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1. “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” – Anais Nin 2. “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.” – Leo F. Buscaglia 3. “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” – Walter Winchell 4. “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” – Carl Jung 5. “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” – William James 6. “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” – Donald Miller 7. “If you would be loved, love, and be loveable.” — Benjamin Franklin 8. “No road is long with good company.” — Turkish Proverb 9. “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” — Carl W. Buechner 10.“People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.” — Joseph F. Newton Men

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Page 1: Inspiring quotes

1.

“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until

they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”

– Anais Nin

2. “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself

— to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because

of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a

relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous

heart.”

– Leo F. Buscaglia

3. “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”

– Walter Winchell

4. “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical

substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”

– Carl Jung

5. “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can

make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening

it. That factor is attitude.”

– William James

6. “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for

who they are.”

– Donald Miller

7. “If you would be loved, love, and be loveable.”

— Benjamin Franklin

8. “No road is long with good company.”

— Turkish Proverb

9. “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made

them feel.”

— Carl W. Buechner

10.“People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”

— Joseph F. Newton Men

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11. “Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.”

— Swedish Proverb

12. “You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships

everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging

adversity.”

— Epicurus

13. “Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt,

kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility to evaporate.”

— Albert Schweitzer

14. “For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak

only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you

are never alone.”

— Audrey Hepburn

15. “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in

other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people

interested in you.”

— Dale Carnegie

16. “Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”

— Mahatma Gandhi

17. “As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience

another person, you can only experience them in your mind.

Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in

your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships

are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your

experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about

your lovers come from your thoughts.

For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive.

However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not

determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to

relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them,

Page 3: Inspiring quotes

you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind.”

— Wayne Dyer

18. “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”

— Henry Winkler

19. “A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill requires only our

silence; which costs us nothing.”

— John Tillotson

20. “Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about

yourself.”

— Andre Breton

21. “Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely,

with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.

The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand

trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most

will be spilled.

A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the

other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too

possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.”

— Kaleel Jamison

22. “A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the

open sea.”

— Honore de Balzac

23. “Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human

beings.”

— Miles Franklin

24. “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another,

‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one”

— C.S. Lewis

25. “The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves,

and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the

Page 4: Inspiring quotes

reflection of ourselves we find in them.”

— Thomas Merton

26. “When a woman is talking to you, listen to what she says with her

eyes.”

— Victor Hugo

27.“Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their

tummy. Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by

using the words ‘for ever.’ But love can only truly be measured by

actions. It can be a small thing, such as peeling an orange for a person

you love because you know they don’t like doing it.”

— Marian Keyes

28. “We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if

we become encouragers instead of critics.”

— Joyce Meyer

29. “Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know

we cannot live within.”

— James Baldwin

30. “Don’t smother each other. No one can grow in the shade.”

— Leo Buscaglia

31. “We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not

care at all.”

— Eleanor Roosevelt

32. “Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact

that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re

trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality,

the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a

place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.”

— Anthony Robbins

33. “The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about the things he

treasures most.”

— Dale Carnegie

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34. “We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voice in

which it has been expressed is unsympathetic to us.”

— Friedrich Nietzsche

35. “It is of practical value to learn to like yourself. Since you must spend

so much time with yourself you might as well get some satisfaction out of

the relationship.”

— Norman Vincent Peale

36. “Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want

is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”

— Oprah Winfrey

37.“What love we’ve given, we’ll have forever. What love we fail to give, will

be lost for all eternity.”

— Leo Buscaglia

38. “Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. Small

people always do that, but the really great make you believe that you too

can become great.”

— Mark Twain

39. “The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when someone

asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer.”

— Henry David Thoreau

40. “You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles

between you, but at the same time you carry them with you in your

heart, your mind, your stomach, because you do not just live in a world

but a world lives in you.”

— Frederick Buechner

41. “Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human

beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can

grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it

possible for each to see the other whole against the sky.”

— Rainer Maria Rilke

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42. “The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.”

— Gilbert K. Chesterton

43. “True friendship comes when the silence between two people is

comfortable.”

— David Tyson Gentry

44. “When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to

complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship,

we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up

with somebody more promising.

This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a

partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are

responsible for our own fulfillment.

Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude

ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every

relationship we enter.”

— Tom Robbins

45. “If men would consider not so much wherein they differ, as wherein

they agree, there would be far less of uncharitableness and angry feeling

in the world.”

— Joseph Addison

46. “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the

friends we choose.”

— Tennessee Williams

47. “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an

understanding of ourselves.”

