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Safe Online Talk 7 th Grade September 27, 2011 Objectives: Students will: Describe positive aspects of online talking and messaging. Identify situations in which flirting and inappropriate talk is risky. Learn about online predators and how they gain kids’ trust. Understand rules for safe online talk and messaging

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Page 1: Safe Online Talk 7 th Grade September 27, 2011 Objectives: Students will: Describe positive aspects of online talking and messaging. Identify situations

Safe Online Talk7th Grade

September 27, 2011

Objectives:Students will:•Describe positive aspects of online talking and messaging.•Identify situations in which flirting and inappropriate talk is risky.•Learn about online predators and how they gain kids’ trust.•Understand rules for safe online talk and messaging and feel empowered to deal with online predators.

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Key Vocabulary•Inappropriate: Not proper; not okay

•Risky: Possibly dangerous

•Online Predator: An adult who stalks kids or teens on the Internet, and tries to draw them into inappropriate talk or actions

•Warning Signs: Signs that warn drivers of dangers on the road; or anything that warns you of danger ahead

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Introduction•How would you handle it if someone

walked up to you on the street and starting making crude or sexual comments?▫Walk away▫Get help if they feel threatened

•How would you handle it if someone tried to flirt with you on the street.▫Depends on whether or not they know the

person▫Depends on the age of the person

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Key Vocabulary: inappropriate and risky.• Flirting is normal among middle school kids. When it is

done face to face, it might feel comfortable. But it can quickly become uncomfortable online, even when it’s with kids you know. That’s because kids sometimes say things online to one another that they might not say if they were face to face. If it feels uncomfortable, they should ignore the comments or tell a friend or adult they trust about it.

• When you talk online with people they don’t know in person, flirting and other sexual talk is risky behavior. For one thing, the people they are talking with online might not be who they think they are. They might be grownups. If the person they’re communicating with online says anything inappropriate, and that person is older than they are, students should stop talking right away, and tell a parent, teacher, or other trusted adult.

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Part 1: Warning Signs• Online predators will do a lot of different things

to win your trust. These things are warning signs you need to be aware of:▫Pretend to be your age and pretend to have similar

interests▫Roam around sites that a lot of kids use▫Encourage you to talk about anything you want▫Deny their real identities▫Ask you to keep the friendship secret▫Try to get you to give them personal information▫Object if you want to tell someone else about your

relationship▫Request personal information from you▫Send pictures, and ask you to do the same

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Kaylee and Jason’s Stories

We will now read stories of two children who met people online who made them feel uncomfortable. They have to decide if these people might be online predators. To do that, they need to recognize the warning signs.

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Kaylee’s StoryKaylee is 12. She’s on a website talking about her favorite hip-hop artists. Someone with the screen name KoolDave really seems to know his music.

After a while, the talk turns from music to other topics. Kaylee and KoolDave begin to flirt.

KoolDave says, “What do you look like?”

“I’m cute,” replies Kaylee.

“Well, what color is your hair?” KoolDave responds.

Kaylee answers, “Light brown. I wear it in a ponytail with longish bangs.”

A few minutes later, KoolDave asks, “Send me a pic of you.”

Kaylee begins to feel uncomfortable.

Soon KoolDave says, “I’ve got to go. My old college roommate just arrived.”

Kaylee gets a sick feeling in her stomach.

Page 8: Safe Online Talk 7 th Grade September 27, 2011 Objectives: Students will: Describe positive aspects of online talking and messaging. Identify situations

• What made Kaylee feel uncomfortable?▫Sample answers:

It was right for Kaylee to feel uncomfortable when someone asked her to send sexual messages over the Internet. Sexual talk with people you know only online is risky behavior. (Flirting with people you do not know offline is also risky, because it might encourage the person to pursue an offline sexual relationship.)

Also, Kaylee might have assumed KoolDave was her age because he likes the same music that she does. When she realized he was an adult, she felt uncomfortable. Flirting and sexual activity – even online – between adults and young people is inappropriate. Adults who target kids for this kind of communication are considered online predators.

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•What made Kaylee feel safe?▫Sample answers:

Kaylee needs to sign off immediately and block any further contact with KoolDave. In the future, she should be aware that adults use this site and others like it, and she should be careful. She should confine her talk to music, and not reveal any personal information.

Kaylee should also discuss her experience with a trusted adult.

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Jason’s StoryJason is 13. He enjoys playing a multiplayer online role-playing game. The game involves players from all over the world. While playing, he sometimes messages other players, usually swapping game strategies.

