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20 speak your lover’s

language

19 coloring the wedding Choosing a hue for the bridesmaids’ gowns

in this ISSUE

4 unique ways to pop the question5 say yes to the dress8 keep guests entertained & satisfied9 theMed weddings

10 surviving a rainy wedding day11 livening up your reception12 choosing the perfect flowers 14 the diy wedding16 weddings & charity18 sandy toes & salty kisses21 choosing a reception venue22 secrets to a long and happy Marriage23 pre-wedding first looks25 consider expecting bridal attendees26 be prepared for your big day

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According to David Tutera (TM), wedding guru and party-planning expert, “Men

should propose making it echo something meaningful to your relationship with one another and do it in a place that highlights your love story.” That certainly sounds like good advice. But while women seem to have the knack for conjuring up perfect wedding-related ideas, men tend to be a bit clueless on the subject.

Naturally, the first element involved with a proposal is buying an engagement ring. “This is not just any ring ... it is ‘the’ ring that she’ll cherish for the rest of her life, and may possibly pass down to her children in the future,” says Tutera. “There’s a very good chance the bride has a platinum engagement ring in mind. It’s possible that she’s even offered hints about it, leaving magazine photos on the table or admiring a ring in a jewelry store window,” shares Jewelry expert, Michael O’Connor.

Platinum is a great choice for engage-ment rings and wedding bands because it won’t change color or fade. It symbol-izes a relationship that will endure. Also, platinum’s durability means that your engagement ring can become a family heirloom, passed down from generation to generation.

When selecting a setting, experts in-cluding Tutera and O’Connor recommend putting some thought into a design that is classic because this will be a ring that she will cherish through the ages.

“Choose a setting that truly reflects how you feel about your partner,” says Tutera. “Platinum lasts forever.”

Although the ring is a very important component of the entire proposal, make it memorable. “How did he propose?” is often the first question her girlfriends will ask.

Whether taking place at the beach or a page right out of a fairy tale, many women dream of a memorable proposal.

In a recent contest on Glamour.com, contest entrant Briana offers the following hint, “I have always dreamt of a fairy-tale proposal and what better way to drop the ball then to draw out the ring design that I

have in mind, fold it up and stick it in an envelope with a love note and his name on it.”

There are many other proposal ideas that can secure this special moment. Con-sider these tips:

— Make it personal. Propose at a place that has great meaning such as where you first met, or the place where you first said “I love you.” Think about the romantic places you have visited together.

— Think back to all of those chick flicks you were persuaded into watch-ing. Was there a proposal scene that she gushed about or another movie moment that stood out? Consider recreating that feeling in the proposal. If need be, man up and rewatch her favorite movies for ideas.

— Consider spontaneity. Simply scratch “Will you marry me” in the sand while walking on the beach and hand her the ring in a seashell.

— Do it the old fashioned, and tried-and-true way. Bend down on one knee with a rose and ring in hand.

“Remember, the proposal and engage-ment doesn’t have to be expensive to be memorable. Simply keep in mind the personality and likes of the bride-to-be and chances are she’ll jump to say, yes,” says O’Connor. He adds, “Almost every quality jewelry designer creates rings in platinum, some even starting at under $1,000, making it easy to find something that will work with her style and fit within almost every budget.”


The key to a successful, out-of-the-ordinary marriage proposal is the element of surprise; so fitting a proposal into “normal” or everyday activities helps to keep your intended off-guard. Here are some ideas that may inspire you to create an enduring and treasured memory for decades to come.

public performancesIf you’re feeling brave and are fairly

sure the answer will be “yes,” consider popping the question in front of hundreds, if not thousands of onlookers.

Ask while at the movies, on the big •screen. Most movie theaters have advertis-ing slides before the previews that can be purchased.

If you’re sports fans, let the score-•board do the talking or make arrange-ments with the public address announcer at a sporting event.

Skywriting or a plane flying a banner •is an old-fashioned and romantic way to propose. You can both have an intimate and private marriage proposal, while still proclaiming your love to the world.

Hang up a series of signs along the •road your loved one regularly travels on their way to work or school, proclaiming your love and spelling out your intentions while you wait by the last sign with a ring.

the game of LoveTake a chance and make your big

move during a quiet evening of playing games.

Purchase a blank jigsaw puzzle and •be creative. Work on the puzzle together with the ring ready the moment all the pieces fall into place.

A game of charades with family or •a few close friends is a perfect way to pop the question without your partner ever see-ing it coming. “Four words, the first word sounds like...”

the great outdoorsBeing outside, spending time together

relaxing and sharing a common interest may be the perfect moment to surprise the one you love with the big question.

While out fishing, sailing or at the •beach, let your partner discover a bottle you prepared with your proposal message tucked inside.

If golf is your game, have an accom-•plice ahead of you, hiding the ring at the 18th hole. When your intended reaches into the cup to retrieve their ball, you’ll be ready with those four magic words, “Will you marry me?”

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Empire or A-line? Ball gown or sheath? What in the world

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Wedding dress lingo can be tricky. The last thing you want to do when you go on the search for a wedding dress is wade through rows of tulle with no idea of what you’re looking for. However, if you are armed with a good idea of what type of wedding dress will best suit your silhouette, you can start to nar-row your search for the perfect gown for your wedding day.Hourglass

Women with an hourglass figure tend to have a large chest and large hips, while their waist-line is cinched in. A dress with a dropped waist will show off an hourglass figure.

