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  • Introduction to Basic RelationshipsDefinitionsConceptsPerspectivesQ/A - HomeworkName is witheld by RequestSoc.Psy.222September 11th, 2001Social Psychology 222

    KEY WORDS: Unequally yoked, equally yoked, lifestyle, introduction to social-psychology, civil identity, violation of social mores, deviancy, deviancies, social mores, equallyoked, equallyokedtarian, equallyokedtariaism, dyadic psychology, sociology 101, marriage, family, and child psychology, sociocultural anthropology, human ecology.

  • Hook UpCultural/CasualA specific time when two people meet to join in together- for a mutual event, or, Two individuals from diverse backgrounds form a cheap/easy intimate relationship, or...An epiphany moment-a time-when a certain couple are shaking hands and discover that they are equallyoked. - Slang Dictionary/Urban Words

  • Morality a valuable personal code, based on..a set of spiritual values, that....affects attitudes, motives, and there for....effecting an individuals trademans skills, appropriateness of behavioral patterns, and the upholding ethical and legal societal standards.

    - Word Meanings / Philosophy

  • Positive RegardAlso, unconditional positive regardMeans: a complete acceptance, love, favor towards an individual especially those who are equallyoked, also... parents who devotedly and deliberately indoctrinate their children with a clear sense of civil identity in a multicultural society with respect for the childs future.

    - Word Meanings / Psychology

  • Soul-matesA couple who experience their very first sexual encounter together and their baby is born out of that union are Soul-mates1 and,....a couple who bond with each other, falls deeply in love and is the happiest they have ever been with each other are Soul-mates2 and,..a couple who are married and truly equallyoked are Soul-mates., i.e., of the same or very similar civil-identities. 3- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

  • EndogamyEndogamy means, In-marriage and is when an individual according to his/or her own social customs1(Comment: this maybe more like community health - a social mores - or an actual religious law). .marries another individual within his or her own cultural2 Social group*.*Note; a Social group may be a village, a tribe, a sect or cult, a geographic region, or a de facto Civil identity, etc. - Sociocultural Anthropology

  • IntimacyLatin: Intimus, innermostThe process of ..stating or making known ones innermost thoughts, moral values, and feelings.sharing something from the inside Genuine intimacy in human relationships requires dialogue, honesty/transparency, vulnerability, and mutual reciprocity.

    - Word Meanings / Philosophy

  • EquallyokedEquallyoked, (is pronounced, Eek quel ee yoakd) and is when a couple-who believe in, bonds with, and marries one other purposefully of the same (or nearly the same) Civil identity* thus are multi-cultural society, equallyoked1.

    * Civil identity is a Social Psychology term -describing a collective of features concerning an individuals present ethnicity, political party membership, race and color, religious membership, disability/handicap, age group/ generation, sexual orientation and marital status.2

    - Introduction to Social Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child PsychologyAlso, equally yoked

  • Civil IdentityEthnicity: Scandinavian Political Party: LibertarianRace: Anglo Color: Light complexionReligion: Fundamental ChristianDisability: None KnownGender: Male Sexual Orientation: HeterosexualMarital Status: Single/1st Marriage Annulled

    Couples who share: the same (or very similar) civil identities, beliefs, bonding, marriage - living in a multicultural society are considered to be equallyoked.1 - Introduction to Social PsychologyAn Example:

  • EquallyokedThe term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally yoked)

    an adverb:Equally - means alike 1, in a balanced manner, the same or to the same degree of, etc

    an verb:Yoked - means (Latin; jungere to join) 2, something fastened around the neck to join together, burdened with.

    in history:Evolved from synonyms, with meanings, such as: Equitably, Fairly, Justly3Sentence: They were an equally yoked couple from families of just ordinary means.

