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500 S. Winchester Boulevard • San Jose, CA 95128 • Phone 408-984-4767 • Fax 408-984-0767 Belmont Village of San Jose June 2013 Our Team Scott Ambrose Executive Director [email protected] Eloisa Abayan Director Resident Care Services [email protected] Muhamed Burek Building Engineer [email protected] Jose Speede Community Relations jspeede@ belmontvillage.com Peggy Bulger Community Relations [email protected] Radhika Singh Activity Programs Coordinator [email protected] Nancy Bess Memory Programs Coordinator [email protected] Josue Dominguez Chef Manager [email protected] Nancy Vaughan Human Resources [email protected] Scott’s Corner Don’t worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you. Robert Fulghum As a young father of three, I spend a lot of time thinking about my role as a father to my two daughters and son. Nothing prepared me for the roller coaster of emotions that I experience as a father and I am never quite able to “turn off” the worry. Shortly before my first child was born, I remember my mother-in-law telling me “you’ll never love so deeply and you’ll never worry so much as you will as a parent”. At the time I remember scoffing to myself thinking that her advice was meant for someone else. Why would I ever find myself worrying deeply about my children? Was she inferring that my children would have major challenges growing up? The nerve! Was she trying to predict a gloomy future for my family? Little did I know. Nearly eight years later I have seen the wisdom in her statement. Even when things are going great and my children are doing well, my worrying literally never stops. Am I working too much? Am I spending enough time with them? Am I disciplining too much or too little? Why does each child have to be so different? (Each child has such different needs) Are we spoiling them too much? Am I praising them enough? Will they really grow into teenagers someday that think Dad isn’t “cool”? Why does it feel like there is never enough time to teach them everything I want them to know about life? Do they really know how much I love them? These worries are always on my mind just as my mother-in-law predicted. Recently (while waiting for the elevator) I had the opportunity to briefly discuss my worrying with the daughter of one of our residents. After sharing my “worries” with her, she said something to the effect of “If you are worrying that much, you are doing it right”. Her comment/advice may have seemed insignificant to her but it was very meaningful to me. It’s impossible to live life without worry or regret. Scott’s Corner continued on page 6.

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Page 1: Our Team Scott’s Corner - Belmont Village · Father’s Day Brunch Sunday, June 16 11 a.m. & 1 p.m. Join us as we celebrate all the wonderful fathers! **All guests must R.S.V.P

500 S. Winchester Boulevard • San Jose, CA 95128 • Phone 408-984-4767 • Fax 408-984-0767

Belmont Village of San Jose

June 2013

Our Team

Scott AmbroseExecutive [email protected] AbayanDirector Resident Care [email protected] BurekBuilding [email protected] SpeedeCommunity [email protected] BulgerCommunity [email protected] SinghActivity Programs [email protected] BessMemory Programs [email protected] DominguezChef [email protected] VaughanHuman [email protected]

Scott’s CornerDon’t worry that children never

listen to you; worry that they arealways watching you. RobertFulghum

As a young father of three, Ispend a lot of time thinking aboutmy role as a father to my twodaughters and son. Nothingprepared me for the roller coasterof emotions that I experience as afather and I am never quite able to“turn off” the worry. Shortlybefore my first child was born, Iremember my mother-in-lawtelling me “you’ll never love sodeeply and you’ll never worry somuch as you will as a parent”. Atthe time I remember scoffing tomyself thinking that her advicewas meant for someone else. Whywould I ever find myself worryingdeeply about my children? Was sheinferring that my children wouldhave major challenges growingup? The nerve! Was she trying topredict a gloomy future formy family?

Little did I know.Nearly eight years later I have

seen the wisdom in her statement.Even when things are going greatand my children are doing well,my worrying literally never stops.Am I working too much? Am Ispending enough time with them?Am I disciplining too much or toolittle? Why does each child have to

be so different? (Each child hassuch different needs) Are wespoiling them too much? Am Ipraising them enough? Will theyreally grow into teenagerssomeday that think Dad isn’t“cool”? Why does it feel like thereis never enough time to teachthem everything I want them toknow about life? Do they reallyknow how much I love them?

These worries are always on mymind just as my mother-in-lawpredicted. Recently (while waitingfor the elevator) I had theopportunity to briefly discuss myworrying with the daughter of oneof our residents. After sharing my“worries” with her, she saidsomething to the effect of “If youare worrying that much, you aredoing it right”. Hercomment/advice may haveseemed insignificant to her but itwas very meaningful to me.

It’s impossible to live lifewithout worry or regret. Scott’sCorner continued on page 6.

