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GREETINGS

When we reach life’s greatest crossroads, the choice of the decision we make must be done with much faith and love. My dear friends, WENDELL & IVY have approached these crossroads already with a lot of faith and a deeply nurtured friendship and love.

Let us then offer our thanks to God for having led them together in this love. Let us pray that He may bless and consecrate their commitment to each other and that WENDELL & IVY may freely and lovingly take upon them the task the Lord has entrusted to them, to live for each other and their future children, their family, their relatives and friends on their road through life to God. Let this day be memorable for all of us for the Lord have given us the blessing in witnessing this.

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Eucharistic Celebration of Nuptial Vows

Wendell & Ivy

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ProcessionalGentlemen march with ladies at their left in the following order:

BEST MAN Mr. Donald Sabandeja

PARENTS OF THE GROOMMrs. Pilar Auman & Mr. Nicolas Auman

GROOMMr. Wendell Auman

PRINCIPAL SPONSORSDr. Ma. Janet Porcia & Mr. James ChapmanMrs. Cecilia Blahut & Engr. Frederick ChiongMrs. Rita Malagar & Mr. Modesto JordanaMrs. Leonila Famador & Mr. Erlito Velasquez

CANDLE, VEIL & CORD SPONSORSMrs. Gracelle Auman & Mr. Florante AumanMs. Diana Auman & Mr. Benjamin AumanMs. Rowena Vercide & Mr. Romeo Seno

BRIDESMAIDS AND GROOMSMENMs. Karen Remedio & Mr. Heinz York MolijonMs. Evangeline Auman & Mr. Kent Hayden MolijonMs. Sheila Auman & Mr. Rex Doncillo

RING, COIN & BIBLE BEARERSMaster Arnold OchoaMaster Daniel Gabriel SenoMaster Vance Sydney Molijon

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FLOWER GIRLSMistress Allison AumanMistress Angela Christine GoMistress Patricia Porcia

MATRON OF HONOR Ms. Sarah Vercide

PARENTS OF THE BRIDE Dr. Heidi Doncillo-Centenera & Mr. Gabriel Centenera

BRIDEMs. Ivy Doncillo

OFFICIATING PRIEST Rev. Fr. Patrick Joseph Martin, C.Ss.R.

END OF PROCESSION

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OFFERERS

HOST AND WINEMr. Amado CalalangMrs. Rebecca Calalang

CANDLESMr. Danny GoMrs. Alma Go

FLOWERSMrs. Gloria D. SenoMrs. Rosario Remedio

FRUITSMs. Cesaria AumanMs. Romana Auman

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Eucharistic Celebration

Introductory Rites

Choir : Sing to the Mountains (To Be Sung)

Priest : In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

All : Amen.

Priest : May the grace and the peace of the Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you always.

All : And also with you.

Priest : My brothers and sisters we prepare ourselves to celebrate this Sacred Mysteries, let us call to mind our sins.

All : I confess to Almighty God, and to you my brothers and sisters, that I have sinned through my own faults, in my thoughts, and in my words, in what I have done and in what I have failed to do so. And I ask the Blessed Mary, ever Virgin, all the angels and saints and to you my brothers and sisters to pray for me to the Lord our God.

Priest : May Almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins and bring us to everlasting life.

All : Amen.

Choir : Lord, Have Mercy (To Be Sung)

Priest : Let us pray.

Almighty God, hear our prayers for WENDELL & IVY who have come here today to be united in the Sacrament of Marriage. Increase their faith in You and

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each other, and through them bless Your Church (with Christian children). We ask this through Lord Jesus Christ, Your Son, who lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God forever and ever.

All : Amen.

Everyone sits down for the First Reading.

