perfect match by ernest barrett
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Bj|{tke`v C t g c r v D n t t c v v
V`c tke`v ja Ctgcrv Dnttcvv vj dc kfcgvkakcf nr nsv`jt ja
v`kr ujtm `nr dccg nrrctvcf d{ `kh kg nbbjtfngbc ukv` rcbvkjg 55
ngf 50 ja v`c Bj|{tke`v) Fcrkegr ngf \nvcgvr Nbv >;00'
Nii tke`vr tcrctqcf' Gj |ntv ja v`kr |sdikbnvkjg hn{ dc tc|tjfsbcf)
rvjtcf kg n tcvtkcqni r{rvch) jt vtngrhkvvcf kg ng{ ajth jt d{ ng{
hcngr) cicbvtjgkb) hcb`ngkbni) |`jvjbj|{kge) tcbjtfkge) jt
jv`ctukrc) ukv`jsv v`c |tkjt |cthkrrkjg ja v`c |sdikr`ctr'
Ng{ |ctrjg u`j bjhhkvr ng{ sgnsv`jtkzcf nbv kg tcinvkjg vj v`kr
|sdikbnvkjg hn{ dc ikndic vj btkhkgni |tjrcbsvkjg ngf bkqki binkhrajt fnhnecr'
Nii b`ntnbvctr kg v`kr |sdikbnvkjg ntc akbvkvkjsr ngf ng{
tcrchdingbc vj tcni |ctrjgr) ikqkge jt fcnf) kr |stci{ bjkgbkfcgvni 'N BK\ bnvnijesc tcbjtf ajt v`kr vkvic kr
nqnkindic atjh v`c Dtkvkr` Ikdtnt{'
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V`c Ikgbjigr`ktc AcgrD{ Ctgcrv Dnttcvv
Kqc rccg v`c hnekb ja v`c Ujifr)Kvr qniic{r ngf tjiikge `kiir'Gju K hccv v`c acgingfr)
Ukv` kvr unvctun{r ngf ngbkcgv hkiir'Cgficrr akcifr ja bjtg)
Run{kge kg v`c dtcczc atjh v`c gcntd{ bjnrv'
U`nv hjtc bjsif K ukr` ajt)V`ng v`c acgingfr nr h{ `jrv'
Gju) nr v`c rsg rkgmr iju kg v`c ucrvctg rm{)N hkrv{ r`tjsf aniir jct v`c acgr'N dntg jui eikfcr nijge v`c f{mc)
Rvj|r) jqctr v`cg rukavi{ fcrbcgfr)Rujj|kge ajt kvr mkii'
V`c `ctjg) sgaikgb`kge rvngfr)Rcgvt{(ikmc ngf rvkii'Dnvr fntv ngf ructqc kg v`c rsaasrcf ike`v'
Nr v`c acgr ekqc un{)Vj v`c btcnvstcr ja v`c gke`v'
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B`n|vct Jgc
@ctc kr n invc gcur ainr`) v`c gcurtcnfct rnkf r`nt|i{) n rctkjsr
cp|tcrrkjg jg kr anbc nr c tcnf atjh n r`ccv ja |n|ct v`nv `nf
osrv dccg |inbcf kg atjgv ja `kh'
Uc `nqc osrv tcbckqcf n tc|jtv v`nv n {jsge ujhng unr
nvvnbmcf kg n |ntm kg Djrvjg) Ikgbjigr`ktc) u`kic unimkge `jhc
atjh ujtm' @ct nrrnkingv kr niicecf vj `nqc ftneecf `ct kgvj
gcntd{ dsr`cr ngf vj `nqc nvvch|vcf vj tn|c `ct' Vuj hcg)
u`j uctc |nrrkge bijrc d{) `cntf v`c ujhng rbtcnh ngf ucgv
vj `ci|' V`c jaacgfct) u`j kr dcikcqcf vj dc kg `kr invc vucgvkcr)
tng jaa u`cg c rnu v`c vuj hcg n||tjnb` kh' Sgajtvsgnvci{)
`c fkfgv `nge ntjsgf ijge cgjse` ajt v`ch vj ecv n ejjf
fcrbtk|vkjg ja `kh) jukge vj v`c ankikge ike`v'
@c rvj||cf ajt n rcbjgf vj bicnt `kr v`tjnv) v`cg bnttkcf jg
ukv` v`c tchnkgfct ja v`c gcur dsiicvkg'
V`c |jikbc uctc bniicf vj v`c rbcgc) dsv v`c hng fkfgv
icnqc ng{ cqkfcgbc' V`c fkrvtcrrcf {jsge ujhng vjif v`c |jikbc
v`nv r`c bjsifgv ekqc v`ch n fcrbtk|vkjg ja `ct nvvnbmct) nr `c
`nf n rbnta bjqctkge v`c ijuct `nia ja `kr anbc' V`c{ `nqc rvnvcf
v`nv v`c{ `nqc tcnrjg vj dcikcqc `c kr v`c rnhc |ctrjg u`j `nr
tngfjhi{ nvvnbmcf ngf tn|cf rkp jv`ct ujhcg kg v`c ntcn kg v`c
inrv gkgc hjgv`r' V`c{ `nqc hnfc n tc~scrv vj v`c |sdikb)
nrmkge ng{jgc ukv` ng{ kgajthnvkjg ndjsv v`kr ngf v`c jv`ct
nvvnbmr vj bjgvnbv v`ch khhcfknvci{'
V`c aijtkf(ijjmkge gcur(hng |nsrcf ajt n acu rcbjgfr)
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v`cg `ngfcf jqct vj n ejjf(ijjmkge) r`n|ci{ {jsge achnic)
u`j ucgv jg vj tcnf jsv v`c ucnv`ct ajtcbnrv'
Tjg Ftshntf `nf n fcc| atjug jg `kr ajtc`cnf nr `crvtseeicf vj ecv s| atjh `kr rcnv jg v`c bjhajtvndic rcvvcc' @c
tcnb`cf jsv vj rukvb` jaa v`c vcicqkrkjg) v`cg navct aij||kge
dnbm fjug ngf tsddkge `kr ntv`tkvkb mgcc qkejtjsri{) `c icngcf
jqct ngf |kbmcf s| v`c cqcgkge |n|ct atjh u`ctc kv unr i{kge
jg v`c rhnii bjaacc vndic kg atjgv ja `kh'
Kvr ujtt{kge v`nv v`c hng u`jr bjhhkvvkge v`crc nbvr
`nrgv dccg bnse`v {cv) `c hshdicf `nia vj `khrcia' @c
nfosrvcf `kr v`kbm) unth |siijqct v`nv Hnt{) `kr ukac) `nfmgkvvcf ajt `kh) v`cg `c rcvvicf dnbm jg v`c rcvvcc ngf hnfc
`khrcia bjhajtvndic' Vnmkge `kr tcnfkge einrrcr jsv ja v`c bnrc)
`c |sv v`ch jg dcajtc sgajifkge `kr cqcgkge |n|ct' @kr ukac
Hnt{) n tnv`ct rhnii ujhng ukv` n tjsgfcf) bjhajtvndic akestc)
unr rkvvkge nv v`c vndic dc`kgf `kh) bntcasii{ bsvvkge jsv n
rcukge |nvvctg' R`c bnrv n rkfcun{r eingbc jqct v`c tkhr ja `ct
einrrcr nv `ct etc{kge `srdngf) gjvkbkge `kr asttjucf dtju'
U`nv ntc {js hshdikge ndjsv) Tjg: r`c nrmcfkg~skrkvkqci{'
K unr osrv rn{kge vj h{rciav`nv kvr n ujtt{ v`nv v`kr tn|krv
v`nvr jg v`c ijjrc `nrgv dccg bnse`v {cv) tc|ikcf Tjg) n gjvc
ja kttkvnvkjg r`jukge kg `kr qjkbc nr `c tng `kr c{cr jqct v`c
atjgv |nec ja `kr gcur|n|ct' Ka v`ctc unr jgc v`kge `c fkfgv
ikmc) kv unr `nqkge vj tc|cnv `khrcia'
Nii tke`v) nii tke`v) {js fjgv nqc vj ecv tnvv{) r`c vjif `kh
r`nt|i{'Ucii) {js gcqct `cnt hc u`cgcqct K rn{ rjhcv`kge) `c
tc|ikcf |inkgvkqci{) vjgkge `kr qjkbc fjug n ikvvic'
K bngv ci| dckge n dkv fcna) Tjg) r`c rgn||cf dnbm nv kh)
nr r`c dtsr`cf dnbm n atjgf ja etc{kge `nkt v`nv `nf aniicg jqct
`ct |nic disc c{cr' Ng{un{) {js r`jsif r|cnm s|'
Tjg) r`nmkge `kr `cnf atjh rkfc vj rkfc) vstgcf vj v`c gcpv