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June BirthdaysResident Birthdays

June 10 Rita JacobiJune 12 Helen SticklesJune 14 Elizabeth OrganJune 16 Morton HorowitzJune 24 Beverly StairJune 27 La Rue FosterJune 27 Ken RobinsonJune 28 Ellen BoyerJune 30 Mike Shanley

June Birthday LunchPlease join us onFriday, June 28,

at 11:30 a.m.in Josephine’s Kitchen.

Staff BirthdaysJune 3 Ray MercadoJune 14 Innocent UmunnaJune 22 Cody CorsenJune 22 Marites SyJune 26 Zach Kane

CongratulationsCrystal!

A special congratulations toCrystal Vasquez on her

promotion to Sous Chef!!

Welcome to BelmontVillage!

Giuseppina (Josephine) GalloRobert and Charlotte Parks

Sam Gellman

Welcome WagonOrientation and Lunch

Join us onThursday, June 6

11 a.m. Orientation: 7 Fl.11:30 a.m. Luncheon:

Josephine’s Kitchen**All new residents and WelcomeCommittee members are invited

to lunch.

Claudette Miranda, PAL

Employee of the MonthClaudette Miranda is one of the many

wonderful Pals we have here at Belmont Village.She will be celebrating her two year anniversarywith the company in August. Her free spirit andjoy to laugh with the residents is contagious.Claudette is described by her co workers ashardworking, loving, caring, and alwayssmiling. Away from work Claudette enjoysspending time with her children and singing atchurch. Help me congratulate Claudette onbeing Employee of the Month!

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**Upcoming Eventsand Activities**

Father’s Day BrunchSunday, June 1611 a.m. & 1 p.m.

Join us as we celebrate all thewonderful fathers!

**All guests must R.S.V.P. withthe concierge desk no later than

June 13. Space is limited!!!

Healthful BitesSeminar Series

Join us for our weekly nutritionseminars.

Every Tuesday@ 2:30 p.m.Town Hall

Resident MeetingWednesday, June 19

@ 1:30 p.m.Town Hall

Belmont Village StaffHard at Work

**MBA EVENTS**

MBA MeetingMonday, June 3

3:30 p.m.Town Hall

MBA ActivitiesRemember: All MBA activities are

underlined on the monthlycalendar.

Please see Radhika Singh, ActivityPrograms Coordinator,

for information on joining theMBA Club.

**Chef News**

Chef ChatTuesday, June 4

3:30 p.m.Town Hall

Chef Demo With JosueFriday, June 28

3 p.m.Josephine’s Kitchen

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Calendar Key

GR=Great Room(First Floor)JK=Josephine’s

Kitchen (First Floor)LC=Learning Center

(Fifth Floor)CFLE=Center forLife Enhancement

(Fourth Floor)5th=Beauty Salon6th=Town Hall (TH)7th=Bistro

SpiritualOfferings

Catholic MassCatholic Service

Sunday Monday Tuesday

*** All Activities Are Subject toChange. Please See DailyCalendar for Changes. ***

All Designated MBA

Activities Are Underlined

in the Calendar

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9:30 Church Outings-O10:30 Brain Trivia-1st1:30 Scenic Drive-O1:30 Scrabble-1st2:00 Card Games-1st2:00 Movie Matinee-6th2:30 Scenic Drive-O6:30 Bingo-1st

39:30 Feel the Burn-6th10:30 Outdoor Stroll-O1:00 Shopping: Longs andBanks-O1:30 Circuit Training-4th2:00 Market Place Open-5th2:30 Spanish Class W/Margaret-6th3:30 MBA Meeting-6th6:30 Wii Bowling-1st

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9:30 Belmont Bootcamp-6th10:30 Memory Card Game-6th1:15 Bingo-6th2:30 Healthful Bites-6th3:00 Mind Your Mind-6th3:30 Chef Chat-6th6:30 Bunco Night-1st

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9:30 Church Outings-O10:30 Memory Card Game-1st1:30 Scenic Drive-O2:00 Scrabble-1st2:00 Movie Matinee-6th2:30 Scenic Drive-O6:30 Bingo-1st

109:30 Feel the Burn-6th10:30 Outdoor Stroll-O1:00 Shopping: Longs andBanks-O1:30 Circuit Training-4th2:00 Computer Training-5th2:30 Spanish Class W/Margaret-6th3:30 Math Minds-6th6:30 Poker Night-1st

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9:30 Belmont Bootcamp-6th10:30 Uno Card Game-1st1:15 Bingo-6th2:30 Healthful Bites-6th3:00 Coffee Chat-1st3:30 Dancerise-6th6:30 Bunco Night-1st

169:30 Church Outings-O11:00 & 1:00 Father’s DayBrunch-J/K1:30 Scenic Drive-O1:30 Scrabble-1st2:00 Card Games-1st2:00 Movie Matinee-6th2:30 Scenic Drive-O6:30 Bingo-1st

