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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Master!Class’!Be!The!Very!Best!You!Can!Be!’!Standing!Strong!in!Tough!Times!

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!!

Jan!Willem!!

Be!The!Very!Best!You!Can!Be!!How!to!Excell!

both!at!Home!and!at!Work!!!!

!

!!!!!

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What DOES IT TAKE to BE A great

LEADER?!

The best way to become A

GREAT LEADER is by making

others successful



The best way to become A

GREAT LEADER is by making

others successful

win-win-win-win

SHIT HAPPENS

SHIFT HAPPENS



get!ready!for...!let's!get!it!started!

deepstar!

rock!dj!

salOmbanco!

get!your!way!

accentuate!

i!was!made!for...!

gimmesome...!

i!can't!break...!

in!the!dark!

feeling!good!

que!sera...!

how!sweet!it!is!

Yes!we!can!!

in!the!navy!

lonely!heart!

only!just!begun!

mind!trick!

think!Imy!first,!my!last.!

I!will!survive!flooOe! pumpupthejam!

GoLDEN

RuLe PLATINum RuLe

!   ‘The TrafficLight’

!

!

1. STOP

2. CONTINUE

3. START !!

!!

Martin Haring

always 3 themes:

1. time

2. team

3. Treasure



Physical! Intellectual!

EmoEonal! Spiritual!

Manager ! ! ! ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Success!!

Leader ! ! ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Significance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Body!!

Mind!!

Heart!&!Soul!!

Essence!!

!Four!cornerstones!for!being!balanced!!

Heart!&!Soul!!

“Today'I'am'the'person'I'worked'on'yesterday”'

Extraoardinary •  Ownership •  Accountability •  Response ability

!



STRONG! VULNERABLE!

THE BOSS! TOGETHER!

COLD!C:!!!!CriEcism,!Conflict,!ConfrontaEon!O:!!!Overpowering,!OverStheStop,!Outside!L:!!!Leaving,!LeTng!the!essence!go,!Lost!!D:!!Defensive!aTtude,!Downward!spiral!

WARM!W:!!Welcome!criEcism,!ask!WHY?!!A:!!!Appreciate,!Accept,!Add!value!R:!!!Repair,!ResultSdemand,!Respect,!Rest!M:!!!Manifest!Momentum,!More!Meaning!



Your!Individual!CommumicaEon!Style.!This!is!a!Language,!not!your!personality!!!!!How!to!address!a!Promotor!Short!introductory!words,!with!lightness!and!fun,!with!humor!while!talking!through!examples!and!pictures!and!illustraOons,!always!give!a!story!or!an!example.!!!How!to!address!a!Controller!When!talking!with!a!Controller!you!need!to!be!short,!to!the!point!and!with!facts!and!evidence.!The!conversaOon!has!to!be!built!logically.!!!How!to!address!a!Supporter!The!whole!conversaOon!is!in!a!quiet!and!soW!voice!and!very!detailed!with!the!focus!on!feelings.!It!has!to!be!an!informal!conversaOon.!!!How!to!address!an!Analyzer!The!whole!conversaOon!is!in!a!quiet!and!soW!voice!and!very!very!detailed.!It!is!preferable!to!give!them!in!advance!wriXen!material,!which!is!even!more!detailed.!It!has!to!contain!in!it!all!the!detailed!data!that!you!have.!They!prefer!ALL!the!DETAILS.!You!need!to!give!them!data!even!if!it!does!not!seem!relevant!to!you.!!!!!!!!!

MASCULINE!!!!!!!!!POTENTIAL!!!!FEMININE!!!o  EMOTIONAL!o  THOUGHFUL!&!REFLECTIVE!o  SUSTAINABILITY!&!CLIENT!FOCUS!!o  RELATIONSHIP!ORIENTATION!o  CONNECTION!–!‘WE’!o  MULTIFOCUS!o  CAREFULLY!EXPLORING!PROBLEM!o  LONG!TERM!SIGNIFICANCE!o  PROCESS!DRIVEN!o  SAFETY!CONSCIOUS!o  SHOW!VULNERABILITY!o  COMMUNICATE!INDIRECTLY!o  INTUITION!o  HEART!&!HEAD!o  PREFER!WORKING!TOGETHER!

o  RATIONAL!o  DECISIVE!&!FAST!o  MONEY!&!OUTPUT!FOCUS!o  GOAL!ORIENTATION!o  COMPETITION!–!‘ME’!o  ONE!FOCUS!o  QUICK!PROBLEM!SOLVING!o  SHORT!TERM!SUCCESS!o  RESULT!DRIVEN!o  RISK!TAKING!!o  SHOW!POWER!o  COMMUNICATE!DIRECTLY!o  WILLPOWER!o  HEAD!&!HEART!o  PREFER!WORKING!ALONE!



