slk Hkkstu djsafd LoIu eas Hkh oh;Zikr u

    - gs o/w ok oj ! tSls vUu osQ lkFk izk.k] izk.k osQ lkFk vUu rFkk vUuvkSj izk.k dk vUrfj{k osQ lkFk lEcU/ gS] oSls (rs) rsjs (n;e~) n;(p) vkSj (eu%) eu (p) vkSj fpk vkfn dks (lR;xzfUFkuk) lR;rk

    dh xkaB ls (cukfe) cka/rh ok cka/rk gwa AAAA- gs oj ! gs Lokfeu~ ok iRuh ! (;nsrr~) tks ;g (ro) rsjk (n;e~)

    vkRek ok vUr%dj.k gS] (rr~) og (ee) esjk (n;e~) vkRek vUr%dj.k

    osQ rqY; fiz; (vLrq) gks A vkSj (ee) esjk (;fnne~) tks ;g (n;e~)vkRek izk.k vkSj eu gS] (rr~) lks (ro) rsjs (n;e~) vkRekfn osQ rqY;fiz; (vLrq) lnk jgs AAAA

    - (vlkS) gs ;'kksns ! tks (izk.kL;) izk.k dk iks"k.k djusgkjk ("kM~o'k%) NCchlok ro (vUue~) vUu gS] (rsu) mlls (Rok) rq> dks(cukfe) n`

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    gksos A rRi'pkr~pkSFks fnol fof/iwoZd xHkkZ/kulaLdkj djs A ;fnpkSFks fnol dksbZvM+pu vkos rks vf/d fnu czp;Zozr esan`

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    fookgkfXu dks izdV djosQ ml esai`"B esafy[ks izek.ks pkjO;kfr vkT;kgqfrnsuh A i'pkr~ i`"B & esa fy[ks izek.ksokensO;xku djuk A

    i'pkr~tc o/w&oj dk jFk oj osQ ?kj osQ vkxs vk igqps] rcoqQyhu] iq=korh] lkSHkkX;orh ok dksbZ czk.kh ok vius oqQy dhL=khvkxs&lkeus vkdj o/wdk gkFk idM+osQ oj osQ lkFk jFk ls uhpsmrkjs vkSj oj osQ lkFk lHkke.Mi esays tkos A lHkke.Mi }kjs vkrsghojogka dk;kZFkZvk;s gq, yksxksadh vksj voyksdu djosQ

    lqeXyhfj

    ;a o/wfj

    eka lesr i';fir AlkSHkkfiX;eL;S nok ;kFkkLra fo ijsfiru AAbl eU=k dks cksys A vkSj vk;s gq, yksxvksalkSHkkX;eLrqA vksa'kqHkaHkorqAA

    bl izdkj vk'khokZn nsosaA rRi'pkr~ojbg fIkz;aizt;kfi rs le`fi;rkefLeu~x`gs xkgfiZiR;k; tkx`fg A,uk iR;kfi rUoafi la lfitLok/k ftozhfi fOknFkek ofinkFk% AA

    bl eU=k dks cksyosQ o/wdks lHkke.Mi esays tkos ArRi'pkr~ o/w&oj iwoZ&LFkkfir ;KoqQ.M osQ lehi tkosaA

    ml le;ojvkse~ bg xko% iztkfi;ofE

    kgk'ok bg iw#fi"kk% Abgks lgfinf{k.kksfifi iw"kk fu "khfinrqAAbl eU=k dks cksyosQ ;KoqQ.M osQ if'pe Hkkx esaihBklu vFkok

    r`.kklu ij o/wdks vius nf{k.k Hkkx esaiwokZfHkeq[k cSBkos ArRi'pkr~ i`"B esa fy[ks izek.ks (vkse~ ve`rksiLrj.kefl)

    bR;kfn rhu eU=kksals ,d&,d ls ,d&,d djosQ rhu&rhu vkpeudjsaA rRi'pkr~i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks oqQ.M esa;Fkkfof/ lfe/k&p;u] vXU;k/ku djsaA tc mlh oqQ.M esa vfXu izTofyr gks] rcml ij ?k`r fl djosQ i`"B esafy[ks izek.ks lfenk/ku djosQ

    iznhIr gq, vfXu esai`"B & esafy[ks izek.ks vk?kkjkokT;Hkkxkgqfr pkj vkSj O;kfr vkgqfr pkj] v"VkT;kgqfr vkB] lc feyosQ lksyg vkT;kgqfr o/w&oj djosQ iz/kugkse dk izkjEHk fuEufyf[kr

    eU=kksals djsavkse~bg /`fr% Lokgk AA bnfeg /`R;S bnUu ee AA

    fookgizdj.ke~ 131

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    vkse~bg Lo/`fr% Lokgk AA bnfeg Lo/`R;S bnUu ee AAvkse~bg jfUr% Lokgk AA bnfeg jUR;S bnUu ee AAvkse~bg jeLo Lokgk AA bnfeg jek; bnUu ee AAvkse~ef; /`fr% Lokgk AA bnaef; /`R;S bnUu ee AAvkse~ef; Lo/`fr% Lokgk AA bnaef; Lo/`R;S bnUu eeAAvkse~ef; je% Lokgk AA bnaef; jek; bnUu ee AAvkse~ef; jeLo Lokgk AA bnaef; jek; bnUu ee AA

    bu izR;sd eU=kksa ls ,d&,d djosQ vkB vkT;kgqfr nsosQvkse~vk ufi% iztkatfiu;rqiztkififrjktjlk; lefiuDRo;ZekA

    vnqfieZXyh% ifryksdek fofi'k 'kauksfi Hko f}ins 'kaprqfi"insLokgkfi AA bnalw;kZ;S lkfo=;S bnUu ee AAAA

    vkse~v?kksfijp{kqjififr?U;sf/ f'kok i'kqH;fi% lqeukfi% lqopfikZ%AohjlwnsZo`dkfiek L;ksuk 'kauksfi Hko f}ins 'kaprqfi"ins Lokgkfi AAbnalw;kZ;S lkfo=;S bnUu ee AAAA

    vkse~bekaRofefiU eh

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    vksalezkKh 'o'kqfijs Hko lezkKhfi 'oJ~okaHkfio A uukfiUnfjlezkKhfi Hko lezkKhfi vf/fi nso`"kq Lokgkfi AA bnalw;kZ;S lkfo=;SbnUu ee AAAA

    bu pkj eU=kksa ls ,d&,d ls ,d&,d djosQ pkjvkT;kgqfrnsosQ] i`"B esafy[ks izek.ksfLo"Vr~gksekgqfr

    ,d]O;kfrvkT;kgqfr pkj vkSjizktkiR;kgqfr ,d] ;s lcfeyosQ Ng vkT;kgqfr nsdj

    lefitUrq fo'osfi nsok% lekiks nfi;kfu ukS Alaekfirfj'ok la/krk leq ns"Vhfi n/krqukS AAbl eU=k dks cksyosQ nksuksanf/izk'kudjsaArRi'pkr~vgaHkks vfHkokn;kfe AA

    bl okD; dks cksyosQ nksuksao/w&oj] oj dh ekrk&firk vkfn

    rks rqEgkjs nq"V vYik;qfucqZf lUrku gksaxs A vkSj rqe Hkh vYik;q jksxxzLrgks tkvksxs A blfy;s vf/d lUrkuksRifk u djuk AArFkk (ifresdkn'ka f/) bl ikn dk vFkZfu;ksx esa nwljk gksxkvFkkZr~tSls iq#"k dks fookfgr L=kh esan'k iq=k mRiUu djus dh vkKk ijekRek

    dh gS] oSlh gh vkKk L=kh dks Hkh gS fd n'k iq=k rd pkgs fookfgr ifrls vFkok fo/ok gq, i'pkr~fu;ksx ls djs djkos A oSls gh ,d L=khosQ fy;s ,d ifr ls ,d okj fookg] vkSj iq#"k osQ fy;s Hkh ,d L=khls ,d gh okj fookg djus dh vkKk gS A tSls fo/ok gq, i'pkr~L=khfu;ksx ls lUrkuksRifk djosQ iq=korh gksos] oSls iq#"k Hkh foxrL=kh gksosrks fu;ksx ls iq=koku~ gksos AAAA

    - gs ojkuus ! r w('o'kqjs) esjk firk tks fd rsjk 'o'kqj gS] ml esa izhfr djosQ(lezkKh) lE;o~Q izdk'keku porhZ jktk dh jk.kh osQ leku i{kikr

