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The Ultimate Soulmate SummitKick-Off Event with Marianne Willamson

February 14th, 2011 Welcome to The Ultimate Soulmate Summit brought to you by The Soulmate Secret

and The Calling In The One online course, with your hosts, Arielle Ford and ClaireZammit. We are so glad you could join us for our special live Valentine’s Day event withhonored guest Marianne Williamson. Marianne Williamson is an internationallyacclaimed spiritual teacher. 6 of her 10 published books have been best sellers, 4 ofthese have been #1 New York Times bestsellers. A Return To Love is considered amust read of the new spirituality. Arielle Ford is bestselling author of The Soulmate Secret and Claire Zammit is the co-creator of The Calling In The One online course. On tonight’s call, Arielle and Claire willalso be giving you an overview of what you will experience over the next 11 days andhow to prepare yourself to get the most out of it. They will also share their stories about

how they applied many of the tools you are going to learn in the Summit to manifesttheir own soulmates and the essence of what they’ve discovered in the years of helpingthousands of people find true love. On tonight’s call, they are also going to teach you how to cultivate the lovemanifestation mindset and set a magnetic intention to calling your soulmate in 2011.There’s no more powerful place to be to manifest love this Valentine’s Day. We are soglad you could join us, and once again, welcome to The Ultimate Soulmate Summit. Arielle: Good evening everybody, my name is Arielle Ford.

Claire: And I’m Claire Zammit. Arielle: And we are so excited to be welcoming more than 50,000 of you to Day One ofThe Ultimate Soulmate Summit. As we begin this journey together, Claire and I wantyou to know that we are holding the space for you to use the next 11 days as aspringboard to creating the love of your life. We have gathered the world’s greatestauthorities and greatest experts on love to assist you in healing your hearts from pastdisappointments in love, while sharing with you the best and latest techniques for

manifesting the relationship of your dreams. It’s our intention that this summit provides you with the healing, inspiration, clarity andaction plan that will lead you to a deep, nurturing, and fulfilling soulmate relationship. 6months ago, Claire and I were talking about how fortunate we both felt to be married toour soulmates. We were talking about how loved and cherished we felt, and what it waslike to be able to live with your best friend, lover, partner and playmate. We startedwondering what it would be like if everyone had the possibility to experience love this



way. What kind of world would it be if lots of people had their soulmates? And howmuch better would the world be with that kind of love in it. And that’s when we came up with this idea for The Ultimate Soulmate Summit, an eventwhere the brightest and best love experts gather to share their wisdom and knowledge

so that everyone who truly desires soulmate love will have access to the necessarysteps to manifesting and achieving it. Claire: Given that the response to the summit has been so extraordinary, we have over50,000 people coming together in our circle of love. We thought, who better to officiallyopen our event this evening with a love invocation and blessing than our dear friend andspiritual leader, Marianne Williamson. In 2001, Marianne wrote one of our all-time favorite books on all aspects of creating andsustaining spiritual partnerships, called Enchanted Love: The Mystical Powers of Intimate Relationships , in it she writes, “Men and women need each other, at least now

as much as we ever did, but for a deeper experience than mere procreation orprotection. We need each other now to conceive of the miraculous things of the spirit.” Marianne’s latest New York Times best-seller is A Course In Weight Loss: 21 Spiritual Lessons for Surrendering Your Weight Forever , her other books include: The Age of Miracles, Everyday Grace, A Woman's Worth, Illuminata, Healing the Soul of America ,and The Gift of Change. So we couldn't imagine anyone we'd rather be here today withto welcome us to the series and give us a blessing than Marianne. Welcome, weappreciate you so much for joining us tonight! Marianne: Well thank you so much, it’s an honor to be here at the beginning of such awonderful convocation. You know, in A Course In Miracles there is a line that says “Anidea is stronger when it is shared.” So you have two things going on, first of all thesharing, the field that is created by this summit, and the time that you will all spendtogether thinking the same ideas, feeling the same feelings, thinking the same kinds ofthoughts, and also you have the larger field, which is that this begins on Valentine’sDay, so you have millions of people that are thinking of this very subject today. Thismakes it a pregnant ground, the very fact that each of us has been brought to thesummit for our own reasons with our own history, with all of these issues in the days tocome and all the work on the summit, working on the fact that many times it’s thebarriers that we have against love coming have to do with pain and trauma we have hadin the past. We all know intellectually you can be bitter or you can be better, but sometimes it takesmore than an intellectual shift actually let go of the hurt and the layers of hurt andmistrust and fear that we have when it comes to letting love in. So I think that Arielle andClaire, all of the work done here, has a tender and a gentle approach to looking at thoseplaces in our minds and hearts, where we know, we don’t express in the ways thatmake it easiest for someone to get close to us. The energy that surrounds ussometimes does not make it easy for true love to get close to us.



And I think the fact if you are even on the summit, it’s because you know that you areready. You know that you are ready to let go of the walls that surround your heart. Youknow that you are ready to find that deep haven within yourself. Whatever the love is,whatever form that that soulmate experience takes for you, whatever form that thatintimacy takes for you, I know that at on some level, everybody here is aware that we

are swimming in an ocean of love. We are swimming in a universe, that is love, but atthe same time we often feel like in that poem, “Water, water, everywhere, but not a sipto drink.” We know that love is everywhere, but we feel we can’t make consciouscontact with it. So I think the first thing we should do tonight is to take a moment, to honor the processthat has brought us to this point. We take this moment to think of every love experiencethat we have had before this very moment. And we want to think of all the people whohave been in our lives who we have thought of, for however long a period of time,whether it was a night or a decade or 50 years, who we might have thought in our lives,“This is my safe haven;” to remember that moment when we thought that, and to simply