Liturgy of the Word

First ReadingReader : A reading from the Song of Songs:

Hark! My lover! Here he comes springing across the mountains, leaping across the hills. My lover is like a gazelle or a young stag. Here he stands behind our wall, gazing through the window, peering through the lattices. My lover speaks. He says to me, “Arise, my beloved, my beautiful one and come! O my love in the clefts of the rocks, in the secret recesses of the cliff. Let me see you, let me hear your voice, for your voice is sweet and you are lovely.” My lover belongs to me and I to Him. He said to me, “Set me as a seal in your heart, as a seal on your arm. For storm as death is love, relentless as the netherworld as devotion, its flames are a blazing fire. Deep waters cannot quench love nor flood sweep it away.”

This is the Word of the Lord.

All : Thanks be to God.

Responsorial PsalmReader : Let our response be: “I will bless the Lord at all times.”

(Please repeat).

All : I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES

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Reader : I will bless the Lord at all times; His praise shall ever be in my mouth. My soul will glorify in the Lord that the poor may hear and be glad.


Reader : Glorify the Lord with me. Let us exalt His name together. I sought the Lord and He answered me and delivered me from all my fears.


Reader : Look to God that you may be radiant with joy, and your faces may not blush with shame. When the afflicted man called out, the Lord heard, and from all his distress He saved him.


Reader : The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him and delivers them. Taste and see how good the Lord is, happy the man who takes refuge in Him.


Second ReadingReader : A reading from the first letter of St. Paul to the

Corinthians.

Set your hearts on the greater gifts. I will show you the way which surpasses all the others. If I speak with human tongues and angelic as well, but do not have love, my speech is no more than a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and with full knowledge, comprehend all mysteries, if I have faith great enough to move mountains but have no love, I am nothing. If I give everything I have to feed the poor and hand over my body to be burned, but have not loved, I gain nothing.

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Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on sins, it is not snobbish. Love is never rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger, and neither does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice in what is wrong, but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to love’s forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power to endure. Love never fails.

This is the Word of the Lord.


Reader : Let us pray. Please rise to honor the Holy Gospel.

The Gospel

Choir : Alleluia, Alleluia (To Be Sung)

Priest : The Lord be with you!

All : And also with you!

Priest : A reading from the Holy Gospel according to St. John.

All : Glory to You, Lord Jesus Christ!

Priest : Jesus said to His disciples, “As the father has loved me, so I have loved you. Live on with my love. You will live in my love if you keep my commandments, even as I have kept my Father’s commandments and live in His love. All this I tell you so that my joy maybe yours and your joy may be complete. This is my commandment: love one another as I have loved you.”

This is the Gospel of the Lord.

All : Praise to You, Lord Jesus Christ!

HomilyEveryone sits down while priest makes his Homily

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Rites of Marriage:

AllocutionAfter the Homily, the Principal Sponsors and the priest will stand. The priest will address the couple. All the rest will remain seated.

Priest : Dearly beloved WENDELL & IVY, you are here today to seal your love with an eternal bond before the Church. I assure you of the prayers of our community that God may pour His abundant blessings on your love and help you to carry out the duties of marriage state.

And you, dear brothers and sisters, may I ask you to help them with your prayers and accept them as a new couple in our Christian Community.

ScrutinyPriest : WENDELL & IVY, may I now ask you to answer

truthfully the following questions.

IVY, did you come here today in your own free will to bind yourself forever in love and service of your husband?

Ivy : Yes, Father.

Priest : WENDELL, did you come here today in your own free will to bind yourself forever in love and service of your wife?

Wendell : Yes, Father.

Priest : Are you ready to raise as good Christians the children whom God will give you?

Wendell & Ivy: Yes, Father.

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Exchange of ConsentPriest : WENDELL & IVY since you wish to contract Holy

Matrimony, please join your right hands and express your intention before God and His Church.

Priest : IVY, do you take WENDELL here present to be your lawful husband according to the rite of our Holy Mother, the Church?

Ivy : Yes, I do.

Priest : Do you give yourself to him as his wife?

Ivy : Yes, I do.

