Integral  Parenting  &Relationships  

Elza  S.  Maalouf  

The  Five  Aspects  

 Quadrants    Levels  Lines  States  Types  

Instinctive

Tribalistic

Exploitative

Absolutistic

Multiplistic

Sociocentric Existential

Holistic Le

vels    &

   Stag

es    

Lines  of  Development  

!   Cognitive  Intelligence  

!   Emotional  Intelligence  

!   Moral  Intelligence  

!   Spiritual  Intelligence  

!   Interpersonal  Intelligence  

!   Physical  Intelligence  

“I” Upper Left (UL)

What is EQ Conceptually?

Copyright TalentSmart®, Inc. 2004 Learning: Discovering EQ

Daniel  Goleman’s  benchmark  model  

Self- Awareness

Self- Management

Relationship Management

Social Awareness

What I See What I Do

Social Competence

Personal Competence

What is EQ?

Copyright TalentSmart®, Inc. 2004 EQ Learning: Discovering EQ

“The capacity for recognizing our own feelings and those of others, for motivating ourselves, for managing emotions well in ourselves and in our relationships.”

Daniel Goleman

Author of Emotional Intelligence  

Children  Levels  of  Development    

LC-Capacities in the brain

In some cases, a person may not be genetically or constitutionally equipped to change in the normal upward direction when the conditions of his existence change. Instead, he may stabilize and live out his life at any one or a combination of levels in the hierarchy. Again, he/she may show the behavior of a level in a predominantly positive or negative manner, or he may, under certain circumstances, regress to a behavior system lower in the hierarchy. Thus, an adult lives in a potentially open system of needs, values and aspirations, but he often settles into what appears to be a closed system.