    NksM+osQ izok (Hko) gks A ('oJ~oke~) esjh ekrk tks fd rsjh lklqgS] mlesa izse;qDr gksosQ mlh dh vkKk esa(lezkKh) lE;o~Q izdk'keku (Hko)jgk dj A (uukUnfj) tks esjh cfgu vkSj rsjh uuUn gS] ml esa Hkh (lezkKh)izhfr;qDr vkSj (nso`"kq) esjs HkkbZtks rsjs nsoj vkSj T;s"B vFkok dfu"B

    gSa] mu esa Hkh (lezkKh) izhfr ls izdk'keku (vf/ Hko) vf/dkj;qDrgks] vFkkZr~ lc ls vfojks/iwoZd izhfr ls orkZ dj AAAA

    - bl eU=k dk vFkZi"B esa fy[ks izek.ks le> ysuk AA- bl ls mke ^ueLrs* ;g osnksDr okD; vfHkoknu osQ fy, fuR;izfr

    L=kh&iq#"k] firk&iq=k vFkok xq#&f'k"; vkfn osQ fy, gSA izkr% lk;e~ viwoZlekxe esatc&tc feysa] rc&rc blh okD; ls ijLij oUnu djsaAA

    fookgizdj.ke~ 133

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    o`ksadks izhfriwoZd ueLdkj djsaAi'pkr~lqHkwf"kr gksdj 'kqHkklu ij cSBosQ i`"B & esafy[ks

    izek.ks okensO;xku djosQ]mlh le; i`"B & esafy[ks izek.ksbZ'ojksikluk djuhA ml le; dk;kZFkZvk;s gq, lc L=kh&iq#"k;kukofLFkr gksdj ijes'oj dk ;ku djsaA

    rFkk o/w&oj] firk] vkpk;ZvkSj iqjksfgr vkfn dks dgsafdvksaLofLr HkoUrks czqoUrqAAvki yksx LofLrokpu djsaA

    rRi'pkr~firk] vkpk;Z] iqjksfgr tks fo}ku~gksa] vFkok mu osQvHkko esa;fn o/w&oj fo}ku~osnfor~gksarks os gh nksuksai &esa fy[ks izek.ksLofLrokpu dk ikBcM+s izse ls djsa A

    ikB gq, i'pkr~dk;kZFkZvk;s gq, L=kh&iq#"k lcvksaLofLr vksaLofLr vksaLofLr AA

    bl okD; dks cksysaArRi'pkr~dk;ZdkkZ] firk] pkpk] HkkbZvkfn iq#"kksadks rFkk ekrk]

    pkph] Hkfxuh vkfn fL=k;ksadks ;Fkkor~lRdkj djosQ fonk djsaArRi'pkr~;fn fdlh fo'ks"k dkj.k ls 'o'kqjx`g esaxHkkZ/ku&

    laLdkj u gks losQ rks o/w&oj {kkj&vkgkj vkSj fo"k;&r`".kkjfgr

    ozrLFk gksosQ i`"B & esa fy[ks izek.ks fookg osQ pkSFks fnol esaxHkkZ/ku laLdkj djsaA vFkok ml fnu rqdky u gks] rks fdlhnwljs fnu xHkZLFkkiu djsavkSj tks oj nwljs ns'k ls fookg osQ fy,vk;k gks rks og tgkftl LFkku esa fookg djus osQ fy;s tkdj

    mrjk gks] mlh LFkku esaxHkkZ/ku djs Aiqu% vius ?kj vkosQ ifr] lklq] Lo'kqj] uuUn] nsoj nsojk.kh]

    T;s"B&tsBkuh vkfn oqQVqEc osQ euq"; o/wdh iwtk] vFkkZr~ lRdkjdjsaA lnk izhfriwoZd ijLij oksvkSj e/qjok.kh] oL=k] vkHkw"k.k vkfnls lnk izlUu vkSj lUrq"V o/wdks jD[ksa rFkk o/wHkh lc dks izlUujD[ks vkSj oj ml o/w osQ lkFk iRuhozrkfn leZls orsZrFkk iRuh

    Hkh ifr osQ lkFk ifrozrkfn leZpky&pyu ls lnk ifr dh vkKkesa rRij vkSj mRlqd jgs rFkk oj Hkh L=kh dh lsok&izlUurk esarRijjgs AA

    AA bfr fookglaLdkjfof/% lekIr% AA

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    vFk x`gkJelaLdkjfo/ o{;ke%^x`gkJe&laLdkj* ml dks dgrs gSa fd tks,sfgd vkSj

    ikjykSfdd lq[k&izkfIr osQ fy, fookg djosQ vius lkeF;Z osQvuqlkj ijksidkj djuk vkSj fu;r dky esa;Fkkfof/ bZ'ojksikluk

    vkSj x`gR; djuk vkSj lR; /eZ esagh viuk ru] eu] /uyxkuk rFkk /ekZuqlkj lUrkuksadh mRifk djuh A

    v=k izek.kkfulkseksfi o/w;qjfiHkon~vf'oukfiLrkeqHkk ojk Alw;k;RiR;s 'kalfiUrha eufilk lfOkrk nfinkr~AAAAbgSo Lra ek fo ;kSfi"Va fo'oek;qO;Z}'uqre~AhMfiUrkS iq=kSuZIr`fifHkeksZnfiekukS LoLrdkS AAAAvFkZ%(lkse%) lqoqQekj 'kqHkxq.k;qDr] (o/w;q%) o/wdh dkeuk

    djusgkjk ifr rFkk o/wifr dh dkeuk djusgkjh (vf'ouk) nksuksa

    czp;Zls fo|k dks izkIr (vHkor~) gksosavkSj (mHkk) nksuksa(ojk)Js"B rqY; xq.k] deZ] LoHkkookys (vkLrke~) gksosaA ,slh (;r~) tks(lw;kZe~) lw;Zdh fdj.kor~lkSUn;Z xq.k;qDr] (iR;s) ifr osQ fy;s(eulk) eu ls ('kalUrhe~) xq.k&dhkZu djusokyh o/wgS ml dks iq#"kvkSj blh izdkj osQ iq#"k dks L=kh (lfork) ldy txr~dk mRiknd

    ijekRek (nnkr~) nsrk gS] vFkkZr~cM+s HkkX; ls nksuksaL=kh&iq#"kksadk]tks fd rqY; xq.k] deZ] LoHkko gksa] tksM+k feyrk gS AAAA

    gs fL=k vkSj iq#"k ! eSaijes'oj vkKk nsrk gwafd tks rqEgkjs fy;siwoZfookg esaizfrKk gks pqdh gS] ftl dks rqe nksuksaus Lohdkj fd;kgS] (bgSo) blh esa(Lre~) rRij jgks] (ek fo;kS"Ve~) bl izfrKk ls

    fo;qDr er gksvks A (fo'oek;qO;Z'uqre~) rqxkeh gksosQ oh;Zdk vf/duk'k u djosQ lEiw.kZvk;q] tks lkS o"kksls de ughagS] ml dksizkIr gksvks vkSj iwoksZDr /eZjhfr ls (iq=kS%) iq=kksavkSj (uIr`fHk%) ukfr;ksaosQ lkFk (hMUrkS) hM+k djrs gq, (LoLrdkS) mke x`gokys(eksnekukS) vkufUnr gksdj x`gkJe esaizhfriwoZd okl djks AAAA

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    lqeXyh izrjfi.kh x`gk.kkfialq'ksok iR;s 'o'kqfijk; 'kEHkw% AL;ksuk 'oJ~oS iz x`gku~fofi'kseku~AAAAL;ksuk Hkfio 'o'kqfijsH;% L;ksuk iR;sfi x`gsH;fi% AL;ksukL;S lOfikZL;S fOk'ks L;ksuk iq"Vk;Sfi"kkaHko AAAA;k nqgkZnksZfi ;qor;ks ;k'psg tfijrhjfifi AopksZ UofiL;S lankkFkkLrfiafOkijsfiru AAAA

    vk jksfig rYifia lqeuL;ekfiusg iztka tfiu; iR;sfi vLeS A

    bUk.khofi lqcq/k cq;fiekuk T;ksfrfijxzk m"kl% izfrfi tkxjkfl AAAAvFkZ%gs ojkuus ! rw(lqeXyh) vPNs eXykpj.k djus rFkk

    (izrj.kh) nks"k vkSj 'kksdkfn ls iFko~Q jgusgkjh] (x`gk.kke~) x`g&dk;ksesa prqj vkSj rRij jgdj (lq'ksok) mke lq[k;qDr gksosQ (iR;s) ifr('o'kqjk;) 'o'kqj vkSj 'oJ~oS) lklqosQ fy, ('kEHkw%) lq[kd=khZvkSj (L;ksuk) Lo;aizl gqbZ(beku~) bu (xgku~) ?kjksaesalq[kiwoZd(izfo'k) izos'k dj AAAA

    gs o/w! rw ('o'kqjsH;%) 'o'kqjkfn osQ fy;s (L;ksuk) lq[knkrk](iR;s) ifr osQ fy;s (L;ksuk) lq[knkrk] vkSj (xgsH;%) x`gLFk

    lEcfU/;ksaosQ fy;s (L;ksuk) lq[knk;d (Hko) gks A vkSj (vL;S)bl (loZL;S) lc (fo'ks) iztk osQ vFkZ(L;ksuk) lq[kizn] vkSj(,"kke~) bu osQ (iq"Vk;) iks"k.k osQ vFkZrRij (Hko) gks AAAA

