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Vol. LXVIII No. 44 | 6 Heshvan, 5775October 30, 2014 | njjewishnews.com

The search for sanctity in the wake of Washington’s mikva scandal 7

Troubled watersA GHOULISH SHABBAT?31

BEFORE THE BALLOTS

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Entertaining guests stylishly lends itself to sim-plicity, so throwing a party — even a Bar Mitzva — can be easy and relatively budget-friendly.

Here are some tips for the party planner on a budget: *Divide and conquer: To stay relaxed and keep the budget in check, invite a group of friends to help coordinate the party. Splitting up decoration and food-preparation tasks will reduce costs and the

strain on the host.*Keep drinks simple. Instead of over-spending on ingredients for signature cocktails, consider offer-ing just wine and beer. Believe it or not, even boxed wine has enjoyed increased popularity. Bota Box offers premium Cabernet Sauvignon, Chardonnay, Malbec, Merlot, Moscato, Shiraz, RedVolution (red wine blend) and Old Vine Zinfandel in non-break-able packaging. Each box contains the equivalent of four bottles of wine and eliminates the need for a corkscrew.

Boxed wine can also help to keep your party eco-friendly as well as budget-friendly. Bota Box labels are printed with soy-based inks on recycled paper that contains 100 percent post-consumer fiber and is 100 percent recyclable.*Keep the menu simple, fresh, and laid back. Let guests mingle and eat at their own pace by setting up a centrally located table displaying small bites and finger foods. Ideas include an antipasto platter with an array of cured meats, hummus and olives, sliced quesadillas, smoked salmon and dill on halved new potatoes, mini hamburger sliders, and chocolate chip cookies. *Keep decorations simple. Simple decor is most suitable for last-minute entertaining, but it can also be just as effective for parties planned well in advance. String twinkling white lights around the common or bar area for a subtle glow. Take a peek in your linen closets for table cloths and sheets that can serve double-duty, both at home and for the party. Mix and match various shapes and sizes of white or clear glass plates with a vari-ety of fun, patterned cloth napkins to keep costs down, design simple, and everyone happy.

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The autumn leaves bursting into vibrant reds, lively oranges, and brilliant yellows signal a new season for home entertaining, perfect for

a Shabbat dinner or a Sunday brunch as part of a weekend-long mitzva celebration. If you need a lit-tle inspiration, look no further than your favorite outdoor spot to update your table setting with the

hottest colors for fall 2014.“Contemporary versions of classic colors are

trending in the interior design realm this fall,” says John Griffith, visual merchandiser for dinnerware retailer Replacements, Ltd. “Rich deep Pantone colors including Sangria, Aurora Red, Cognac and Misted Yellow reflect the abundance of color you

see outdoors. The new Fiesta color, Poppy, is per-fect for autumn. Metallic finishes are also wildly popular, such as gold and copper.”

Customers frequently ask Griffith and designer Julie Robbins for creative guidance to refresh their family heirloom pattern table settings when hosting special events at home. Pattern blending is a spe-cialty of Robbins.

“Vintage dinnerware continues to be one of the trendiest design elements in the tabletop industry and those patterns are some of our best sellers,” says Robbins. “Why buy a reproduction when the real thing is readily available? Search your mother or grandmother’s china cabinet to find some of the great retro patterns. Add your own point of view when you mix and match contemporary designs to create a modern look. It’s really simple to add an accent plate, or a stand-out charger in this season’s colors to update your table for fall entertaining.”

Figural pieces, such as leaf shaped plates and serving pieces are very popular this fall. Many manufacturers are offering colorful accent pieces with favorites including fall leaves and pumpkin or gourd motifs.

“You can use pumpkins as a strong design ele-ment through Thanksgiving,” Griffith suggests. “Pumpkins made of glass, ceramic, and lightweight resin are big sellers in the store as we head into the season. Mix with the real thing to easily create a great centerpiece.” When mixed with more tradi-tionally Jewish or Shabbat-related décor, this adds a special, seasonal element to the table while keeping with tradition.


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“Appetizer size plates and indi-vidual dip bowls are great for finger foods and condiments,” says Robbins. “These smaller pieces are both popu-lar and affordable. Plus it’s fun to mix shapes, colors, or motifs.” Particularly for a post-celebration brunch, more casual fare lends itself to less formal tableware. Serve bagels and fruit salad by mixing and matching different fall-colored plates and bowls for a fun, casual look. Coffee cups and saucers also can incorporate different colors and designs, all in keeping with an autumnal look.

Still looking for more fall tabletop ideals? Help is just a click away. This team is now using Facebook to share decorating tips and solutions.

“We love partnering with our cus-tomers to solve their design dilem-mas,” says Robbins. “We’re thrilled when people reach out to us and ask questions on Replacements’ Face-book page. Our team is having a lot of fun connecting with our customers and we encourage people to visit our page, ask questions, like us, and share us with their friends; we get so many

great design challenges this way.”Once the team receives a question,

they create multiple mix and match options, photograph these table set-tings, then post the images online for the public to see and share.

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I t’s not enough to have just any handbag if you want to keep up with the latest trends for fall events

and parties. Now you need a hand-bag with bling, a scarf with a clip, a smartphone with a personalized cover, or a wallet designed to match the evening’s outfit. The latest in the fashion industry is all about acces-sories and how you accessorize the accessories.

Here are some of the latest trends that can keep you on top of the latest in fashion accessories without break-ing the bank:* Scarves: For women, scarves are being combined with neck jewelry for a unique new look. Try blending a single-colored scarf with a match-ing-colored clip at the throat, or you can thread a hoop around the scarf and hang a silver pendant like a necklace. Men are wearing scarves more frequently now to accentuate sports jackets, too, but they are not adding any additional decorations like women are.* Cellphones: Cellphone cases, head-phones and power cords used to be merely practical add-ons for keeping your phone protected, charged, and playing your music. Now you can personalize your smartphone with colors, pictures, designs, or even a pattern that matches your tie, if you want. CellPhoneCases.com has the accessories you need to accessorize your phone for a special event — screen protectors, chargers, data cables, pouches, and cases — some of

them suitable for a formal, evening event. With 10,000 cases available for all the latest cellphone models, you’ll be able to find exactly what you want at very reasonable prices. Plus, you can get a second phone charger with free shipping.* Wallets: Like cellphones, wallets and clutches are coming out in bright colors and featuring beautiful pic-tures and fun patterns to use for day-time or evening events. Black leather is always a classy option, of course, but if you’re into color, you may want to look for wallets and clutches to match your handbag, scarf, tie, eyeglasses, or even your shoes. Some people prefer wallets that depict images of a favorite pet, television show or flower, while others just want one that matches the colors of a special outfit.* Handbags: It seems busier is better when it comes to the look of hand-bags these days. Currently available handbag accessories include belts, hanging pendants, decorative han-dles, and even weighted hangers so the bag can hang from a table at a party. There is no set rule for what styles a woman must use and a unique look is preferred above all else.

With these tips for accessorizing your accessories, you’ll be current with the latest fashion trends to show off your stylish look at any b’nei mitzva, wedding, or special party this fall.

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