— Carl Jung

48. “When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with

creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.”

— Dale Carnegie

Page 7: Inspiring quotes

49. “Three things in human life are important: the first is to be kind; the

second is to be kind; and the third is to be kind.”

— Henry James

50. “When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that

person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel.

Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.”

— Catherine Ponder

51. “Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding

that that’s ok with them.”

— Alain de Botton

52. “An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind.”

— Mahatma Gandhi.

53. “Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not

like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will

not forget you. Love me and I may be forced to love you.”

– William Arthur Ward

54. “What is uttered from the heart alone, will win the hearts of others to

your own.”

– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

55.“Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another

city.”

– George Burns

56. “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.”

– Confucius

57. “Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Don’t walk behind me; I

may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”

– Albert Camus

58. “Having someone wonder where you are when you don’t come home

at night is a very old human need.”

– Margaret Mead

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59. “I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully.

Most people never listen.”

– Ernest Hemingway

60. “Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a

good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt

61. “Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations.

Don’t over-analyze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing

relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness. “

– Leo F. Buscaglia

62. “There’s one sad truth in life I’ve found

While journeying east and west -

The only folks we really wound

Are those we love the best.

We flatter those we scarcely know,

We please the fleeting guest,

And deal full many a thoughtless blow

To those who love us best.”

– Ella Wheeler Wilcox

63. “A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing

it back to you when you have forgotten the words.”

– Donna Roberts

64. “Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile

world. Same world.”

— Wayne Dyer

65. “It was only a sunny smile, and little it cost in the giving, but like

morning light it scattered the night and made the day worth living.”

– F. Scott Fitzgerald

66. “Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.”

– Paul Boose

Page 9: Inspiring quotes

67. “If you live to be 100, I hope I live to be 100 minus 1 day, so I never

have to live without you.”

– Winnie the Pooh

68. “Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the

charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.”

– Marcel Proust

W

1.

“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until

they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”

– Anais Nin

2. “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself

— to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because

of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a

relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous

heart.”

– Leo F. Buscaglia

3. “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”

– Walter Winchell

4. “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical

substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”

– Carl Jung

5. “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can

make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening

it. That factor is attitude.”

– William James

6. “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for

who they are.”

– Donald Miller

7. “If you would be loved, love, and be loveable.”

— Benjamin Franklin

Page 10: Inspiring quotes

8. “No road is long with good company.”

— Turkish Proverb

9. “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made

them feel.”

— Carl W. Buechner

10.“People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”

— Joseph F. Newton Men

11. “Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.”

— Swedish Proverb

12. “You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships

everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging

adversity.”

— Epicurus

13. “Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt,

kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility to evaporate.”

— Albert Schweitzer

14. “For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak

only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you

are never alone.”

— Audrey Hepburn

15. “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in

other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people

interested in you.”

— Dale Carnegie

16. “Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”

— Mahatma Gandhi

17. “As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience

another person, you can only experience them in your mind.

Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in

your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships

are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your

Page 11: Inspiring quotes

experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about

your lovers come from your thoughts.

For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive.

However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not

determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to

relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them,

you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind.”

— Wayne Dyer

18. “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”

— Henry Winkler

19. “A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill requires only our

silence; which costs us nothing.”

— John Tillotson

20. “Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about

yourself.”

— Andre Breton

21. “Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely,

with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.

The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand

trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most

will be spilled.

A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the

other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too

possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.”

— Kaleel Jamison

22. “A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the

open sea.”

— Honore de Balzac

23. “Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human

beings.”

— Miles Franklin

Page 12: Inspiring quotes

24. “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another,

‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one”

— C.S. Lewis

25. “The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves,

and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the

reflection of ourselves we find in them.”

— Thomas Merton

26. “When a woman is talking to you, listen to what she says with her

eyes.”

— Victor Hugo

27.“Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their

tummy. Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by

using the words ‘for ever.’ But love can only truly be measured by

actions. It can be a small thing, such as peeling an orange for a person

you love because you know they don’t like doing it.”

— Marian Keyes

28. “We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if

we become encouragers instead of critics.”

— Joyce Meyer

29. “Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know

we cannot live within.”

— James Baldwin

30. “Don’t smother each other. No one can grow in the shade.”

— Leo Buscaglia

31. “We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not

care at all.”

— Eleanor Roosevelt

32. “Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact

that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re

trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality,

the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a

Page 13: Inspiring quotes

place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.”

— Anthony Robbins

33. “The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about the things he

treasures most.”

