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Like Shooting Fish in a Barrel:

How to Use House Parties to Get Laid

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Table of Contents

Part 1: Social Circle Game: The Warm

Approach………………………………..5

Part 2: Under the Radar Picking Up Girls By “Gaming Without

Game.”….......…8

Part 3: Dominating Your Social Circle……………………………………….11

Part 4: Bringing It All Together: A Tale Of

Success…………………………….14

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When it comes to gaming without game, I want to first talk to you about building social

circle game. These are simple effective strategies that Edge and I discovered to create

success where I had 42 girls in one room fighting over me every weekend. Doing it all

without any ‘traditional game’. No lines, gimmicks, or weird stuff. No just “being

yourself” and not getting results or trying to be “in state” all the time to get results. A

new method to game that is simple, step-by-step and effective. Keep reading and YOU

can have success like this too…



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Part 1

Social Circle game: The Warm Approach

Why is a social circle, small town, or college so different from meeting women out in a

big city?

Simple: There is a limited number of people in a smaller environment.

When you’re in a smaller environment, you don’t have the luxury of field testing your

game and learning to calibrate by approaching 5,000 women. You game ‘traditionally’

and you have to get it right the first time or you run the risk of forever being labeled as

the weird guy using lines like that VH1 show.

I like to think of everything from a small town, a social circle, and even a college or

university as just one social circle. A small town, a college, and a university are giant

social circles, but they are still social circles. I call it a closed social circle because you

tend to see the same people over and over again or at least the same core people.

Whether you all go to the same school, live near each other, or have a mutual friend:

there is the fact that you have something in common and that makes the world of

difference when compared to doing traditional cold approaches in a large city.

This is how I think about it: When you are out at a bar or club, you can go out and

practice anything you want. You have the ability to screw up and still go back to the

same bar next weekend and no one from the week before will be there or if they are

they certainly won’t remember you. This gives you time to practice and fine-tune your

‘game.’



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Plain and simple you don’t have the luxury of testing out tactics and techniques or

“warming up” in closed social circle, instead you have to go under the radar in a way

people won’t even realize you’re ‘gaming’.

I am sure you have read plenty of stuff on pick-up and tried a few things here and

there. You’ve probably even had a little success from time to time, but when you think

about applying it in a small social setting like a social circle, a college, a small town or in

a group of friends, you find that a lot of what has been written doesn’t make practical

sense.

In fact, most guys say that they can’t practice “game” in the PUA-sense around people

who know them for one reason or another. Maybe you feel embarrassed or scared or

feel like your friends “just wouldn’t understand”. I would say that those feelings of

reluctance to use classic PUA game in close company is probably a very good fear to

have – if you think using traditional stuff is unusual, weird and creepy to the average

person, then that’s a clue that it’s time to explore some down-to-earth alternatives.

Simply put: Most of what’s out there is geared toward meeting women at bars, clubs,

and during the day in a giant city that has a huge population.

Those are all places where making a fool of yourself won’t have a lasting impact since it

won’t be remembered by your audience. But regardless of whether or not you’re in a

big city, there are going to be plenty of situations where you want to succeed with

women, but you’re with your “normal” friends and you are not totally anonymous.

In a closed social circle the main venues are house parties, whether they are small get-

togethers or giant “keggers”. No matter how small or large the number of people at the

party, the environment and the dynamics are similar. Everyone has something in

common or knows someone there or they all go to the same school and by the 2nd or 3rd

party everyone knows everyone.

Because the dynamics at house parties are so completely different, a specialized

approach to game is required. Sure you can use all the stuff you’ve read about or used



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during the day or at a club, but what if I told you there was a fool-proof way to run a type

of game where it is impossible for you to fail AND where it is impossible for anyone to

realize that you are ‘gaming.’ Would you want you learn it?

Now that you have a good idea of the foundational different style that we have been

developing for “gaming without game,” we are going to next talk about the theory behind

“gaming without game” in a social circle setting so you can be the guy women are

magnetically drawn too without having to be on any sports team, looking like a GQ stud

or being rich and privileged. We’re talking about the guy who is not necessarily

genetically/physically gifted (six-pack, super tall, incredibly handsome) and yet with this

new cutting-edge style of ‘gaming without game’ you will always do very well with

women.