    (;k%) tks (nqgkZnZ%) nq"V n;okyh vFkkZr~nq"VkRek (;qor;%)toku fL=k;ka] (p) vkSj (;k%) tks (bg) bl LFkku esa (tjrh%)cqM~

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    nsok vxzs U;i|Ur iRuh% lefiLi`'kUr rUoLruwfHkfi% Alw;sZofi ukfj fOk'o:fiik efgRok iztkofirh iR;k laHkfiosg AAAAlafifirjko`fRofi;s l`tsFkkaekrk fIkrk p jsrfilks HkokFk% Ae;Zbo ;ks"kkef/fi jksg;Sukaiztka o`fiQ.okFkkfEkg iqfi";rajf;e~AAAArka iw"kfifNorfiekesjfi;Lo ;L;ka chTakfi euq";kfi oififUr A;k ufi mQ: mfi'krh fOkJ;kfifRk ;L;kfieq'kUrfi% izgjse 'ksifi% AAAA

    vFkZ%gs lkSHkkX;izns (ukfj) rwtSls (bg) bl x`gkJe esa(vxzs)

    izFke (nsok%) fo}ku~yksx (iRuh%) mke fL=k;ksadks (U;i|Ur) izkIrgksrs gSa] vkSj (ruwfHk%) 'kjhjksa ls (rUo%) 'kjhjksa dks (leLi`'kUr)Li'kZdjrs gSa] oSls (fo'o:ik) fofo/ lqUnj:i dks /kj.k djusgkjh](efgRok) lRdkj dks izkIr gksosQ (lw;sZo) lw;Zdh dkfUr osQ leku(iR;k) vius Lokeh osQ lkFk feyosQ (iztkorh) iztk dks izkIr

    gksusgkjh (lEHko) vPNs izdkj gks AAAAgs L=khiq#"kks ! rqe (firjkS) ckydksa osQ tud (fRo;s)

    rqle; esalUrkuksadks (lal`tsFkke~) vPNs izdkj mRiUu djks A(ekrk) tuuh (p) vkSj (firk) tud nksuksa(jsrl%) oh;Zdks

    feykdj xHkkZ/ku djusgkjs (HkokFk%) gwft;sA gs iq#"k ! (,uke~) bl

    (;ks"kke~) viuh L=kh dks (e;Zbo) izkIr gksusokys ifr osQ leku(vf/ jksg;) lUrkuksa ls c

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    tfUk;fUrfi ukoxzfio% iqf=k;fUrfi lqnkufio% Avfjfi"Vklwlpsofg c`grs oktfilkr;s AAAAvFkZ%gs fL=k vkSj iq#"k ! tSls lw;Z(foHkkrh%) lqUnj izdk'k;qDr

    (m"kl%) izHkkr osyk dks izkIr gksrk gS] oSls (L;ksukr~) lq[k ls (;ksus%)?kj osQ e; esa(vf/ cq;ekukS) lUrkuksRifk vkfn dh f;k dks vPNsizdkj tkuusgkjs] lnk (glkeqnkS) gkL; vkSj vkuUn;qDr] (eglk) cM+sizse ls (eksnekukS) vR;Ur izlUu gq,] (lqxw) mke pky pyus ls/eZ;qDr O;ogkj esavPNs izdkj pyusgkjs] (lqiq=kkS) mke iq=kokys]

    (lqx`gkS) Js"B x`gkfn lkexzh;qDr (thokS) mke izdkj thoksadks/kj.k djrs gq, (rjkFk%) x`gkJe osQ O;ogkjksaosQ ikj gksvks AAAA

    gs (bU) ijeS'o;Z;qDr fo}u~jktu~ ! vki (bg) bl lalkj esa(bekS) bu L=khiq#"kksadks le; ij fookg djus dks vkKk vkSj ,slh

    O;oLFkk nhft;s fd ftl ls dksbZL=kh&iq#"k i`"B & esafy[ks izek.kls iwoZok vU;Fkk fookg u dj losaQ] oSls (lauqn) lc dks izflfls izsj.kk dhft, ftl ls czp;ZiwoZd f'k{kk dks ikosQ (nEirh) tk;kvkSj ifr (pokosQo) pdok pdoh osQ leku ,d&nwljs ls izsec

    jgsaA vkSj xHkkZ/kulaLdkjksDrfof/ ls (izt;k) mUur gqbZiztk ls (,ukS);s nksuksa(LoLrdkS) lq[k;qDr gksosQ (fo'oe~)lEiw.kZ lkS

    o"kZi;ZUr (vk;q%) vk;q dks (O;'uqrke~) izkIr gksosaAAAAgs euq";ks ! tSls (lqnkuo%) fo|kfn mke xq.kksa osQ nku djusgkjs

    (vxzo%) mke L=kh&iq#"k (tfu;fUr) iq=kksRifk djrsvkSj (iq=kh;fUr)iq=k dh dkeuk djrs gSa] oSls (ukS) gekjs Hkh lUrku mke gksosaA rFkk(vfj"Vklw) cy] izk.k dk uk'k u djusgkjs gksdj (c`grs) cM+s(oktlkr;s) ijksidkj osQ vFkZfoKku vkSj vUu vkfn osQ nku osQ fy,(lpsofg) dfVc lnk jgsa] ftl ls gekjs lUrku Hkh mke gksosaAAAA

    iz cqfi;Lo lqcq/k cq;fiekuk nh?kkZ;qRok;fi 'kr'kkfijnk; Ax`gku~xfiPN x`gifiRuh ;Fkklksfi nh?kr vk;qfi% lfOkrk o`fiQ.kksrqAAAA

    lfin;alkaeuL;efofi}s"ka.kksfe o% AvU;ks vU;efHk gfi;Zr oRlatkrfefiok?U;k AAAAvFkZ%gs iRuh ! rw('kr'kkjnk;) 'kro"kZi;ZUr (nh?kkZ;qRok;)

    nh?kZdky thus osQ fy, (lqcq/k) mke cqf;qDr] (cq;ekuk) lKkugksdj (x`gku~) esjs ?kjksadks (xPN) izkIr gks vkSj (x`giRuh) eq> ?kj

    138 laLdkjfof/%

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    osQ Lokeh dh L=kh (;Fkk) tSls (rs) rsjk (nh?kZe~) nh?kZdky&i;ZUr(vk;q%) thou (vkl%) gksos] oSls (izcq;Lo) iz"V Kku vkSj mke

    O;ogkj dks ;Fkkor~tku A bl viuh vk'kk dks (lfork) lc txr~dh mRifk vkSj lEiw.kZ,s'o;Zdks nsusgkjk ijekRek (.kksrq) viuhik ls lnk fl djs A ftl ls rwvkSj eSalnk mUufr'khy gksdj vkuUnesajgsa AAAA

    gs x`gLFkks ! eSabZ'oj rqe dks tSlh vkKk nsrk gwa] oSlk gh orZekudjks] ftl ls rqe dks v{k; lq[k gks A vFkkZr~(o%) rqEgkjk (ln;e~)

    tSlh vius fy, lq[k dh bPNk djrs vkSj nq%[k ughapkgrs gks] oSlsekrk&firk lUrku L=kh&iq#"k Hk`R; fe=k ikM+kslh vkSj vU; lc ls lekun; jgks A (lkaeuL;e~) eu ls lE;o~Q izlUurk] vkSj (vfo}s"ke~)oSj&fojks/kfnjfgr O;ogkj dks rqEgkjs fy;s (.kksfe) fLFkj djrkgwaA rqe (v?U;k) guu u djus ;ksX; xk; (oRlatkrfeo) mRiUugq, cNM+s ij okRlY;Hkko ls tSls orZrh gS] oSls (vU;ks vU;e~),d&nwljs ls (vfHk g;Zr) izseiwoZd dkeuk ls okkZdjks AAAA

    vuqfiozr% fIkrq% iq=kks ek=kk Hkfiorqlaefiuk% Atk;k iR;s e/qfierha okPakfi onrq'kfURkoku~AAAAek Hkzkrk Hkzkrfijaf}{kUek Lolkfijeqr Lolkfi AlE;p% lozfirk HkwRok okPakfi onr Hk;kfi AAAAvFkZ%gs x`gLFkks ! tSls rqEgkjk (iq=k%) iq=k (ek=kk) ekrk osQ

