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Navigating in Beloved Community R A NK

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Page 1: Navigating Rank in Beloved Community

Navigating �

in Beloved Community

R A NK

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based on the work of Arnold Mindell and �

the Process Work Institute

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What IS

rank?

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rank = relative status

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Yes, RELATIVE status

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Why care?

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Because rank over�is like a drug.

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We tend to compare UP, noticing when�we have �LESS rank than others.  

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We often don’t notice when �we have MORE rank than someone.

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 BELOVED COMMUNITY �

therefore depends on

AWARENESS�of our rank

 

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and taking

RESPONSIBILITY��

for it.  

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This is a

BIG job because

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Consider FOOD, for example.�

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Rank these: •  Sushi •  Beef bourguinon •  Chitterlings •  Cheese soufflé •  Macaroni

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Does your ranking depend on more than your taste buds?

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Seattle Boston

New York Detroit

Oklahoma City Los Angeles

How about U.S. cities?

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What is your ranking based on?

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What about schools?

• Bunker Hill Community College • UCLA • Yale University • Pacific Lutheran • Texas A&M

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Now, what about people?

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Babies?

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Can’t we just learn to treat everyone equally?

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MAYBE: but we AREN’T all the same.

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DIFFERENCES SIZE ABILITY

ROLE identity

experience

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We can’t just get rid of rank.

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In fact, rank is complicated enough for there to be

4 types.

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Social rank 1

Institutional rank 2

Psychological rank 3

Spiritual rank 4

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•  Race •  Class •  Gender •  Gender

expression •  Sexuality •  Physical ability

•  Intelligence •  Age •  Nationality •  Language •  Education •  Pedigree  

Social rank 1

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•  Experience •  Tenure / Seniority •  Access to resources

(e.g. compensation, information, attention, etc.)

•  Role / Title •  Reputation •  Expertise

Institutional rank 2

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•  Emotional stability •  Free of trauma •  No “diagnosis”

•  Freedom from addiction • Clear sense of self  

Psychological rank 3

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•  Not attached to rank • Clear sense of purpose • Mindful, non-anxious

presence (here/now)

• Cosmic perspective • Deeply compassionate of

self and others

Spiritual rank 4

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These work together

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Spiritual

And shift continually

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Social

Spiritual

Psychological

depending on context

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So… notice

when you

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•  feel at ease •  speak first or most •  ooze confidence •  ignore others’

feelings •  think issues are

other people’s problem •  take up space and

resources •  believe you’re

entitled

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Is it time to check your rank?

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Similarly …notice

when you

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•  feel stressed

•  can’t find words

• doubt yourself

•  shrink

•  feel frustrated but don’t know why

•  give up or give in

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Is it time to assert yourself?

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We can’t get rid of rank  

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 but we can be

AWARE

�of it  

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and take

RESPONSIBILITY��

for it.  

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 BELOVED

COMMUNITY �depends on

that.

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To explore your personal rank, check out the

RANK INVENTORY

at�tinyurl.com/NERankInventory

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This is a

Production

Developed and created by�Hilary Allen, Meck Groot and Deborah Holder. We encourage you to share this presentation. �We give permission for you to use it toward

growing awareness of and encouraging responsibility for differences of rank in community.