bless them, and to release them. To release every relationship that we have ever beenin up to this point, to remember that in a very fundamental way, all that’s real, all that wecan retain if we choose too, is the love that was given us, and the love that we gave.Everything else exists only in our minds. There is a line in The Course in Miracles thatsays the past is over, it can touch you not. The love in your past was real, and nothingelse exists. Sometimes we have in our past some very painful situations, very traumatic situations,and in some people’s lives, some very heinous situations. But the miracle occurs in thepresent. As we are willing to let go of the pain of our past, and to be open as I know thatin some way you are open, or you wouldn’t be here, to let the work that is provided hereby Arielle, by Claire, to take this present moment this eternal now, and once you’vegiven up, the pain and the trauma, and the barriers from the past, to let them enter withyou into a moment, right here, right now, where new ideas, ideas that you might haveknown before, but couldn’t really allow to penetrate your heart before… Tonight begins something new, and ideas you would not really have allowed to enterinto your heart before tonight, its time. You will allow new principles to enter your heart,which you might have known before, but you haven’t really let them in before. Newkinds of looking at things, new perspectives, new commitments, new attitudes, newenergies, that you might have known before, but you didn’t really allow in before. That’swhat will happen in this summit, and if that happens, new people, some of whom youmight have even know before, you will be able to let in, as you have never let them inbefore. When things like that happen, that’s when we understand the real meaning of “hallelujah.” That is my wish for you, and I join all the people who are entering this night’s work withhope and I enter this night with deep conviction between all the people; Arielle andClaire, who enter here with expertise and ideas and guidance and illumination that theyare going to give to you. So let’s all join together and let’s just take this moment, as I



said we are honoring the past that brought us here at this moment. Every path, and weare willing and open to be graced and to be blessed by a wisdom and understandingthat comes from beyond the mortal mind, and for this we pray: Dear God, as we join here tonight at the beginning of this summit, we dedicate it to you,

we ask that it truly, dear God, be all that it can be, that it be lifted to its highest level ofcreative possibility. May all people involved here in any way have their hearts and mindsopened as never before to receive just the insight, just the gift, just a nugget of wisdomor a piece of information that truly will make all the difference. We know that you knowdear God, what each and every person gathered here most needs. What window needsto be opened, dear God, open it. What door needs to be opened, dear God, pleaseopen it. What space in mind or heart needs to be opened, dear God, please open it. It isfor this miracle, and these openings that we pray. We rejoice in advance, for we knowthat our prayers are heard, and we consider it done. Thank you God, and so it is, we allsay, amen.

Arielle: Amen. Marianne, Claire and I thank you so much for making time for us. Marianne: Well you are so welcome and I’m excited for every single person who isgoing to be involved in what I know is going to be a very exciting and significant journey.God bless you. Arielle: Thank you so much, goodbye! Claire: We want to remind everyone to visit Marianne.com to sign up to get Marianne’supdates and visit Amazon to find out more about her wonderful book, Enchanted Love. Arielle: So who is this summit for? Whether you are feeling you are so ready for love,you are about to burst, or you are so disappointed with love that you are not sure youwill ever open your heart again, we want to assure you, this summit is for you. Duringthe next 11 days, our experts will prepare and inspire you manifest the love of your life,while you willingly let go of the old, outdated, negative, and untrue beliefs aboutyourself. For those of you who are hanging onto the myth that you are either too old, too fat, toobroke, too damaged, too unlovable for love, I want you to know that Claire and I arehere to love you, guide you and support you, and take you by the hand, step by stepinto the love relationship of your dreams. And if part of your story about love is that allthe good ones are taken, we’ve got some really good news for you, it’s not true. Thereare nearly 7 billion people alive on the planet right now, and half of them are single.



Statistically, there are more than 1.4 million possible soulmates for you. As mygrandmother always said, “There is a little bit for every pot, even yours.” Claire: So whether you’re young or old, or straight, or bisexual, or gay, or if you’re notsure what you are, whether you are a man or you are a woman, there is more than

enough love on the planet for you. We are going to take you by the hand and show youhow to magnetize it into your life. We’ve designed the summit to offer a variety ofapproaches so that one or more will hold the key to opening your heart, to transformingyour limited beliefs, to understanding men or women in a way that will help you to createa lasting bond, and give you the practical strategies you have been missing to makeyourself known and available to love. Arielle: That sounds so yummy Claire. So we wanted to tell you a little bit about who weare, and how we came to be with you on this evening. So 25 years ago, I had the greatgood fortune to learn about manifesting, and I decided to take all the prayers and ritualsand processes that I learned about manifesting and apply them to my career.

I was a book publicist for many, many years. I worked with Deepak Chopra for 12 years,I worked with Wayne Dyer, Marianne Williamson, Louise Hague, Don Miguel Ruiz,Neale Donald Walsch, Dean Ornish, Gary Zukov, Mark Victor Hanson, Jack Canfield,and my sister, Debbie Ford. And I never really thought about applying them to my lovelife until I got to be 44. But along the way, I learned a few things from some of theexperts you are going to be learning from in the next 11 days. Some people think of me as a bottom line person, I speak my mind, I don’t sugar coatthings, I kind of call things as I see it. While this communication style worked really wellin my career, I found out it’s not a quality most men don’t find endearing or attractive. Iwant to share with you a kind of embarrassing story. One evening when I was in myearly 30s I went out on a date with a man who was pretty superficial and obnoxious, buthe completely and unintentionally said something that really changed my life. He said tome “You know Arielle, you are one tough and powerful woman, and I’ll bet you scare theshit out of most men.” Then he tried to kiss me good night, but I dodged him and got outof the car. But his final words to me were like a negative audio loop that kept playingover and over in my head again. All I kept hearing in my head was “You know Arielle,you are one tough and powerful woman, and I’ll bet you scare the shit out of most men.”And up until that moment, I had never ever thought of myself as either tough orpowerful, but the thought just wouldn’t leave my mind. What if he was right, what if thatwas how I kept showing up to men? I was just incredibly embarrassed about the whole thing and I didn’t talk about it for years to anybody. Then one day, my friend, Marianne Williamson, invited me to alecture by Dr. Pat Allen, and Dr. Pat Allen is a psychologist with a reputation forproviding women with strict dating rules that if you follow them precisely will lead tomarriage. That was the promise that got me in the front door of the first time I everheard her speak in Westwood, California. But what kept me coming back were her wiseand wonderful insights about masculine and feminine energy.



