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YO MOMMA WAS WRONG YOU CAN TALK TO STRANGERS

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Page 1: HOW TO TALK TO STRANGERS

YO MOMMA WAS WRONG

YOU CAN TALK TO STRANGERS

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6 PROVEN WAYS TO HELP YOU TALK TO ANYONE

MDK//AMSTERDAM YO MOMMA WAS WRONG

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OVERCOME SHYNESS

BREAK THE ICE

SAY NO TO YES/NO

BODY LANGUAGE

LISTEN CAREFULLY

MAKE EYE CONTACT

MDK//AMSTERDAM HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE

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OVERCOME SHYNESS

It’s okay to be nervous. Just

remember, the person

you’re talking to is likely

also nervous, and human.

They’ll understand.

MDK//AMSTERDAM HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE

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Sometimes the setting

you’re in can give you an

advantage. Use cues from

your (shared) environment

to strike up a chat.

BREAK THE ICE

MDK//AMSTERDAM HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE

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Kids do it, so why can’t we?

Ask questions like “why” and

“how” to keep talks going.

Try to avoid yes/no questions

unless you’re making a point.

SAY NO TO YES/NO

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Listening carefully makes

you better able to respond

intelligently - to be a good

talker when it’s your turn.

To be interesting, be interested.

LISTEN CAREFULLY

MDK//AMSTERDAM HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE

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If you’re uncomfortable,

people can sense it. Avoid

appearing insincere when

you speak by checking in with

(being mindful of) your self.

BODY LANGUAGE

MDK//AMSTERDAM HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE

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Keeping a reasonable

amount of eye contact,

and leaning in during your

chat can really help you be

a great conversationalist.MAKE EYE CONTACT

MDK//AMSTERDAM HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE

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OVERCOME SHYNESS

BREAK THE ICE

SAY NO TO YES/NO

BODY LANGUAGE

LISTEN CAREFULLY

MAKE EYE CONTACT

MDK//AMSTERDAM HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE

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Remember: anyone can make a list of

ways to be a good conversationalist.

LITERALLY, ANYONE (THANKS SLIDESHARE)

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But at the end of the day,

all you really need to do is…

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…just be yourself.

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Or contact me today.

(BUT MOSTLY JUST BE YOURSELF)

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H E L L O @ M D K A M S T E R D A M . C O M

@ M D K O E N K A

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