— Dale Carnegie

34. “We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voice in

which it has been expressed is unsympathetic to us.”

— Friedrich Nietzsche

35. “It is of practical value to learn to like yourself. Since you must spend

so much time with yourself you might as well get some satisfaction out of

the relationship.”

— Norman Vincent Peale

36. “Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want

is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”

— Oprah Winfrey

37.“What love we’ve given, we’ll have forever. What love we fail to give, will

be lost for all eternity.”

— Leo Buscaglia

38. “Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. Small

people always do that, but the really great make you believe that you too

can become great.”

— Mark Twain

39. “The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when someone

asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer.”

— Henry David Thoreau

40. “You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles

between you, but at the same time you carry them with you in your

heart, your mind, your stomach, because you do not just live in a world

but a world lives in you.”

— Frederick Buechner

Page 14: Inspiring quotes

41. “Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human

beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can

grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it

possible for each to see the other whole against the sky.”

— Rainer Maria Rilke

42. “The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.”

— Gilbert K. Chesterton

43. “True friendship comes when the silence between two people is

comfortable.”

— David Tyson Gentry

44. “When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to

complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship,

we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up

with somebody more promising.

This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a

partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are

responsible for our own fulfillment.

Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude

ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every

relationship we enter.”

— Tom Robbins

45. “If men would consider not so much wherein they differ, as wherein

they agree, there would be far less of uncharitableness and angry feeling

in the world.”

— Joseph Addison

46. “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the

friends we choose.”

— Tennessee Williams

47. “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an

understanding of ourselves.”

— Carl Jung

Page 15: Inspiring quotes

48. “When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with

creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.”

— Dale Carnegie

49. “Three things in human life are important: the first is to be kind; the

second is to be kind; and the third is to be kind.”

— Henry James

50. “When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that

person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel.

Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.”

— Catherine Ponder

51. “Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding

that that’s ok with them.”

— Alain de Botton

52. “An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind.”

— Mahatma Gandhi.

53. “Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not

like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will

not forget you. Love me and I may be forced to love you.”

– William Arthur Ward

54. “What is uttered from the heart alone, will win the hearts of others to

your own.”

– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

55.“Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another

city.”

– George Burns

56. “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.”

– Confucius

57. “Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Don’t walk behind me; I

may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”

– Albert Camus

Page 16: Inspiring quotes

58. “Having someone wonder where you are when you don’t come home

at night is a very old human need.”

– Margaret Mead

59. “I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully.

Most people never listen.”

– Ernest Hemingway

60. “Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a

good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt

61. “Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations.

Don’t over-analyze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing

relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness. “

– Leo F. Buscaglia

62. “There’s one sad truth in life I’ve found

While journeying east and west -

The only folks we really wound

Are those we love the best.

We flatter those we scarcely know,

We please the fleeting guest,

And deal full many a thoughtless blow

To those who love us best.”

– Ella Wheeler Wilcox

63. “A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing

it back to you when you have forgotten the words.”

– Donna Roberts

64. “Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile

world. Same world.”

— Wayne Dyer

65. “It was only a sunny smile, and little it cost in the giving, but like

morning light it scattered the night and made the day worth living.”

– F. Scott Fitzgerald

Page 17: Inspiring quotes

66. “Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.”

– Paul Boose

67. “If you live to be 100, I hope I live to be 100 minus 1 day, so I never

have to live without you.”

– Winnie the Pooh

68. “Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the

charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.”

– Marcel Proust

W

1.

“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive,

and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”

– Anais Nin

2. “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh

with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to

love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and

can never grow in a jealous heart.”

– Leo F. Buscaglia

3. “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”

– Walter Winchell

4. “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances:

if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”

– Carl Jung

5. “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the

difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is

attitude.”

– William James

6. “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they

are.”

– Donald Miller

7. “If you would be loved, love, and be loveable.”

— Benjamin Franklin

8. “No road is long with good company.”

— Turkish Proverb

Page 18: Inspiring quotes

9. “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them

feel.”

— Carl W. Buechner

10. “People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”

— Joseph F. Newton Men

11. “Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.”

— Swedish Proverb

12. “You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You

develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.”

— Epicurus

13. “Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness

causes misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility to evaporate.”

— Albert Schweitzer

14. “For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only

words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never

alone.”

— Audrey Hepburn

15. “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other

people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”

— Dale Carnegie

16. “Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”

— Mahatma Gandhi

17. “As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another

person, you can only experience them in your mind.

Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind.

Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you

think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is

only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts.

For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However,

your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their

behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. Their

actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only

process them in your mind.”