An A-line dress, which cinches at the waist and has a subtle flair, will draw attention to the curves of a bride with an hour-glass shape. If you are looking for something more fitted, try a mermaid or trumpet-style dress, which clings tightly to the body from chest to thigh and flairs dramatically.Pear-Shaped

For brides-to-be who have a small chest and larger hips and thighs, a ball gown may be form-flattering. A ball gown will draw attention to your top half and conceal your heavier side, mak-ing you look more proportional. If you have a really small chest, look for a dress with accents on the bodice that will help draw attention to your chest. A dress with an empire waistline hugs the smallest point of the body, giving brides an hourglass shape.

PetiteBrides who are small-figured

from head to toe don’t have too much of a problem trying to look proportional, but they can find themselves swamped in gowns that are elaborate. Instead of letting the dress wear the bride, remember that the bride should be the focus of attention. Petite brides may find that the best way to show of their tiny frame is to don a sheath or A-line gown.Full-figured

A bride with a full figure can show off her curves without fear of looking disproportionate or uneven. A full-figured bride could discover that the shape of her body lends itself to a ball gown, which will slim and keep the body proportional. She may also discover that an A-line wed-ding gown flatters her frame.

Regardless of what body type are, the number one rule always applies – if you love the dress when you try it on and can imagine yourself walking down the aisle in it, say yes. If it makes you feel like a bride, you will shine on your wedding day.

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When basking in the afterglow of a mo-mentous wedding, couples would rather think about anything but packing for their honey-moon. According to the Honeymoon Study 2010 by The Wedding Report, a Wedding Statistics and Market Research organization, 81 percent of newly married couples take a honeymoon. The top honeymoon destination for those in North America is the Caribbean, where the average couple will spend $3,500

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choose to cruise to their destinations, the remaining likely drive or fly. In any case, pack-ing becomes a part of honeymoon planning. Some people are good at packing and can execute the task rather easily. Others are left with a bulging suitcase that won’t pass security clearance or meet size and weight guidelines imposed by airlines. Nevertheless, anyone can become a packing pro with a few guidelines.

• Choose a suitcase with a hard case. This way it won’t expand while packing, and there’s no chance it will ever exceed the size limits.

• Roll clothes to limit wrinkling. • Layer items to protect against

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know airline requirements in advance. While some restrictions have been lifted, the Traffic Safety Administration and the airlines them-selves may have rules regarding how much liquid or sharp items you can bring along.

• Keep important documents, such as tickets, reservation numbers and emergency contacts, with you in a travel bag. Any pre-scriptions you need should be carried as well.

• Place an emergency outfit in your carry-on in the event your luggage is lost or temporarily detained.

Make the most of the honeymoon by packing early. Come your travel day, you can simply hop in the car and look forward to the vaca-tion ahead.

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Planning your guest list is among the first items on a wedding “to-do” list and can be one of the most stressful. Once the invitations are in the mail, RSVPs are accounted for and menu options are selected, spending a little extra effort on creating unique details for guests will be sure to leave a lasting impression once the big day arrives.

Begin with the ceremony program. Provide hand-held fans, or make your program double as one and if you are having an outdoor ceremony, offer up inexpensive sunglasses for guests to shield their eyes with. Keep in mind that in some outdoor locations, such as a beach, voices may not carry far and you may want to consider a microphone-system for the convenience of guests seated farthest away.

If you have reserved seating at your reception venue, arm your greeter with a list of table assignments to make sure guests know where they are headed before they enter the dining room. On each table setting, print a fond memory or hand sign a greeting for an added touch. Create an alternative to the traditional guestbook by having guests leave advice for the bride and groom in separate books or sign the back of a puzzle piece – that when assembled is transformed into your favorite engage-ment photo.

Photo booths, paired with chalk-board-painted hand-held signs, are a fun way for guests to share wisdom, thoughts and capture silly moments. Place disposable cameras on every table with a check-list of moments for guests

to “capture” and you will be able to experience the celebration from their point of view and undoubtedly provide yourself with a few laughs at the same time.

Keep your guests comfortable and confident by presenting necessity-baskets in guest bathrooms consisting of common toiletry items such as feminine products, refreshing body sprays, lotion, single-use floss, lip balm and chewing gum that your guests will appreciate.

Lastly, thank your guests for attend-ing by letting them bring a piece of your wedding home. Whether it be a bag filled with your favorite candies, a scented jar candle with a personalized label, strawberry preserves or origami peace cranes, make your wedding favors personal and unique.

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Every couple wants their wedding to be memorable. The goal of planning a wedding is to create an experience that everyone will remember for years to come. For some couples, a theme wed-ding is the best way to accomplish just that.

When it comes time to select a theme, the day the wedding takes place may dictate the theme. For example, if the wedding takes place on Halloween, the ideas for the theme are easy. Many other couples choose a theme that highlights a specific interest or hobby or something that is dear to them. Here are some popular wedding themes.

Vegas Couples who want to tie the knot in

Las Vegas but want to ensure all their loved ones can attend can recreate the magic of Vegas wherever they may be. Casino-inspired games and big buffet meals can make guests feel like they have stepped into a casino on the famed Vegas strip. In addition, an Elvis impersonator

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certain television shows to cult status. Whether it’s “Friends” or “Star Trek,” popular televi-sion shows have been transformed into festive wedding themes. Whether the idea is to go daring and exchange vows in costume or simply name reception tables according to characters or show locations, couples can include a little television fun into the event.