Priest : WENDELL, do you take IVY here present to be your lawful wife according to the rite of our Holy Mother, the Church?

Wendell : Yes, I do.

Priest : Do you give yourself to her as her husband?

Wendell : Yes, I do

Priest : Now please say together.

Wendell & Ivy: Grant us, O Lord, to be one heart and one soul from this day forward for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.

Confirmation of the Marriage BondPriest : And I, by the authority of the Church, calling on all

those present here as witnesses, confirm and bless the bond of marriage which you have contracted in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

All : Amen.

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Blessing of the Arrhae and RingsRing, Coin and Bible bearers will come forward assisted by the Best Man and Matron of Honor and will stand at the right side of the priest.

Priest : WENDELL & IVY we shall now bless your arrhae and ring. Our help is in the need of the Lord.

All : Who made heaven an earth.

Let us pray. Bless O Lord Your servants WENDELL & IVY with sufficiency of material possessions which these arrhae symbolize so that they may use them to attain eternal life through Christ Our Lord.

All : Amen.

Priest : Bless, O Lord, these rings so that Your servants, WENDELL & IVY who will wear them may live in mutual love and unbroken loyalty through Christ Our Lord.

All : Amen.

Ring, Coin and Bible Bearers will return to their seats. The Best Man will take hold of the rings and take his place on the groom’s side. The Matron of Honor will also take hold of the coins and take her place on the bride’s side.

Giving of the Wedding Rings and the Arrhae

Priest takes the rings from the Best Man and gives it to Wendell and Ivy

Priest : Now give this ring to one another and say after me:

Wendell : IVY, wear this ring as a sign of my love and loyalty in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

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Ivy : WENDELL, wear this ring as a sign of my love and loyalty in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

Priest takes the arrhae, from the Matron of Honor and gives it to Wendell.

Wendell : IVY, I give you this arrhae as a pledge of my dedication to your welfare in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

Ivy : And I accept them.

Everyone stands for the Prayers of the Faithful

Prayers of the FaithfulPriest : Dearly beloved, let us now pray for the church and for

our newly wedded couple whose marriage reflect their union with Christ, Let our response be, GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!

Reader : For the Holy Church spread over the world, for its leaders and for the rulers of our nation. Let us pray to the Lord!

All : GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!

Reader : For the poor and the sick and all those in trial and afflictions. Let us pray to the Lord!


Reader : For WENDELL & IVY that they may keep their hearts united forever and all married couples. Let us pray to the Lord!


Reader : That He may stir up the grace of the sacrament in all the married couples here present. Let us pray to the Lord!


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Reader : Almighty, Eternal God, look down with favor upon your servants. Grant them to remain faithful to You and to one another. At the end of a long well spent life, reward them with eternal happiness together with all those who love them. This we ask through Christ our Lord.

All : Amen.

Offertory

Choir : Bless these Gifts (To Be Sung)

Everyone sits down and the persons who will offer the candles, flowers, fruits, bread and wine will now proceed to bring in these gifts to the altar.

Liturgy of the EucharistPriest : Blessed are You, Lord, God of all creation. Through

Your goodness we have this bread to offer, which earth has given and human hands have made. It will become for us the bread of life.

All : Blessed be God forever!

Priest : By the mystery of the water and wine, may we come to share on the divinity of Christ who humbled Himself to share in our humanity.

Priest : Blessed are You, Lord of all creation. Through Your goodness we have this wine to offer, fruit of the vine and work of our human hands. It will become our spiritual drink.

All : Blessed be God forever!

Priest : Lord God, we asked You to receive us and be pleased with the sacrifice we offer You with humble and contrite hearts.

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Priest : Pray my bothers and sisters that our sacrifice may be acceptable to God, the Almighty Father.

All : May the Lord accepts this sacrifice from your hands, for the praise and glory of His name, for our good and the good of all His Church.