— Wayne Dyer

Page 19: Inspiring quotes

18. “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”

— Henry Winkler

19. “A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill requires only our silence;

which costs us nothing.”

— John Tillotson

20. “Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself.”

— Andre Breton

21. “Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an

open hand, the sand remains where it is.

The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles

through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled.

A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other

person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly , too possessively, and the

relationship slips away and is lost.”

— Kaleel Jamison

22. “A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the open sea.”

— Honore de Balzac

23. “Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human beings.”

— Miles Franklin

24. “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, ‘What! You

too? I thought I was the only one”

— C.S. Lewis

25. “The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to

twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves

we find in them.”

— Thomas Merton

26. “When a woman is talking to you, listen to what she says with her eyes.”

— Victor Hugo

27. “Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their tummy.

Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by using the words

‘for ever.’ But love can only truly be measured by actions. It can be a small thing,

such as peeling an orange for a person you love because you know they don’t like

doing it.”

— Marian Keyes

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28. “We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become

encouragers instead of critics.”

— Joyce Meyer

29. “Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live

within.”

— James Baldwin

30. “Don’t smother each other. No one can grow in the shade.”

— Leo Buscaglia

31. “We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at

all.”

— Eleanor Roosevelt

32. “Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most

people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find

someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a

relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give,

and not a place that you go to take.”

— Anthony Robbins

33. “The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures

most.”

— Dale Carnegie

34. “We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voice in which it has

been expressed is unsympathetic to us.”

— Friedrich Nietzsche

35. “It is of practical value to learn to like yourself. Since you must spend so much

time with yourself you might as well get some satisfaction out of the relationship.”

— Norman Vincent Peale

36. “Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone

who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”

— Oprah Winfrey

37. “What love we’ve given, we’ll have forever. What love we fail to give, will be lost for

all eternity.”

— Leo Buscaglia

38. “Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do

that, but the really great make you believe that you too can become great.”

— Mark Twain

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39. “The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when someone asked me

what I thought, and attended to my answer.”

— Henry David Thoreau

40. “You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you, but at

the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your stomach,

because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you.”

— Frederick Buechner

41. “Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings

infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they

succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to

see the other whole against the sky.”

— Rainer Maria Rilke

42. “The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.”

— Gilbert K. Chesterton

43. “True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable.”

— David Tyson Gentry

44. “When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us.

When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re still

unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising.

This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a partner can

add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own

fulfillment.

Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves

dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.”

— Tom Robbins

45. “If men would consider not so much wherein they differ, as wherein they agree,

there would be far less of uncharitableness and angry feeling in the world.”

— Joseph Addison

46. “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we

choose.”

— Tennessee Williams

47. “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of

ourselves.”

— Carl Jung

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48. “When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic,

but creatures of emotion.”

— Dale Carnegie

49. “Three things in human life are important: the first is to be kind; the second is to

be kind; and the third is to be kind.”

— Henry James

50. “When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or

condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only

way to dissolve that link and get free.”

— Catherine Ponder

51. “Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s

ok with them.”

— Alain de Botton

52. “An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind.”

— Mahatma Gandhi.

53. “Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore

me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you. Love me

and I may be forced to love you.”

– William Arthur Ward

54. “What is uttered from the heart alone, will win the hearts of others to your own.”

– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

55. “Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.”

– George Burns

56. “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.”

– Confucius

57. “Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Don’t walk behind me; I may not

lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”

– Albert Camus

58. “Having someone wonder where you are when you don’t come home at night is a

very old human need.”

– Margaret Mead

59. “I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people

never listen.”

– Ernest Hemingway

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60. “Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of

thought into the happiness that you are able to give.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt

61. “Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t over -

analyze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only

be nurtured by genuineness. “

– Leo F. Buscaglia

62. “There’s one sad truth in life I’ve found

While journeying east and west -

The only folks we really wound

Are those we love the best.

We flatter those we scarcely know,

We please the fleeting guest,

And deal full many a thoughtless blow

To those who love us best.”

– Ella Wheeler Wilcox

63. “A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you

when you have forgotten the words.”

– Donna Roberts

64. “Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Same

world.”

— Wayne Dyer

65. “It was only a sunny smile, and little it cost in the giving, but like morning light it

scattered the night and made the day worth living.”

– F. Scott Fitzgerald

66. “Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.”

– Paul Boose

67. “If you live to be 100, I hope I live to be 100 minus 1 day, so I never have to live

without you.”

– Winnie the Pooh

68. “Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming

gardeners who make our souls blossom.”

– Marcel Proust