|nec kg `kr gcur|n|ct nr `c tcatnkgcf atjh bntt{kge jg v`c
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cpb`ngec' @c mgcu u`cg `c unr dcnvcg'
Kv unr Rnvstfn{ gke`v ngf Hntojt{) v`ckt rikh) ejjf(ijjmkgevucgv{ {cnt jif fnse`vct unr |svvkge v`c akgni vjsb`cr vj `ct
hnmc(s| kg atjgv ja v`c hkttjt v`nv unr akvvcf jg v`c dnbm ja v`c
untftjdc fjjt kg `ct tjjh' Navct |jrkge ajt n acu rcbjgfr) r`c
cpcbsvcf n vukti kg atjgv ja v`c fjjt(icgev` hkttjt dcajtc
|svvkge jg `ct bjnv) nr r`c |tc|ntcf vj ej jsv ajt v`c cqcgkge
ukv` `ct atkcgfr' V`c{ uctc ejkge vj n ijbni fngbc u`kb` unr
dckge cif kg v`c vjug bcgvtc kg Djrvjg' N akgni tsg ja v`c bjhd
v`tjse` `ct ijge) akgc fntm `nkt ngf r`c unr tcnf{'Hsh) r`c bniicf) nr r`c bnhc jsv ja `ct tjjh ngf unimcf
v`tjse` v`c r|nbkjsr `niiun{ vj v`c atjgv fjjt' Kh jaa gju'
Hnt{ tnkrcf ng c{cdtju ngf ijjmcf nv v`c jif unigsv)
b`khkge bijbm v`nv rvjjf jg v`c rvjgc aktc|inbc v`nv Tjg `nf
dskiv u`cg v`c{ `nf aktrv hjqcf kg' V`c bijbm) jgc ja v`c
hchcgvjr v`nv `nf dccg `ngfcf fjug d{ `ct hjv`ct) unr osrv
dcekggkge vj Fjge' Kv unr cke`v(j(bijbm'
U`nv vkhc ukii {js dc `jhc ) isq: r`c nrmcf) n ujttkcfatjug jg `ct ajtc`cnf'
Hntojt{ utkgmicf ct dtju nr r`c rvj||cf ukv` ct ngf jg
v`c fjjt `ngfic ngf v`jse`v ajt n hjhcgv) nr r`c ujtmcf jsv
`ju ijge kv ujsif vnmc ct vj unim atjh v`c bcgvtc ja Djrvjg vj
Hjgvkcv` Btcrbcgv u`ctc r`c ikqcf ukv` `ct |ntcgvr'
K r`jsif v`kgm K ukii dc `jhc d{ndjsv cicqcg) hsh) r`c
tc|ikcf kg n ijsf qjkbc' V`c hsrkbni rjsgf ja v`c ukgf b`khcr
v`nv `sge atjh v`c bckikge) osrv kgrkfc v`c `niiun{) bjsif dc`cntf nr v`c esrvkge ukgf ecgvi{ tnvvicf v`c dnhdjj |k|cr u`cg
r`c j|cgcf v`c fjjt vj ej jsv kgvj v`c fntm) bjif Gjqchdct
gke`v'
Hntojt{' Vt{ vj ecv rjhcjgc vj bjhc `jhc ukv` {js) `ct
hsh bniicf jsv vj `ct'
Ng{jgc r|cbkni kg hkgf: r`c inse`cf) vjrrkge ct nkt dnbm
ukv` n aikbm ja `ct `cnf) nr r`c ucgv vj ej v`tjse` v`c fjjt'
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Gj. cpbinkhcf `ct hsh) n vjsb` ja nggj{ngbc kg `ct
qjkbc' [js mgju u`nv K hcng) jst Hntojt{' Rcc ka {js bng ecv
jgc ja {jst atkcgfr vj bjhc dnbm ukv` {js' K fjgv ikmc {jsunimkge s| v`nv fntm tjnf jg {jst jug) kv krgv rnac'
Rvj| u`kvvikge) Hnt{. cpbinkhcf ct srdngf) Tjg) |svvkge
`kr gcur|n|ct fjug jg `kr mgcc ajt n hjhcgv ngf ijjmkge s|
nv `ct jqct `kr tkhicrr einrrcr' R`cr nihjrv vucgv{(jgc {cntr
jif) v`nvr |icgv{ jif cgjse` vj mgju u`nv r`cr fjkge'
Ng{un{) kv ukii fj `ct ejjf vj ecv jsv) r`cr dccg hj|kge ndjsv
v`c `jsrc ajt ndjsv rkp hjgv`r gju= r`cr ntfi{ dccg v`tjse`
v`c fjjt rkgbc `ct ngf v`nv cp(dj{atkcgf) Ukiiknh Bniihng)|nbmcf kg rcckge cnb` jv`ct'
V`nv hn{ dc rj) Tjg) `kr ukac tc|ikcf nr r`c |inbcf v`c
rbkrrjtr jg v`c vndic ngf `cif s| v`c |nvvctg v`nv r`cf osrv
akgkr`cf bsvvkge jsv kg atjgv ja `ct'
Kvr gjv jst Hntojt{ v`nv r v`c |tjdich) gjt kh K `j|c) kvr
vjv`ctr'
Gju ijjm `ctc' K mgju u`nv r ujtt{kge {js) `c rnkf
rjjv`kgei{) nr `c j|cgcf `kr gcur|n|ct nenkg' Kvr v`nv tn|krvv`nvr jg v`c ijjrc) krgv kv:
Ja bjstrc kv kr' Ng{jgc ujsif ujtt{ ukv` v`nv hngknb jg
v`c |tjui' Gj fcbcgv ekti ikqkge kg v`c ntcn kr rnac nv v`c
hjhcgv) r`c tcvjtvcf nr r`c ajifcf v`c |nvvctg s| gcnvi{) v`cg
|sv kv nun{ kg jgc ja v`c ftnuctr ja ng jif jnm rkfcdjntf v`nv
unr ngjv`ct ja v`c |kcbcr ja astgkvstc v`nv `nf dccg `ngfcf
fjug vj `ct navct `ct |ntcgvr `nf fkcf'
V`c fngbc v`nv r`c r ejkge vj kr dckge cif kg v`c rnhc |ntvja Djrvjg u`ctc v`c nvvnbmr `nqc dccg vnmkge |inbc) icnrvun{r
rjhc ja v`ch' Ng{un{) Tjg) {jstc osrv nr ujttkcf nr K nh'
K netcc ukv` {js) Hnt{) tc|ikcf Tjg) gjffkge `kr `cnf kg
netcchcgv nr `c vjjm jaa `kr tcnfkge einrrcr ngf ijjmcf nv `ct
jqct v`c dnbm ja v`c rcvvcc' Dsv uc bngv cp|cbv `ct vj rvn{ nv
`jhc sgvki `cr bnse`v' R`cr ejv vj `nqc rjhc ikac) kv osrv krgv
gnvstni ajt n {jsge ujhng `ct nec vj dc rvn{kge kgfjjtr nii v`c
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vkhc'
Tjg |isbmcf nv `kr djvvjh ik| ukv` `kr v`shd ngf
ajtcakgect) nr `c v`jse`v v`c rkvsnvkjg jqct' Kv unr vtsc v`nv rkpujhcg `nf dccg tn|cf kg ngf ntjsgf v`c rjsv` Ikgbjigr`ktc
vjug ja Djrvjg kg v`c inrv gkgc hjgv`r) rj ant v`c nvvnbmct `nf
bjqctcf kr vtnbmr ucii) jt c nf dccg fcnf isbm{' Nbbjtfkge vj
v`c gcur s| sgvki {crvctfn{) nii v`c{ mgcu ndjsv kh unr v`nv c
`nf fntm `nkt ngf v`nv `c unr tjse`i{ akqc(accv(vcg vj rkp(accv
vnii' Kv rcchcf v`nv v`c |jikbc `nfg v n bisc nr vj v`c niicecf
tn|krvr kfcgvkv{' Rsffcgi{ `c bnhc vj n fcbkrkjg'
Hnt{) fj {js v`kgm K r`jsif ej ngf hccv jst Hntojt{ u`cgr`c bjhcr jsv ja v`c fngbc nii) ngf unim dnbm jhc ukv` ct:
`c rnkf) ujttkcfi{'
Gj) K fjgv) Tjg' [js mgju u`nv r`c ii rn{ ka r`c rccr {js
unkvkge v`ctc) tc|ikcf `kr ukac) r`nmkge `ct `cnf atjh rkfc vj
rkfc' Ucii gcqct `cnt v`c inrv ja kv'
Tjg vjjm `kr einrrcr jaa ngf b`cucf jg jgc ja v`c |inrvkb
tcrvr ajt n acu rcbjgfr) nr `c ndrjtdcf `ct tc|i{'
