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Page 1: Improving Communication. Active Listening We need to be good listeners. Active listening is the process of taking action to help someone say exactly what

Improving Communication

Page 2: Improving Communication. Active Listening We need to be good listeners. Active listening is the process of taking action to help someone say exactly what

Active Listening

• We need to be good listeners.

• Active listening is the process of taking action to help someone say exactly what he or she really means.

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Active Listening

• 1. We need to listen for message content

• 2. Listen for feelings

• 3. Respond to feelings

• 4. Note all cues

• 5. Paraphrase and restate

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Active Listening

• Don’t you think employees should be promoted based on seniority?

• What does the supervisor expect us to do about these out of date computers?

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Ten Steps to Good Listening

• 1.Stop talking

• 2. Put the other person at ease

• 3. Show that you want to listen

• 4. Remove any potential distractions

• 5. Empathize with the other person

• 6. Don’t respond too quickly; be patient.

• 7. Don’t get mad. Hold your temper.

• 8. Go easy on argument and criticism.

• 9. Ask questions.

• 10. Stop talking.

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Constructive Feedback

• Feedback is the process of telling someone else how you feel about something that person did or said.

• We have to be extremely careful about how we give feedback.

• Employees may be harmed by the discussion if not done right.

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Constructive Feedback

Page 8: Improving Communication. Active Listening We need to be good listeners. Active listening is the process of taking action to help someone say exactly what

Use of Communication Channels

• Channel Richness is the ability of a channel to carry information effectively.

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Interactive Management

• MBWA (Management By Wandering Around)

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Interactive Management

• Open office hours

• Online discussion forums

• Employee group meetings

• Video conferences

• 360-degree feedback

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The Perception Process

• Perception is how we receive, organize, and interpret information from the environment.

SENDER RECEIVER

Message

Feedback

PERCEPTUAL DISTORTIONS- Stereotypes -Selective Perception-Halo Effects -Projection

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Perception and Attribution

• Attribution is the process of developingexplanations for events.

• Attribution Error happens when someone’sfailures are blamed on internal factors than external factors.

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Perception and Attribution

• Self-serving bias is when someone tries to blame failures or problems on external problems and successes on internal problems.

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Two Women

• Can you see the young woman?

• Can you see the old woman?

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Scary optical illusion - Brightness

• Do you see some women looking at themselves in a mirror?

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Big monster chasing little monster

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Which line is bigger?

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They are both the same length

• The illusion works because things in the distance would normally be smaller, but in this picture the perspective of the road plays tricks on your mind.

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The power of letters and numbers - shape

• Read the letters from left to right across the page.

• Next, read the text from top to bottom.

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Read the colours!

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Look Closer

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Perceptual Tendencies and Distortions

• These are things that can influence communication:

• Stereotypes

• Halo Effects

• Selective Perception

• Projection

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Stereotypes

• Stereotypes are when traits that are usually associated with a group are associated with an individual.

• Race stereotypes

• Age stereotypes

• Ability stereotypes

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Halo Effect

• Halo effect happens one somebody is judged (well or badly) on one feature.

• Positive: Valeria is always on time…therefore she is a good employee.

• Negative: His hair is messy…he must be an unorganized, lazy person.

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Selective Perception

• This happens when we look for things that support or reinforce what we already think or believe.

• This could mean, for example, that people from different departments are never going to see others’ points of view.

• Fight this by getting other opinons.

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Projection

• Projection is when we assign personal attributes onto other people.

• You always have to be self-aware of what you are doing. You have to empathize, and you have to have a willingness to communicate.