positive thinking final
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Brahma Kumaris
Positive Thinking
ü You are responsible for your own thoughts, feelings and behaviour
ü You create your experiences by the thoughtsyou choose to think
ü Thoughts are like seeds you plant in your mind.The more you hold on to a particular thought,the more power you invest in it.
ü Frequent repetition of the same type of thoughts createsyour believes and attitudes
ü What you believe comes true for you
ü It takes time to change old patterns of thinking.Be patient with yourself
Effects of Thoughts
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FUNCTIONAL THOUGHTS : Work, Career, Routine etc.,
WASTE THOUGHTS : Past, Future, Worrying , Brooding etc.,
NEGATIVE THOUGHTS : Anger, Stress, Egoism, Criticism etc.,
POSITIVE THOUGHTS : Hope, Love, Joy, Mercy, Peace etc.,
Types of Thoughts
Ourse
lves
Situation
OtherPeople
‘Eliminate the negative,
Accentuate the positive,
Act immediately on functional
and clean up the waste’
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Developing Thought Pattern
THOUGHTS
+Rational, Resonable
- Irrational, Unreasonable
+ Calm , Confident
- Panic, Fear
+ Approriate, Creative
- Inept, Inapproriate
+ Good, Productive, High achieving
- Poor, Unproductive, Non achieving
BEHAVIOUR
FEELINGS
PERFORMANCE
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Step back - observe thinking pattern( without Judgement)
Accept - whatever you see( Without criticism)
Decide - to transform the the cycle(Recognize & shoulderresponsibility)
Setup a positive cycle - to replace the old one
Steps to change cycle of Thinking
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External Influences on Thoughts-I
Dependency
Influence
Loss of Self RespectLoss of Sense of Choice
Negative Emotions
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Influence Steps of Self Esteem Roots of Low Self-Esteem
Environment Self - Identity Adopted beliefs
Possessions Self - Appreciation Adopted Perceptions
People Self - Approval Comparison
Self - Worth Criticism or Praise
Self - Respect Devaluation or Valuation
Self - Acceptance Disempowerment
Self - Belief
External Influences on Thoughts-II
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BE CONSCIOUS : of what we do and say
OBSERVE : my reactions, feelings,what provokes them
RECOVERY : It�s OK to fail, Don�t blame yourselfif you do act negatively, use it to learn,allow yourself time to recover, meditate
ACCEPTANCE : without this positive thinking is difficult
Principles & Practices for Positive Thinking - I
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TIME : You are important � give yourselftime to restore your self-respect
OTHERS EXPECTATIONS : If you allow others to define usWe lose our freedomIf we feel we have to meetothers expectations�We absorb their disappointmentand blame ourselves
PERSONAL MASTERY : allow myself to take control overmy life again and rebuildself-Esteem
MEDITATION : Give myself time everyday torestore energy to my beinginstead of always doing
Principles & Practices for Positive Thinking - II
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‘I’ of the Storm
Self
EnvironmentSociety
RelationshipBody
Mind
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Effect of Self image on ThoughtsI know I am
a valuable person
No matter whathappens. I�m OK.
The world offers meopportunities.
I want to make themost of everything
and help othersdo the same.
Positive
Identity / Self Image
Perception / viewof life
Thoughts
I�m not sure of myself .My self respect is
based on things I haveand things I do.
I�m at the mercy ofthings which happenaround me. My self
respect is taken awayeasily.
I have to protectmyself by being
defensive.
Negative
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Mind
Raw material of the mind is thoughtA creator of clear communication & High Quality Decisions
When working well When working bad
The source of the sustainer of
ideas, hopelessness
Inspiration & Depression &
Innovation Fear
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X Don�t respond or react verbally or physically instantly
X Check your Perception and assumptions, are they valid?
X Are your negative experiences and memories beingtriggered?
X Is your emotional response overloaded with the pastand present?
X Play the listening and grunting game
X Make a positive exit by reassuring response inthe near future
Tips to Free from Emotional Situation
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Importance of ThoughtsDestiny
RelationshipsBody Atmosphere
Personality / Character
Word / Actions
Attitudes
Feelings
Thoughts
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SUBJECTIVE : Anxiety, threat, low esteem,Depression, Guilty, Loneliness
COGNATIVE : Lack of Concentration, Mental block,Forgetfulness
BEHAVIOUR : Drug addiction, Prone to accident,excessive eating, restlessness
PSYCHOSOMATIC : CV diseases, Hypertension, Asthma,Peptic ulcer
NEUROTIC : Head ache, nervousness, Insomania
Effect of Thoughts on Health
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Intellect ( Musculine) Feelings ( Feminine)
Left side Right side
Logical Silent
Flexible Caring
Self-confident Tolerant
Courageous Hopeful
Verbal Enduring
Creative Inspiring
Analysis Imagination
Sequential Thinking Holistic Thinking
Feminine & Musculine ways of thinking
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Feelings of Hopelessness
Lack of Enthusiasm
No motivation
Loss of self-esteem
Prisoner of Your own creation
Effects of Negative Thinking
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Visualisation
Meditation
Methods to change Thinking
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Identity
Values
Perception
Memories
Thought Pattern
Internal Aspects influence our thinking
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Identity
Perception
Thoughts
Action
Response
Belief
Cycle of Identity
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MAKE TIME - To Actually meditate
PREPARE YOURSELF - Mentally and Physically
WITHDRAW - Your attention fromoutwards
AFFIRM - Your true identity
BE AWARE - of your innate qualities
FOCUS AND CONCENTRATE - feel on those qualities &Those qualities becomeyour experience.
Meditation Process
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STAND BACK - Separate yourself fromthe influences
OBSERVE - Know thoughts are not as youwould like them to be.
STEER YOUR - Gently begin to create the typeTHOUGHTS of thoughts you wish to think
Remember you have a choice,you are the creator of your own thoughts
Key experience - Practice
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Finding the real self – solid ground
Self
Position Possessions
Relationships image
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ADOPTED BELIEFS & PERCEPTIONShow do I see myself, people and situations.
COMPARISONBy comparing, I am denying my own uniqueness.
CRITICISM OR PRAISEimportance given to opinions and beliefsby others about me.
DEVALUATION OR VALUATIONbased on adopted & acquired beliefs & skills
DIS EMPOWERMENTLack of self appreciation, worth,confidence, respect, belief
Roots of Low – Self Esteem