K rvkii fjgv ikmc v`c kfcn ja `ct unimkge `jhc nijgc invc nvgke`v) c rnkf nr c |sv kr einrrcr dnbm jg ngf ucgv dnbm vj kr
|n|ct'
Hntojt{ Ftshntf) ng nvvtnbvkqc akqc(ajjv(rkp dtsgcvvc)
bntcasii{ bijrcf v`c fjjt dc`kgf ct= r`c nf n nia(rhkic jg ct
anbc nr r`c unimcf fjug v`c |nv` ja v`c gcnv) ucii(vcgfcf
dsgeniju v`nv unr rkvsnvcf jg v`c jsvrmktvr ja Djrvjg) kg
Hjgvkcv` Btcrbcgv' N rvtccv ike`v nv v`c cgf ja v`c ftkqcun{enqc ng cctkc aikbmctkge ike`v nr v`c dtngb`cr ja n gcntd{ vtcc
run{cf ntjsgf kv' R`c r`sffctcf nr r`c etkvvcf `ct vccv` ngf
vsbmcf `ct b`kg fcc| kgvj `ct unth bjnv bjiint' V`c disrvct{
bjif gjtv` ukgf v`nv `nf r|jvr ja tnkg kg kv nihjrv vjjm `ct
dtcnv` nun{ nr r`c rcv jaa jg v`c vucgv{ hkgsvc ojstgc{ vj
u`ctc v`c fngbc unr dckge `cif'
Hsh ngf Fnf hcng ucii) dicrr ch' r`c vjif `ctrcia' Dsv
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Hsh unr tke`v) r`c ujsifgv ikmc `ct Fnf bjhkge vj hccv `ct'
R`c ujsifgv ungv vj dc hnfc n inse`kge rvjbm kg atjgv ja `ct
atkcgfr' R`c unr etjug s| ngf fkfgv ungv dnd{kge' Navct dtcnmkge s| ukv` Ukiiknh Bniihng) r`cf fcbkfcf vj
vnmc v`c nfqkbc ja `ct atkcgf) Dcvv{) u`j ujtmcf kg n bijv`kge
rvjtc v`nv bnvctcf ajt hcg nr ucii nr ujhcg' R`c unr v`tcc {cntr
jifct v`ng `ct ngf unr n ikvvic hjtc cp|ctkcgbcf kg v`c un{r ja
hcg'
Hntojt{) {js ntc rvn{kge kg v`c `jsrc vjj hsb`) {js ntc
ecvvkge kgvj n tsv' Ecv jsv n dkv hjtc ngf cgoj{ {jstrcia) r`c
`nf vjif `ct' [jsii rjjg ecv `kh jsv ja {jst r{rvch'Dsv kv unrgv v`nv rkh|ic' R`c ngf Ukiiknh `nf dccg ejkge
jsv vjecv`ct ajt gcnti{ akqc {cntr) cqct rkgbc v`c{f icav rb`jji kg
gkgcvccg(cke`v{(ajst' V`c{f hcv nv jgc ja v`c ijbni )
jsv(ja(rb`jji `j|r) ngf jqct v`c {cntr `nf etjug qct{ bijrc'
Kvr nii tke`v {js vnimkge) Dcvv{) dsv kvr qct{ fkaakbsiv vj ecv
v`nv mkgf ja tcinvkjgr`k| jsv ja {jst r{rvch) r`c `nf vjif `ct
atkcgf'
R`c rvkii bjsifgv sgfctrvngf `ju `c bjsif `nqc ejgc jaaukv` rjhcjgc circ rj cnrki{'
V`c bjif gjtv`cti{ ukgf hnfc `ct r`sffct' R`c |siicf `ct
bjnv bjiint vke`vct tjsgf `ct gcbm nr `ct hkgf ftkavcf dnbm kgvj
v`c |nrv' Jqct v`c vkhc v`c{f dccg vjecv`ct) `cf gcqct ijjmcf
nv ngjv`ct ekti u`cg `c unr ukv` `ct) nii `cf vnimcf ndjsv unr
hnmkge n `jhc ajt v`ch jgc fn{' Navct v`c{ `nf dcbjhc
kgvkhnvc u`cg r`c unr cke`vccg) `kr vnim unr nii ndjsv `nqkge
b`kiftcg' V`c{ djv` netccf vj |sv nun{ |ntv ja v`ckt cntgkgercqct{ uccm vjuntfr v`c fn{ u`cg v`c{ ujsif ecv hnttkcf'
Ukiiknh `nf ejv `khrcia n ojd nv v`c ijbni entnec u`ctc `c unr
vtnkgkge vj dc n hcb`ngkb) ngf r`c unr ujtmkge nr ng nrrkrvngv nv
v`c ijbni ikdtnt{ kg Djrvjg'
Hntojt{ bjsifgv `ci| rhkikge vj `ctrcia nr r`c bnrv `ct
hkgf dnbm vj v`c aktrv vkhc r`cf dtjse`v kh jhc vj hccv ct
anhki{) `c unr osrv rcqcgvccg' Fnf `nf n hng(vj(hng vnim vj
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`kh' R`cf dccg kg v`c mkvb`cg unr`kge v`c fkr`cr u`kic `ct
Hsh bicntcf v`c vndic kg v`c ijsgec' R`c rvkii rhkicf nr r`c
tcbniicf v`c bjgqctrnvkjg r`c `nf rj kggjbcgvi{ jqct`cntf'Gju ijjm `ctc) rjg) `ct anv`ct `nf rnkf) n rctkjsr vjgc vj
`kr qjkbc nr `c |siicf ng jif |k|c v`nv `c `nfgv rhjmcf ajt
{cntr) jsv ja kr unkrvbjnv |jbmcv ngf |tjbccfcf vj bicng kv ukv`
n |cg mgkac nr `c unimcf vj ngf atj kg atjgv ja Ukiiknh kg v`c
ijsgec' [js ngf jst Hntojt{ `nqc dccg ejkge vjecv`ct ajt
ndjsv n {cnt gju= r`cr n fcbcgv inrr ngf `nr dccg dtjse`v s|
|tj|ct ikmc) K ungv {js vj vtcnv `ct v`nv un{'
Jg `cntkge `ct gnhc hcgvkjgcf) r`c |cc|cf v`tjse` v`crike`vi{ j|cg mkvb`cg fjjt'
Ukiiknh unr ijjmkge fjug nv v`c aijjt) r`saaikge `kr accv
sgbjhajtvndi{'
[js mgju u`nv Kh vnimkge ndjsv ) fjgv {js: rnkf Tjg)
|svvkge v`c |k|c vj `kr ik|r ngf dijukge fjug kv vj bicnt kv'
Ukiiknh gjffcf `kr `cnf kg nb~skcrbcgbc'
K ujsifgv stv ct) Ht Ftshntf' K v`kgm vjj hsb` ja ct)
`c rnkf) `kr anbc tcffcgkge nr v`c kh|ikbnvkjg ja u`nv Tjg `nfrnkf rsgm kg'
Hnt{) u`j `nf dccg ikrvcgkge kgvcgvi{ vj `ct `srdngfr
~scrvkjgkge ja v`c {jsge hng) rvj||cf u`nv r`c unr fjkge ngf
dsvvcf kg'
V`nvii fj) Tjg' Bngv {js rcc {jstc chdnttnrrkge v`c inf)
r`c vjif `kh' Nffkge kg n iju qjkbc' Ngf |sv v`nv akiv`{ |k|c
nun{'
Tjg enqc `kr ukac n ijjm ja kttkvnvkjg dcajtc |svvkge v`c|k|c vj `kr ik|r ngf ekqkge kv n akgni diju) v`cg `c |inbcf kv dnbm
kg `kr |jbmcv'
Unr kv tcnii{ jgi{ osrv jqct n {cnt ngf n `nia nej v`nv r`c
ngf Ukiiknh `nf rvntvcf vj vnim ndjsv rcvvkge n fnvc ajt ecvvkge
hnttkcf: r`c nrmcf `ctrcia'
R`c r`jjm `ct `cnf nr r`c rvj||cf ajt n hjhcgv ngf
b`cbmcf v`c vtnaakb) dcajtc btjrrkge v`c tjnf nv v`c cgf ja
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Hjgvkcv` Btcrbcgv' V`c hchjtkcr aijjfcf v`tjse` `ct hkgf'
@cf dccg rcgv jg n ejqctghcgv vtnkgkge bjstrc ajt dtkbmin{kge
kg @sii) navct dckge hnfc tcfsgfngv atjh `kr ojd nv v`c entnec'Dckge `ngf{ nv fj(kv({jstrcia) `cf niun{r angbkcf `khrcia nr n
dtkbmin{ct'
Kii dskif n jsrc ajt sr jgc fn{) `cf |tjhkrcf ct) jg jgc
ja `kr uccmcgfr nv `jhc' @c rvntvcf v`c bjstrc kg v`c rshhct