    - Word Meanings - Etymology(equally yoked)

  • Life PartnerA Life Partner refers to a lifetime, romantic and very close mate. A couple who are true life partners are equallyoked.1 It is true that life partners usually develop strong platonic relationships as a mutual serious long term goal together.2 Life partners may based their relationship on moral/or immoral grounds whether married/ monogamously or can be individuals such as divorcees/celibate.3

    - Introduction to Social Psychology

  • Sharing ofVision & Mission in life.1

    Activities of Daily Living & Routine.2

    Reflection of meaning of life & Devotion to duty.3

    God, Religious Beliefs & Spiritual Values.4

    Family life & Friendships.5

    Good Health & Preferred Enjoyments.6

    - Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies

  • ..a Social PhenomenaA couple (usually a heterosexual dyadic) who are of very similar or the same Civil identity 1Any couples who are bonded together and who are of the same or very similar Civil identities2

    A marital couple who marries-with their backgrounds related to their Civil identities. 3- Sociology 101:Social Phenomenology- Introduction to Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

  • Un-equally YokedInequitable -

    Unjust, an injustice.Iniquious -

    Unrighteous, a sin.Inequality -

    Unfair, imbalanced.1- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal StudiesII Corinthinans 6:14-18

  • Multi-cultural StatisticsCaucasians (European) - Marrying amongst those who were from their own tribes, social culture, and nation.1Negrozoids (Africa)- Marrying amongst the same in their own areas.2South Americans (Indians)- Intermarrying within their own peoples.3Oriental (Asians)- Couples mates were often chosen by their own parents from own family lineage.4- Sociology 101

  • EquallyokedThe term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally yoked) probable came about from the Bible wherein Jews marrying Jews, Muslims marrying Muslims, Christians marrying Christians, etc, etc, etc.1

    It is a phenomena that exists in all multicultural societies-peoples of the same de facto Civil identity' marrying one another for reasons of self-esteem, religious beliefs, and preserving the integrity of their family identity-for abiding in social mores (contributing to) community health.2

    - Word Origins/Philosophy(equally yoked)- Sociology 101

  • Dyadic: Social PsychologyEquallyokedtarians are of interest to social psychologists because they represent dyadic groups of the same Civil identity.1 Couples who primarily choose to bond and marry together because they are the same or very similar Civil identities, among other reasons, may contribute to marital longevity-staying together for a lifetime as * evidenced.2The measured self esteem of individuals of a marital couple who marry with backgrounds related to their own Civil identities are worthy of marital satisfaction studies as well.3 - Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

  • BoundariesI will not wait for anyone.1I will halt unequal relationships.2 I will not idealize others.3

    I will conduct my life by inspired truth.4

    I will assert against any disrespect.5

    I will abide in social ethics and laws. 6

    - Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal StudiesAlpha & Omega

  • Social PerspectivesEquallyokedtarians are those people-who are equallyoked yet having varying points of views* about marriage:1

    * Liberals: a couple marrying one another while sharing in vague beliefs, i.e., explained as the same spirit or attitude about some issue.* Moderates: marrying one another r/t very similar civil identities-close enough for them.* Conservatives: marriage between two people who share the same or fairly equal Civil identities. 2

    - Introduction to Social Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

  • Coupling up.Nonequallyoked

    Couples who do recognize equallyokedtarianism as a social mores and yet for their own ulterior motives still choose to violate social mores as an rash option.1 Unequallyoked

    Couples who are nave, thus inadvertently demonstrate opposition to equallyokedtarianism-as a social mores.2Anti-equallyoked

    Couples who are a bit mentally/emotionally disturbed and are deliberately active against proper socialization, contrary to equallyokedtarianism and social mores,3 - Introduction to Social Psychologyin a hook up culture

  • Love is a..a conscious, meaningful, and focused attention towards a special mate1 and, ..a person toward whom love is shared; a dearly beloved; an equallyoked help meet, a heterosexual love mate2 and,..a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection for, as for a sweetheart, or as for a spouse.3 - Word Meanings / Philosophy

  • Why Equallyoked?Motives - a couple who are equallyoked may do so for a variety of reasons-some of which include:

    Beliefs about life, self-image, truth and God, death, etc. Bonding for long term love, romance, and sex. Marriage, family/children, and financial goals.1Self esteem individuals with a clear sense of self-marrying someone of a like civil identity.2Family identity to maintain the integrity and the longevity of the extended family identity.3Social mores a preserved cultural standard in a multicultural society for the sake of community health.4

    - Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

  • EquallyokedtariansPronunciation: Eek quel ee yoakd tar ee ins 1. Definition: - are any individ