As it turned out, my practical assertive and result oriented approach to work meant that Iwas living almost exclusively in my masculine side, while I had managed to sort ofsuppress and hide my receptive, creative and feminine energies, they were actuallylocked away. And during these talks, Dr. Pat would explain that both men and womenequally possess male and female energies. It’s actually okay for a woman when she is

working to tap into her masculine side, however, if you want to date and end up with amasculine man, I would need to learn how to access my feminine energy. Because it’sactually the polarity between masculine and feminine that really generates harmony anddesire. So for the next several months, Tuesday nights, Dr. Pat became my newfound religion. Ibegan to hear her talks over and over again. And the reason I needed to do this, wasbecause it was hard for me to embrace what I was hearing, it was so different. But afterI went enough times, I started to understand that a big piece to the key of my ultimatehappiness and having a relationship that I really dreamed about meant I needed tosurrender to my feminine energy when I was with a masculine man. I needed to find

ways to let go of what I would call “work mode” and shift into “feminine dating mode.” One of the funny things I did to help me access my feminine energy was I took up bellydancing. The more I could sort of move and slide my hips side to side, I ended upunleashing this part of myself that actually wanted an audience. It was a really goodway for me to start to get into the feminine. Then the more time I spent with Dr. Pat, themore I started to understand that after working all day, I couldn’t just go from the officeto a date. I needed to go home, I needed to dance, I needed to take a bubble bath withlavender oils in it, put on some makeup, and change my clothes. Eventually I learnedhow to embrace my feminine. Then one day, I can’t tell you the whole story tonight, but we will kind of cut to thechase, one day I woke up, I was 44 years old and I had never been married. I decidedmy deepest heart desire was to manifest a soulmate. So I took all the prayers andprocesses and rituals I used to manifest this great career and I began to apply them tomy love life. Within 6 months, I met Brian, within 3 weeks, we got engaged, and a yearlater we had 3 weddings. This June we’ll be celebrating our 13th wedding anniversary. I just want to end by sharing with you, that being with my soulmate has improved my lifeon every conceivable level. Not only am I happier, I’m actually healthier and I’m moresuccessful, and I feel so incredibly blessed that I get to spend every day I get to spendmy life with my best friend, my playmate, my lover, and my biggest supporter. Claire: You guys are such an inspiration Arielle; I just can’t imagine a man who is moreperfect for you on this whole planet than Brian. Arielle: Thank you, I couldn’t either.



Claire: So I want to share with you how I came to create this series with Arielle. Really,I never would have imagined that I would ever be teaching about how to attract love. Itwas such a source of pain in my own life. Now I had a very powerful spiritual experiencewhen I was 16 years old. I really knew that I was here to make a contribution, make a

difference in the world. That my own personal and spiritual growth is what was mostimportant, so I had this repeated experience of getting into relationships and feelingsomewhat stuck and somewhat trapped and having disappointment afterdisappointment. I also had this dynamic where I would end up becoming their mother insome way. I would feel alone and exhausted and depleted and somehow, my ownmission was suffering as a result of being in the relationship. So I really thought I had tochoose, either it was my mission, or it was love. So I chose my mission. So I spent years by myself, and I achieved great things. I nearly completed my Ph.D. intransformative learning and have had the opportunity to teach thousands of people andwork with some of today’s leading teachers and thinkers, creating extraordinary things.

I would come home at the end of contributing so much to other people and I would justfeel sad. One night I woke up at about4 o’clock in the morning, just filled with anoverwhelming anxiety and knowing that I was on a path of leaving this world withoutexperiencing the love that deep down I yearned for. I yearned for a partner who was atrue equal, who I could really grow with, who I could share all aspects of life; andsomething inside of me, in that moment, just knew there something was off. I was fortunate because my new best friend at the time, who is now my teaching partnerin Calling in The One, Katherine Woodward Thomas (she just published her nationalbestselling book, Calling In The One: 7 Weeks to Attracting The Love of Your Life thatwas all about identifying your hidden barriers to love). Now I never thought I had anyhidden barriers for love, because I had yearned for this kind of love since I was probably7 years old. But at this point, because I had that experience, I was coachable. Isurrendered to the process, and I began to see there were core beliefs that I had aboutmen lacking capacity. I had a core belief about my own value, that I wasn’t really worthyof receiving love. As a result of engaging the processes in the course, I really began tolearn how to be much more vulnerable and transparent. I recognized that if I hadmanifested a strong, capable powerful man, that I wouldn’t have been able to receive it,because I was deep down actually feeling somewhat insecure. So I had a reallyprofound transformation working on these areas. We are going to teach you how to do many of the process in this series itself. Katherineis going to be on, I’m going to be teaching, and we have many wonderful teachers whoalso go into this area of transforming core beliefs. I found immediately that whathappened was the kind of men that I was attracted to completely changed. One of whatwe call “power statements,” the men in my life were more powerful, advanced, andsuccessful than me in ways that gave me a space to rise into the fullness of mygreatness, because I never had that experience. I never had an experience of having aman that was up underneath me in a way that I was growing and developing, that I hadto kind of run to keep up with.