ja gkgcvccg(cke`v{(rkp' Jqct v`c gkgc hjgv`r v`nv `c unr v`ctc)
r`cf rcgrcf rjhcv`kge unrgv ~skvc tke`v) `kr accikger ajt `ct
rcchcf vj dc fcbikgkge' Ajt v`c aktrv acu hjgv`r) `cf |`jgcf
`ct nihjrv cqct{ gke`v ngf u`cg `c bnhc `jhc nv v`cuccmcgfr) `c unr nii jqct `ct' Navct rkp hjgv`r) v`c |`jgc bniir
dcbnhc icrr atc~scgv' Nr v`c bjstrc gcntcf kvr cgf) `cf `ntfi{
ejv kg vjsb` ukv` `ct) kg anbv r`c unr isbm{ ka `c |`jgcf `ct
hjtc v`ng jgbc n uccm) cqcg v`cg `kr nvvkvsfc unr fkrvngv ngf
v`cg v`ctc uctc vkhcr u`cg kv rcchcf nr ka r`c unr vnimkge vj n
rvtngect= jg vj| ja v`kr) `c `nf vjif `ct v`nv `c `nf rvntvcf
ejkge jsv jg Ucfgcrfn{ gke`vr vj n fngbc `nii kg @sii ukv` v`c
jv`ct hcg u`j uctc jg v`c vtnkgkge bjstrc ukv` `kh'Kv unr osrv vj dtcnm v`c hjgjvjg{ ja rvn{kge kg nv gke`v) c
`nf vjif `ct' Rjhc`ju r`c bjsifgv r`nmc jaa v`c accikge v`nv
rjhcv`kge unr ejkge jg ngf v`nv `c unrgv dckge rvtnke`v ukv`
`ct' Hnt{ `nf gjvkbcf v`nv `ct fnse`vct unr dcekggkge vj ecv
nekvnvcf'
Hntojt{) u`{ fjgv {js ecv {jstrcia tcnf{ ngf ej vj @sii
ngf rst|tkrc `kh) `cr |tjdndi{ hkrrkge {js) r`c `nf nfqkrcf
`ct'R`c v`jse`v jqct v`c rseecrvkjg ajt n hjhcgv) v`cg
gjffcf `ct `cnf'
V`nvr n ejjf kfcn) Hsh) K v`kgm Kii ekqc Dcvv{ n tkgengf
nrm `ct ka r`c ujsif ikmc vj ej ukv` hc jg Ucfgcrfn{ gke`v)
r`c tc|ikcf) unimkge kgvj v`c `niiun{ ngf |kbmkge s| v`c |`jgc'
@ciij) Dcvv{) Kqc fcbkfcf vj ej ngf rcc Ukiiknh kg @sii jg
Ucfgcrfn{ gke`v) K ujgfctcf ka {js ujsif ikmc vj ej ukv` hc)
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r`c rnkf vj `ct atkcgf'
[cr) Kf ijqc vj ej) Hntojt{) cgv`srcf Dcvv{) osh|kge nv
v`c b`ngbc vj ej jsv ukv` `ct' Kii nrm h{ djrr kaK bng bjhc kgn ikvvic invct jg V`strfn{ hjtgkge) rn{ ndjsv vcg n'h' V`nv ukii
ekqc hc vkhc vj ecv tcnf{ ajt ujtm u`cg K ecv `jhc' V`ctcr
jgi{ jgc |tjdich) uc ntc ejkge vj gccf rjhc vtngr|jtv' @ju
ntc uc ejkge vj ecv v`ctc:
Icnqc v`nv vj hc' tc|ikcf Hntojt{' Kii nrm h{ fnf ka K bng
src `kr bnt'
K fjgv mgju) jst Hntojt{) Tjg vjif `ct) `kr ajtc`cnf
btcnrkge nr c tsddcf v`c dnif |nvb` kg v`c bcgvtc ja kr etc{kge`cnf' V`ctc unr n gjvc ja fjsdv kg `kr qjkbc navct `cntkge `ct
tc~scrv' @siir n ijge un{ vj ftkqc) {js mgju'
Kv unr jdqkjsr `c unrgv vjj mccg jg vtsrvkge `kr fnse`vct
ukv` v`c bnt) dsv navct rjhc |tcrrstc atjh Hnt{ ngf n ikvvic
bnojikge atjh Hntojt{) `c enqc un{'
Jmn{) c nf vjif ct' Dsv dc rstc v`nv {js ftkqc bntcasii{
ngf dtkgev`c jif ekti dnbm kg jgc |kcbc'
R`c rhkicf nv `kr tcactcgbc vj `kr bnt nr V`c jif ekti' Fjgv ujtt{) Fnf) Kii dc bntcasi) r`c nrrstcf `kh nr r`c
enqc `kh ng naacbvkjgnvc mkrr jg v`c b`ccm'
Kv unr Hjgfn{ hjtgkge ngf Hntojt{ bjsif `ntfi{ bjgvnkg
`ctrcia nr r`c ucgv ndjsv `ct ujtm nv v`c ikdtnt{) kv `nf dccg
~skvc rjhc vkhc rkgbc r`cf `nf ng cqcgkge jsv) r`c unr tcnii{
ijjmkge ajtuntf vj kv' V`c v`jse`v ja Ucfgcrfn{ gke`v jsv kg
@sii cpbkvcf ct' R`c nrmcf Nggc Hkrvtjh) v`c cnf ikdtntkng) ka
kv ujsif dc nii tke`v ka r`c bnhc kg nv vcg n'h' jg v`c V`strfn{hjtgkge'
R`c rijucf `ct unim ajt n acu rcbjgfr nr v`c `cnfike`vr ja
ng n||tjnb`kge bnt nihjrv dikgfcf `ct nr r`c gcntcf Oj`g
Nfnhr Un{) n hnkg tjnf v`nv tng v`tjse` v`c bcgvtc ja Djrvjg'
Navct nfosrvkge `ct c{cr vj v`c fntmgcrr nenkg) r`c tcvstgcf vj
`ct v`jse`vr'
Nggc Hkrvtjh unr n `ngfrjhc ujhng) jgi{ n rike`v rvjj|
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ngf btjur accv utkgmicr kg v`c bjtgct ja `ct c{cr dcikcf `ct
akav{(akqc {cntr' R`c gjffcf `ct `cnf v`jse`vasii{ nr r`c
ikrvcgcf vj Hntojt{r tc~scrv' Navct n acu rcbjgfr hsiikge kvjqct kg `ct hkgf) r`c enqc `ct tc|i{'
K fjgv hkgf) Hntojt{) v`kr jgbc) v`c rike`vi{ etc{kge
r|kgrvct vjif `ct |tkhi{' Dsv K fjgv ungv {js vj hnmc n `ndkv
ja kv'
V`ngmkge v`c ikdtntkng) r`c nrrstcf `ct v`nv r`c ujsifgv'
Navct b`cbmkge ukv` Dcvv{ vj hnmc rstc v`nv r`c bjsif ej) r`c
ijjmcf v`tjse` v`c nfr kg v`c |n|ct) v`cg ejv kg vjsb` ukv` n
rhnii `jvci kg @sii) u`ctc r`c djjmcf n tjjh ajt vuj ajtUcfgcrfn{ gke`v' V`c{ `nf fcbkfcf vj rcv jaa nv rkp |'h' V`nv
enqc `ct ng `jst vj ecv tcnf{ navct r`c akgkr`cf ujtm' Jg
nttkqkge `jhc r`c `nf n ~skbm hcni) v`cg) navct vnmkge n dnv`)
r`c rukavi{ ejv ftcrrcf' Vcg hkgsvcr invct) navct |tjhkrkge `ct
fnf jgbc nenkg v`nv r`c ujsif ftkqc bntcasii{) r`c bikhdcf kg
v`c bnt ngf rvntvcf v`c cgekgc' Tjg |siicf v`c bstvnkg vj jgc
rkfc' @c unvb`cf n||tc`cgrkqci{ nr r`c tcqctrcf v`c bnt
vcgvnvkqci{ jsv ja v`c ftkqcun{ ngf jg vj v`c tjnf) v`cg) ukv` nrhkic ngf unqc vj `kh) r`c ftjqc jaa ngf fkrn||cntcf kgvj v`c
`cnq{ hkrv v`nv `nf ajthcf rkgbc r`c `nf nttkqcf `jhc atjh
v`c ikdtnt{'
Hntojt{ |kbmcf s| Dcvv{) u`j unr unkvkge nv v`c envc ja ct
`jhc'
@nqc {js fcbkfcf u`ctc uc ntc ejkge vj rvn{ u`cg uc ecv
vj @sii) Hntojt{: nrmcf Dcvv{ nr r`c anrvcgcf `ct rnacv{ dciv
navct ecvvkge kgvj v`c bnt'[cr) tc|ikcf Hntojt{) |svvkge v`c bnt kgvj ecnt ngf