Priest : Lord, hear our prayers and accept the gifts we offer for WENDELL & IVY. Today, You have made them one in the sacrament of marriage. May the mysteries of Christ’s unselfish love, which we celebrate in this Eucharist. We ask this in the name of Jesus the Lord.

All : Amen.

Preface Priest : The Lord be with you!

All : And also with you!

Priest : Lift up your hearts.

All : We lift them up to the Lord.

Priest : Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.

All : It is right to give Him thanks and praise.

Priest : Father, all powerful and ever living God, we do will always and everywhere give You thanks.

By this Sacrament, Your grace unifies man and woman in an unbreakable bond of love and peace. You have designed the chaste love of husband and wife for the increase of the human family and of Your family born in baptism.

You are the loving Father of the world of nature. You are the loving Father of the new creation of grace. In Christian marriage You bring together the two orders of creation, nature’s gift of children enriches the world and Your grace also enriches the Church.

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Through Christ, the choir of angels and all the Saints praise and worship Your glory. May our voices blend with theirs as we join in their unending hymn.

Choir : Holy, Holy (To Be Sung)

While the Choir sings “Holy, Holy”, bride and groom kneel down. Candle Sponsors will now come forward to light the two candles. The Veil Sponsors will then come forward to drape a white veil over the shoulders of the groom and over the head of the bride. The Cord Sponsors will then put the cord over the shoulders of the bride and groom. Bride and groom will remain kneeling until after Communion.

Eucharistic Prayer IIPriest : Lord, You are Holy indeed, the fountain of all holiness.

Let Your Spirit come upon these gifts to make them holy so that they may become for us the body and blood of our Lord, Jesus Christ.

Before He was given up to death, the death He freely accepted, He took the bread and give You thanks. He broke the bread, gave it to His disciples and said:

“TAKE THIS ALL OF YOU AND EAT IT. THIS IS MY BODY WHICH WILL BE GIVEN UP FOR YOU.”

When supper was ended, He took the cup. Again, He gave You thanks and praise, gave the cup to His disciples and said:

“TAKE THIS ALL OF YOU, AND DRINK FROM IT. THIS IS THE CUP OF MY BLOOD. THE BLOOD OF THE NEW AND EVERLASTING COVENANT. IT WILL BE SHED FOR YOU AND FOR ALL MEN SO THAT SINS MAY BE FORGIVEN. DO THIS IN MEMORY OF ME.”

Priest : Let us proclaim the Mystery of Faith.

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Choir : Christ has died, Christ has risen, and Christ will come again. (to be sung)

Priest : In memory of His death and resurrection, we offer You, Father, this life-giving bread, this saving cup. We thank You for counting us worthy to stand in Your presence and serve You. May all of us who share in the Body and Blood of Christ, be brought together in unity by the Holy Spirit.

Lord, remember Your Church throughout the world, make us grow in love together with Benedict, our Pope, Ricardo, our bishop and all our clergy. Remember our brothers and sisters who have gone to their rest in the hope of rising again. Bring them and all the departed into the light of Your presence.

Have mercy on us all. Make us worthy to share eternal life with Mary, the Virgin Mother of God, with the Apostles and with all the Saints who have done Your will throughput the ages. May we praise You in union with them and give You glory through Your Son, Jesus Christ.

Priest : Through Him, with Him and in Him, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, all glory and honor is Yours Almighty Father, forever and ever.

All : Amen.

Communion RitesPriest : Let us pray with confidence to the Father in the words

our Savior gave us.

All : (To be sung with both hands raised) Our Father who art in Heaven, Holy be Thy name. Your Kingdom come, Your will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our sins as we forgive our debtors, and lead us not into

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temptation and deliver us from evil. For Thine is the Kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.

Nuptial BlessingPriest : My dear friends let us ask God for His continued

blessing upon WENDELL & IVY.

Holy Father, creator of the universe, maker of man and woman, in Your likeness, source of blessing for married life, we humbly pray to You for this man and woman who today are united in the Sacrament of marriage.

