is your teen rel. smart
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CHFD-E-90 November 2008
Is Your TeenMom/Dad, Iam going out
on a date . . .I’m in love!
RelationshipSmart?
Family, Health,
Home, Money......a UGA Cooperative Extension Family and
Consumer Sciences Agent can guide you.
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1-800-ASK-UGA1Is your teen ready to date?
Are you ready for your teen
to date? Did you know that
nearly 30% of 12–13 year
olds experience a romantic
relationship each year
compared to about 50%
of 15–16 year olds and
70% of 17–18 year olds.
A U t h o r S :
Ted G. Futis ad Bbbee Seldi
Famil ad Csume Scieces Extesi
Adapted m Kate Fgat (2006). Teens and Dating: Tips for Parents
and Professionals. Uivesit Flida Extesi.
T h E U n I V E r S I T y o F G E o r G I A
Cllege Famil ad Csume Scieces
Cpeative Extesi
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Parents play a very important role i elpig tei tees lea
wat is ealt i a elatisip ad wat is t. Paets ca als
elp tees bette udestad te eeligs te expeiece ad
w t maage tem. hee ae a ew tigs u ca d t elp
u tee be elatisip smat:
Be open and sensitive when talking with your teen abut
datig ad elatisips. Discuss u views ad values ad
ea wat te ave t sa witut beig judgmetal.
Maintain a caring, supportive relationship wit u
tee. Make sue u tee kws u will suppt is/edecisis ad u ae tee t e guidace ad diecti
we eeded. Tis tpe elatisip pes te lie
cmmuicati ad tust s tat u tee ca cme ad
talk wit u abut elatisips ad datig.
Share your own relationship experiences wit u
tee ad u deiti a ealt vesus uealt
elatisip. Mdel apppiate beavis i u w
elatisips.
Keep up with your teen’s schedule and activities.
Tis sws u iteest i tei scial lie.
Learn about your teen’s friends – tis t l
allws u t kw tei ieds ad paets adptetial matic iteests, but als t ste
discussis abut w tse elatisips ae gig.
yu ca d tis b ldig dail cvesatis wit
u tee. Be a gd listee ad allw u tee
t talk wit u abut tei ieds, activities,
atig m tei da. Wat u talk abut is
t as imptat as u tee eelig cmtable
talkig ad voluntarily saig wit u as pat
tei egula utie.
Join your teen in various activities – plaig
vide games, usig te cmpute, ad watcig
is/e avite televisi pgams ad mvies
– paticulal tse tat sw tees avig
matic elatisips. Take time t discuss wat u
watced, w it elated t tei cuet elatisip, ad te
veall message te gt m it.
Work together to form clear expectations and rules
on dating. Be fexible ad willig t liste t u tee’s
viewpit. negtiate witut givig up u paetal
autit. Beig t stict ma lead tees t ebel b makig
p datig cices egagig i te isk beavis.
Establis ai ad easable csequeces tat u ae
able t llw tug wit we ules ae bke. Tis is
imptat because ules witut csequeces, we te
ae bke, ca icease te likelid tat u tee will
egage i uealt isk beavis i te utue.
Des yueen aveelainsip
smas?
Datig is a mal ad imptat pat tee
develpmet. F uge tees, datig is me abut
avig u, agig ut wit pees, ad explig wat
te like. Eal , mst tei time is spet i same
gede pee gups, but evetuall te begi t g ut
“gup dates” wee tei pee gup becmes mixed-
gede.
As tees get lde, te ae me likel t becme ivlved
i exclusive datig elatisips. F lde tees, datig
begis t cus me cmpaisip, saig tugts
ad eeligs, ad scial suppt. Wile extemel itese,
tese elatisips ae tpicall st lived ad abut al
ed witi e ea. F tees, tese elatisips, eve
we st-lived, ca ave imptat implicatis tei
develpmet ad emtial well-beig.
Datig is a pptuit tees t lea abut
temselves ad wat te wat i a utue lg-tem
cmmitted elatisip. Fmig ealt elatisips
ca elp tees lea imptat skills suc as cpeati,
apppiate beavi, cmpmise, sesitivit, ad te
abilit t udestad tes’ eeligs. Tese skills ca lead
t utue ealt elatisips i adultd. o te te
ad, uealt elatisips ca put tees at isk eal
sexual activit, depessi, ad mig p scial skills.
Adlescece is a time we tees ae develpig bt
emtiall ad psicall, ad tese cages ca eite
ave a psitive egative ifuece a tee’s judgmet
ad beavi i a datig elatisip. Des u tee ave
te emtial itelligece t adle callegig situatis
i is e datig elatisips?
About 1 in 5 teens say most of their friends are in unhealthy relationships
About 1 in 10 teens have been hit,slapped, or physically hurt on purpose by their boyfriend orgirlfriend.
Teen Relationship Facts:
oveall, daing duing adlescence can pse b
pmise and pblems. Wile is can be a sessful
ime f paens, i can be an even me sessful
expeience f eens. Pviding a safe and secue
base f yu een cmmunicae wi yu penly
abu is e elainsips and elping yu een
ink abu is e expecains and values in
elainsips can lead a elainsip sma een!