It was amazing, completely different men began to show up. I did a visioning processthat we also teach in our course. I began to have a vision of this extraordinary man, andthrough a series of incredible synchronicities that we are going to share in our interviewin this series, Craig and I will be speaking together about what happened, the specifics

of it. Amazing experience of synchronicities, we both had premonitions of meeting eachother, and it was pretty much love at first sight. Really, if I had gone into a laboratory todesign the perfect partner, my now husband is more extraordinary than I could haveever imagined. He truly challenges me and holds a space for me to grow. We are goingto be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary this year. It’s amazing because I look at what has happened in my life as a result of meeting mysoulmate. And that is because the potential of my contribution, who I am as a person,everything that I could have dreamed of in terms of my own life, and work and passions,really come into manifestation, and I look back at that old idea, that I could either havemy mission, or I could have a partnership, I just kind of see the craziness of it. The truth

is we need partnership; we need relationships, deeply bonded intimate connections toreally thrive. To become ourselves, to realize our gifts, to make our biggest contributionsto the world, and there is absolutely no external reason that anybody can’t have thiskind of love. That’s really what we have seen, Arielle and I, in working with thousands of people now,from all parts of the world. That you can have a deep and profound love in your life, weneed each other to realize the potentials of who we are, regardless of your age, yourhistory, your body type, or your financial status. You deserve to have love andpartnership. It is not easy to know where to get started in overcoming these barriers andobstacles that most of us who’ve had to support men in the past, or have conflicts suchas your career, for women particularly, you know we have to go into our masculine toachieve things, and that’s very hard to shift back like Arielle was sharing. And you knowfor men as well, it’s a very challenging time as far as the expectations between men andwomen in relationships to be able to create a relationship that is truly satisfying andfulfilling. There are so many different approaches out there that address all of these issues andall of these areas. Which one will work best for you is really going to be the key thatunlocks where you have been stuck up until now, and isn’t always clear. You may havetried many of these approaches and had difficulties in having a breakthrough inattracting and sustaining great love in your life, and most likely it’s because you haven’tbeen applying the right approach. You might think it’s a belief issue, when actually youmight have a good online profile. Or you might be doing all these things right to go outand market yourself, but really you have core beliefs that are in your way. So we reallyfound that you need the right tools at the right moment wherever you are on yourjourney to creating love. These obstacles really have to do with four key areas that we have created a specificprogram in the summit to address each of these areas. So you may find it’s actually this



area of being able to let go of an attachment to someone in your past, this was one ofmy core ones as well. There was someone I had an attachment with, I had done all theprocesses, the rituals, like cutting the cord, but I still couldn’t let go of that person in mypast. I thought that I did, but I really hadn’t. There were a couple of techniques thatreally did end up helping in being one of the things that made the difference. The other

area is, like in my story I just shared, you may have limiting beliefs about men, aboutwomen, about relationships being a trap in ways that are unconsciously keeping love atbay. Or like Arielle was sharing, you may be out of sync with the opposite sex or whateversex you fancy. Especially this is true if you are a conscious, successful woman. It’s verydifficult to embrace the feminine without feeling vulnerable, without feeling like it’s a lossof power. This is something that is important to do and cultivate, to be able to attract thekind of partner that would be satisfying and fulfilling. The final area is just these practical skills about understanding how to navigate the

dating process. For me, I hadn’t dated for years, and lots of people really struggle withwhen to open up, when to be intimate, when to hold back, and there’s so muchconflicting advice out there. Or getting online and getting 500 peoples responses! Andhow to navigate that. There are lots of places that we get stopped. Arielle: Claire you did a great job of outlining all the reasons we created this series.Because even though we both run our own courses in the area of manifesting love,there’s just so much more to know. We want you to know we carefully selected the bestof the best of the world’s leading experts in the four approaches to manifesting love. Wedid this so we could save you time and the headache of having to sort through all theinformation yourself. Each expert in the summit is going to give you the essence of theirunique approach, step by step, in our special soulmate seminars that they’ve created forthis event. Most of them have been teaching for many years, their books and othermaterials have been out there and they’re published. But what we are really thrilledabout is that, with the summit, we are able to get their very latest thinking. Theexercises and tools that can fast track you to having a breakthrough with eachapproach. Now you may decide in the future that you want to go even deeper with one of theseapproaches, and that’s just great, but we want you to know that we want you to connectin the next 11 days with the path that will most empower you to attract the love in yourlife. That’s what we truly care about. Claire: Want to hear a few highlights about who you are going to meet in the summit.How it’s going to work. How you are going to be able to access the seminars online.What you are able to do if you can’t make the live broadcast . Then we are going to endtonight teaching you how to get what we call the love manifestation mindset. We havediscovered in working with so many people, it’s really the foundation for being



successful at manifesting love with whichever approach you apply. We are going to endby teaching you how to set a powerful intention for love. We want to encourage you towrite it down, so you can repeat it, go over it all the way through the series. If you havea pen and paper standing by, you are going to need that a little later on.

Arielle: One of the main areas, one of the key four areas we are going to be talkingabout, is “letting go of the past.” There’s a couple of pieces to this, the first part is, weknow, like Claire and I have dealt with in the past, some of you are still in love withsomeone who is not your soulmate. It’s okay to still love somebody who is not going tobe your soulmate, but it’s r eally not ok to keep obsessing about them. So the first thingwe want to let you know is: stop trying not to love them. It’s ok to love them. In fact finda little corner of your heart to tuck them away and continue to love them. Let go of theobsession, and if you don’t know how; we have amazing experts to help you with this.It’s about emotional freedom techniques, it’s about emotional maturity, having a toolkitof things you can do to quickly and easily let go when your mind takes hold and you ’re

spinning out of control obsessing about someone. We have Debbie Rozman, from the Institute of Heart Math, which is one of the leadingthink tanks and research facilities on the intelligence of the heart. She will be teachingus the heart-lock in technique. We have Hale Dwoskan, from the Sedona Method,another EFT technique that is remarkable; I use it every day. We have Nick Ortner,from the tapping solution, who is going to tap us into emotional freedom. Tapping intothe letting go of the emotions and thoughts that are getting in the way. We are alsotalking with Dr. Helen Fisher, who is the world’s leading scientist on the science of loveand attraction. She is going to share with us the brain chemistry that takes over whenyou have been dumped in a relationship. Dr. Fisher has proven that when you havebeen dumped, getting over it is harder than breaking a cocaine addiction. I know thatsounds crazy, but she is going to explain the science of why that is, and how to let go.When I spoke earlier, I talked about Dr. Pat Allen, and she will be sharing with us her 60day detox program for getting over and letting go of a past love that’s got you hooked.We will also be talking with Neale Donald Walsch, who will talk us through the guilt andregret we feel when we are the one who has dumped someone else. Claire: So many things I have no idea about. [Laughter] Arielle: It would have been useful if we knew it 10 years ago. Claire: I wish I had known when I was in the throes of heartbreak, how to actually workwith that. Arielle: I could have used that 60 day detox program many times