    lkFk (laeuk%) izhfr;qDr euokyk] (vuqozr%) vuqowQy vkpj.k;qDr](firq%) vkSj firk osQ lEcU/ esaHkh blh izdkj dk izseokyk (Hkorq)

    gksos] oSls rqe Hkh iq=kksaosQ lkFk lnk okkZdjks A tSls (tk;k) L=kh(iR;s) ifr dh izlUurk osQ fy;s (e/qerhe~) ek/q;Zxq.k;qDr(okpe~) ok.kh dks (onrq) dgs] oSls ifr Hkh ('kfUroku~) 'kkUr

    gksdj viuh iRuh ls lnk e/qj Hkk"k.k fd;k djs AAAAgs xgLFkks ! rqEgkjs esa(Hkzkrk) HkkbZ(Hkzkrje~) HkkbZosQ lkFk (ek

    f}{ku~) }s"k dHkh u djs A (mr) vkSj (Lolk) cfgu (Lolkje~) cfguls }s"k dHkh (ek) u djs A rFkk cfgu HkkbZHkh ijLij }s"k er djks]fdUrq(lE;p%) lE;o~Q izsekfn xq.kksals ;qDr (lozrk%) leku xq.k]deZ] LoHkkookys (HkwRok) gksdj (Hk;k) eXydkjd jhfr ls ,d&nwljsosQ lkFk (okpe~lq[knk;d ok.kh dks (onr) cksyk djks AAAA

    xgkJeizdj.ke~ 139

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    ;sufi nsok u fOk;fURk uks pfi fof}"krsfi fEkFk% ArRo`fiQ.eks czfi oks x`gs laKkua iq#fi"ksH;% AAAAvFkZ%gs x`gLFkks ! eSabZ'oj (;su) ftl izdkj osQ O;ogkj ls

    (nsok%) fo}ku~yksx (feFk%) ijLij (u fo;fUr) i`Fko~Q Hkkookys ughagksrs] (p) vkSj (uks fof}"krs) ijLij esa }s"k dHkh ugha djrs] (rr~)ogh deZ(o%) rqEgkjs (x`gs) ?kj esa(.e%) fuf'pr djrk gwaA(iq#"ksH;%) iq#"kksadks (laKkue~) vPNs izdkj fprkrk gwafd rqe yksx

    ijLij izhfr ls orZdj cM+s (cz) /uS'o;Zdks izkIr gksvks AAAA

    T;k;fiLoUrf'Pkfkuks ek fo ;kSfi"V lajk/;fiUr% l/qfijk'pjfiUr%AvU;ksvU;LeSfi oYxqonfiUr ,rfi l/zhphukfiUo% laefiulL.kksfe AA

    vFkZ%gs x`gLFkkfn euq";ks ! rqe (T;k;LoUr%) mke fo|kfn&xq.k;qDr] (fpfku%) fo}ku~lKku] (l/qjk%) /qjU/j gksdj (pjUr%)fopjrs] vkSj (lajk/;Ur%) ijLij feyosQ /u&/kU; jkT;le`f dksizkIr gksrs gq, (ek fo;kS"V) fojks/h ok iFko~Q&iFko~Q Hkko er djksA(vU;%) ,d (vU;LeS) nwljs osQ fy;s (oYxq) lR; e/qj Hkk"k.k(onUr%) dgrs gq, ,d&nwljs dks (,r) izkIr gksvks A blhfy;s(l/zhphuku~) leku ykHkkykHk ls ,d&nwljs osQ lgk;d] (laeul%)

    ,sdeR;okys (o%) rqe dks (.kksfe) djrk gwa] vFkkZr~eSa bZ'oj rqedks tks vkKk nsrk gwa] bl dks vkyL; NksM+dj fd;k djks AAAAlekuh izik lg oksfiHkkx% lfiekus ;ksD=ksfi lg oksfi ;qufTe AlE;pksXu lfii;Zrkjk ukfHkfifeokfHkrfi% AAAAl/zhphukfiUo% laefiulL.kksE;sofiQJq"VhURlaoufiusu lofikZu~Ansok bfioke`ra j{kfiek.kk% lk;aizkfir% lkSeulks oksfi vLrqAAAA

    vFkoZ dka A lw A eU=k &AAvFkZ%gs x`gLFkkfn euq";ks ! eq> bZ'oj dh vkKk ls rqEgkjk

    (izik) tyiku Lukukfn dk LFkku vkfn O;ogkj (lekuh) ,d lkgks A (o%) rqEgkjk (vHkkx%) [kku&iku (lg) lkFk gqvk djs A

    (o%) rqEgkjs (lekus) ,d ls (;ksD=ks) v'okfn ;ku osQ tksrs (lg)laxh gksaA vkSj rqe dks eSa/EekZfn O;ogkj esaHkh ,dhHkwr djosQ(;qufTe) fu;qDr djrk gwaA tSls (vkjk%) p osQ vkjs (vfHkr%)

    pkjksavksj ls (ukfHkfeo) chp osQ uky:i dk"B esayxs jgrs gSa]vFkok tSls fRot~yksx vkSj ;teku ;K esafeyosQ (vfXue~) vfXu

    140 laLdkjfof/%

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    vkfn osQ lsou ls txr~dk midkj djrs gSa] oSls (lE;p%) lE;o~QizkfIrokys rqe feyosQ /eZ;qDr deksdks (li;Zr) ,d&nwljs dkfgr fl fd;k djks AAAA

    gs x`gLFkkfn euq";ks ! eSabZ'oj (o%) rqe dks (l/zhphuku~) lgokZeku] (laeul%) ijLij osQ fy;s fgrS"kh] (,dJq"Vhu~) ,d gh/eZR; esa'kh?kz izo`k gksusokys (lokZu~) lc dks (laouusu) /eZR;

    osQ lsou osQ lkFk ,d&nwljs osQ midkj esafu;qDr (.kksfe) djrkgwaA rqe (nsok bo) fo}kuksaosQ leku (ve`re~) O;kogkfjd okikjekFkd lq[k dh (j{kek.kk%) j{kk djrs gq, (lk;aizkr%) lU;kvkSj izkr%dky vFkkZr~lc le; esa,d&nwljs ls izseiwoZd feyk djksA

    ,sls djrs gq, (o%) rqEgkjk (lkSeul%) eu dk vkuUn;qDr 'kqHkko(vLrq) lnk cuk jgs AAAA

    Jesfi.k rifilk l`"Vk czfi.kk fOkk rs fJrk% AAAAlR;suko`firk% fJ;k izko`firk ;'kfilk ijhfio`rk% AAAALo/;k ifjfifgrk% J;k i;wZ

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    vFkZ%gs euq";ks ! rqe tks (vkst%) ijke (p) vkSj bl dhlkexzh] (rst%) rstLohiu (p) vkSj bl dh lkexzh] (lg%)Lrqfr&fuUnk gkfu&ykHk rFkk 'kksdkfn dk lgu (p) vkSj bl osQlk/u] (cya p) cy vkSj bl osQ lk/u] (oko~Q p) lR; fiz;ok.kh vkSj bl osQ vuqowQy O;ogkj] (bfU;ap) 'kkUr /eZ;qDrvUr%dj.k vkSj 'kqkRek rFkk ftrsfU;rk] (Jh'p) y{eh lEifkvkSj bl dh izkfIr dk /eZ;qDr m|ksx] (/eZ'p) i{kikrjfgr

    U;k;kpj.k osnksDr /eZvkSj tks bl osQ lk/u ok y{k.k gSa] mu dks

    rqe izkIr gksosQ bUghsaesalnk okkZdjks AAAAczfi p {k=kapfi jk"Vap fo'kfi'p fRof"kfi'p ;'kfi'p oPfikZ'pfofi.kap AAAA

    vk;qfi'p :iap ukefi p dhr'pfi izk.k'pkfiiku'p p{kqfi'pJks=akfi p AAAA

    i;fi'p jl'pkUU akfi pkk|fiap rapfi lR;aps"Vapfi iwrpfiiztk pfi i'kofi'p AAAA

    vFkoZ dka A v A oxZ &AAvFkZ%gs xgLFkkfn euq";ks ! rqe dks ;ksX; gS fd (cz p) iw.kZ

    fo|kfn 'kqHk xq.k;qDr euq"; vkSj lc osQ midkjd 'ke] nekfnxq.k;qDr czoqQy] ({k=kap) fo|kfn mke xq.k;qDr rFkk fou; vkSj'kkS;kZfn xq.kksa ls ;qDr {kf=k;oqQy (jk"Vap) jkT; vkSj ml dk U;k;ls ikyu] (fo'k'p) mke iztk vkSj ml dh mfr] (fRof"k'p)lf}|kfn ls rst vkjksX; 'kjhj vkSj vkRek osQ cy ls izdk'keku]vkSj bl dh mfr ls (;'k'p) dhr;qDr rFkk bl osQ lk/uksa dks

