improving reading, writing and spelling skills plays a vital role in children’s
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Improving reading, writing and spelling skills plays a vital role in children’s
Improving Reading Help, writing and spelling skills plays a vital role in our
children’s academic success. But what if I told you that was only half of the
“success equation?” It’s my belief that the other piece of the equation is building
resiliency in our children. As parents, we would love to see our children bring
home all A’s on their report cards and score 100 percent on their exams. But are
good grades a true predictor of future success? I don’t think so.
It’s my stance that academic achievement and IQ may bring immediate success in
school, but long-term future success depends more heavily on a person’s
resiliency. Certified Barton Tutor convinced that you could take two different
people with the same IQ, but their individual ability to persevere, master emotional
coping skills, and accept social support is what will make or break their future
success.
Every child needs someone in their life who will love them
unconditionally. Besides a parent, children can turn to a sports coach, a minister, or
a Scouting leader. Someone who will unconditionally accept him for both his
strengths and his weaknesses. This means not attacking her when she makes
mistakes and encouraging her to pursue activities in her areas of strength. Praise
her for a good job using her skills and completing tasks.
Point Out Their Gifts
Our children’s weekdays revolve around school and learning. Unfortunately, most
schools focus on passing the next test. With so much emphasis placed on reading,
writing and spelling skills (our children’s weaker skills) it’s really important to
balance out the experience by putting equal focus on their strengths.
I encourage you to become a talent scout. It’s important to balance out your child’s
struggles with lots of opportunities for success. So your child can say with pride, “I
may not win the school spelling bee, but I can certainly pitch a no hitter!” It takes
the focus off of the weakness and gives balance. Does the ability to “pitch a no
hitter” guarantee a child future success in life? No. But neither does making the
Honor Roll. However, it does wonders for a child’s self-esteem. Reinforcing that
they have innate gifts and abilities that not everyone has.
This is what my mother-in-law did for my son. She knew I was working with my
son on improving his reading, writing and spelling skills. So didn’t focus on that
area. Instead, she’d call him up and ask, “How was your game last night?” It didn’t
matter to her if he pitched a no hitter or struck out at bat. She cheered him on and
praised him regardless. His performance was not important to her. She loved and
supported him no matter what the outcome was.
Share Your Own Challenges
Be open to sharing your own weaknesses with your children. My children and
students love to hear me share that although reading, writing and spelling has
always been easy for me, my struggle was always with math. Often, their eyes light
up and they start quizzing me on my multiplication tables. They love learning that
I’m not good at everything either. I’m able to relate to them by sharing stories of
the horrible Geometry teacher who would embarrass me in class if I didn’t know
the answer to his questions.
In summary, encourage an open dialogue about your child’s school experiences.
Empathize with your child about challenges they are experiencing. Share your own
challenges. Consistently remind your child of his strengths and what you love
about him – no matter how big or small. Our children need to hear over and over
again that everyone has strengths and everyone has challenges.
So where do your child’s talents lie? Winter break is a great time to explore some
of your child’s innate strengths. Feel free to share any suggestions that you have
below!
To your child’s success!
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