FairytaleMany men and women envision a

fairytale wedding complete with horse-drawn carriage and the “happily ever af-ter.” This is what makes Disney proper-ties as well as the various castles around the world popular backdrops for wedding events. Those planning a fairytale wed-ding need only look to favorite stories or movies for their inspiration.

Interest or passion

Love to climb mountains? Avid about scuba diving? Couples who share a particular interest can include elements of this sport or hobby into their wed-ding. Invitations and decor can hint at the theme, and then special activities can further enhance it. Fish bowls as centerpieces may call to mind underwa-ter adventures, while surfboard-shaped invites may set the scene for a beachside party.

Theme weddings can add an extra spice to the festivities making it the talk of the town for years to come.


When a couple envisions their ideal wedding day, rain rarely comes into the

picture. Unless a couple likes things soggy, chances are rain on the big day will be a bit of a disappoint-ment.

While there’s no way couples can keep it from raining on their wed-ding days, there are ways to prevent rain from ruining the ceremony and the ensuing festivities.

Have a contingency plan in place well in advance. Weather is unpredictable, but couples who choose an outdoor wedding should begin making a contingency plan well in advance of the wedding.

When booking a venue, dis-cuss with the venue manager what the venue can do if it rains. Many venues will set up a tent and have an umbrella station for arriving guests.

When getting married outdoors, choose a venue that’s both idyllic and capable of handling a wet wed-ding.

Get dressed at the venue. Brides understandably fear their

wedding dress won’t survive a soggy ceremony. To reduce the gown’s exposure to rain, brides should con-sider getting dressed at the venue. This means they will only have to wear the dress outside during the ac-tual ceremony. Wrap the gown and other accessories including shoes, in plastic to keep them safe from rain and mud.

If the wedding is slated for later in the day, call the venue and deter-mine how early the wedding parties can arrive and how much space will be provided for the party to get dressed.

Prepare the ushers. Ushers will need to be extra

diligent during a rainy ceremony.

In-struct the ush-ers before guests begin to arrive that their roles have taken on greater importance thanks to the weather. Ushers should keep an eye out and an umbrella open for arriving guests, escort-ing guests to their seats under a cloak of dryness.

Once the happy couple has said their “I dos” and all the guests have managed to stay dry, the bride and groom should offer some spe-cial thanks to the ushers who helped keep everyone dry.

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During the height of wed-ding season, weddings can run into one another, as

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Couples interested in setting their nuptials apart may want to enhance the wedding reception with a few unique ideas.

Who hasn’t attended a wedding that seems formulaic? Guests may actually be able to predict what’s coming next.

While it is often easy to follow tradi-tion, that doesn’t mean you cannot buck with tradition and make your event stand out.Dance to an upbeat number.

Guests are expecting a slow, sappy tune. What they may not expect is an upbeat song that shows you are ready to have fun. If you haven’t mastered the waltz but enjoy a little quick step now and again, feel free to choose a tune that shows your excitement and love for each other.Encourage couples to dance to-gether.

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party to join the bride and groom on the dance floor midway through the first dance. However, that leaves spouses or significant others waiting in the wings while their dates tango with groomsmen or bridesmaids. Encourage your bridal party members to dance with whomever they choose.Swap the garter/bouquet toss.

If you are part of a couple who feels the garter and bouquet toss has become trite, there are other ways to create special moments in your celebration. Use this time to present a small gift or token of your affection to someone on the guest list who has served as a men-tor or source of inspiration. Hire a live performer.

A live band adds a certain level of excitement to your wedding recep-tion. Those who are adding a cultural or ethnic component to their wedding may want to consider hiring a dance troupe or another type of cultural performer as an added measure of flair.Stage a costume switch.

Let’s face it, dancing all night in a long gown takes some stamina. As the

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Flowers have been part of wedding ceremonies since ancient Roman times, when brides carried heavily-scented

herbs believing that they would drive away evil. Today, brides are not so concerned with evil spirits, but more with having the most beautiful flowers money can buy. Finding the perfect flowers takes some research, good timing and a knowledgeable florist that can guide you through the process.

Matching your flowers with other wedding details requires some talent and imagination. Some of my all-time favorite blooms are the Calla lilies because of their elegance and simplic-ity. They are delicate yet strong flowers and they are among brides’ favorite picks. Other very popular flower choices are peonies, hydrangeas, tulips and orchids.

When it comes to flower arrange-ments there are many styles to choose from. From the subtle minimalist white, to the striking multicolored blooms adorned by greens and exotic herbs. Crystal brooches, jewel pins, pearls, rhinestone picks and mono-grammed ribbons are hot trendy ac-cents this year.

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your bridesmaids and should contain similar blooms but with a special touch that will set it apart from the bridal party. Choose dramatic hues and mix up different flower types and textures. Color palettes such as turquoise, Coral, Black & White, Yellow, Fuchsia, Deep Red, Slate Grey, Purple & Latte are a hot trend this year. Beach and garden themes are still favorites, featuring ele-ments such as starfish, feathers, berries and even pinecones.

In order to make your flower ar-rangements cost-effective, check for the in-season flowers. You can use most of the expensive blooms in your bouquet and just a few here and there for the bridesmaids’ bouquets, boutonnieres and decorative arrangements. If you want to make your flower arrange-ments bigger, it is a good idea to add less expensive flowers like carnations or daisies.