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    ml osQ ;qDrkgkj fogkjkfn lk/u] (viku'p) lc nq%[k nwj djus dkmik; vkSj ml dh lkexzh] (p{kq'p) izR;{k vkSj vuqeku mieku](Jks=kap) 'kCnizek.k vkSj ml dh lkexzh dks /kj.k fd;k djks AAAA

    gs x`gLFk yksxks ! (i;'p) mke ty nw/ vkSj bl dk 'kks/u vkSj;qfDr ls lsou] (jl'p) ?k`r nw/ e/qvkfn vkSj bl dk ;qfDr lsvkgkj&fogkj] (vUua p) mke pkoy vkfn vUu vkSj ml osQ mke

    laLdkj fd;s (vk|ap) [kkus ;ksX; inkFkZvkSj ml osQ lkFk mkenky] 'kkd] d (ujs) euq";

    esa (br%) bl gsrqls (vU;Fkk) myVk iki:i (deZ) nq%[kn deZ(u fyI;rs) fyI;eku dHkh ughagksrk] vkSj rqe iki:i deZesafyIr

    dHkh er gksvks A bl mke deZls oqQN Hkh nq%[k (ukfLr) ughagksrk A blfy;s rqe L=khiq#"k lnk iq#"kkFkhZgksdj mke deksls viuhvkSj nwljksadh lnk mUufr fd;k djks AAAA

    iqu% L=khiq#"k lnk fuEufyf[kr eU=kksaosQ vuqowQy bPNk vkSjvkpj.k fd;k djsa A os eU=k ;s gSa

    HkwHkqZo% Lo~%A lqiztk% iztkfHkfi% L;k lq

    ohjksfi ohjS% lqiks"k% iks"kSfi%AufikZ iztkaesfi ikfg 'kL;fi i'kwu~esfi ikFkfi;Z fIkrqaesfi ikfg AAAAx`gk ek fcfiHkhr ek osfiioewt fcHkzfir ,efifl AmQt fcHkzfi}% lqeukfi% lqes/k x`gkuSfEk eufilk eksnfieku% AAAA

    ;tq v A eU=k ] AA

    xgkJeizdj.ke~ 143

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    vFkZ%gs L=kh ok iq#"k ! eSarsjk ok vius osQ lEcU/ ls (HkwHkqZo%Lo%) 'kkjhfjd okfpd vkSj ekul vFkkZr~f=kfo/ lq[k ls ;qDr gksosQ(iztkfHk%) euq";kfn mke iztkvksaosQ lkFk (lqiztk%) mke iztk;qDr(L;ke~) gksmaQ A (ohjS%) mke iq=k cU/qlEcU/h vkSj Hk`R;ksals lg orZeku(lqohj%) mke ohjksals lfgr gksmQ A (iks"kS%) mke iqf"Vdkjd O;ogkjksa

    ls (lqiks"k%) mke iqf"V;qDr gksmQ A gs (u;Z) euq";ksaesalTtu ohjLokfeu~! (es) esjh (iztke~) iztk dh (ikfg) j{kk dhft;s A gs ('kaL;)iz'kalk djus ;ksX; Lokfeu~! vki (es) esjs (i'kwu~) i'kqvksadh (ikfg)

    j{kk dhft;s A gs (vFk;Z) vgld n;kyks Lokfeu~! (es) esjs (firqe~)vUu vkfn dh (ikfg) j{kk dhft;s A oSls gs ukjh ! iz'kaluh; xq.k;qDrrw esjh iztk esjs i'kqvkSj esjs v dh lnk j{kk fd;k dj AAAA

    gs (x`gk%) x`gLFk yksxks ! rqe fof/iwoZd x`gkJe esaizos'k djusls (ek fcHkhr) er Mjks] (ek osioe~) er dEik;eku gksvks A(mQTtZe~) v ijke rFkk fo|kfn 'kqHk xq.k ls ;qDr gksdj x`gkJe

    dks (fcHkzr%) /kj.k djrs gq, rqe yksxksadks ge lR;ksins'kd fo}ku~yksx (,efl) izkIr gksrsvkSj lR;ksins'k djrs gSavkSj vikukPNknu&LFkkuls rqEghagekjk fuokZg djrs gks A bl fy;s rqEgkjk x`gkJe O;ogkj esafuokl loksZR"V gS A gs ojkuus ! tSls eSarsjk ifr (eulk) vUr%dj.kls (eksneku%) vkufUnr (lqeuk%) izl eu (lqes/k%) mke cqfls ;qDr eq> dks] vkSj gs esjs iwtuh;re firk vfn yksxks ! (o%) rqEgkjsfy;s (mQTtZe~) ijke rFkk vkfn ,s'o;Zdks (fcHkzr~) /kj.k djrkgqvk rqe (x`gku~xgLFkksadks (vk ,fe) lc izdkj ls izkIr gksrk gwa]mlh izdkj rqe yksx Hkh eq> ls izl gksosQ orkZdjks AAAA

    ;s"kkfie;sfrfi izolu~;s"kqfi lkSeulks cgq% Ax`gkuqifi;kegs rs uksfi tkuUrqtkur% AAAAmifigwrk bg xko mifigwrk vtko;fi% AvFkksvfiL; dhyky mifigwrks x`gs"kqfi u% A{ksekfi; o% 'kkUR;S izifi|s f'ko 'kXe 'ka;ks% 'ka;ks% AAAA

    ;tq v;k; A ea ] AAvFkZgs x`gLFkks ! (izolu~) ijns'k dks x;k gqvk euq"; (;s"kke~)

    ftu dk (v;sfr) Lej.k djrk gS] (;s"kq) ftu xgLFkksaesa(cgq%) cgqr(lkSeul%) izhfr gksrh gS] mu (xgku~) x`gLFkksadh ge fo}ku~yksx(mi;kegs) iz'kalk djrs vkSj izhfr ls lehiLFk cqykrs gSaA (rs)

    144 laLdkjfof/%

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    os x`gLFk yksx (tkur%) mu dks tkuusokys (u%) ge yksxksa dks(tkuUrq) lqn~tkusaA oSls rqe x`gLFk vkSj ge laU;klh yksx vkil

    esafeyosQ iq#"kkFkZls O;ogkj vkSj ijekFkZdh mfr lnk fd;k djsaAAAAgs x`gLFkks ! (u%) vius (x`gs"kq) ?kjksaesaftl izdkj (xko%)

    xkS vkfn mke i'kq(migwrk%) lehiLFk gksa] rFkk (vtko;%) cdjhHksM+ vkfn nw/ nsusokys i'kq (migwrk%) lehiLFk gksa] (vFkks) bl

    osQ vuUrj (vL;) vkfn inkFkksosQ e; esamke (dhyky%)vkfn inkFkZ(migwr%) izkIr gksos] ge yksx oSlk iz;Ru fd;k djsaA

    gs x`gLFkks! eSamins'kd ok jktk (bg) bl x`gkJe esa (o%) rqEgkjs({ksek;) j{k.k rFkk ('kkUR;S) fu#iork djus osQ fy;s (izi|s) izkIr

    gksrk gwaA eSavkSj vki yksx izhfr ls feyosQ (f'koe~) dY;k.k('kXee~) O;kogkfjd lq[k vkSj ('ka;ks% 'ka;ks%) ikjekFkd lq[k dks

    izkIr gksosQ vU; lc yksxksadks lnk lq[k fn;k djsaAAAAlUrq"Vks Hkk;Z;k HkkkZ Hk=kkZ Hkk;kZ rFkSo p A;fLeUuso oqQys fuR;adY;k.kar=k oS /zqoe~AAAA;fn fg L=kh u jkspsr iqekalau izeksn;sr~Avizeksnkr~iqu% iqal% iztuau izokZrs AAAA euq AAvFkZgs x`gLFkks ! ftl oqQy esaHkk;kZls izl ifr vkSj ifr ls

    Hkk;kZlnk izl jgrh gS] mlh oqQy esafuf'pr dY;k.k gksrk gS vkSjnksuksaijLij vizl jgsarks ml oqQy esafuR; dyg okl djrk gS AAAA