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Part 2Social Circle Gaming: Under the Radar Picking Up Girls by “Gaming without Game.”

If you want to get the girl in a closed social circle, then you’re going to want to know how

to succeed with women at house parties. The first and most important thing to know is

that the classical style of pickup doesn’t work if you don’t have perfect calibration from

years in the field.

Everything that is out there is geared toward bars and clubs and not closed social

circles.

We have talked about the dynamics of a small social circle of friends to an entire

University and how they are just a closed social circle. If you are at a venue where

everyone has something in common, then the dynamics are more like a small social

circle then that of a club in a giant city where no one has anything in common.

This leads us to the question how to game in closed social circles

House parties are very common in the world of closed social circles. I like to use

“house party” as an all-encompassing term for venues in social circles. Whether they

are parties, BBQ’s or get-togethers, they are all at someone’s house and they are all



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parties. When you are at a house party the dynamic is completely different. Everyone

there knows someone else, and they all know the host or at the very least they all have

heard of the host or they wouldn’t be there.

It’s completely different from a bar in a big city where there is an endless stream of new

women. You’ve probably been out and if you frequent the same parties you will notice

that they have way more ‘regulars’ than a club.

Simply the problem that comes about with ‘traditional game’ in a social circle is if you

make a fool of yourself or have a really bad blow out, it’s not like you can leave and

come back to the social circle again and no one will remember. It’s a closed venue and

once you’re labeled, that label will follow you around even for four years at college.

This led me to really delve into the problems of social circle game to find solutions.

The downfall of ‘traditional game’ is that you have to be really well-calibrated to run it. If

you’re like me, then you want the best results and you want them the first time (not the

535th time).

I went to work with the goal of cutting out all the frills and pitfalls of game and just boiling

it down to what works and what is completely undetectable.

How you might ask?

I went out and studied the guys that seemed to get it; the jocks, the frat boys, the hosts

of the parties. I always used to think, how did that dumb frat boy get a new, super hot

girl every weekend when he could barely string a coherent sentence together?

Well after a lot of studying and 6 months of trial and error, I came to the conclusion that

he really used simple core elements to get the girl. Using what we knew from being in



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the seduction community and studying game for years, we backward-engineered and

created our own method to not only get the GIRL once, but EVERY TIME.

This is how:

By being the facilitator of fun while intelligently tweaking Social Proof and Pre-Selection.

There is a reason guys throw parties religiously, and it’s not to get drunk. It’s to get laid.

Think about it. If you can create a situation where you are the facilitator of fun (the guy

that is controlling everyone’s fun time), then you can have it made. If you are the guy

where everyone’s weekend fun time depends on you, then you have a ridiculous

amount of social power. You can make or break an entire weekend for your guests.

Think about that one amazing party you’ve gone to, the one that topped them all. The

one that to this day was the most memorable of all time. Imagine if you did that every

month or, hell, every weekend.

If you can be that guy in charge or if you can just be in his entourage, then you are a

VIP and you get all the perks, just like him.

The goal is to be in complete control of everyone’s evening. Then you have the ultimate

power. You can get any girl there, anytime.

You’ve seen it in the movies and you’ve seen it in your own life. Picture the guy that

could have any girl on campus and I am going to show you how you can get results just

like him in the next article. You can become the guy that women find interesting and

even approach.

At the same time you don’t have to do anything weird or over the top. There will be no

spitting out canned one-liners. Instead you get it right. It’s not super obvious.



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Part 3Dominating your Social Circle:

Picking Up Girls the FOOLPROOF WAY by Hosting Your Own House Parties

The best part about gaming in a closed social circle is that you can set up situations

where you are in complete control. House parties are unlike any other environment

unless you’re one of the lucky ones to own a club or bar. House parties give you an

extreme amount of control and power. In my opinion, they are the best way to get girls.

It’s really like shooting fish in a barrel.

If you want a truly powerful and fool-proof way to get any girl, then this is it. Really as I

just said and I want to stress this that the best comparable thing to having your own

house party is like owning your own high-end club in a giant city. You decide who

comes in and you decide who gets kicked out. You are in control.

If you go to college or like to have social gatherings, then creating a situation where you

get a nonstop-flow of girls is extremely easy.



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To do this it is all about being the leader and being in complete control while tweaking

your social proof through the roof. Don’t worry, it is easier done than even said. It

comes down to 3 simple steps.