Ingvar & Margaretha Kamprad



MASCULINE!!!!!!!!!POTENTIAL!!!!FEMININE!!!o  EMOTIONAL!o  THOUGHFUL!&!REFLECTIVE!o  SUSTAINABILITY!&!CLIENT!FOCUS!!o  RELATIONSHIP!ORIENTATION!o  CONNECTION!–!‘WE’!o  MULTIFOCUS!o  CAREFULLY!EXPLORING!PROBLEM!o  LONG!TERM!SIGNIFICANCE!o  PROCESS!DRIVEN!o  SAFETY!CONSCIOUS!o  SHOW!VULNERABILITY!o  COMMUNICATE!INDIRECTLY!o  INTUITION!o  HEART!&!HEAD!o  PREFER!WORKING!TOGETHER!

o  RATIONAL!o  DECISIVE!&!FAST!o  MONEY!&!OUTPUT!FOCUS!o  GOAL!ORIENTATION!o  COMPETITION!–!‘ME’!o  ONE!FOCUS!o  QUICK!PROBLEM!SOLVING!o  SHORT!TERM!SUCCESS!o  RESULT!DRIVEN!o  RISK!TAKING!!o  SHOW!POWER!o  COMMUNICATE!DIRECTLY!o  WILLPOWER!o  HEAD!&!HEART!o  PREFER!WORKING!ALONE!

the five pillars for

extraoArdinary leadership

(@home & @Work)

EGO in the refrigerator

Extra!

egO > personality status > stature

egO > personality status > stature

self confidence behavior >

Feelings > Needs



Xtreme effort ‘The 10.000

hour rule’

Extra!

Feed-back & Feed-forward, Stronger Together

Vindt jij ook dat jij beter & meer

verdient dan je nu krijgt?

why would you not

work with the very

best?



away from towards

weeds Seeds!

teamwork:

• interest • inspiration • interaction • intention

!  impact!

• input/info!

!

"  Ego > Personality "  Status > Stature "  Success > Significance "  Separateness > Togetherness "  Old World > New World "  Pyramid > Pancake Organization "  S.T. (Greed) > LT. (Sustainability) "  Talk > Questions & Listen "  Push > Pull "  Reactive > Proactive "  Worries > Trust "  Confrontation > Cooperation "  Weeds > Seeds!"  Away from > Towards "  Problem > Solution!

YPOSWPO!Global!Network!&!Forum!

Xtreme effort ‘The 10.000

hour rule’

Extra!

Why

How

What



!

I work with heart & soul !

I love my job !

talk less, ask more!!

Extra!

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”NEVER,!NEVER,!NEVER!GIVE!UP!”!

WORDS!

FREQUENSCIES!TONE!&!BODY!



don’t just act

interested. be really

interested!

ask &

above all listen

Why For

Many so Difficult?

ArgenOna!Australia!Austria!Belgium!Brazil!Canada!Denmark!Dominican!Rep.!Dubai!Egypt!England!France!Germany!Hong!Kong!!India!Indonesia!Israël!Italy!Japan!Kenia!Morocco!Malaysia!Malta!MauriOus!!Mexico!Monaco!!Netherlands!Nigeria!Poland!Pakistan!Russia!!Singapore!Sri!Lanka!!!Spain!Thailand!Turkey!South!Africa!Sweden!Switzerland!USA!!

“what is the

ideal outcome of our meeting?”



talk less, ask more!!

Extra!

‘TimeSout’!! !for!‘TimeSin’!

request help

Extra!



give help

request

& give help

Extra!

help = service you can only really

help someone, when that other person

asks for help and really feels helped!

(Forum)

T.E.A.M.

!!

Jan!Willem!!



T.E.A.M. k.i.s.s.

K.I.S.S.S.S.S.S. •  Simple

•  Sexy •  Small •  Smart •  Successful •  significant

effective

T.E.A.M.

Allow magic!

Extra!

with heart and soul passion & purpose



Why

How

What

the five pillars for

extraoArdinary leadership

(@home & @Work)

ego in the fridge

xtreme effort

talk less, ask more

request help

allow magic

Extraoardinary! IF IT IS

TO BE IT IS UP TO ME

[email protected]!

[email protected]

www.mindpower.nl www.couplepower.nl

@robertbenninga

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Looking forward to help you anytime

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