    ;fn L=kh iq#"k ij #fp u jD[ks ok iq#"k dks izg"kr u djs rksvizlrk ls iq#"k osQ 'kjhj esadkeksRifk dHkh u gksosQ lUrku ugha

    gksrs vkSj ;fn gksrs gSarks nq"V gksrs gSaAAAAfL=k;karqjkspekuk;kalorn~jksprs oqQye~ArL;ka Rojkspekuk;ka loZeso u jksprs AAAA euq AAvFkZvkSj tks iq#"k L=kh dks izl ughadjrk rks ml L=kh osQ

    vizl jgus ls lc oqQyHkj vizl'kksdkrqj jgrk gS vkSj tc iq#"kls L=kh izl jgrh gS] rc lc oqQy vkuUn:i nh[krk gS AAAA

    fir`fHkHkzkZr`fHk'pSrk% ifrfHknsZojSLrFkk AiwT;k Hkw"kf;rO;k'p cgqdY;k.kehIlqfHk% AAAA;=k uk;ZLrq iwT;Urs jeUrs r=k nsork% A;=kSrkLrqu iwT;Urs lokZLr=kkiQyk% f;k% AAAA'kkspfUr tke;ks ;=k fou';R;k'kqrRoqQye~Au 'kkspfUr rq;=kSrk oZrs rf loZnk AAAA

    xgkJeizdj.ke~ 145

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    tke;ks ;kfu xsgkfu 'kiUR;izfriwftrk% Arkfu R;kgrkuho fou';fUr leUrr% AAAA euqAAvFkZfirk] Hkzkrk] ifr vkSj nsoj dks ;ksX; gS fd viuh dU;k]

    cfgu] L=kh vkSj HkkStkbZvkfn fL=k;ksadh lnk iwtk djsa] vFkkZr~;Fkk;ksX;e/qj Hkk"k.k] Hkkstu] oL=k] vkHkw"k.k vkfn ls izl jD[ksa] ftu dksdY;k.k dh bPNk gks] os fL=k;ksadks Dys'k dHkh u nsosaAAAA

    ftl oqQy esaukfj;ksadh iwtk vFkkZr~lRdkj gksrk gS] ml oqQy esafnO; xq.k] fnO; Hkksx vkSj mke lUrku gksrs gSa vkSj ftl oqQy esafL=k;ksa

    dh iwtk ugha gksrh] ogkatkuks mu dh lc f;k fu"iQy gSaAAAAftl oqQy esaL=kh yksx vius&vius iq#"kksaosQ os';kxeu okO;fHkpkjkfn nks"kksals 'kksdkrqj jgrh gSa] og oqQy 'kh?kz uk'k dks izkIrgks tkrk gS A vkSj ftl oqQy esaL=khtu iq#"kksaosQ mkekpj.kksals izljgrh gSa] og oqQy loZnk c

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    fL=k;ksadks mke djuk pkfg, AAAAiztukFk egkHkkxk% iwtkgkZ x`gnhIr;% AfL=k;% fJ;'p xsgs"kqu fo'ks"kksfLr d'puAAAAmRiknueiR;L; tkrL; ifjikyue ~ AizR;gayksd;k=kk;k% izR;{kaL=khfucU/ue~ AAAAviR;a /eZdk;kZf.k 'kqJw"kk jfr#kek A

    nkjk/huLrFkk LoxZ% fir.kkekReu'p g AAAA;Fkk ok;qa lekfJR; orZUrs loZtUro% ArFkk x`gLFkekfJR; okZUrs loZ vkJek% AAAA

    euqAAvFkZgs iq#"kks ! lUrkuksRifk osQ fy;s egkHkkX;ksn; djusgkjh]

    iwtk osQ ;ksX;] x`gkJe dks izdk'k djrh] lUrkuksRifk djus djkusgkjh?kjksaesafL=k;kagSa] os Jh vFkkZr~y{ehLo:i gksrh gSaA D;ksafd y{eh'kksHkk /u vkSj fL=k;ksaesaoqQN Hksn ughagS AAAA

    gs iq#"kks ! viR;ksadh mRifk] mRi dk ikyu djus vkfnyksdO;ogkj dks fuR;izfr] tks fd xgkJe dk dk;Zgksrk gS] mldk fucU/ djusokyh izR;{k L=kh gS AAAA

    lUrkuksRifk] /eZ&dk;Z] mke lsok vkSj jfr rFkk viuk vkSjfirjksa dk ftruk lq[k gS] og lc L=kh gh osQ vk/hu gksrk gS AAAAtSls ok;qosQ vkJ; ls lc thoksadk orZeku fl gksrk gS]

    oSls gh xgLFk osQ vkJ; ls czpkjh] okuizLFk vkSj laU;klh vFkkZr~lc vkJeksadk fuokZg x`gLFk osQ vkJ; ls gksrk gS AAAA

    ;Lekr~=k;ksI;kJfe.kks nkusukUusu pkUoge~Ax`gLFksuSo /k;ZUrs rLekTT;s"BkJeks x`gh AAAAl lU/k;Z% iz;Rusu LoxZe{k;fePNrk Alq[kapsgsPNrk fuR;a;ks/k;ksZ nqcZysfU;S% AAAAlos Z"kkefi pSrs"kka osnLe `frfo/kur% Ax`gLFk mP;rs Js"B% l =khusrku~fcHkr fg AAAAvFkZftl ls czpkjh] okuizLFk vkSj laU;klh bu rhu vkJfe;ksa

    dks vUu] oL=kkfn nku ls fuR;izfr x`gLFk /kj.k iks"k.k djrk gS]blfy;s O;ogkj esax`gkJe lc ls cM+k gS AAAA

    xgkJeizdj.ke~ 147

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    gs L=khiq#"kks ! tks rqe v{k; eqfDr&lq[k vkSj bl lalkj osQ lq[kdh bPNk j[krs gks rks tks nqcZysfU; vkSj fucqZf iq#"kksaosQ /kj.k djus;ksX; ughagS] ml xgkJe dks fuR; iz;Ru ls /kj.k djks AAAA

    osn vk Sj Le`fr osQ izek.k ls lc vkJeksa osQ chp esax`gkJe Js"B gS] D;ksa fd ;gh vkJe czpkjh vkfn rhuk savkJeks a dk /kj.k vkSj ikyu djrk gS AAAA

    ;Fkk unhunk% losZ lkxjs ;kfUr lafLFkfre~ArFkSokJfe.k% losZ x`gLFks ;kfUr lafLFkfre~AAAA

    miklrs ;s x`gLFkk% ijikdecq;% Arsu rs izsR; i'kqrkaoztUR;Uukfnnkf;uke~AAAAvklukolFkkS 'k;keuqozT;keqikluke~A

    mkes"kwkeaoqQ;kZhuaghus les lee~AAAAik"kf.Muks fodeZLFkku~oSMkyozfrdku~'kBku~AgSrqdku~odokha'p ok~ek=ks.kkfi ukpZ;sr~ AAAAvFkZgs euq";ks ! tSls lc cM+s&cM+s un vkSj unh lkxj esatkdj

    fLFkj gksrs gSa] oSls gh lc vkJeh x`gLFk gh dks izkIr gksosQ fLFkjgksrs gSaAAAA

    ;fn x`gLFk gksosQ ijk;s ?kj esaHkkstukfn dh bPNk djrs gSarks os cqfghu x`gLFk vU; ls izfrxzg:i iki djosQ tUekUrjesavUukfn osQ nkrkvksa osQ i'kqcurs gSaA D;ksafd vU; ls vUukfndk xzg.k djuk vfrfFk;ksadk dke gS] x`gLFkksadk ughaAAAA

    tc x`gLFk osQ lehi vfrfFk vkosa] rc vklu] fuokl] 'k;k]i'pkn~xeu vkSj lehi esacSBuk vkfn lRdkj tSls dk oSlk] vFkkZr~mke dk mke] e;e dk e;e vkSj fu"V dk fu"V djs A,slk u gks fd bls dHkh u le>saAAAA

    fdUrqtks ik[k.Mh osnfuUnd ukfLrd bZ'oj osn vkSj /eZdksu ekusa] v/ekZpj.k djusgkjs] gld] 'kB] feF;kfHkekuh] oqQrdhZvkSjodo`fk] vFkkZr~ijk;s inkFkZgjus ok cgdkus esa cxqys osQ lekuvfrfFkos'k/kjh cuosQ vkosa] mu dk opuek=k ls Hkh lRdkj xgLFk

    dHkh u djs AAAA

    v{k; bruk gh ek=k gS fd ftruk le; eqfDr dk gS] mrus le; esa nq%[kdk la;ksx] tSlk fo"k;sfU; osQ la;ksxtU; lq[k esa gksrk gS] oSlk ugha gksrkA