1. Be the Organizer

2. Make it the best event ever (we talk in detail about how to do this)

3. Tweak your Clientele

Everyone is always looking for something to do. Step up and be the organizer. Talk up

your events and plan them well. Most people are too lazy to plan anything. If you take

a tiny bit of initiative and get the ball rolling, you stand miles above the competition and

you are in control and in the role of the leader. You are automatically the leader.

Being the host gives you a powerful position, one where you can make every event the

best event ever. This is way simpler then you might think. It comes down to two things.

1. An intelligent knowledge of party logistics. This includes things like making sure you

have enough beer, liquor and, of course, good iPod DJ skills.

2. Making sure everyone is having a good time.

Making sure everyone has a good time runs right into the 3rd step of social circle

domination; tweaking your clientele. This comes down to inviting girls and more girls.

The motto I use is that girls bring value and guys suck out value. Girls talk with each

other and guys get drunk and want to fight.



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Tweaking your clientele takes time, but it can be done simply by repeatedly throwing

get-togethers and each time only inviting back the girls and not the guys. The exception

to this is guys who truly do add value to the party overall – these types of guys are great

because they usually bring girls and they help everyone have a great time.

If you follow these 3 steps, you will build up extreme social proof and at the same time

you are in the role of the leader. You control the fun. You are the source of good

energy and a fun time. You are leading and controlling everyone’s weekend fun. If they

go home after your party thinking it was the best party ever, you start to develop a

reputation for yourself.

Inviting back and partying with more girls than guys gives you extreme social proof.

You can amp it up to the next level. Instead of just being the leader and having all the

social proof, imagine packing your parties with just girls. You and 10 girls or you and 50

girls. Now you are throwing extreme pre-selection into the mix.

I used to do this all the time. Imagine being in your living room with 40+ girls. All of

them wanting to talk to you. All of them competing for your time.

It’s really simple to do if you follow the steps I’ve laid out in this article and I will be

putting out a free PDF to help you get to the next level.

Once you implement these new cutting-edge tactics on how to ‘game without game”

then all the game you need boils down to ‘let me show you the house tour’ and then

take them to your bedroom. This is only the beginning if you are interested in learning

more, check out our extensive book which will guide you in great detail on how you can

achieve the success you want at www.alphamalesystem.com/houseparty




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Part 4

Brining it all together: A Tale Of Success

Unlike “traditional game,” there is a way to game without using other people’s canned

lines or having to adopt a new personality that isn’t your own. In my quest to find

something that would work for me without having to drastically shift my personality or to

fake it, I came across the creation of an extremely potent social-proof dynamic. A

situation so powerful there is no possible way you would not achieve the success with

women you are looking for.

If you look at the core of what makes women attracted to you and utilize it and then

amplify those situations and characteristics, you can have amazing success. You can

apply natural, scientifically proven strategies so you can fly completely under the radar

and achieve massive success.

This is how to do it…



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First let’s look at being a leader. Being in control and being a leader is naturally

attractive. Men in power who are in control of things are naturally attractive. Women

gravitate toward them and throw themselves at these men.

Where is the one place you can be in absolute control of what’s going on?

A party at your house.

In other words if you start hosting events you will get results like a rock star.

You decide who comes in and who doesn’t get to come in. You decide what everyone

drinks and what everyone dances too. Whether it’s a big gathering of 100 people or a

small one with only 8: If you are in control, you are being the dominant leading force in

everyone’s night regardless of whether you are personally talking to them.

Let’s add another simple strong proven attraction builder: Social Proof (Pre-selection)

“If a man is perceived to be in the company of attractive women, or is associated with

them, then his perceived social value and attractiveness will be perceived to be greater.

The implied cognition in this case would be "All those girls seem to really like him, there

must be something about him that's of high value.” – Wikipedia

It’s has been scientifically proven that social proof is a hard-wired attraction switch and

there is no better place to create massive social proof than in your own home where you

can be in complete control of the situation.

If you organize events, parties, BBQ’s, or social gatherings centered on the theme of

creating massive social proof for yourself, then you will have girls approaching you that

have already heard about you, but haven’t met you yet. You will have girls following you

around, fighting for your attention. You will have girls throwing themselves at you and it

will become a synergistic effect that multiplies as you capitalize on the different

elements of being an awesome host.