bjgvkgskge v`ckt ojstgc{' Kqc djjmcf sr kgvj n `jvci gcnt v`c
bcgvtc ja @sii'
R`c nf vjif ct atkcgf v`nv r`c ungvcf vj rst|tkrc Ukiiknh'
Fcc| fjug kgrkfc `ct r`cf `nf jv`ct tcnrjgr ajt ejkge vj
@sii) jgc ja v`ch unr vj niin{ `ct rsr|kbkjgr v`nv `c unr
kgqjiqcf ukv` rjhcjgc circ= rcbtcvi{ r`c `j|cf v`nv `ct acntr
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`nf gj ajsgfnvkjg ngf r`c bjsif tcnii{ ekqc Ukiiknh n gkbc
rst|tkrc' Jg v`c ojstgc{ vj @sii) Hntojt{ fcbkfcf vj bjgakfc kg
Dcvv{' R`c vjif ct v`nv jgc ja v`c tcnrjgr ajt ct ejkge vj @siiunr vj rst|tkrc Ukiiknh nr `c ujsifgv cp|cbv `ct vj dc v`ctc'
Dcvv{ b`cucf jg `ct djvvjh ik| nr r`c v`jse`v jqct u`nv `ct
atkcgf `nf vjif `ct' R`c rnv ~skcv ajt acu hkgsvcr nr v`c ike`vr
atjh v`c dtkfec ijjhcf s| kg v`c fkrvngbc' Kv `nf vstgcf
rcqcg(j(bijbm ngf v`c fntmgcrr unr dcekggkge vj bijrc kg nr
v`c{ n||tjnb`cf v`c @shdct Dtkfec' Kv unr ~skvc n rke`v nr kv
rvtcvb`cf etnbcasii{ jsv jqct v`c ukfc cp|ngrc ja unvct vj
fkrn||cnt kgvj v`c hkrv ngf rchk(fntmgcrr'U`nv ntc {js ejkge vj fj ka Ukiiknh krgv v`ctc: nrmcf
Dcvv{ nr v`c{ ftjqc nbtjrr v`c ijge rsr|cgrkjg dtkfec ngf
n||tjnb`cf v`c vjii envc'
Hntojt{ v`jse`v ajt n hjhcgv nr r`c rvj||cf v`c bnt vj |n{
v`c vjii' V`c hng vjjm `ct hjgc{ ngf unqcf v`ch v`tjse`'
R`c cgenecf v`c ecnt ngf nbbcictnvcf nun{ nr r`c cp|inkgcf
vj Dcvv{ v`nv Ukiiknh `nf vjif `ct v`nv `c ucgv jsv jg
Ucfgcrfn{ gke`vr vj Nggndciicr) n fngbc `nii kg @sii'[cr) dsv u`nv ka `c krgv v`ctc: `ct atkcgf tc|cnvcf' Kv r
~skvc |jrrkdic v`nv `c bjsif `nqc ejgc rjhcu`ctc circ ajt v`c
cqcgkge'
Hntojt{ ucgv ~skcv ajt n acu rcbjgfr nr r`c cpkvcf v`c
dtkfec ngf ftjqc v`c bnt jsv jg vj v`c hnkg tjnf vj @sii' R`c
v`jse`v jqct Dcvv{r bjhhcgvr ajt n hjhcgv) v`cg eingbkge
nbtjrr nv `ct jsv ja v`c bjtgct ja `ct c{c) r`c vjif `ct ukv` n
rike`v r`tse ja `ct r`jsifctr'V`cg ucii osrv cgoj{ v`c cqcgkge'
Dcvv{ ijjmcf nbtjrr nv `ct atkcgf nr v`c{ ftjqc nijge)
gjvkbkge v`c |st|jrcasi ijjm jg `ct anbc' R`c `nf ng kfcn v`nv
v`ctc unr hjtc vj kv v`ng osrv n rst|tkrc qkrkv'
Hntojt{) r`c dceng) tnkrkge `ct c{cdtjur ~skzzkbnii{) nr
`ct bstkjrkv{ unr tjsrcf' V`ctcr hjtc vj v`kr qkrkv v`ng {jstc
vciikge hc) krgv v`ctc:
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Hntojt{) mcc|kge `ct c{cr jg v`c tjnf) fkfgv ngruct tke`v
nun{' V`cg r`c vjjm n fcc| dtcnv` dcajtc distvkge jsv'
K `nqc n accikge v`nv `c hn{ dc vuj(vkhkge hc'U`nvcqct hnmcr {js v`kgm v`nv: `ct atkcgf nrmcf) n ikvvic
r`jbmcf'
Vj vcii {js v`c vtsv`) Dcvv{) Kh bjgasrcf' K fjgv tcnii{
mgju' K bngv |sv h{ akgect jg kv' V`nv bijrcgcrr Ukiiknh ngf K
`nqc niun{r `nf osrv fjcrgv rcch vj dc v`ctc ng{hjtc' @kr
icvvctr rcch fkrvngv ngf sgaccikge) r`c tc|ikcf ukv` n r`nmc ja
`ct `cnf' R`c rvj||cf v`c bnt jsvrkfc n rhnii) rccf{(ijjmkge
`jvci jg Dcqctic{ Tjnf kg @sii) |nsrcf ajt rcbjgf) `ct c{cr jgv`c fnr`djntf ja v`c bnt) v`cg r`c vstgcf vj v`c dijgfc(`nktcf
Dcvv{'
K fj ijqc `kh) r`c kgrkrvcf' Dsv K ungv vj mgju ka `kr
accikger ntc v`c rnhc ajt hc'
Dcvv{r dtju asttjucf nr r`c ijjmcf nv `ct rsr|kbkjsri{'
[js ntcgvntc {js:
Gj) ja bjstrc Kh gjv) Hntojt{ tc|ikcf) rjhcu`nv vnmcg
ndnbm d{ v`c rseecrvkjg v`nv r`c hke`v dc |tcegngv' V`cv`jse`vr {js `nqc) Dcvv{ @ntvic{) r`c rnkf) `ct anbc tcffcgkge
rike`vi{ nr r`c r`jjm `ct `cnf'
V`c vuj atkcgfr fkrchdntmcf atjh v`c bnt' V`c{ cpb`ngecf
ijjmr ja fkrvnrvc nr v`c{ unimcf nbtjrr v`c rhnii bnt |ntm ngf
cgvctcf v`c rjhcu`nv) tsg(fjug `jvci'
N r`jtv) rvjbm{) sgr`nqcg hng kg `kr akavkcr etccvcf v`c vuj
{jsge ujhcg atjh dc`kgf n fcrm nr v`c{ cgvctcf v`c etsdd{)
dnfi{ ikv aj{ct ja v`c `jvci' N `nia rhjmcf bkentcvvc `sge atjh`kr v`kbm ik|r'
[cr) infkcr) u`nv bng K fj ajt {js: `c etsgvcf) icngkge
dnbm kg kr b`nkt ngf tsggkge kr akgectr v`tjse` kr r|ntrc nkt
nr `c dicu jsv n bijsf ja bkentcvvc rhjmc vjuntfr v`c rvnkgcf
bckikge'
Navct ekqkge `kh v`ckt gnhcr ngf vciikge `kh v`nv v`c{ `nf
djjmcf kg v`c jvci ajt jgc gke`v) c vjjm jsv n fje(cntcf djjm
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atjh n ftnuct nv v`c dnbm ja v`c fcrm' \svvkge jg n |nkt ja
tcnfkge einrrcr) `c tng `kr gkbjvkgc(rvnkgcf ajtcakgect fjug v`c
|necr ngf b`cbmcf v`c ikrv ja djjmkger'N``. `c cpbinkhcf kg n etsaa qjkbc' @ctc uc ntc) Hntojt{
Ftshntf ngf Dcvv{ @ntvic{' [jst tjjh kr jg v`c rcbjgf aijjt'
@c tnkrcf `kr c{cdtjur ngf ijjmcf s| nv v`ch v`tjse`
dicnt{) dijjfr`jv c{cr) v`c bkentcvvc rvkii `ngekge atjh `kr ik|r'
Ajiiju hc) `c hshdicf) kgfkbnvkge ukv` `kr v`shd navct
ecvvkge jsv ja `kr b`nkt ngf bjhkge jsv atjh dc`kgf v`c fcrm'
Bntt{kge v`ckt jqctgke`v bnrcr) v`c{ ajiijucf v`c jvcikct nr
`c icf v`ch s| n aike`v ja rvnktr ngf nijge n fkge{) dnfi{ ikvbjttkfjt' Dcvv{ utkgmicf `ct gjrc nv v`c rhcii ja rvnic vjdnbbj'
@c rvj||cf nv n fjjt ukv` n gshdct vuciqc jg kv'
@ctc uc ntc) c rnkf) j|cgkge v`c fjjt ajt v`ch ngf ekqkge
v`ch v`c mc{'
V`c{ uctc r`jug kgvj n r|ntrci{(astgkr`cf tjjh ukv` vuj
