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LEADERSHIP & THE ART OF MINDFUL LISTENING DARON LARSON ATTENTIONAL FITNESS TRAINING

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LEADERSHIP & THE ART OF MINDFUL LISTENINGDARON LARSONATTENTIONAL FITNESS TRAINING

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70% NOT ENGAGEDEmployees 2014

Engaged 31.5 %

Not engaged 51.0 %

Actively disengaged

17.6 %

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VARIES BY AGEGeneration 2014Millennials 28.9 %

Generation X 32.2 %

Boomers 32.7 %

Traditionalists 42.2 %

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> 3,200 PUBLICATIONS

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CHANGES IN BRAIN STRUCTURE

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CHANGES IN BRAIN FUNCTION

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SELF-AWARENESS & SELF-REGULATION

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HEARING TIPS

• Low-stakes practice

• Listen for punctuation

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HEARING EXERCISES• Comfortable content

• Uncomfortable content

• TV with your eyes closed

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HEARING INSIGHTS

• Separate listening from solving

• Gently guide attention back to sound of speaker’s voice

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SEEINGTIPS

• Study facial expressions and gestures

• Look for new details

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SEEING EXERCISES• Practice staying alert to what’s

in front of your eyes

• Alter your commute route

• TV with the sound off

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SEEINGINSIGHTS

• Interest with less analysis

• Notice how much meaning makes it through

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FEELINGTIPS• Where does your attention go

after a conversation

• Practice detecting emotions behind thoughts

• Indirectly convey what lingers

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FEELING EXERCISES• Notice reactions to music,

movies, TV

• Notice emotional component of unresolved issues and projects

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FEELINGINSIGHTS• Put yourself on the same side of

the problem

• Speaker is not your opponent

• Shared opponent is the breakdown of communication

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ORDINARY SENSORY PERCEPTION• Ask people what they need

• Verify perceptions

• Listen for the meaning behind the words to emerge

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