Claire: I know, and Nicks EFT tapping is amazing. He is going to actually take usthrough the tapping process to let go of past emotional blocks or holding on tosomething. And EFT, I had such a powerful experience recently, it’s not something you

have to consciously try to focus on. It’s not like when someone tel ls you “let go of thepast” “Great, how do I actually do that?”, it’s an amazing technique, it’s just going tounblock your meridians and free that emotional energy in a way that’s going to just openyou up if that’s an area that you really struggle with. The next area that our experts are really going to be going into is the area oftransforming core beliefs and inner obstacles. New York Times bestselling author,Debbie Ford, who is really the queen of these inner obstacles and the shadow process,is going to be talking about the shadow single life, how to unblock these inner barriers toopen up to love. She has a wonderful process that she’s going to guide you throughabout identifying and releasing your on the line commitments. These are your decisions

you may have made without even knowing it, that are keeping you blocked in theprocess of attracting a soulmate. Decisions like, “I’m never going to take the risk to love again.” Or “it’s not possible forme to have love.” Or “I’m not worthy, I’m not good enough.” All of those decisions thatyou made about yourself, about men, about women, about love, the experiences of yourlife without even realizing it, are these unconscious barriers in ways that influence howwe show up, how we relate to other people, communicate to other people without evenknowing it, that we are not really available. So Debbie is going to take you through avery deep and transformative process to help you become conscious of what they areand let them go. Katherine Woodward Thomas, my dear beloved, one of my soulmates in this world andteaching partner, is going to teach you about the Calling In The One approach. Whypreparing for love is more powerful than running out there and trying to find it. She isgoing to really teach the essence of how you can identify and release these hiddenbarriers. Really notice and become conscious of the specific behaviors that keep theselocked into place. So if you have a pattern of not being good enough, or feelingunworthy, if that’s a core belief of yours, there are specific behaviors that you are goingto do when you are out meeting people. Or in some cases if you have a core pattern orexperience of being alone and never go out and meeting people . That’s the behavior, tolearn to say “yes” to invitations and opportunities, and learn to extend your energy out topeople. So she’s going to teach where the rubber meets the road in transforming thesecore inner barriers in ways that will have you break free from patterns you may havebeen processing for decades. This is the core process that worked for me and for herand for so many thousands of our students. I’m going to share a little more about thatduring the summit. We are really excited to have the opportunity to introduce you to thatapproach.



Arielle: I’m looking forward to that section; that is such important work. The third areawe are going to be tackling is understanding the masculine/feminine dynamics. AllisonArmstrong, one of our experts, will be explaining the things that women do that drivemen crazy – but not crazy in a good way. And the things men do to sabotagerelationships with women. We also gave Dr. Pat Allen who is going to be explaining that

relationships are most successful when there is an exchange of complementaryenergies, meaning one female energy and one male energy, or you might call it yin andyang. She knows that one type of each energy in the partnership works best, but shedoesn’t define it based on your genitals, she says there are yin men and yin women andyang men and yang women. It doesn’t matter if you are straight or gay or lesbian, if youare going to be in a committed loving relationship, you have to decide which side of you,the yin or the yang is going to mate. So how do you know what energy you are? She’sgoing to go into this in more detail, but here’s a little snapshot of it. If you are the yang,or the male energy, you like giving, protecting, cherishing. If you are the yin, or thefemale energy, you prefer being receptive, available, respecting. Another way to look atit is, if you are the male energy, you want your thinking respected first. You feel

comfortable saying things like “I think, I want.” If you are the female energy, you aremore comfortable saying things like “I feel, I don’t want.” So we are going to go throughthis in depth with both Allison Armstrong and Dr. Pat Allen, as I mentioned in my life, itmade all the difference in the world. Claire: Again, where were they all those years ago? I realized in learning all these coreinsights in this area. I really realized how I was very scary I was to men, and I had astory going on how there were no good men out there, no good conscious men outthere. I’m glad I didn’t meet my husband at that time of my life; I would have scared himaway for sure. Arielle: Yeah, Brian and I always talk about how even though we were older when wegot together – I was 44, I was a first time bride at 44; we knew it was great we didn’tmeet a minute earlier. I wouldn’t have been ready, and he wouldn’t have been ready. Sothe divine timing of it was just perfect. Claire: So that’s something to remember if you haven’t met your soulmate yet, it isgrace. You may not have been ready to receive him or her into your life and we aregoing to really work with you in the summit to support the intention that you’re going toset tonight to make that happen now and really be the person you need to be to receivethem and really manifest the fulfillment of your vision of love. Arielle: Tell them about the dating section.