rkgeic dcfr ngf ng jif fjsdic untftjdc' N rvnkgcf unr` dnrkg
ukv` n btnbmcf hkttjt jqct kv hnfc s| v`c nhcgkvkcr' Ng cicbvtkb
mcvvic ngf vuj bs|r jg n vtn{ uctc |inbcf jg n rhnii vndicdcvuccg v`c dcfr' V`ctc unr ng sg|icnrngv hsrv{ rhcii nr v`c{
cgvctcf v`c tjjh) kv jdqkjsri{ `nfgv dccg srcf ajt rjhc vkhc'
Nv icnrv) Hntojt{ vjif `ctrcia)Kv ijjmr vkf{'
V`c dnv`tjjh ngf vjkicv ntc nv v`c cgf ja v`c bjttkfjt) `c
vjif v`ch nr c |tc|ntcf vj icnqc v`c tjjh' N bijsf ja bkentcvvc
rhjmc `sge kg v`c nkt navct `c `nf bijrcf v`c fjjt dc`kgf `kh'
V`ngmkge `kh) v`c{ v`tcu v`ckt jqctgke`v bnrcr jg v`c dcfr'
Hntojt{ unimcf jqct vj v`c rhnii rnr` bjtf ukgfju v`nvjqctijjmcf n dnbm {ntf nv v`c tcnt ja v`c |tj|ctv{ ngf j|cgcf kv
vj icv rjhc ucibjhc nkt kgvj v`c tjjh) v`cg v`c{ |tjbccfcf vj
ecv v`chrciqcr tcnf{ ajt v`ckt gke`v nv Nggndciic r' Navct nrmkge
v`c jvcikct ajt fktcbvkjgr) v`c{ ucgv jsv kgvj v`c fkhi{ ikv rvtccv
ngf rcv jaa jg v`ckt cqcgkge jsv'
Nggndciicr unr ndjsv akavccg hkgsvcr unim atjh v`c `jvci'
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Kv unr rkvsnvcf kg v`c bcgvtc ja @sii' Vnpkr uctc jaaijnfkge
etjs|r ja |jvcgvkni hctt{hnmctr nr v`c{ gcntcf v`c |j|sint
fngbc `nii' Kv unr ntjsgf gkgc(j(bijbm u`cg v`c{ n||tjnb`cfv`c dtke`vi{ ikv dskifkge ngf unimcf v`tjse` v`c fjsdic fjjtr
v`nv icf kgvj v`c tcbc|vkjg ntcn ja v`c fngbc `nii kg @sii' V`c{
uctc etccvcf d{ v`c rjsgf ja ikqci{ hsrkb chngnvkge atjh v`c
rvnec v`nv jqctijjmcf v`c fngbc aijjt nr v`c{ cgvctcf v`c hnkg
`nii' Bjs|icr uctc e{tnvkge ntjsgf v`c aijjt vj ng jif tjbm ngf
tjii vsgc' Ejkge vj v`c ijge dnt v`nv tng fjug jgc rkfc ja v`c
`nii) v`c{ jtfctcf n ftkgm atjh v`c {jsge) rbngvki{(ftcrrcf
dnthnkf) v`cg vjjm n rcnv nv n vndic v`nv unr rkvsnvcf kg n fkhi{ikv nibjqc nv v`c tcnt ja v`c intec `nii) ucii nun{ atjh v`c fngbc
aijjt' Dcvv{ `nf n bjs|ic ja fngbcr) r`c unr tcnii{ cgoj{kge
`ctrcia' Hntojt{) `nqkge vstgcf fjug gshctjsr kgqkvnvkjgr vj
fngbc) osrv rnv hjtjrci{ nr r`c unkvcf ajt Ukiiknh vj r`ju) gjv
mgjukge u`nv vj cp|cbv'
Bjhc jg) Hntojt{) ecv s| ngf `nqc n fngbc) bjnpcf Dcvv{)
vnmkge `ct `ngf ngf nvvch|vkge vj |sii `ct vj `ct accv'
R`c tcrkrvcf) r`nmkge `ct `cnf' V`cg rsffcgi{ r`c osh|cfvj `ct accv) rjhcv`kge `nf bnse`v `ct c{c nr n etjs| ja |cj|ic
`nf osrv bjhc v`tjse` v`c cgvtngbc ngf cgvctcf v`c fngbc `nii'
Jgc ja v`c hcg kg v`c etjs| ijjmcf ikmc Ukiiknh Bniihng' R`c
etnddcf Dcvv{ d{ v`c nth'
Kr v`nv Ukiiknh: r`c u`kr|ctcf) ungvkge vj hnmc rstc kv
unr `kh'
Dcvv{) u`j unr r`jtvct v`ng Hntojt{) rvjjf s| jg `ct
vk|vjcr ngf ijjmcf jqct v`c cnfr ja v`c fngbctr jg v`c aijjt kgv`c fktcbvkjg v`nv r`c `nf kgfkbnvcf'
[cr) kv kr) r`c tc|ikcf kg n iju qjkbc' Ngf `cr gjv nijgc'
Hntojt{ |siicf `ct bjnv bjiint vke`vct ntjsgf `ct gcbm' R`c
rvc||cf vj jgc rkfc nr ng jif inf{ ukv` n ujjiicg rbnta utn||cf
ntjsgf `ct cntr) unimkge n ikvvic dtjug ngf u`kvc Onbm Tsrrcii
vcttkct) bnhc vjuntfr `ct jsv ja v`c eijjh' V`c fje rvj||cf
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ngf rgkaacf `ct r`jcr'
Bjhc nijge) Tjrkc) rgn||cf v`c jif inf{ nr r`c |siicf
`ntf jg v`c icnf' V`c fje rbsttkcf jg'V`c bjif ukgf dsaacvcf `ct nr r`c n||tjnb`cf Oj`g Nfnhr
Un{' R`c nenkg bnrv `ct hkgf dnbm vj v`nv gke`v' V`ctc unr n
tscasi cp|tcrrkjg jg `ct anbc nr r`c tchchdctcf Ukiiknh)
inse`kge ngf ojmkge ukv` `kr nth ntjsgf v`c unkrv ja n |tcvv{)
{jsge dijgfc ujhng' @c `nfgv rccg Hntojt{) niv`jse` v`ctc
unrgv hsb` b`ngbc ja v`nv) r`c v`jse`v vj `ctrcia) v`c un{ `c
`nf anugcf jqct v`nv ujhng' Navct jbbnrkjgnii{ osh|kge vj ct
accv ngf unvb`kge `kh fkrbtccvi{ ajt vcg hkgsvcr) r`c unrkguntfi{ ashkge' Ngjv`ct vcg hkgsvcr ucgv d{ nr r`c rnv ngf
icngcf jg v`c vndic ukv` `ct b`kg kg `ct `ngfr' R`c aciv
fcqnrvnvcf' Rsffcgi{ r`c fcbkfcf r`cf `nf cgjse`' V`c
rst|tkrc v`nv r`cf `j|cf vj ekqc `kh `nfgv hnvctknikrcf' Jg
v`c bjgvtnt{) kv unr r`c v`nv `nf dccg rst|tkrcf ngf r`jbmcf d{
`kr nbvkjgr' Dcvv{ `nf dccg unvb`kge `ct atkcgf ecv hjtc ngf
hjtc nggj{cf' R`c nrmcf `ct u`nv r`c unr ejkge vj fj'
Hntojt{ |sr`cf `ct `nkt dnbm ukv` n ~skbm gctqjsr ecrvstc)v`cg v`tcu n hcngkgeasi eingbc nv Dcvv{'
Kh ejkge jqct v`ctc ngf anbc `kh) r`cf vjif `ct
qc`chcgvi{) osh|kge s| jsv ja `ct rcnv'
Dcvv{ |inbcf n `ngf jg `ct r`jsifct ngf |sr`cf `ct dnbm
fjug' [js bngv fj ng{v`kge tke`v gju) Hntojt{) bctvnkgi{ gjv
kg `ctc) r`c fcbintcf ajtbcasii{'
Hntojt{) `ct anbc u`kvc ukv` |cgv s| ngect) eintcf s| nv `ct
atkcgf ajt n bjs|ic ja hkgsvcr nr r`c tcrvtnkgcf `ctrcia) v`cgtcnb`kge jsv) r`c |sr`cf `ct vj jgc rkfc ngf rvjjf s|) ijjmkge
nbtjrr v`c aijjt vj u`ctc r`c `nf inrv rccg Ukiiknh ngf v`c
dijgfc ujhng= v`c{ uctc gju`ctc vj dc rccg) r`c vstgcf ngf
ijjmcf nv Dcvv{'
V`c{ hsrv `nqc icav v`c fngbc`nii. r`c cpbinkhcf'
R`c rnv dnbm fjug kg `ct rcnv) atsrvtnvkjg ngf stv r`jukge
kg `ct c{cr nr r`c vtkcf vj tcenkg bjgvtji ja `ct accikger' Dcvv{