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If you have studied psychology, then you might be familiar with the fact that most people

operate with a herd mentality. They look to others for their reactions and take cues of

what is acceptable behavior and everyone pretty much does what everyone else is

doing. People don’t necessarily like to admit this, but it is more often the case that

people will go along with just about anything if they believe that everyone else is OK

with it.

When you combine and capitalize upon those two basic premises for female attraction

by organizing events with tons of women, you become the leader and you are in a

position of power with massive social proof. Unlike a bar or club, when you organize or

host your events you control the people at your events. This allows you to tweak the

“clientele” for maximum effectiveness. Think you and lots of hot girls.

The Party Creating a feeding frenzy of girls with you in the center is actually very easy. In the

simplest terms, you can create it through parties by inviting only girls. You don’t need to

be the jock or the foot ball player, just being your normal self is enough. As long as you

are providing a fun environment, anything is possible.

To cultivate the perfect environment you need to create pre-selected social proof. This

can be accomplished by throwing parties or events and every time only inviting girls.

They will bring guys with them sometimes so you will end up with a mix at first but for

the next party or event, just invite the girls back and new girls you meet. Every time you

expand your social circle by throwing events and by inviting random girls you meet it

gets better. You can continually develop a core group of girls that come back and bring

more girls for you just by having fun events. The goal is to have a good ratio with

always significantly more girls then guys.

“Gaming without Game”



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The best part about the logistics of the situation is that your core group of girls does all

the attraction game for you. Once you have a few parties under your belt people tell

their friends about your amazing parties and how great of a host you are. They talk you

up and by the time you throw another one, the new girls who get to your party will have

already head about you. You created an amazing reputation for yourself without

actually doing anything. It’s the next best thing to being famous. You are becoming

famous within the social circle.

You can do this on a large scale with a lot of people or a small scale.

Maybe you like throwing giant parties and mixing it up with 100 different 21 year old

college girls.

OR Maybe you want to have a swanky black dress and martini cocktail party with 12

sophisticated women.

How this works in the real world

After throwing 3 parties, I had tweaked our guests to around 100 girls and no guys. I go

over exactly how to do this in more detail in the main guide. It was perfect. We would

invite a little over 100 girls and about 40 would show up with a total of 2 or 3 guys.

Now this is a ratio that is bound to get you the results you are looking for.

Imagine walking into your house with 40+ girls all dressed in bikinis ready for your

beach party just begging for your attention. (Your living room is the only beach you



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need) Needless to say, I felt like I had finally made it and you can too.

Besides the fact that you will feel like you’re living in Hollywood as a movie star, you

don’t have to do much work to make all your guests think it’s the most amazing party

every. Your girls as guests take care of themselves. They talk with each other and if

you keep the drunken creepy guys out of the party then, by default, you pretty much

have the best party they have ever been to. All the girls talk amongst themselves and

then they take turns hitting on you because you are the host.

What could be better?

I really started to feel like I was a famous celebrity. You can too: Just follow the steps

I’ve laid out.

As you build your core group of girls, the ones that come to your first parties; the ones

you develop a little rapport with will start to consistently come up to you and introduce

you to their other friends who will have already heard about you thanks to them. No

approaching necessary. All the new girls at the party would come up and then basically

beg for my contact information so they could come to the next party. When you’re in

demand, women are a lot more friendly to you than they are to the average guy.

This is my reality and it can be yours too.

After soaking in the newfound fame that my beach party had begun to create for me, the

night got even more interesting. To my astonishment random girls I had not met yet

started to come up to me and strike up conversations about how they thought they knew

me. I felt on top of the world.



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Let me tell you, the ratio of 10 girls to every 1 guy makes for quite the competitive

environment for the girls. As the night went on, to my amazement, one girl began to

really aggressively pursue me. She was a short skinny brunette with a gorgeous face

and a nice rack. She was hot. She came up to me and we started to have a

conversation about how she thought I looked like someone who worked at some bar

down town and then she proceeded to drag me on to the dance area where she started

to make out with me. I was a little shocked at first as the entire night had been filled

with one reality shattering event after another and now I had a hot girl shoving her

tongue in my mouth without ever even approaching her. She approached me.

Apparently she had heard about my parties from her friends and now the pre-selection

in the room was too much for her to handle. I could tell instantly this was a homerun if I

wanted it to be.