179:30 Feel the Burn-6th10:30 Outdoor Stroll-O1:00 Shopping: Longs andBanks-O1:30 Circuit Training-4th2:00 Coffee Chat-1st2:30 Spanish Class W/Margaret-6th3:30 Math Minds-6th6:30 Poker Night-1st

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9:30 Belmont Bootcamp-6th10:00 Council Meeting-7th10:30 Dominoes-1st1:15 Bingo-6th2:30 Healthful Bites-6th3:00 Mind Your Mind-6th3:30 Dancerise-6th6:30 Bunco Night-1st

23/30

9:30 Church Outings-O10:30 Brain Trivia-1st1:30 Scenic Drive-O1:30 Scrabble-1st2:00 Don’t Forget the Lyrics-1st2:00 Movie Matinee-6th2:30 Scenic Drive-O6:30 Bingo-1st

249:30 Feel the Burn-6th10:30 Outdoor Stroll-O1:00 Shopping: Longs andBanks-O1:30 Circuit Training-4th2:00 Market Place Open-5th2:30 Spanish Class W/Margaret-6th3:30 Math Minds-6th6:30 Poker Night-1st

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9:30 Belmont Bootcamp-6th10:30 Memory Card Game-6th1:15 Bingo-6th2:30 Healthful Bites-6th3:00 Coffee Chat-1st3:30 Puzzles-1st6:30 Bunco Night-1st

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June 2013Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday

Father’sDay

19:30 Senior Yoga W/Rachel-6th10:30 Shopping: Dollar Tree-O10:30 Sudoku-1st1:30 Scenic Drive-O2:30 Scenic Drive-O3:00 Snack W/ FranciscoPerformance-J/K7:00 Movie Night-6th

59:15 San Francisco’sAquarium by the Bay-O9:30 Feel the Burn-6th10:00 Welcome CommitteeMeeting-7th1:15 Music Appreciation W/Scott-6th2:30 Balance Therapy-6th3:00 Stitch Circle W/ Nancy &Eloisa-1st6:30 Blackjack-1st

69:30 Belmont Bootcamp-6th11:00 New ResidentOrientation-7th11:30 Welcome Wagon-J/K1:15 Bingo-6th2:30 Exercise Class-6th3:00 Wine & Cheese W/Alligator Performance-J/K6:45 Space EducationSeminar W/ C.C Culver-6th

79:30 Feel the Burn-6th10:30 Catholic Mass- 6th11:30 MBA Luncheon-7th1:30 YAHP Performance-1st1:30 Circuit Training-4th2:30 PB & J Sandwiches-1st3:00 Bridge Class-7th3:00 Scenic Drive-O6:30 Armchair Travel-6th

89:30 Senior Yoga W/Rachel-6th10:30 Shopping: Kohl’s-O10:30 Sudoku-1st1:30 Scenic Drive-O2:30 Scenic Drive-O3:00 Snack W/ Angel theHarpist Performance-J/K7:00 Movie Night-6th

129:30 Feel the Burn-6th10:15 Computer Training-5th10:30 Shopping-Walgreens andBanks-O10:30 Memory Card Game-1st1:00 Out to the Movies-O1:30 Book Club W/ Delilah-6th3:30 Gardening Club W/Eloisa-7th6:30 Blackjack-1st

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9:30 Belmont Bootcamp-6th10:30 Catholic Services-6th1:15 Bingo-6th2:30 Exercise Class-6th3:00 Wine & Cheese W/ CarolThorsen Performance-J/K6:30 Gentleman’s Night-1st

149:30 Feel the Burn-6th10:30 Walk to Starbucks-O1:30 Circuit Training-4th2:00 Danny KennedyPerformance-1st2:30 Milkshakes-1st3:00 Scenic Drive-O3:00 Bridge Class-7th6:30 Card Games-1st6:30 Armchair Travel-6th

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9:30 Senior Yoga W/Rachel-6th10:30 Shopping: Target-O10:30 Father’s Day Trivia-1st1:30 Scenic Drive-O2:30 Scenic Drive-O3:00 Furry Friends Visit-1st7:00 Movie Night-6th

199:30 Feel the Burn-6th9:30 Shopping- Walgreens andBanks-O11:00 Out to Lunch-O1:30 Resident Meeting-6th3:00 Stitch Circle W/ Nancy &Eloisa-1st3:30 Ken SosaPerformance-J/K6:30 Blackjack-1st

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9:30 Belmont Bootcamp-6th10:30 Catholic Services-6th1:15 Bingo-6th2:30 Exercise Class-6th3:00 Wine & Cheese W/Kimberlye GoldPerformance-J/K6:30 Puzzles-1st