“If you can, avoid planning your wedding around the holidays,” recom-mends Tammy Swanhart, owner of “A Floral Affair” flower shop. “Flow-ers triple in price because of some holidays, especially during Valentine’s Day. Unfortunately, florists don’t have any control over the fluctuation of prices. Prices are dictated by the growers. The most expensive months are February and May. “The cost for

wedding flowers can range from $300 to $3,000 and up,” said Swanhart. It is very important to plan ahead of time and give your florist a few months in advance to ensure that they can order your flowers. Most of the special flowers come from the West Coast and Holland.

It’s a good idea to meet with the florist at the place of the reception, as it will give your florist a good idea of the area that they have to work with. That is the perfect time for you to bring a fabric swatch to help your flo-rist create a color pallet that matches and accentuates your wedding’s color scheme. You also want to coordinate the delivery of your flowers to allow time for everyone to have their flow-ers in place when the photographer arrives.

As far as the price range, among the most expensive flowers are the Calla Lilies, Gardenias, Hydrangeas, Lilies, Magnolias, Orchids, Peonies and Tulips. Among the flowers in a moderate price range are the Irisis, Lilacs, Lilies, Roses, Stephanotis and Sweet Peas. Last, but not least, are the most cost-effective flowers, which are: Carnations, Chrysanthemums, Daf-fodils, Daisies, Delphiniums, Stocks, Freesias and Sunflowers. Good luck flower shopping.

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Do-it-yourself weddings have been around for years, but as people everywhere become more fiscally-minded, they are quickly becoming the latest trend in nuptial ceremo-nies. In a recent survey con-ducted by The Knot, it was revealed that the average cost of a wedding is now about $27,800. It is no surprise that more couples are taking on the planning themselves and the results pay off.

Besides saving you money, the DIY wedding is a perfect opportunity to add personal touches that will create a lasting impression on all in attendance. The key is to allot yourself plenty of time to accomplish your tasks and to enlist help from family and friends.

For invitations - Many major craft supply stores of-fer blank invitation kits that allow you to design and print your invitations right at home for affordable prices. Save on postage by hand deliver-ing invitations to coworkers, friends and family that you see often.

For decorations - Table centerpieces can be assembled well in ad-vance, with final touches added the night before the ceremony. Discount party supply stores offer a wide range of inexpen-sive decorations that can be paired up with lace or lighting to create the perfect ambiance. Be creative and showcase your personal style.

For the cake – Cup-cakes are an affordable alternative to large sheet cakes. Many couples opt to have a small decorated cake for themselves and the bridal party while offer-

ing cupcakes in compliment-ing colors for the guests.

For venues - Thinking outside of the box lets your venue options to become end-less. Perhaps a family member may have a beautiful property perfect for a wedding cer-emony that you may be able to use. Outdoor ceremonies typically cost less than indoor ceremonies, and the smaller the guest list the more unique, flexible and affordable your options become. Simply hold-ing your ceremony during the wedding “off-season” (be-tween November and March) has the potential to save you hundreds of dollars.

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During a time when bridezillas are glamor-ized and over-the-top celebrity weddings are broadcast for the world,

some couples are opting to do something more altruistic on their special day.

With more than $125 billion spent an-nually on weddings, engaged couples are welcoming the opportunity to give back as part of their wedding day. Charitable weddings are in vogue, and, thanks to the Internet, it has never been easier to use your wedding as a vehicle to raise money for charity.

The trend of charitable weddings -- celebrations where couples incorporate their socially conscious values into their wedding planning -- has exploded over the past few years. The I Do Foundation is a leading voice for charitable weddings, and more than 10 percent of engaged couples visit each year to learn how they can personalize their weddings by giving back to a charity of their choice. And now that the I Do Foundation has teamed up with JustGive.org, the premier source for online charitable giving, there are even more opportunities for engaged couples to make a difference with chari-table giving.

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The I Do Foundation has helped couples raise more than $20 million in charitable donations. The foundation’s highest earning wedding raised more than $50,000 alone. Here’s how it works.

* In place of traditional favors, couples can make charitable donations to honor their guests.

* Couples can create gift registries with major retail partners that donate up to eight percent of all revenue from gifts.

* Wedding guests can choose to make donations in lieu of giving gifts.

* Participating vendors, including those that sell stationery, honeymoons, jewelry, and more, help generate dona-tions with every purchase.

Couples can choose to support one of the foundation’s popular charities or a charity that is near and dear to them. The I Do Foundation has developed a list of more than 40 innovative nonprofits and grouped them into six giving areas. You can choose to support one or more of these groups, or you can direct your donations to a general focus area, like social justice or the environment.

Charitable weddings offer another reason to celebrate a happy couple’s nuptials. More information can be found at www.idofoundation.org.


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or many women, planning a dream wedding begins as a little girl. Perhaps you already have in mind the ideal wedding fit for a princess. Chances are that

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Sunday, March 11, 2012, more than 40 of the area’s premium wedding vendors will be present to exhibit trends and styles to incorporate into your fabulous ceremony. There will be menu sampling and a fashion show beginning at 12:30 pm. Every registered bride receives a Sandy Toes & Salty Kisses swag bag, will be eligible for door prizes and raffles, and five lucky couples will win a special wedding package courtesy of Courtyard by Marriott, Carolina Beach and some of the area’s finest wedding specialists.