Claire: Yeah the final section here is this area that we are going to be bringing you ondating strategies and navigating the stages of dating. One of the things that I have reallyfound in the people that we work with is, you can do a lot of emotional processing, youcan do these exercise around letting go of the past, you can transform your corebeliefs, get in sync with the opposite sex, but if you don’t have dating skills and

strategies, it’s very difficult to know where to start. I’ve seen so many people getstopped on knowing what to say, when you are out on a date the person wants to getphysical and you’re not ready. What specifically do you say? How do you handle that?How do you navigate the different stages of intimacy? You feel an amazing connection.How soon is too soon to be really emotionally intimate? A lot of our experts go into this area with specific strategies and advice. SpecificallyJohn Gray, Dr. John Gray, author of the Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus ,I think his series has sold something like 40 million books. It’s amazing his level of expertise having worked with so many people. He is speaking specifically on how tonavigate what he calls the “5 Stages of Dating” to create a lasting loving relationship

with your soulmate. He talks about the attraction phase of the relationship. In this firststage there is an initial attraction. You know men and women do this in different ways,and need to do this in different ways to attract each other in a way that is going to createinterest. What follows that is what he calls stage 2, which he calls “uncertainty.” He really sharesabout the biggest mistake many people make is when there is the uncertainty period,stage 2. You will anticipate this is going to happen, you meet, there’s an amazingconnection, chemistry is firing off, and then there is a pulling back. The biggest mistakewe make is to put the pressure on to talk about where we are going with therelationship. John shares with us this is the worst thing we can do in this stage of therelationship, in uncertainty. Where we need to go is back to our own center, create aspace for the other person to come towards you. It’s not the moment to be having theconversation, “Where is this going?” It really teaches you how to navigate that particularstage. Stage 3, which is “exclusivity,” and how to have the conversation with your potential lifepartner, about “Are we getting exclusive?” And when to do that, and when not to do that.He is really going to go into detail about how to navigate this conversation and thedanger that can also happen in this stage is that we can get too comfortable and stopdoing the little things that make our partners feel special. That leads to the next stage,stage 4, “intimacy.” He shares that you can’t really begin to fully open up and share your innermost feelingsuntil you get to stage 4. This is a mistake many people make in stage 1, during theattraction phase of the relationship. There is chemistry flying, so we reveal. John reallygives us the insight that we shouldn’t do that until stage 4 until there is a container. Wehave been through stage 2, uncertainty, we are in exclusivity, and now we are at stage4, which is the time to really be vulnerable, transparent, to share, let your guard down,let who you are fully, the wholeness of you, become fully visible, seen and known to



your partner. And if you are able to navigate that stage of your relationship, it leads to“engagement.” Whether that leads to marriage, it leads to commitment, a long-term committedrelationship. He also shares that is a very, very important stage of the process of

bonding to a partner before you have the responsibility of marriage, and having a housetogether and paying bills. Very important in the engagement stage of the relationship tobe making lots memories; happy memories that will really be the anchor points for yourrelationships as you weather the storms of love and partnership. So it’s just so helpful – this map he’s going to give you, about the attraction stage, navigating uncertainty, toexclusivity, to intimacy, all the way to long-term commitment. Again, I wish I had thisinformation. I did the wrong thing, I would have a connection with someone, we wouldmeet and I would just pour my heart out, then they would pull back, I would say “Whereis this relationship going?” And it wouldn’t end up going well.

Arielle: I used to drag them into therapy. “What’s the matter with you, why can’t you seeI’m the right one for you?” [Laughter] Claire: Worst timing in the world. So these are great practices about what to do. We areso excited to be giving you that information. Evan Marc Katz, one of our other favoritesoulmate experts, is going to be talking about finding “the one” online. How to attractquality people in the online environment. He is an absolute master at teaching you acouple of simple shifts that you can make in how you can go online. Things like, “Whichsites do I go on? How do I set up my profile?” A lot of these things that get us reallyoverwhelmed in the process of making ourselves visible and known. He’s going to teachyou how navigate that with ease and grace, in a way that will reduce the number ofresponses that you get, but will elevate the quality of the people that are responding toyou. He also has amazing advice about how to avoid the chemistry trap, and how to geta really accurate, clear picture about the difference between settling and being open tothe possibility. You know, the mistake most people make when they are assessingwhether someone is the right person when they are out online, or they are out dating.So many people will often make the mistake of eliminating somebody who actually istheir soulmate, because they many not necessarily be your “type” or what you arelooking for. He recently wrote a great article about how he didn’t know his wife was hissoulmate until 6 months after they were married. So he’s going to share his story aboutthat and insight to ensure you don’t make a mistake when you are dating so you don’teliminate your soulmate. That you are able to be open without settling in a way thatensures that you attract someone and create a realationshp with someone who is in linewith your values and has a very high character and is going in the same direction asyou, that you can create a deep and fulfilling lasting bond with. Arielle: Evan is just amazing, if I had to do online dating, I wouldn’t make a movewithout talking to him first.



So here is the really great news, you don’t have to wait to meet that special someone tobegin experiencing the heart-opening, soul-stirring feelings of love. By being heretonight and jumping in and listening to our experts over the next 11 days. You are goingto being living in a constant conversation of love.

Guess what? That awareness creates more love, it makes you a magnet for love. Iknow you have heard the old adage, “What you put your attention on grows.” When itcomes to love, this is 100% true. So with each love expert, new paths to love will berevealed, and you are simultaneously going to pick up their proven tips and techniques.So even those of you that are nursing a broken heart, or if you are feeling resigned,because of multiple disappointing relationships. Trust me, Claire and I feel your pain, wehave been there, we know what that feels like. We want you to know that our expertsare here to offer solid advice for healing and resolution and completion. Good for you for taking this first step to manifesting love by being here and registering

for the event. We are going to teach you all kinds of new love skills, and even thoughthey may not happen instantly, we know that if you dedicate the time each day forfocusing on love and prioritizing love in your life, you will get there. Claire: So we want to give you an overview of how it’s going to work, and how you aregoing to access all of these soulmate seminars and interviews with our inspiringsoulmate couples. So every day for the next 11 days, we are going to email you a directlink that will give you all the information that you need to participate in that day’s event.Including a website path to our virtual event room. For the next 11 days, from todayFebruary 14th, through the following Thursday, February 24th, each day there are goingto be 2 soulmate seminars. These are going to be with our experts on a specific topic,where they will take you on a step-by-step approach to manifesting love. Plus there isgoing to be a bonus interview with an inspiring soulmate couple. We have amazingsoulmate couples like Dr. Joan Borysenko and her husband Gordon Dverin, and NealeDonald Walsch, and his wife Em, Arielle and Brian, my husband Craig and I are going tobe sharing as well as a lot of other amazing soulmate couples. They are going to shareabout how they attracted each other, what their manifestation process is. We find thatthese stories really help to anchor us to a consciousness of possibility, which reallyhelps us in our journey to manifesting love in our lives. If you are online, you can see the full program schedule, complete with a calendar of theevent days and the titles and the speakers at soulmateaudios.com. The sessions aregoing to broadcast at 12 noon Pacific Time every day. If you can’t make the livebroadcast don’t worry, the recordings of the soulmate seminars each day and thesoulmate interview are going to be available for free for 24 hours after the initialbroadcast. We structured the event this way to make sure it’s possible for everyone toaccess the information regardless of your time zone or financial resources.



