relationship counselling by dr rupa talukdar,
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DR RUPA TALUKDAR
Relationship Counselling :
When Relationship Is In Crisis
Irritation, throwing bad words at each other, shouting at
Mal communication Lack of
understanding Too much
relationships between the TWO
Temperament dissimilarity
Feeling of insecurity Strong past
attachment
Signs & Symptoms
Lack of enjoyment of togetherness No charming effect between the two-in-relationship No emotional words in close moments for a long time Irritation, dishonesty at slightest chance Specially no frankness, always speculative No sharing, one partner is always under pressure Intolerance increases day by day, rigid mindset of one
partner No compromise/one sided compromise: deprivation feelings Scarcity of finding alternatives way of solution of any
disagreement
TIME FOR INTERVENTION OF RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR
Sit before her/him Singly first to venting off grudge –both the
partners Finding the cause of intolerances and conflicts Understanding the way out Counseling starts with both the partners
sitting together Counsellor has the role to sort out the
conflicting zones and find the probable way out with both the partners’ agreement
ROLE OF RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR
Helping couple in relationship the practical way of living together Finding the cause of conflict Making both the partner to understand “What is reality?” Priority of living together To be respectful to each other Distribution of partnership Advising first helping self which is also helping partner Role of each partner in relationship Need of enjoyment consciously which will enrich
relationship for the future: there is need of having good memory: it will rejuvenate mind for the long run: reflected sweet memory of togetherness is very useful in maintaining relationship
MY OTHER ACTIVITIES AS COUNSELLOR