The Courtyard by Marriott in Carolina Beach is hosting this event at the Cape Fear Ballroom & Oceanfront Dining Deck. The

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B ridesmaids are an important part of the wedding party, and most brides

opt to have a handful of close friends and family members play a special role in the wedding.

Choosing a gown and a color that will flatter all of the bridesmaids typically takes a little work. An overwhelming majority of couples choose to have a formal wedding. The average number of bridesmaids for these formal weddings is four. Considering around two million weddings take place in North America every year, that’s a lot of bridesmaids for whom gowns must be planned. Horrible bridesmaid dresses have been the butt of jokes for years, and many people have their own stories of garish gowns they’ve been asked to don for a wedding.

Some have said that brides intentionally choose ugly gowns for their bridesmaids to ensure they’re not out-shined come the wedding day. Although this may be the case for some, most brides aspire to select gowns that will be flattering for all. And color scheme is integral in the choice of gown. Every well-planned wedding carries a color scheme throughout. This includes the color a bride selects for her bridesmaids to wear. Some experimentation might be necessary to find a color that is flattering to all and fits the color scheme.

Depending on hair color and skin tone, there are many flattering hues available for gowns. When making this decision, consider brides-

maids’ ethnicity and skin tone. African-American women with dark skin and hair may really shine in jewel-colored gowns, including silver, gold, purple and salmon. Very pale colors may be daring and conspicuous. Asian and olive-skinned women: Those with a yellow tone to their skin will look good in many colors, including red, navy, peach and fuchsia. Avoid colors in light yellow, aqua, gray, taupe, or mint, which may make the bridesmaid look washed out. Ladies with pale skin will benefit from richly colored gowns in jewel tones. Pink or red-hued gowns may clash with someone with auburn hair. Yellow and green may not work with a fair brunette. Gray may wash out someone who is pale and blonde. Once a color is chosen, brides also need to consider the season. Certain colors may look out of place depending on the season.

For example, an evergreen or deep blue may seem wintry during a summer wedding. Similarly, russet or brown may work for the autumn but not for a spring wedding.

After colors are worked out, the style of the gown de-serves consideration. Because not every bridesmaid has the same body type, many brides are now selecting a color and length and allowing the bridesmaid herself to choose the style. The intent is to have bridesmaids feel beautiful and comfortable, and different styles can help achieve this.

Making the effort to choose a gown color and style that is flattering to all in the bridal party will help the ladies feel they are truly a special part of the wedding.

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Hearing the words, “I love you,” is always a pleasant thing.

Love comes in all shapes and forms, however, and in order to keep your rela-tionship strong, you need to learn which love language your lover speaks.

Dr. Gary Chapman’s best-selling book, “The Five Love Languages,” explains the most common ways men and women communicate when it comes to love.

“Unhappiness in relationships is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages,” he said. “Sometimes we don’t understand our partner’s require-ments, or even our own.”

The five love languages are: Physi-cal touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts and acts of service.

Physical touch isn’t necessarily focused on the bedroom. Hugs, holding hands and even a pat on the back are crucial to those who speak this language.

For people who receive love most

through words of affirmation, what you say may be even more important than what you do. Don’t be selfish with the flattery.

Quality time means having undivided attention. A person who receives love in this manner adores knowing that they are the only person or thing you want to spend your time on.

Did you know washing dishes can mean as much as a diamond ring? Those whose language is acts of service appre-ciate having the load of responsibilities eased.

Finally, certain people accept love by getting gifts. Don’t mistake this language for materialism. Gifts don’t have to be expensive but thoughtful with effort put behind them.

Armed with answers to the opposite sex’s questions and figuring out the language they speak will ensure not only a successful Valentine’s Day, but an enriched relationship.

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Engaged couples must make assorted important

decisions with regards to their wedding day. For some, the process of planning a wedding can be overwhelming, while oth-ers revel in each and every decision.

Among the many deci-sions couples must make is which venue to use for their reception. The wedding re-ception venue is where most of the day will be spent, and where the majority of the people will do their mingling. When looking for a wedding venue, there are a number factors to take into consideration.

the accOmmOdatiOnsThe facility itself should

be able to accommodate the wedding size. Some wed-dings are grandiose events with large guests lists, while others are more understated and intimate, with only a small number of family and friends in attendance. Couples should know which type of wedding they will be having, and should have at least an estimate figure in mind of the number of guests before visiting any facili-ties. Once that estimate has been made, look for a facility that can comfortably accommodate that number of people, and ideally find one that has done so in the past. Couples won’t want a facil-ity where everyone is crammed together, nor will they want one where a relatively small number of guests are in a large ballroom with lots of empty space.

