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I’M LISTENING TO

YOU..

not

How to

speak so

that

people

listen.?

- Julian Treasure

Is the most powerful tool in the world

Then why don’t people listen to me??

7 Deadly Sins Of

Speaking

1GOSSIPIN

G1.

Speaking ill of someone who’s not present .

The person gossiping will be five minutes later gossiping about us.

JUDGING

2.

Hard to listen to a person where you know that even you would be judged.

3.

Negativi

ty 3.

This world is not apt for

living.Everyone is

bad.I just don’t wanna live

No one likes the person always speaking negative.

Complain

ing 4.

It’s a viral misery all around the world.

And no one likes to listen to this type of person.

Excuses 5.

These people are just blame throwers.

Never take responsibility of one’s action.

Exaggerati

on 6.

actual exxagerated

Who would like listening to such a person..?

Penultimat

e 7.

What I’m saying is

correct! Sun rises in the

west!!

It’s the situation where facts are confused with opinions..

How to

make our

conversat

ion better

then?

H.A.I.L

USE

H.A.I.L

USE

To greet or acclaim enthusiastically

H : HONESTY

A : AUTHENTICITY

I : INTEGRITY

L : LOVE

Be clear and

straightBe

yourself

Spread it

Be your word

Is there

also any

way , so

that our

power of

speaking

can be

increased..

?

Yes! We have a

toolbox!

Yes! We have a

toolbox!

Register

If you want weight, your voice has to go down from your throat to your chest.

RegisterTimbre

Everyone prefers to hear rich, smooth, warm voices

RegisterTimbreProsody

It is the sing-song of tone to impart meaning.Monotonic and repetitive prosody should be avoided.

RegisterTimbreProsody

Pace

You may get excited to say something quickly or slow down to emphasize. Also there is nothing wrong with being silent for a moment.

RegisterTimbreProsody

PacePitch often goes with pace to indicate arousal.

Pitch

RegisterTimbreProsody

Pace

Pitch

Volume

You make raise your volume suddenly excited or may have people paying attention by getting quiet.

We presently live in an environment where,

7 sins of speakingare present

Noise bad

acoustics

Results in improper listening

The world would be beautiful and understanding would be the norm if,

Powerful Speaking Designed

Soundscapes

Consciouslistening

Let’s make the world a better place

to live in

Recap..

1.

Recap..

2. 3.

Thank You

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