However, we want to encourage you to consider investing in one of our upgradeoptions. If you think you might miss one of the seminars, as they all build on each other,it’s important to be working on all these areas that we shared to discover where yourparticular barrier to love might be. Or if you think you might like to listen more than once,or you’d like to get a written transcript, as opposed to taking notes to deepen your

engagement with the material. Or if you would rather listen to the audios on your iPod ormp3 player or get the CDs to listen to in your car on the way to and from work, asopposed to at your computer. If you would like to refer back to the teachings and put thelessons into practice, and anchor yourself into the consciousness of love throughrepetition, listening again and again. Or if you would like to share the highlights withyour family and friends. So often I will hear tele-seminars and they will say somethingamazing and I will want to write it down or go back and share it with someone I knowthat could really benefit from it. So if this sounds like you, we want to encourage you toinvest in either our Platinum Plus or Gold upgrade options. So by choosing one of theseupgrade options, you can listen anytime, anywhere, and have access to a ton offantastic bonuses, to be able to really embed the information in your subconscious for

maximum results. We are also more than happy for you to share the materials with yourfamily and friends. Arielle: I know for me, especially when I was going to Dr. Pat’s seminars in Westwood,I wish I had them on CD to listen to in the car 24/7. For me that helps, hearing it overand over again, each time I hear something, I find something I missed. As someonewho has been a seeker for a long time, I learned that in order for me to get long-termresults and transformation, repetition is key, because I learned that repetition createshabit, and habit creates lifestyle. So when you do have unlimited access to theselessons; you will have the resources to do exactly what you want to do. To listen overand over again, to put it away for a while and then come back to it, and really go deepwith the information. Claire: Again you can get all the information about the schedule and the upgradeoptions if you want to own the recordings. Either download the digital recordings orinvest in the physical CDs by going to soulmateaudios.com, you can see the wholeprogram and calendar of events there as well. Our most popular upgrade option is what we call the Platinum Plus, VIP All-AccessPass. This gives you 21 CDs, the complete soulmate seminar audio library, where ourexperts are guiding you step by step through their unique love manifestation process ineach audio. You will get the 10 soulmate couple interviews so you can anchor yourconsciousness through that mindset of possibility. You also when you upgrade to VIPPlatinum Plus, get the complete companion workbook, at the end of the summit, thathas an action plan and exercises that have been especially designed to take what youlearned and to fast track your journey to love. You will also get the printed transcripts ofeach session, so you don’t have to take notes, or you can highlight the text whilelistening back to each of the sessions.



You are also going to get, one of the things we thought, we wanted to give a couple ofbonuses in the 2 areas people most often experience challenges once they meet theirsoulmate. So we put together 2 bonus packages, called the Relationship Communication Secrets package, and the Love And Sex Secrets package, so you can

avoid these mistakes many people make when they first get into new relationships.There is a whole new set of problems, once you actually find the one about what to do.So our bonus packages really address these issues in the Relationship Communication Secrets and the Love And Sex Secrets, we want you to check those out as well. Youcan see all the details again on our product information page. So the total value of thewhole platinum package is over $735, when you add up all those bits and pieces, thevalue when you add it all together, and we want to make it available to all the people, sowe have limited time investment of $197, plus shipping if you are in the US (there areoverseas shipping details online, as well). The other option is the Gold Package, where you get pretty much the same package,

you get the audios, the Ultimate Soulmate Summit audios, the soulmate couplesinterviews, the companion workbook, the transcripts, and the RelationshipCommunication Secrets bonus package. You can download all those and havecomplete access to the whole series for just $97, again that’s a $465 value for the wholeseries. We really want you to get the benefit and the transformation, and we have a 6month better than money back guarantee. If you’re not completely satisfied with your investment, in making a purchase, you can even keep the bonuses, and we are happyto give you a refund for the next 6 months. We feel this is “even better than moneyback”. We really want to support you, to honor your knowing if you are feeling called tomake sure you have long term access to the audios from the summit. Arielle: Thank you Claire. Claire: And again, soulmateaudios.com, you can go right now and visit and find the fullprogram details of the live broadcast and the Gold and Platinum upgrade options. Arielle: One of the things we promised to give you tonight, is how to create the “lovemanifestation mindset,” so Claire is this a good time to do that? Claire: Absolutely, this is absolutely the difference that makes the difference, regardlessof whichever approach you use. Arielle: So for those of you who have not been living around here for a while and don’tknow what the law of attraction is, let’s start with that definition, because that’s whatmade the difference for me, the law of attraction in manifesting my soulmate. The law of



Claire: Thank you so much Arielle, just beautiful, I really want to encourage everybodyto take the time to do that. It’s wonderful preparation, it’s actually the most importantpiece of preparation that you can do, just anchor into your consciousness of possibility.