More minor details regard-ing the facility must also be

considered. Ask if the facility is

handi-capped accessible. If the wed-ding is in the warmer months, make sure the venue is air con-ditioned. Since most weddings have a break in between the ceremony and the reception, ask if the facility has a room in which the bride and groom can freshen up before the reception begins.

the dateCouples may choose the

date of their wedding based on

the availability of a church they attend or a specific wedding vendor they want for their ceremony. Once that date has been chosen, it’s time to look for a reception venue. Couples who have a specific venue in mind might want to ask about the venue’s avail-ability before settling on a wedding date. When seeking out a reception venue, ask if the venue has any other events scheduled for that day. Some couples prefer to have

the facility all to themselves and their guests.

the LOcatiOnThe facility’s location

should be a priority. Couples won’t want their guests to have to drive too far from the wedding ceremony to the reception venue or from the reception venue back to the hotel. Since many wedding guests come from out of town, they likely won’t know the area well and could get lost if the facility is too far away from their hotel. Keep things simple by finding a reception venue that’s close to the hotel or hotels where guests will be staying.

the hOursCouples who want their

receptions to last into the wee hours should inquire about the facility’s hourly rate. A typi-cal reception lasts five or six hours. If couples want to go beyond that, they might have to pay an hourly rate. Ask if the facility charges an hourly rate or if the venue can sim-ply be rented for as long as the party keeps going.

the priceMany facilities offer

a flat rate to rent the venue. When discussing the rate, be sure to ask what’s included. Will food, flowers, venue decor and even staff tips be included in the rental fee? If not, is there room for negotiation? When facilities expand the services they include in their rental fee, that can save couples substan-tial amounts of money.

When choosing a recep-tion venue, couples must consider a host of factors that stretch beyond a venue’s aesthetic appeal.

What to look for in aReception Venue

Some might say a long celebrity marriage is one that endures the duration of the newly be-trothed’s trip down the aisle. We’ve seen Britney Spears dissolve a marriage after 55 hours and Kim Kardashian call it quits after 72 days. It

seems even money can’t buy matrimonial happiness. But some couples have been together for 50, 60 years and say they’re still as much in love as they were the day they said their “I dos.”

What do they know that others do not? According to clini-cal psychologist and relationship guru Dr. Phil McGraw, “We all need to be flexible and to compromise in marriage, but

you’ve got to be true to your core traits and characteristics, what I call your authentic self.” Some couples enter a rela-tionship projecting a persona they believe the other person wants – one that really isn’t what they’re all about. This could be a woman trying to fill the role of her husband’s nurturing mom or a guy playing the protector to his wife. In reality, marriage is more of a partnership, and truth and trust are often at the basis of good marriages.

There are many other “secrets” that marriage experts will offer to couples seeking the magic formula. Whether you’re pondering marriage or have already tied the knot, consider the following advice to make a marriage endure for the long haul.

• There’s no such thing as the perfect marriage. Some couples create an image of what they think marriage is sup-posed to be, and that image often goes “poof ” once reality sets in. Even soulmates are bound to frustrate or irritate one another from time to time.

• Couples should express their frustrations. Bottling up frustrations can eat at a person and eventually destroy a marriage. Talking about the things that are bothering you with your partner opens up a discussion and can help you work through things.

• Divorce should not be seen as a viable option. Couples who want to bail on the marriage at every turn could be directing their energy toward divorce as the only solution instead of discovering ways to remove the cause of strife. Divorce can sometimes be the easy way out when you think about the work that goes into keeping a marriage working. Experts say that there are a few issues, like adultery, abuse and drug/alcohol ad-diction, that may be reasonable catalysts for divorce if personal safety and sanity is being compromised.

• Make time for romance. It’s easily said but not so easily done. Too often married couples forget what it was like to date when all of their attention was spent on each other instead of the house, kids, work, etc. Today there seems to be even more distractions, from e-mails to texts to pressure and obligations at the office. Happy couples find the time to spend quality time with their spouses -- even if that’s only 10 minutes of alone time a day. • Put “we” first. Many people operate on a “me” mentality. When you’re part of a couple, give more to your spouse than you take. If he or she is do-ing the same, you’re working collectively for the benefit of the marriage instead of yourselves.

• Respect each other. Often couples having troubles realize they treat strangers better than they treat each other. Would you use the insults or unflattering terms that you sometimes throw at your spouse with a com-plete stranger? Probably not. Good marriages are based on a foundation of respect and love. It’s easy to lose feelings of love if the respect is gone. Couples can real-ize that there are some thorns that come with the roses of marriage, and staying happy together does take work for it to all be worth it.


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When brides-to-be think about their wedding

day, many think about that special moment when they first lay eyes on the person they are about to marry.

For many couples, that moment does not come until they are walking down the aisle with hundreds of eyes watch-ing. The whirlwind of the day is beginning and there is no time to emotionally connect with the person waiting for you at the other end of the aisle.

As an alternative to the tra-ditional first look, many couples opt to spend some quiet time together before the start of the ceremony. This alternative to the traditional first look, usually occurs a few hours before the wedding begins and offers sev-eral advantages for couples who don’t want to feel the strain of a strictly-scheduled wedding day.

A first look that takes place a few hours before the wedding ceremony begins allows the bride and groom to spend some quiet time with each other, away from the hustle and bustle of the wedding preparations. This quiet time gives the couple a chance to relax and talk about the day ahead. It also allows them to freely express their emo-tions – from nerves to excite-ment – about their upcoming wedding without worrying that anybody else is watching. For couples who value their privacy, a first look that takes place a few hours before the wedding can be an excellent opportunity to bask in each other’s company without having to worry about anybody or anything else.

Many photographers like the open time frame that a private first look offers. The first look is usually captured by the wedding photographer or videographer, but with the couple so far apart,

at opposite ends of the aisle, it can be difficult to get the reac-tions of the bride and groom at the same time. A first look that takes place before the start of the busy day gives the photogra-pher time to take extra photos of the bride and groom, instead of having to rush through wedding

pictures after the ceremony.Brides and grooms who

place a high value on tradition might opt to not see each other before the ceremony. At the end of the day, all that matters is that you are happy with the choice you made and you are married to the person you love.