May Your fullest blessing come upon them so that they may together rejoice in Your gifts of married love and enrich Your Church with their children. Lord, may they both praise You when they are happy and turn to You in their sorrows. May they be glad that You help in their work and know that You are with them in their needs. May they pray to You in the community of the Church and be Your witnesses in the world. May they reach old age in the company of their friends and come at last in the kingdom of heaven. We ask this through Christ Our Lord.

All : Amen.

Sign of peacePriest : Lord, Jesus Christ You said to Your Apostles: “I leave

you peace, My peace I give you.” Look not in our sins but on the faith of Your Church and grant us peace and unity of Your Kingdom where You live forever and ever.

All : Amen.

Priest : The peace of the Lord be with you always.

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All : And also with you.

Priest : Let us offer each other a sign of peace.

Everyone turns around and say to one another;

All : Peace be with you!

Priest : May the mingling of the body and blood of our Lord Jesus Christ bring eternal life to those who receive it.

Choir : Lamb of God (To Be Sung)

Lamb of God, You take away the sins of the world, Have mercy on us. Lamb of God, You take away the sins of the world, Have mercy on us, Lamb of God, You take away the sins of the world, Grant us peace.

Breaking of the BreadPriest : Lord Jesus Christ, with faith in Your love and mercy, I

eat Your Body and drink Your Blood. Let it not bring me condemnation but health in mind and body.

This is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. Happy are those who are called to His supper.

All : Lord I am not worthy to receive You but only say the word and I shall be healed.

Priest : May the Body and Blood of Christ bring us to everlasting life.

All : Amen.

Holy Communion

Choir : Communion Hymns (To Be Sung)

While the Choir sings the communion hymns, the priest gives communion to the newly weds and then gives communion to everyone.

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Prayer after the CommunionPriest : Let us pray. Almighty God may the sacrifice we have

offered and the Eucharist we have shared strengthen the love of WENDELL & IVY and give us all Your fatherly aid.

All : Amen.

After the Prayer after Communion, the Veil and the Cord Sponsors may now come forward to remove the Cord and the Veil from the couple.

Solemn BlessingPriest : May the Lord Jesus who was a guest at the wedding in

Cana bless you and your families and friends.

All : Amen.

Priest : May Jesus who loved His Church to the end, always fill your hearts with His love.

All : Amen.

Priest : May He grant that as you believe in His resurrection, so you may wait for Him in joy and hope.

All : Amen.

Priest : May the Almighty Father bless you all, the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.

All : Amen.

Priest : The mass has been offered. Go in peace and serve the Lord.


Choir : Final Hymn (To Be Sung)

Signing Of Marriage Contract

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ORDER OF PICTURE TAKING

COUPLE WITH PRIEST

THE COUPLE

COUPLE WITH BRIDE’S PARENTS

COUPLE WITH GROOM’S PARENTS

COUPLE WITH BOTH PARENTS

COUPLE WITH BOTH PARENTS AND SIBLINGS

COUPLE WITH PRINCIPAL SPONSORS

COUPLE WITH SECONDARY SPONSORS

COUPLE WITH MATRON OF HONOR & BEST MAN

COUPLE WITH MATRON OF HONOR, BEST MAN, BRIDESMAIDS, GROOMSMEN, FLOWER GIRLS, & BEARERS

COUPLE WITH BRIDES MAIDS AND GROOMSMEN

COUPLE WITH FLOWER GIRLS AND BEARERS

COUPLE WITH MASS READERS AND OFFERERS

COUPLE WITH BRIDE’S RELATIVES

COUPLE WITH GROOM’S RELATIVES

COUPLE WITH THEIR FRIENDS

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This special affair will always be remembered in our whole life not only because it has consummated our wishes of being one, but most especially because of your presence.

Thank you for sharing this special moment with us!

Wendell and Ivy

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