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tcr|jgrc u`cg `c |`jgcf `ct v`c ajiijukge gke`v) ngf r`c vjif
`kh v`nv r`cf ejgc vj @sii vj rst|tkrc kh) ngf v`nv r`cf rccg
`kh ukv` n ujhng nv v`c fngbc' @c bjsifgv dcikcqc `kr cntr'[jsqc dccg r|{kge jg hc) `cf nbbsrcf `ct'
R`c fkfgv tc|i{ vj `kr nbbsrnvkjg'
V`ctc unr n |nsrc) r`c v`jse`v ajt n hjhcgv v`nv `c `nf
|sv v`c |`jgc fjug' Rsffcgi{ `c r|jmc) `kr qjkbc ftj||kge kg
qjishc'
Ng{un{) kv fjcrgv tcnii{ hnvvct gju u`nv {js rnu' K ujgv
dc rcckge {js nenkg) Hntojt{) `cf vjif `ct' K `nqc hcv
rjhcjgc circ' Kg anbv) kvr v`c ujhng {js rnu hc ukv` nv v`cfngbc `nii kg @sii'
Hntojt{ unr r|ccb`icrr' V`ctc unr n bikbm nr v`c |`jgc
ucgv fcnf' R`c ijjmcf nv v`c tcbckqct kg `ct `ngf' @c `nfg v
cqcg hnfc ng{ cpbsrcr ajt `kr dc`nqkjst' Kv `nf dccg n disgv
vnmc kv jt icnqc kv nvvkvsfc' V`ctc unr n vtchjt jg `ct ik|r nr
r`cf vstgcf nun{) vcntr uciikge s| kg `ct disc c{cr'
U`nvcqctr v`c hnvvct) jst Hntojt{: `ct hsh `nf nrmcf
`ct) rcckge v`c r`jbmcf ijjm jg ct fnse`vct r anbc nr r`c bnhcdnbm kgvj v`c ijsgec'
Ukiiknhr ejv ngjv`ct ujhng) `cr vjif hc `cr akgkr`cf
ukv` hc)r`cf rjddcf nr Hnt{ utn||cf `ct nth bjhajtvkgei{
tjsgf `ct fnse`vctr r`jsifct'
Gcqct hkgf) h{ fcnt) `ct hjv`ct `nf tcnrrstcf `ct' Kv
ukii nii vstg jsv ajt v`c dcrv' [jsii rcc) v`ctcii dc rjhcjgc circ
jsv v`ctc ajt {js'
@ct hjv`ctr nfqkbc unrgv hsb` `ci|' @ct accikger ajtUkiiknh `nf dccg rvtjge) ijrkge `kh `nf dccg nihjrv vjj hsb`
ajt `ct vj dcnt'
Hntojt{ r`jjm v`c v`jse`vr atjh `ct hkgf nr r`c gcntcf
v`c bcgvtc ja Djrvjg' Kv unr nii unvct sgfct v`c dtkfec gju) r`c
vjif `ctrcia' \siikge `ct bjnv bjiint s| ntjsgf `ct gcbm ukv` n
r`kqct) r`c vstgcf v`c bjtgct nr r`c n||tjnb`cf v`c dcekggkge
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ja v`c ucii(ikv Oj`g Nfnhr Un{' Kv unr n v{|kbni bjif Gjqchdct
gke`v) v`c jff aktcujtm bjsif dc rccg dstrvkge kgvj n eninp{ ja
dtke`v bjijstr kg bcicdtnvkjg ja djgaktc gke`v) u`kb` unr rvkiivuj fn{r nun{' V`c rvtccv ike`vr aikbmctcf nr v`c aniikge icnqcr
atjh v`c vtccr v`nv `sge jqct v`c ajjv|nv`) tjiicf ngf vshdicf
nijge kg atjgv ja ct accv) dijug nijge d{ v`c rvtjge esrv{ ukgf'
Gcejvknvkge v`c intec tjsgfndjsv nv v`c cgf ja v`c fsni
bnttknecun{) r`c n||tjnb`cf v`c intec bnt |ntmr) rjhc ja u`kb`
uctc srcf nr v`c hntmcv |inbc jg Ucfgcrfn{r ngf Rnvstfn{r'
V`c{ uctc rkvsnvcf kg v`c bcgvtc ja Djrvjg' Kg v`c fkrvngbc) r`c
bjsif hnmc jsv n rhnii btjuf env`ctcf kg atjgv ja v`c cgvtngbcvj v`c `nii u`ctc v`c fngbc unr vj dc `cif' Kv unr nirj srcf nr
v`c ijbni dkgej `nii'
V`c vjuctkge Rv Djvji|`r b`stb`) ijbnii{ mgjug nr Djrvjg
Rvsh|) ijjmcf fjug jg v`c rhnii) djkrvctjsr btjuf ja {jsge
ujhcg u`j uctc osrv ndjsv vj cgvct v`c intec) kh|jrkge
dskifkge u`cg r`c nttkqcf' V`c `nii unr hnfc s| ja jgc intec
tjjh u`kb` unr srcf ajt qntkjsr r|cbkni jbbnrkjgr) rsb` nr
dkgej v`tcc jt ajst vkhcr n uccm) ngf v`c fngbc `nii jgbc najtvgke`v' V`ctc uctc nirj v`tcc rhniict tjjhr v`nv uctc srcf
tcr|cbvkqci{ ajt n bijnmtjjh) vjkicvr ngf bnvctkge'
@ciij) Hntojt{) ijge vkhc gj rcc. v`c env`ctkge ja {jsge
ujhcg b`jtsrcf) ekqkge `ct n ucibjhkge `se'
Icvr `stt{ s| ngf ecv kgrkfc) kv r bjif jsv `ctc) r`c rnkf
ukv` n r`sffct' R`c |siicf `ct bjnv bjiint vke`vct tjsgf `ct gcbm
nr r`c |sr`cf v`tjse` v`c fjjt vj cgvct v`c intec tjjh v`nv unr
srcf nr v`c fngbc `nii' N dngf unr |in{kge n ~skbm rvc| atjh nrvnec nv v`c ant cgf ja v`c tjjh) n tju ja vndicr nf dccg rcv s|
nr n dnt ngf tng fjug jgc rkfc ja v`c tjjh) u`ctc n
dnif(`cnfcf) jqctucke`v dnthng ngf n {jsge ujhng uctc
rctqkge ftkgmr vj n etjs| ja hcg ngf ujhcg' N bjs|ic ja
fjzcg jt rj vndicr ukv` b`nktr tjsgf v`ch uctc r|nbcf ntjsgf
v`c fngbc aijjt' N dnii ja hkttjtr sge atjh v`c bckikge) rcgfkge
n h{tknf ja bjijstcf ike`v ruktikge ntjsgf v`c fngbc aijjt'
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V`c cqcgkger cgvctvnkghcgv unr etcnv nr v`c ektir fngbcf kg
n bktbic vj v`c ikqci{ hsrkb' V`c{ nvvtnbvcf n ijv ja nvvcgvkjg atjh
v`c hcg rvngfkge ntjsgf v`c dnt) hjrv ja u`jh uctc ijbni) dsvv`c{ rcchcf vj |tcact ftkgmkge vj fngbkge'
V`c hcg ntcgv r`jukge hsb` kgvctcrv kg fngbkge) rnkf ct
atkcgf) Dcvv{) kg ng cpnr|ctnvcf vjgc'
V`c{ rcch vj ikmc v`ckt |kgv ja dcct hjtc) tc|ikcf Hntojt{)
nr r`c rbnggcf v`c anbcr ja v`c etjs| ja {jsge hcg u`j uctc
unvb`kge v`c ujhcg nqkfi{) ngf bniikge jsv rseecrvkqc tchntmr
nr v`c{ run{cf v`ckt k|r vj v`c |j| hsrkb' Hntojt{ ngf v`c ektir
kegjtcf v`ch nr v`c{ vstgcf nun{ ngf bnttkcf jg fngbkge' R`cunrgv kgvctcrvcf kg hcg nv v`c hjhcgv' Ng{un{) r`c v`jse`v
vj `ctrcia) V`c inrv v`kge r`c ungvcf tke`v gju unr ngjv`ct
tcinvkjgr`k|' Jsv ja v`c bjtgct ja ct c{c) r`c bnse`v n eikh|rc
ja n anhkiknt akestc) |sr`kge `kr un{ v`tjse` v`c btjuf ja hcg)
kv unr Ukiiknh Bniihng' @kr r`jtv(riccqcf r`ktv unr `ngekge
jsvrkfc `kr vtjsrctr ngf `kr onbmcv unr risge jqct `kr r`jsifct
nr `c unimcf s| vj v`c dnt vj jtfct n ftkgm' Kv `nf dccg jqct rkp