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When asked to play a role in the wedding of a friend or

family member, most people are honored and willing to do whatever it takes. That willing-ness to be helpful is often a blessing, as wedding party participants each have their own unique responsibilities.Maid of Honor & Best Man

The maid of honor and best man are counterparts in the wedding. The bride and groom’s right hand woman and man, respectively, the maid of honor and best man are often siblings or very close friends of the bride or groom. The maid of honor might have the most responsibilities of anyone aside from the bride and groom. The maid of honor will help the bride shop for her dress and must also plan the bridal shower and the bachelorette

party. The maid of honor’s du-ties also extend to the wedding day itself, when she will be expected to help the bride get dressed and toast the new bride at the reception that night.

The best man’s role includes organizing the bachelor party and toasting the groom at the reception. The best man also plays a logistical role, organiz-ing the newlyweds’ transporta-tion to the airport the morning after the wedding as well as organizing the groomsmen’s gift to the couple.Bridesmaids & groomsmen

The role of the bridesmaids and groomsmen are similar. Typically, the role of brides-maid and groomsmen is to offer any assistance in making the ceremony go smoothly. Groomsmen may act as ushers, while bridesmaids might help address wedding invitations and choose vendors for the

ceremony and reception. How involved the bridesmaids and groomsmen become is often contingent on how close they live to the bride and groom and how much help is needed the day of the ceremony.Flower girl & ring Bearer

The flower girl and the ring bearer are typically very young members of the family. The flower girl will carry a basket of flowers during the wed-ding procession, often tossing flower petals on the ground to signify the bride’s entrance. The ring bearer is a boy and carries a pillow with the rings during the wedding procession.parents

The bride and groom’s par-ents play the role of hosts. The tradition of the bride’s parents paying for the wedding entirely by themselves has largely fallen by the wayside thanks to the escalating costs of throwing

a wedding. However, if the bride’s parents are footing the bill, then they will typically act as hosts of the wedding. In that instance, the groom’s parents will host the rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding.

During the ceremony, the bride is most often walked down the aisle by her father, though some brides choose to have both parents included in the walk down the aisle. The groom’s parents will often walk down the aisle ahead of the procession and take their seats.

The parents may also play a role in the months leading up to the wedding. For instance, the mother of the bride might help plan the bridal shower, while the father of the groom might help plan any activities, such as a golf outing, for the groomsmen and additional friends of the groom a day or two before the wedding.

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In today’s society, it is not uncommon for Brides-to-be to ask a pregnant

friend or family member to be in the bridal party.

Recent findings indicate that around half of all weddings now have at least one member of the bridal party showing off a baby bump. But before you make the jump and pick out things for your pregnant bridal party member, there are a few things to consider.

One of the things brides and bridesmaids often fret about is the gown they will be wearing. While nonpregnant members of the bridal party won’t fluctu-ate much in weight from the day of their first fittings to the wedding day, a pregnant woman is growing with new life within her. Some maternity designers create bridesmaid dresses for pregnant women, but they may not exactly match the other gowns. Ask the bridal store if alterations can be made to a standard gown, including ordering a much larger size, adding elastic panels or another way to ensure the gown will stretch over a growing belly. A gown with an empire waist will be flattering for the pregnant bridesmaid.

While pregnant, some women’s feet swell. Low heels

or ballerina slippers can be comfortable and fashionable.

Many activities during the wedding are bound to be tiring. But someone who is pregnant may feel it more than others. Ensure your mother-to-be has ample time to sit and rest.

From bachelorette parties to the wedding itself, be sure there are plenty of nonalcoholic drinks she can enjoy. Pregnant women need to have a lot of water to meet the physical de-mand of pregnancy as well.

In the latter months of the pregnancy, many doctors advise against air travel. Spending long hours in a car may be uncomfortable as well. You may want to revise your plans if your heart is set on having this woman in the bridal party.

It can be tiring for a preg-nant woman, especially one in the last trimester, to stand for a long period of time. If you are having a long, religious ceremony, arrange a seat so your bridesmaid can sit down and rest.

Although all eyes are generally on the bride on her special day, having a pregnant bridesmaid may garner a share of attention as well. A humble bride can share her spotlight for a while.

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In the past, many brides have opted to wear their blue where no one could see it, like on their garter belt or on a handkerchief pinned on the inside of their dress.

Modern day brides are taking mat-ters into their own hands making sure their aquatic or atmospheric colors are on display.

Jewelry is the most obvious way to

incorporate your favorite shade into your wedding day ensemble.

In arguably the most-anticipated and observed wedding of the year, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, wasn’t shy about showing off her sapphire engagement ring as she wed Prince William, but for those who need something more subtle, try a nice pair of azure earrings or a turquoise teardrop necklace.

Blue shoes, in any shade or height, are a fun semi-secret move for the tradition since most wedding gowns drape to the floor.

While some brides choose to keep a classic colored heel, such as white or ivory, they let their soles do the talking.

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on one foot and “Do” on the other sends the perfect message as a bride makes her way down the aisle.

To make it more personal, hand your bridesmaids a blue permanent marker to pen special notes on the bottom of your shoe as you walk in wisdom toward your new life.

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It can be intimidating to find a veil that looks good with your gown and facial shape, but a few simple tips can help you make the best choice for your wedding day.