219:30 Feel the Burn-6th11:30 Men’s Luncheon-7th1:30 Circuit Training-4th2:00 Brad BryantPerformance-1st2:45 Ice Cream Sundaes-1st3:00 Scenic Drive-O3:00 Bridge Class-7th6:30 Card Games-1st6:30 Armchair Travel-6th

229:30 Senior Yoga W/Rachel-6th10:30 Shopping: Dress Barn-O10:30 Card Games-1st1:30 Scenic Drive-O2:30 Scenic Drive-O3:00 Snack W/ Steven GaryPerformance-J/K7:00 Movie Night-6th

269:30 Feel the Burn-6th9:30 Shopping- Walgreens andBanks-O11:00 Out to Lunch-O2:30 Balance Therapy-6th3:00 Stitch Circle W/ Nancy &Eloisa-1st3:00 Education SpaceSeminar W/ C.C. Culver-6th6:30 Blackjack-1st

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9:30 Belmont Bootcamp-6th10:30 Catholic Services-6th1:15 Bingo-6th2:30 Exercise Class-6th3:00 Wine & Cheese W/ YAHPPerformance-J/K6:30 Puzzles-1st

289:30 Feel the Burn-6th11:30 Birthday Lunch-J/K1:30 Circuit Training-4th2:00 Ann CorraziPerformance-1st3:00 Chef Demo-J/K3:00 Scenic Drive-O3:00 Bridge Class-7th6:30 Card Games-1st6:30 Armchair Travel-6th

299:30 Senior Yoga W/Rachel-6th10:30 Shopping: Ross-O10:30 Sudoku-1st1:30 Scenic Drive-O2:30 Scenic Drive-O3:30 Snacks in the GreatRoom-1st7:00 Movie Night- 6th

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Scott’s CornerContinued

You may be a worried father,family member, friend, orco-worker - we will allexperience moments of worrywhen we care deeply about whatwe are doing. That said, we can’texpect ourselves to be perfectand should be satisfied and atpeace with giving our best effort.

Dale Carnegie said, “You cansing only what you are. You canpaint only what you are. Youmust be what your experiences,your environment, and yourheredity have made you. Forbetter or for worse, you mustplay your own little instrumentin the orchestra of life.” Alongthe same lines John Woodensaid, “Success is peace of mindwhich is a direct result ofself-satisfaction in knowing youdid the best of which you arecapable.”

Have a great month!Scott

Meaning |LoveBotanical name | Rosa

Other names | Sweetheart rose, hybrid tea rose

Description | A blossom with multiple petals in varioussizes; comes as a single blossom atop a thorny stem,stem size and blossom count vary.

Colors | Hues of red, yellow, purple, orange and white

Facts | All roses are symbolic of love. However, each color represents a different meaning. Red means love and courage. Pink means grace and happiness. White means innocence, secrecy and humility. Yellow means undying love, platonic love and friendship. Orange means passion and desire.

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Flower of [ June] [Rose]

**COF News**

In June the Circle of Friendswill study and discuss the countryof Greece. We will discoverinteresting historical facts, learnabout the traditional food, andtalk about Modern Greece. Thebest part of our learning will betaste-testing deliciousMediterranean Food on ourouting to Thea Mediterraneanrestaurant. Please check the COFcalendar for dates and times.

**Neighborhood News**Love is in the air....and in June

the Neighborhood residents andstaff will celebrate weddings andmarriage. The residents will get achance to reminisce aboutweddings, design wedding dresses,and make beautiful bouquets. OnJune 11, we will have a specialwedding party showcasingceremony attire and residents’ andstaff members’ weddingphotographs. And of course wewill eat scrumptious wedding cakeand toast to the magic of love. Theparty will be on Tuesday, June 11at 3:30 p.m.

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**Capturingthe Moments**

Resident ServicesFitness Center Hours

Monday-Friday8:30 a.m.–4 p.m.

Beauty Shop HoursWith Rachel

Tuesday: 10 a.m.–1 p.m.Wednesday: 9 a.m.–4 p.m.

Friday: 9 a.m.–4 p.m.Full-Service Salon

Including cuts (for men andwomen), color, shampoo, set,

permanents and manicures

Transportation

Daniel Rodriguez, Driver

Schedule transportation at theConcierge Desk. Transportation is a

first-come, first-served basis.**Mon. mornings, Tues. and

Thurs. are designated doctor days.

Angelica Banda, Driver

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Belmont Village Scene

Phyllis and Ray at the Mother’s DayBrunch.

Mother and son.

Allyson doing arts & crafts.

500 S. Winchester BoulevardSan Jose, CA 95128

RCFE Lic. 435201045www.belmontvillage.com