Jason frequently runs into one particular player, whom he recognizes by his character. The player offers to send Jason a book about gaming tips through the mail, but asks him not to tell his parents. Jason wonders if he should give his address.

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• Is it okay for Jason to give his address? At what point should alarm bells go off in Jason’s head?▫Sample answers:

Jason should not give out his offline address to someone he only knows online.

Like all kids who talk online, Jason should stay alert for people who steer talk and messages toward inappropriate topics or behave in any way that feels strange. Even though Jason has only talked with this person about playing the game, a big alarm bell should go off when the person asked him not to tell his parents.

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•What are some ways Jason might respond to stay safe?▫Sample answers:

Jason should stop communicating with the person who asked for his address. If he’s careful, Jason can continue playing the game, but he should avoid messaging with anyone he doesn’t know offline.

Jason may also want to tell his parents or a trusted adult about his experience.

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Part 2: Internet Traffic LightInternet Safety Rules• Only do private messaging with family and

friends.• Be careful when flirting, and never flirt or talk

about sex with people you don’t know in person.• Don’t answer questions online that make you

feel uncomfortable.• Don’t give out your private information (names,

home address, school name, phone number, etc.) on the Internet.

• If something inappropriate happens, tell a grownup immediately.

• Never plan a face-to-face meeting with someone you met online without taking a trusted adult along.

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Internet Traffic LightGreen Coast is clear (but look both ways!)• You feel safe and enjoy interacting with this stranger

online and your family is okay with it. You also remember that all conversations with strangers can take unexpected turns, so you’re prepared to put on the brakes if you need to. You have not provided any personal/private information.

Yellow Slow down, be cautious—and be prepared to stop.

• Something about this conversation makes you feel uncomfortable. You’re alert for any signs of inappropriate or suspicious behavior.

Red Stop! Too dangerous to proceed.• The person you are talking to is clearly acting

inappropriately, and the conversation needs to end. You may want to discuss your experience with a trusted adult. If sex has been mentioned, tell an adult immediately.

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Group Work:

•With your group, read each story and decide if it’s a green, yellow, or red situation.

•Write down why your group made the choice you did.

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Abby’s StoryAbby is 14. Yesterday was her friend Ivan’s bar

mitzvah, and Abby chatted with some of his relatives at

the party. Today, Abby logs on to the social networking site MyFace and sees a friend request from Ivan’s

uncle. She doesn’t know him very well, but they did chat a little bit at the dessert buffet about school.

What light do you think Abby should choose in this situation? Explain your choice.

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Vince’s StoryVince is 12 and loves playing EscapeGo – a

fantasy combat MMORPG (massive multiplayer online role-playing game). When he first started playing, another avatar was nice to him and helped him learn the ways of the game. Since then they’ve been good friends online, completing quests together and protecting each other during combat. Once, one of their teammates asked them how old they were during a quest. “Enough small talk, dude. Nobody cares, just play the game,” Vince’s friend said in response.

What light do you think Vince should choose in this situation? Explain your choice.

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Catherine’s Story, Part 1Catherine, who is 15, logs onto a chat room for teenagers. Her screen name is CathyKisses15. A guy called MikeyMike99 said hi to her a few days ago, and they’ve talked every day since. He’s really easy to chatwith, and she likes venting to him about things that annoy her at school and at home. She hasn’t told himanything too personal yet. “I luv that we can talk openly 2gether,” MikeyMike99 says.

What light do you think Catherine should choose in this situation? Explain your choice.

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Catherine’s Story, Part 2Catherine is back online with MikeyMike99, and they’ve been talking for about a week now. He’s starting to flirt with her, and she’s flattered because he seems pretty mature. After all, Catherine’s not really into any of the guys at her school, so she likes flirting with Mike online. She’s pretty good at it too. And yeah, he said something that might have been kind of sexual once or twice. Today he writes, “Can I show u a pic?” Before she types a response, he says again: “Keep this private ok? I like u, Cat. I hope u like me 2.”

Now what light do you think Catherine should choose? Explain your choice.

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Final Thoughts:

•In what online situations should your alarm bells go off to tell you that you may be at risk?

•What are some rules for staying safe when talking and messaging online?

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Video Link•Teachers: if you have time, here’s a video

about a girl who ran away with a man she met online.

•http://www.netsmartz.org/RealLifeStories/JuliesJourney