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Positive Feedback

Loop

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Whenever you do any kind of planning or manifesting, it's always recommended to have a positive expectation.

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If you think you'll fail, you will increase your chances of that happening.

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Say you go in for a job interview, and you don't think you'll do well.

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This will decrease your enthusiasm, which will have a negative effect on how you present yourself.

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Of course, this will decrease the chances you get the job, making your negative expectations come true.

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On the other hand, if you've got positive expectations, and really imagine yourself having the job, then you'll be much more outgoing,

confident and articulate.

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Things interviewers love to see.

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However, this won't guarantee you get the job.

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Sure, it will increase your chances.

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But what if everybody else who's interviewing is doing the same thing?

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This is one of the problems with holding a positive expectation.

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If it doesn't happen right away, it's very easy to get discouraged, angry and resentful.

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Expecting to get something, and then not getting it, feels VERY similar to getting cheated.

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It's the same, on an emotional level, as somebody making a promise to you that is based on pure lies.

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I'm sure you've heard that old saying, "Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst."

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Thing about those old sayings is there's a reason they've been around for a while.

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How do you implement them? How do you continue to maintain a positive expectation when odds are you'll run into problems, difficulties

and obstacles no matter what?

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One is to take on the mindset of responsibility.

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One of the reasons we feel cheated when things don't work out, is we still have the mindset of "receiving something" rather than "earning

something."

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Often times, we feel like we're supposed to put in a certain amount of work and then the "universe" is supposed to "give us" a prize for our

efforts.

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Kind of like being a little kid playing some game at a birthday party.

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Think of something that you KNOW is totally under your control.

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When things don't go the way you'd hoped, you step back and do something different.

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This is pretty much the underlying structure of ALL human behavior.

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Action, feedback, increased information, more action.

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This is true for huge life dreams, like creating a lucrative career.

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This is true for very small things, like finding our way to the bathroom in the dark in a friends house.

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To remove the sting of not getting what you want, think in terms of creating, rather than simply being a passive receiver.

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Not only will it make things much easier, but because you'll have much more control, you'll be able to create a LOT more.

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