hjgv`r rkgbc r`cf inrv rccg `kh' @c ijjmcf nbtjrr v`c intectjjh kg ct fktcbvkjg nr r`c e{tnvcf tjsgf v`c aijjt' R`c aciv kr
c{cr rcvvic jg `ct nr `c |nkf ajt `kr ftkgm' Ijjmkge jqct `ct
r`jsifct) r`c rnu Bniihng enzkge nv `ct' V`ctc unr ng nttjengv
rhktm jg `kr anbc nr `c bnse`v `ct c{c) `c tnkrcf `kr einrr' R`c
vstgcf nun{) kegjtkge `kh'
Jmn{) r`c vjif `ctrcia) @c hn{ rvkii v`kgm K rvkii `nqc
accikger ajt kh) ngf bng rvkii ecv tjsgf hc) dsv navct v`c bniijsr
un{ `cr vtcnvcf hc) `c bng v`kgm nenkg' Kh akgkr`cf ukv` `khajt ejjf'
V`c gke`v ujtc jg' V`c{ uctc rnv nv n vndic `nqkge n dtcnm
atjh fngbkge u`cg Hntojt{ ijjmcf nbtjrr vj v`c dnt) vj u`ctc
Ukiiknh Bniihng `nf dccg ftkgmkge) `c unr gju`ctc vj dc rccg'
R`c vstgcf vj Dcvv{) ng cg~sktkge cp|tcrrkjg jg `ct anbc'
U`nv vkhc kr kv: r`c nrmcf'
Akqc |nrv cicqcg) unr v`c tcojkgfct'
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Ejjfgcrr hc) r`c enr|cf) tcnb`kge jsv ajt ct bjnv u`kb`
r`c `nf `sge jqct v`c dnbm ja `ct rcnv' K fkfgv mgju kv unr nr
invc nr v`nv' Kf dcvvct ecv jaa `jhc) hsh ngf fnf ukii dcujttkcf rvkaa' V`c{ uctc cp|cbvkge hc vj dc dnbm `jhc d{
cicqcg'
U`{ fjgv {js unkv n acu hkgsvcr ijgect ngf ej ukv` sr)
ucqc djjmcf n vnpk ajt cicqcg v`ktv{) rseecrvcf Dcvv{'
Gj) Kii dc jmn{) Kii unim) K bng dc `jhc d{ v`cg) r`c
tc|ikcf) |siikge jg `ct bjnv ngf anrvcgkge v`c dsvvjgr' Kv ukii
jgi{ vnmc hc vucgv{ hkgsvcr'
Ntc {js rstc: nrmcf Dcvv{) n ujttkcf atjug jg `ctajtc`cnf' Kv krgv qct{ rnac vj dc unimkge jhc nijgc jg n gke`v
ikmc v`kr'
[cr) Kii dc jmn{) Hntojt{ nrrstcf `ct nr r`c anrvcgcf v`c
dsvvjgr jg `ct bjnv'
Navct dkffkge v`ch ejjfgke`v) r`c icav v`c fngbc `nii' Kv
unr n fntm gke`v nr r`c bijrcf v`c fjjt dc`kgf `ct ngf rvc||cf
jsv jg vj v`c |nqchcgv) `cnq{ bijsfr uctc |sr`kge nbtjrr v`c
`cnqcgr) ftkqcg d{ v`c rvtjge ukgf' Kv unr rvntvkge vj r|kv ukv`tnkg nr r`c hnfc `ct un{ nbtjrr v`c fcrctvcf hntmcv r~sntc' R`c
`nf osrv vstgcf jaa v`c hnkg tjnf v`nv icf atjh Oj`g Nfnhr
Un{) u`cg r`c v`jse`v r`c `cntf rjhcv`kge dc`kgf `ct' R`c
rijucf nihjrv vj n rvj| ngf ijjmcf jqct `ct r`jsifct= r`c rnu
n bnv rikgmkge jsv ja n atjgv entfcg) kv rvj||cf ajt n acu rcbjgfr)
kvr c{cr eikvvctkge kg v`c fntm nr kv vstgcf vj ijjm nv `ct' N r`kqct
ucgv fjug `ct r|kgc'
U`nvr v`c hnvvct ukv` hc) r`c hsvvctcf vj `ctrcia' V`cg)ukv` n r`nmc ja `ct `cnf) r`c ~skbmcgcf `ct rvc|'
Rgseeikge `ct b`kg fcc| kgvj `ct bjnv bjiint) r`c bnttkcf jg)
jgi{ vj rvj| nenkg ndts|vi{ nr r`c v`jse`v r`c rnu n hjqchcgv
kg v`c fntm r`nfjur ja n entfcg jg ct icav v`nv unr rsttjsgfcf
d{ v`kbm |tkqcv' R`c aciv v`c `nkt jg v`c dnbm ja `ct gcbm |tkbmic
nr r`c ijjmcf s| ngf fjug v`c fcrctvcf tjnf' V`ctc unr gj jgc
kg rke`v= r`c unr sgbctvnkg u`nv r`c r`jsif fj gcpv'
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U`jrv`ctc: r`c bniicf) nr r`c gctqjsri{ |cctcf kgvj v`c
fntmgcrr' Jgi{ v`c tsrvic ja v`c icnqcr nr v`c disrvct{ ukgf dicu
v`tjse` v`c dsr`cr) ngructcf `ct' V`c stecgv rjsgf ja ngnhdsingbc rktcg bjsif dc `cntf kg v`c fkrvngbc nr kv tnbcf
v`tjse` v`c hnkg v`jtjse`antc vjuntfr \kietkh @jr|kvni' R`c
`crkvnvcf ajt n acu rcbjgfr ngf vjjm n fcc| dtcnv`) v`cg) ukv` n
r`tse ja `ct r`jsifctr) r`c |sr`cf `ct `ngfr fcc| kgvj `ct
|jbmcvr) dstkcf `ct b`kg astv`ct kgvj `ct bjnv bjiint ngf
bjgvkgscf jg `ct un{) v`c rvtjge ukgf atjh v`c tcnt) |sr`kge
`ct nijge' Rsffcgi{ v`ctc unr n r`saaic dc`kgf `ct' V`c
r`nfju{ akestc ja n hng bijrcf kg) `kr nth tcnb`kge jqct `ctr`jsifct ngf etk||cf `ct tjsgf v`c gcbm atjh dc`kgf' N `ngf
unr binh|cf jqct `ct hjsv` vj |tcqcgv `ct bniikge jsv' R`c
vtkcf vj rbtcnh) dsv jgi{ n hsaaicf btjnm bnhc jsv' R`c mkbmcf
jsv atngvkbnii{ ukv` `ct `ccir kg ng nvvch|v vj atcc `ctrcia dsv
`ct nvvnbmct) u`j `nf n v`kbm ujjiicg rbnta bjqctkge v`c ijuct
`nia ja `kr anbc) unr vjj rvtjge ajt `ct) `c osrv etsgvcf nr `c
ftneecf `ct kgvj n gcntd{ entfcg) v`c fntm r`nfjur atjh v`c
dsr`cr v`nv rsttjsgfcf kv) runiijukge v`ch s|'Mcc| ~skcv) `c u`kr|ctcf jntrci{ kg ct cnt) kr ngf rvkii
jqct `ct hjsv` nr `c |sr`cf `ct fjug jg vj v`c rhnii etnrr
inug' K fjgv ungv vj `stv {js'
V`c rvtjge rhcii ja u`krm{ jg `kr dtcnv` bjsif dc fcvcbvcf
v`tjse` v`c rbnta' Vstgkge `ct anbc nun{ atjh `kh) r`c
rvtseeicf sgfct v`c ucke`v ja kr djf{ nr r`c vtkcf vj ake`v dnbm'
Kv unr asvkic tcrkrvkge) r`c bjsif gjv hnvb` v`c rvtcgev` ja `ct
nvvnbmct' R`c bijrcf `ct c{cr ngf etkvvcf `ct vccv` nr r`c ucgvv`tjse` v`c jtfcni v`nv ajiijucf' Navct `c f akgkr`cf `c ejv vj
`kr accv ngf rvjjf jqct ct) dtcnv`kge cnqki{ nr c run{cf atjh
rkfc vj rkfc' Kv unr jdqkjsr vj `ct v`nv `c unr sgfct v`c
kgaiscgbc ja nibj`ji'
Kh tcnii{ rjtt{) `c hshdicf) `kr ujtfr nihjrv kgnsfkdic
sgfct v`c rbnta nr `c ijjmcf fjug nv `ct' @kr qjkbc unr asii ja
tchjtrc' V`c{ uctc v`c inrv ujtfr `c r|jmc dcajtc `c vstgcf
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nun{ ngf hcivcf kgvj v`c gke`v'