Mentoring Youth Tool #4

Steps in our Disciplemaking Process

The Importance of Mentoring

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Mentoring

Why Should We Mentor Youth?• It is our God-given responsibility• Only people can make disciples• Jesus spent time with crowds AND individuals• Youth need help to grow through the 12 Steps

Mentoring Youth

Who Should We Choose to Mentor?• Reliable – those who can be trusted.• Excited – those who want to grow.• Authentic – those who are real.• Daring – those who are adventurous• Young – those who are humble and eager

Mentoring Youth

How Do We Mentor Youth?• Let youth watch you as you follow Jesus• Turn mundane moments into teachable moments• Let them learn from your mistakes• Be real and don’t pretend

Mentoring Youth

What are the Guidelines for Mentoring?• Notify a leader of the relationship• Mentor the same sex• Discuss your intentions with their parents• Practise the safety technique: - Stop and ask if it is a wise activity - Look to make sure someone is around - Listen to your gut and the Holy Spirit

Mentoring Youth

Developing Your Mentoring Relationships

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DISCIPLER SPIRITUALGUIDE

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TEAC HER SPO NSO R M O DELS

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DISCIPLER SPIRITUALGUIDE

CO AC H CO UN S-ELLO R

TEAC HER SPO NS O R M O DELS

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Dow nward Mentors

Peer Co-Mentors

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