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Do you want to see
RISEN: THE MOVIE for FREE?Brice’s Creek Bible Church has bought out the
showings for Friday, February 19 @ 6:30pm at the Neuse Cinema and we want you to go see it for free. We even paid for a
complimentary soda & popcorn just for you.
Here’s what you need to do to claim your free ticket. Go to our website:
bricescreekbiblechurch.org and register. Do it quickly as there are only 300 seats available. If you are a skeptic, a seeker, or simply want to enjoy a night out with friends, we have a free ticket awaiting you. We will see you there!
To register: www.bricescreekbiblechurch.org
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Fighting Fair In MarriageLearning The Rules Of Engagement
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#1 Let God have your marriage
GodGod
HusbandHusband
WifeWife
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#2 Get rid of the “D” word
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#3 Respect Each Other’s Feelings
• Listen & Validate
• Use “I feel” messages
• Don’t psychoanalyze
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#4 Accept full responsibility
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#5 Learn to say “I’m sorry”
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#6 Don’t be a mind reader
• Don’t assume
• Ask for clarification
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#7 Take it one step at a time
• limit the conflict to the here and now
• limit the conflict to the one issue that is at the center of the conflict
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#8 Show Respect
• Pro 11:12 “he who belittles his neighbor lacks sense.”
• Recognize your mate as an instrument of God working in your life
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#9 Deal with your anger biblically
• Eph 4:26 “be angry but do not sin.”
• Pro 29:11 “a fool always loses his temper, but a wise man holds it back.”
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#10 Remember, you are both on the same team
• resolution of the conflict is what is important
• carefully learn and practice these rules of engagement