The funny thing about having so many options is that you have to weigh them first and

not jump hastily to the easiest. It was my party and the girls I had invited had done the

work for me already. No traditional ‘game’ required and all the girls in the room were

looking at me and wanted me. Still, I wanted to push the envelope, so I excused myself

to go make sure we didn’t need to refill the beer. This girl was hot, but she wasn’t the

absolute hottest in the room.

I start walking around, making my rounds as the host and looking at my potential

options. I was chatting causally with everyone and making sure they were having a

great time. All over the room, girls are looking at me and smiling at me.

Everyone is getting steadily more and more drunk and happy. I'm thinking, "This is

awesome… This is one of the best parties I've been to in a long, long time and it is MY

PARTY.”

Things could not get any better. BUT THEY DID!!!!



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At that point, one particular girl caught my interest. "I want that one,” I said to myself the

instant I saw her.

She was taller than me, which I like and she was wearing a beautiful white sundress

over her bikini. The white dress draped over her tan skin looked stunning and I

remember having to catch my breath for a second as I think my jaw dropped slightly.

I took a deep breath to calm myself and walked right up to her and asked her if she is

having a good night. We chatted lightly and she asks me if I was working the entrance

at the beginning of the first party we had. Apparently she had been watching me all

night!

She says something to the effect of, "Oh my god... I wanted to talk to you so bad that

night... I came up to you and introduced myself, remember?"

I didn’t remember her specifically, I meet a lot of girls at my parties, but I tell her I

remember her in order to keep the conversation flowing smoothly. As we are talking,

she is slowly moving closer and closer. I keep thinking to myself this stuff is awesome.

I'm barely even doing anything!

It’s very clear by our body language that she is into me. I have to excuse myself to go

to the bathroom, but I tell her I will be right back. I go upstairs and then the skinny

brunette pops up out of nowhere while I am standing next to the bathroom. She must

have been following me around the house because it was too much of a coincidence

that we both had to be upstairs at the same time. She pushes me into the bathroom

and tries to undo my pants! I resist the urge to take her right there as there is a girl I am

way more into downstairs waiting for me. I push her off telling her that this is going way

to fast and I need another beer. Have to keep my options open.

I make up my mind that I am going to push for it with the girl in the white dress… she is

just so hot! I figure I’ll keep the brunette on the backburner, so I run downstairs and find



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my white-sundress beauty. I subtly point out the brunette and mention that she is trying

to have her way with me and that she has to protect me from her. She agrees and we

both retreat to my room. As I enter the room I give her the mini tour. She grabs me and

starts making out with me.

We're making out for a good five minutes; I hear a knock at the door. It’s the brunette

girl, "Hey, I am going home you in there?”

We giggle to each other and don’t say anything for a minute until we hear her walk

away. My white dress goddess says something to the effect of “See I told you I would

protect you.” Then I go for her bikini bottom and to my surprise it comes off with no

resistance even though we only talked for less than twenty minutes. We make

passionate lust to the loud music of the party downstairs. Simply AMAZING without

“gaming”.

You can make this happen for yourself by following a two step process.

I go into much more detail in my guide House Party PUA:

www.alphamalesystem.com/houseparty but here is an outline you can implement right

now.

1. Start organizing events, parties, or get-togethers. Be the leader and step up events

even if it’s just a few girls at your house. Make sure they are fun by keeping drama

away from your events.

2. Start tweaking your guests. Try to invite only girls. Girls like girls and girls give you

pre-selection. The more girls you have, the more each of them will start to become

attracted to you just because you are hanging out with other girls. It’s a synergistic




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effect. It’s natural and completely under the radar. No one will ever know you are

‘gaming’ because, in a traditional sense, you’re not. Control the type of guests you have

and before you know it you will be able to have the pick of any or all the girls who you

invite.

This is simplified, but it is the basis for what has developed into Pick-up Evolution’s

social circle game. If you want to get the girl at college or at any house party, or create

an amazing social circle game, following these two steps you will get well on your way

to success.

If you are interested in learning more, check out our extensive book which will guide you

in great detail on how you can achieve the more women in your life now at


I feel pretty good after having so many girls fighting for my attention and still getting the

ones that I wanted. Screw cold approaching for awhile..




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