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    n'klwukleapan'kpleks ot% An'kotleks os"kks n'kos"kleks u`i% AAAAu yksdo`ka orsZr o`fkgsrks% dFkpu Avftke'kBka'kqkathosn~czk.kthfodke~AAAA

    lR;/ekZ;Zo`ks"kq 'kkSps pSokjesr~ lnk Af'k";ka'p f'k";kn~/esZ.k okXckgwnjla;r% AAAAifjR;tsnFkZdkekS ;kS L;krka/eZotrkS A/epkI;lq[kksnoQ yksdfoq"Veso p AAAA euq AA

    vFkZn'k gR;k osQ leku p vFkkZr~ oqQEgkj] xkM+h ls thfodkdjusgkjs] n'k p osQ leku ot vFkkZr~/ksch] e| dks fudkydj cspusgkjs] n'k ot osQ leku os"k vFkkZr~os';k] HkM+qvk HkkaM]nwljs dh udy vFkkZr~ik"kk.kewr;ksa osQ iwtd (iwtkjh) vkfn vkSjn'k os"k osQ leku tks vU;k;dkjh jktk gksrk gS] mu osQ vUu vkfndk xzg.k vfrfFk yksx dHkh u djsaAAAA

    x`gLFk thfodk osQ fy;s Hkh dHkh 'kkL=kfo# yksdkpkj dk okkZou oksZA fdUrqftl esafdlh izdkj dh oqQfVyrk] ew[kZrk] feF;kiuok v/eZu gks] ml osnksDr deZ&lEcU/h thfodk dks djs AAAA

    lR;] /eZ] vk;ZvFkkZr~vkIr iq#"kksaosQ O;ogkj vkSj 'kkSpifo=krkgh esalnk xgLFk yksx izo`k jgsavkSj lR;ok.kh] Hkkstukfn osQyksHkjfgr] gLriknkfn dh oqQps"Vk NksM+dj /eZls f'k";ksa vkSj lUrkuksadks mke f'k{kk lnk fd;k djsaAAAA

    ;fn cgqr lk /u] jkT; vkSj viuh dkeuk v/eZls fl gksrhgks rks Hkh v/eZloZFkk NksM+ nsosaA vkSj osnfo# /ekZHkkl ftlosQ djus ls mkjdky esanq%[k vkSj lalkj dh mUufr dk uk'k gks]oSlk ukeek=k /eZvkSj deZdHkh u fd;k djsaAAAA

    losZ"kkeso 'kkSpkukeFkZ'kkSpa ija Le`re~ A;ksFksZ 'kqfpg l 'kqfpuZ e`}kfj'kqfp% 'kqfp% AAAA{kkUR;k 'kq;fUr fo}kalks nkusukdk;Zdkfj.k% A

    izPNUuikik tI;su rilk osnfokek% AAAAvfxkZ=kkf.k 'kq;fUr eu% lR;su 'kq;fr A

    fo|kriksH;kaHkwrkRek cqfKkZusu 'kq;fr AAAA

    xgkJeizdj.ke~ 149

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    n'kkojk ok ifj"kn~;a/eifjdYi;sr~A=;ojk okfi o`kLFkk ra/eu fopky;sr~AAAAn.M% 'kkfLr iztk% lokZ n.M ,okfHkj{kfr An.M% lqIrs"kqtkxk n.Ma/efonqcqZ/k% AAAArL;kgq% lEiz.ksrkjajktkualR;okfnue~Aleh{;dkfj.kaizkKa/eZdkekFkZdksfone~AAAA euqAAvFkZtks /eZgh ls inkFkksdk lp; djuk gS] ogh lc

    ifo=krkvksaesamke ifo=krk] vFkkZr~ tks vU;k; ls fdlh inkFkZdkxzg.k ughadjrk] ogh ifo=k gS A fdUrqty&e`fkdkfn ls tks ifo=krkgksrh gS] og /eZosQ ln`'k mke ughagS AAAA

    fo}ku~yksx {kek ls] nq"VdeZdkjh lRlXvkSj fo|kfn 'kqHk xq.kksaosQ nku ls] xqIr iki djusgkjs fopkj ls R;kx dj vkSj czp;ZrFkklR;Hkk"k.kkfn ls osnfor~mke fo}ku~ 'kq gksrs gSaAAAA

    fdUrqty ls mQij osQ vXifo=k gksrs gSa] vkRek vkSj eu ughaAeu rks lR; ekuus] lR; cksyus vkSj lR; djus ls 'kq vkSj thokRekfo|k ;ksxkH;kl vkSj /ekZpj.k gh ls ifo=k rFkk cqf Kku ls gh'kq gksrh gS] ty e`fkdkfn ls ughaAAAA

    x`gLFk yksx NksVksa cM+ksaok jktdk;ksosQ fl djus esade ls de n'k vFkkZr~XosnK] ;tqosZnK] lkeosnK] gSrqd (uS;kf;d)]roZQdkkZ] uS#Dr (fu#Dr'kkL=kK)] /ekZ;kid] czpkjh] LukrdvkSj okuizLFk fo}kuksa] vFkok vfrU;wurk djs rks rhu osnfor~(XosnK]

    ;tqosZnK vkSj lkeosnK) fo}kuksadh lHkk ls dkZO;kdkZO; /eZvkSjv/eZdk tSlk fu'p; gks] oSlk gh vkpj.k fd;k djsaAAAA

    vkSj tSlk fo}ku~yksx n.M gh dks /eZtkurs gSa] oSlk lc yksxtkusa] D;ksafd n.M gh iztk dk 'kklu vFkkZr~fu;e esaj[kus okyk] n.Mgh lc dk lc vksj ls j{kd vkSj n.M gh lksrs gqvksaesatkxrk gS Apksjkfn nq"V Hkh n.M gh osQ Hk; ls ikideZughadj ldrs AAAA

    ml n.M dks vPNs izdkj pykusgkjs ml jktk dks dgrs gSafdtks lR;oknh] fopkj djosQ gh dk;Zdk dkkZ] cqfeku~] fo}ku~]/eZ] dke vkSj vFkZdk ;Fkkor~ tkuusgkjk gks AAAA

    lkslgk;su ew

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    'kqfpuk lR;lU/su ;Fkk'kkL=kkuqlkfj.kk Aiz.ksrqa 'kD;rs n.M% lqlgk;su /herk AAAAvn.MkUn.M;u~jktk n.Mka'pSokI;n.M;u~Av;'kks egn~vkIuksfr ujoaQ pSo xPNfr AAAAvFkZtks jktk mke lgk;jfgr] ew

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    D;ksafd yksHk gh ls iwoksZDr vBkjg vkSj vU; nks"k Hkh cgqr lsgksrs gSaA blfy, gs x`gLFk yksxks ! pkgs og jktk dk T;s"B iq=k D;ksau gks] ijUrq,sls nks"kokys euq"; dks jktk dHkh u djuk A ;fn Hkwyls gqvk gks rks ml dks jkT; ls P;qr djosQ fdlh ;ksX; iq#"k dks]tks fd jktk osQ oqQy dk gks] jkT;kf/dkjh djuk] rHkh iztk esavkuUn&eXy lnk c

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    rFkk jktkfn jktiq#"k vyC/ jkT; dh izkfIr dh bPNk n.M ls]vkSj izkIr jkT; dh j{kk laHkky ls] jf{kr jkT; vkSj /u dks O;kikjvkSj C;kt ls c

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    Hkxiz.ksfirHkZx lR;fijk/ks Hkxseka f/;eqnfiok nnfiUu% AHkx iz .kksfi tu; xksfHkj'oSHkZx iz u`fHkfiu`ZoUrfi% L;ke AAAA

    mrsnkuha HkxfioUr% L;keksr izfifIkRo mr e;s vkfie~ Amrksfnfirk e?koURlwfikZL; o;ansokuakfi lqerkS L;kfie AAAAHkxfi ,o HkxfiokvLrq nsokLrsufi o;aHkxfioUr% L;ke A

    raRokfi Hkx loZ bTtksfigohfRk l uksfi Hkx iqj,rk Hkfiosg AAAA ea A lw AA

    bl izdkj ijes'oj dh izkFkZuk mikluk djuh AA(fpr~) Hkh (Hk{khfr) bl izdkj lsou djrk gwa] vkSj blh izdkj Hkxoku~

    ijes'oj lc dks (vkg) mins'k djrk gS fd rqe] tks eSa lw;kZfn txr~dk cukus vkSj /kj.k djusgkjk gwa] mlesjh mikluk fd;k djks] vkSj esjhvkKk esapyk djks] bl ls (o;e~) ge yksx ml dh (gqose) Lrqfr djrs

    gSa AAAA- gs (Hkx) Hktuh;Lo:i] (iz.ksr%) lc osQ mRiknd] lR;kpkj esa izsjd]

    (Hkx) ,s'o;Zizn (lR;jk/%) lR; /u dks nsusgkjs] (Hkx) lR;kpj.kdjusgkjksa dks ,s'o;Znkrk vki ijes'oj ! (u%) ge dks (beke~) bl(f/;e~) izKk dks (nnr~) nhft;s] vkSj ml osQ nku ls gekjh (mno)

    j{kk dhft;s A gs (Hkx) vki (xksfHk%) xk; vkfn vkSj (v'oS%) ?kksM+s

    vkfn mke i'kqvksa osQ ;ksx ls jkT;Jh dks (u%) gekjs fy;s (iztu;)izdV dhft;s] gs (Hkx) vki dh ik ls ge yksx (ufHk%) mke euq";ksals (uoUr%) cgqr ohj euq";okys (iz L;ke) vPNs izdkj gksosa AAAA