I’d like to share with you a process we teach in Calling In The One , about how to set apowerful intention. It’s really about a shift from trying to get love, to moving into aconsciousness of trying of being a creator of love. So we want to invite you to set anintention that is really an intention as to what you are up to creating or generating, asopposed to wishing for love, hoping for love, praying under the phases of the moon forlove to happen. We have all been there, and we’ve done that. Instead we want to inviteyou to set a powerful intention, and you as a conscious co-creator of your love life. What I want you to do, is find some time where you can really let go of your mind and letgo of everything that is on your list and your preconceived ideas about what it is thatyou think you may want. One of the things to want and to serve as a list of things to

have, but just put them aside. Instead take the time to ask yourself these questions toclose your eyes, to drop down into your body. Breathe all the way down into your hipsand really align with this consciousness of possibility. After doing this exercise thatArielle just guided you through. Entering into a consciousness of possibility, reallybreathing into a place inside of you, where you know you were not made to live this lifealone, that you were made for love, you came into this world to create, to experience, toexpress, to create and contribute extraordinary, exquisite love and partnership. From this deeper center, ask yourself the question, “What do I most deeply desire toexperience with my beloved?” Just listen for the answer from the deepest part ofyourself. “What do I most deeply desire to express with my beloved, to my beloved?” Listen for the answer from the deepest part of yourself. Taking a breath and breathingdown to your hips and, “What do I most deeply desire to create with my beloved?What’s the life I desire to create?” Asking yourself the final question, what do I mostdeeply desire to contribute to the world through this union with my soulmate? What do Imost deeply desire to contribute to desire to my community, to my friends, to my family,to the world through this partnership?” Then look at what you have, look at the answers and craft an intention for love thatreally captures your deeper desires of what it is that you most wish to create, “My intention for love is to create an extraordinary, fulfilling partnership with a mate thatI can experience a profound mutuality of giving and receiving, where I can express thefullness of who I am without holding anything back. Where we can create a life thatsupports each other to give the world a gift in the biggest way. Where our relationshipbecomes a model of possibility and contributes a sense of hope and really empowersthe vibration of love in the world, and contributes to the feeling of love andinterconnectedness in our world.”



That becomes your anchor, your stand, you are no longer waiting to get something fromthe universe, or get something from life. You are standing as a powerful co-creator withan intention to bring forth this exquisite love into your life, into our world, and in standingin that place you will discover heaven and earth will begin to move on your behalf inways you couldn’t possibly begin to imagine. To bring forth everything you might need.

To realize it in our manifest world. We want to encourage you to really take the time, you’re going to have this audio. Youare going to be able to download this audio, we are going to send it out tomorrow as arecording so you can listen back to tonight’s audio, you will have that to keep. You canlisten to these exercises. We really want to encourage you to take the time to reallyanchor into the love manifestation mindset and really set your intention for love in thisseries. You are going to be in an open and receptive space to be empowered by each of ourexperts through the 11 days of the series. So again, just a quick reminder, tomorrow

you are going to receive an email with the access codes, 12 o’clock Pacific Time, ourlive broadcast for 24 hours. Tomorrow on the series we have Dr. John Gray and CarolAllen, who is a Vedic astrologist; you can visit soulmateaudios.com for a completeschedule of speakers. They are going to on that page, also have our program information page, there is all ourinformation about the VIP Platinum Plus upgrade. Where you can get the physical CDsand the digital downloads and all the bonus workbooks and the RelationshipCommunication Secrets, the Love and Sex Secrets bonus, sign up and get unlimitedaccess to all of our seminars with Platinum or with Gold if you just want to get theaudios to download, and the schedule is there also if you are going to be listening to thelive broadcast from your computer. Everything you need to know is there on that pagesoulmateaudios.com. So look for the email tomorrow, where you will get thedownloadable recording of tonight’s call so you can go back and check out the scheduleand mark which events are coming up. I think we want to close in a moment just with aclosing prayer. Arielle: I just really want to thank you Claire for that really stunning and beautiful andpowerful intention. That was really wonderful. And everybody know that whatever optionyou choose, please know that your really deserve to have great love in your life and weare standing with you. Having worked with thousands of people we know beyond ashadow of a doubt, there is no external reason why you can’t have big love in your life in2011. So take the time to listen to these audios, we have invested a lot of time and energy andcare to bring you really the very best information from the worlds most experiencedexperts. And we truly know that one or more of these approaches are going to providethe key that will unlock your love destiny. So Claire, if you will close us out with a prayer.



Claire: Thank you Arielle. We are going to be standing with you every step of the wayand holding your hand through the 11 days of the summit, we are so grateful to havethe opportunity to have you in our circle, and we are standing with you to manifest anexquisite love in your life. So let’s just imagine we are coming together in our global

circle of love over 48 countries represented, over 50,000 of us, in this moment, if we canjust sense into and extend our awareness into the powerful collective intention of thismoment. And just taking a deep breath, closing your eyes, allowing your awareness todrop down into your hips, down into your legs, down into the soles of your feet, and intothe heart. Just breathing deep into the yearning for love. Expanding your awareness to anchor intoa sense of possibility. You can have an extraordinary love in your life. You were madeto experience, express and contribute big love. And in this moment you say “yes” together we say “yes” to the greatest possibility of love in our lives. We let go of anyinner obstacles or inner barriers and we move into this next 11 days deeply connected

to our own intuitive knowing, receptive and open to the power of this collective field ofintention and support. Knowing that we are here together to midwife miracles forourselves and each other, and as each one of us takes a stand for possibility and says“yes” to love, it becomes available for all of us. And for the precious gift of thisopportunity to awaken to the fulfillment of love, we say together, “Yes!” And thank youand so it is, and so it shall be. Thank you so much everybody, we love you, we will stand for you. Happy Valentine’sDay! Arielle: Yes! Happy Valentine’s Day, Claire! Claire: Exquisite, extraordinary, amazing time on our planet. And it really couldn’t bemore important right now for all of us in the world right now to be anchoring into avibration of love in our world in our planet, to really midwife the world through this periodof time. It’s very, very exciting. So we look forward to seeing you online and in theseries, much love, and much blessings. Arielle: We will see you tomorrow, good night, everybody! Claire: Good night.

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