Always pick your dress first. The wedding dress will be the focus of most of your guests attention when they look at you, so it is important that you don’t overload your look with accessories. Choose a veil that compliments the look of your dress. Your veil should flatter your dress. A bride who has chosen a short, cocktail-style dress may want to consider a shorter veil or a headpiece like a tiara or hat.

Consider whether or not you want a blusher. The blusher is the part of the veil that covers the face. If you choose a blusher for your veil, your groom will lift it up for your first kiss as man and wife.

A blusher gives more body to a veil, whereas veils that clip to the hair and do not have a blusher tend to be more sheer, which will work in your favor if you want to show off the back of your dress.

Think about the shape of your face. Since your veil will fall around your face, it is important that you highlight your natural beauty. Brides with round, full faces will benefit from veils that fall along the sides of the face, working to narrow it. Brides who have square or rectangular faces can help soften their jaw line with a long veil instead of a short one that accents their jaw and chin, while those with heart-shaped faces can compliment their look with a bit of width and volume.

Brides-to-be who are itching to get creative or leaning toward not having a veil at all have many options. Hats are contemporary alternatives to traditional veils.

Regardless of which type of head-piece you choose for your day, make sure you go with you gut instinct. Don’t let others talk you out of what you love.

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233-B Western Blvd. Suite1Jacksonville, NC 28546(910) 219-GOLD (4653)

Freedom Village Shopping CenterLocated by the new Wal-Mart

(910) 219-9797

For all your bridal needs...


Resource Guide

photographyChandler Studios

Richlands(910) 324-1646

www.jwchandler.com

Dawn’s Photography(910) 546-1534

dawnsphotographyworld.com

Portrait Studio1231 Holcomb Blvd, Camp Lejeune

(910) 750-8546

servicesA1 Cleaners

327 Henderson Drive, Jacksonville(910) 346-4900

1600 Wilmington Hwy, Jacksonville(910) 346-2712

Clean Caps, Ltd.7427 Matthews Mint Hill Rd

Suite 105-191, Charlottecleancapsltd.com

Coogan’s Creations(910) 455-4799

facebook.com/Coogans.Creations

Courtyard by Marriott151 Van Campen Blvd, Wilmington

(910) 395-8224marriott.com

Emerald Isle Realty7501 Emerald Drive, Emerald Isle

(866) 586-6980emeraldislerealty.com

Exclusive Elegant EventsJacksonville

(717) 926-6229exclusiveelegantevents.com

Fairfield Inn Marriott121 Circuit Lane, Jacksonville

(910) 938-4499

Forget-Me-Not Flowers715 Gum Branch Rd Suite 3, Jacksonville

(800) 553-8216forget-me-not-flowers.net

Island Essentials208 Bogue Inlet Drive, Emerald Isle

(888) 398-8887islandessentials.com

Panache34 East Thompson St, Jacksonville

(910) 347-28842panache.com

Petal Pushers7803 Emerald Dr Suite B, Emerald Isle

(252) 354-8787petalpushersshop.com

Towne Place Suites Marriott400 Northwest Drive, Jacksonville

(910) 478-9795marriott.com

Treasure Realty1950 NC Hwy 172 #N, Sneads Ferry

(910) 327-4444treasurerealty.com

The Wedding Shop4165 DR M L King Jr Blvd, New Bern

(252) 514-0446webebridal.com

shoppingThe Basement

237 South Marine Blvd, Jacksonville(910) 346-9833

Bradley’s Jewelers353 Western Blvd, Jacksonville

(910) 353-1450bradleyjewelers.com

The Corner Jeweler233 Western Blvd #B, Jacksonville

(910) 219-4653thecornerjeweler.com

The Dressing Room17 South 2nd St, Wilmington

(910) 233-8240dresswilmington.com

JR DunnCypress Bay Plaza, Morehead City

(252) 726-8700Emerald Plantation, Emerald Isle

(252) 354-5074jrdunndiamonds.com

transportationCape Fear Riverboats

101 South Water Street, Wilmington(910) 343-1611cfrboats.com

National Dodge2223 N Marine Blvd, Jacksonville

888-335-3079nationaldodge.net

Wilmington International Airport

1740 Airport Blvd, Wilmington(910) 341-4125www.flyilm.com

venuesBear Trail Golf

444 Harris Creek Rd, Jacksonville(910) 346-8160

beartrailgolf.com

Hudson Manor908 Moulton Road, Louisburg

(919) 497-0101thehudsonmanor.com

Mike’s Farm1600 Haw Branch Road, Beulaville

(910) 324-3422mikesfarm.com

NC Aquarium atPine Knoll Shores

1 Roosevelt Blvd, Pine Knoll Shores(252) 247-4003

ncaquariums.com

New Hanover Parks, Gardens & Senior Resource

230 Government Center DrSuite 120, Wilmington

(910) 798-7620nhcgov.com/Pages/PGSRC.aspx

Smoky Mountain Mansion559 Atoah Rd, Robbinsville

(866) 862-4220smokymountainmansion.com

Wilmington Historic River District

(877) 945 6386wilmingtonandbeachesoutings.com

otherSchool of Performing Arts

9 Tallman St, Jacksonville(910) 265-8939

ballroomdancingnc.com

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For more information, please contactSpecial Events Coordinators

252-247-4003 Ext 291 or Ext 260

Offering catering kitchen, tables and chairs, housekeeping

and event coordination

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