    - gs Hkxou~ ! vki dh ik (mr) vkSj vius iq#"kkFkZ ls ge yksx (bnkuhe~)blh le; (izfiRos) izd"kZrkmkerk dh izkfIr esa (mr) vkSj (vke~)bu fnuksa osQ (e;s) e; esa (HkxoUr%) ,s'o;Z;qDr vkSj 'kfDreku~(L;ke) gksosa] (mr) vkSj gs (e?kou~) ijeiwftr vla[; /u nsusgkjs !(lw;ZL;) lw;Zyksd osQ (mfnrk) mn; esa (nsokuke~) iw.kZfo}ku~/kedvkIr yksxksadh (lqerkS) vPNh mke izKk (mr) vkSj lqefr esa(o;e~)

    ge yksx (L;ke) lnk izo`k jgsaAAAA- gs (Hkx) ldyS'o;ZlEiUu txnh'oj ! ftl ls (re~) ml (Rok) vki

    dh (loZ%) lc lTtu (bTtksgohfr) fu'p; djosQ iz'kalk djrs gSa] (l%)

    lks vki gs (Hkx) ,s'o;Zizn ! (bg) bl lalkj vkSj (u%) gekjs xgkJeesa (iqj ,rk) vxzxkeh vkSj vkxs&vkxs lR;deksesa c

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    rRi'pkr~'kkSp] nUr/kou] eq[kiz{kkyu djosQ Luku djsaA i'pkr~,d dks'k ok Ms

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    vksackgqH;ka;'kkscye~AA bl ls nksuksaHkqtkvksaosQ ewy LdU/]vkSj

    vksadjrydji"Bs AA bl ls nksuksagkFkksaosQ mQij&rys Li'kZdjosQ] ektZu djs

    vksaHkw% iqukrqf'kjfl AA bl eU=k ls f'kj ij AvksaHkqo% iqukrqus=k;ks% AA bl eU=k ls nksuksaus=kksa ij AvksaLo% iqukrqd.Bs AA bl eU=k ls d.B ij Avksaeg% iqukrqn;s AA bl eU=k ls n; ij A

    vksatu% iqukrqukH;ke~AA bl ls ukfHk ij Avksari% iqukrqikn;ks% AA bl ls nksuksaixksa ij AvksalR;aiqukrqiqu% f'kjflAAbl ls iqu% eLrd ij Avksa[kacz iqukrqloZ=k AA bl eU=k ls lc vXksaij NhaVk nsosA

    iqu% iwoksZDr jhfr ls izk.kk;ke dh f;k djrk tkos] vkSj uhpsfy[ks eU=k dk ti Hkh djrk tk;

    vksaHkw%A vksaHkqo%A vksaLo%A vksaeg%A vksatu%A vksari%AvksalR;e~AA

    blh jhfr ls de ls de rhu vkSj vf/d ls vf/d bDdhl izk.kk;ke djs A

    rRi'pkr~l`f"VdkkZijekRek vkSj lf"Ve dk fopkj uhpsfyf[kr eU=kksals djs vkSj txnh'oj dks loZO;kid U;k;dkjh loZ=kloZnk lc thoksads deks osQ nz"Vk dks fuf'pr ekuosQ iki dh vksjvius vkRek vkSj eu dks dHkh u tkus nsos] fdUrqlnk /eZ;qDr deks

    esaorZeku jD[ksvkse~rpfi lR;pkHkhfikkilks;fitk;r A

    rrks jk=;fitk;r rrfi% leqks vfi.kZo% AAAAleqknfi.kZoknf/fi laoRljks vfitk;r Avgksjk=kkf.fik fOkn/f}'ofiL; fe"krks o'kh AAAA

    lw;kZpUelkSfi /krk ;fiFkkiwoZefidYi;r~ AfnOakfi p i`fFkohpkUrfjfi{keFkks Lofi% AAAA

    ea A lw AAbu eU=kksadks i

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    izkFkZuk djsvksaizkph fnxfXujffikifrjfLkrks jfif{krkfnR;k b"kfio%A rsH;ks

    ueksf/fiifrH;ks ueksfi jf{krH;ks ue b"kqfiH;ks uefi ,H;ks vLrqA;ksfiLeku~}sf"V ;ao;af}"eLraoks tEHksfi ne% AAAA

    nf{fik.kk fnfxUksffikifRkfLrjfif'pjkth jf{krk fIkrj b"kfio%ArsH;ks ueksffikifrH;ks ueksfi jf{krH;ks ue b"kqfiH;ks uefi ,H;ks vLrqA;ksfiLeku~}sf"V ;ao;af}"eLraoks tEHksfi ne% AAAA

    izrhph fnXo#.kksffikifRk% i`nkfiowQ jf{

    krkUufe"kfio% A rsH;ksueksffikifrH;ks ueksfi jf{krH;ks ue b"kqfiH;ks uefi ,H;ks vLrqA;ksfiLeku~}sf"V ;ao;af}"eLraoks tEHksfi ne% AAAA

    mnhfiph fno~Q lkseksffikifr% Lotks jfif{krk'kfUkfj"kfio%A rsH;ksueksffikifrH;ks ueksfi jf{krH;ks ue b"kqfiH;ks uefi ,H;ks vLrqA;ksfiLeku~}sf"V ;ao;af}"eLraoks tEHksfi ne% AAAA

    /zqok fnfXo".kqjffikifr% dYek"kfixzhoks jf{krk oh#/ b"kfio%ArsH;ks ueksffikifrH;ks ueksfi jf{krH;ks ue b"kqfiH;ks uefi ,H;ksvLrqA ;ksfiLeku~}sf"V ;ao;af}"eLraoks tEHksfi ne% AAAA

    mQokZ fnXc`gLifRkjffikifr% f'

    Ok=kks jfif{

    krk o"kZfe"kfio%A rsH;ksueksffikifrH;ks ueksfi jf{krH;ks ue b"kqfiH;ks uefi ,H;ks vLrqA;ksfiLeku~}sf"V ;ao;af}"eLraoks tEHksfi ne% AAAA

    vFkoZ dk A lw A ea & AAbu eU=kksa dks i

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    mnq R;atkrosfinlansoaofigfUr osQrofi%An`'ks fo'okfi; lwfikZe~AAAA ;tq% v A eU=k AAm};arefilLifj Lo% i';fiUr mkfije~Ansoa nsfio=kk lw;ZexfiUe T;ksfrfi#kee~ AAAA

    ;tq% v A eU=k AA

    rPp{kqfinsZofgfiraiqjLrkfiPNqeqPpfijr~A i';sfie 'kjnfi% 'krathosfie'kjnfi% 'kr 'k`.kqfi;ke 'kjnfi% 'kraizczfioke 'kjnfi% 'krenhfiuk% L;ke

    'kjnfi% 'krEHkw;fi'p 'kjnfi% 'krkr~AAAA ;tq% v A ea AAbu eU=kksals ijekRek dk miLFkku djds] iqu% ('kUuks nsoh)bl ls rhu vkpeu djosQ] i`"B& esafy[ks izek.ks]vFkokipegk;Kfof/ esafy[ks izek.ksxk;=kheU=k dk vFkZ&fopkjiwoZdijekRek dh LrqfrizkFkZuksikluk djs A iqu%

    ^^gs ijes'oj n;kfu/s ! vkidh ik ls tiksiklukfn deksdksdjosQ ge /eZ] vFkZ] dke vkSj eks{k dh flf dks 'kh?kz izkIr gksosaA**iqu%

    vksauefi% 'kEHkok;fi p e;ksHkok;fi p uefi% 'kVjk;fi pe;Ldjk;fi p uefi% f'kok;fi p f'korfijk; p AA

    ;tq% v A ea AAbl ls ijekRek dks ueLdkj djosQ]('kUuks nsoh) bl eU=k

    ls rhu vkpeu djosQ vfXugks=k dk vkjEHk djs AAbfr la{ksir% lU;ksiklufof/% lekIr% AAAA

    vFkkfXugks=ke~tSls lk;a izkr% nksuksalfU/osykvksaesalU;ksiklu djsa] blh izdkj

    nksuksaL=kh&iq#"k vfXugks=k Hkh nksuksale; esafuR; fd;k djsaA i`"B esa fy[ks izek.ksvXU;k/ku lfenk/ku]vkSj i`"B esafy[ks

    izek.ks(vkse~vfnrsuqeU;Lo) bR;kfn pkj eU=kksals ;Fkkfof/