High-Way 3: Full Responsibility

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• We do not get the life we deserve; we get the life we expect.

• Do you agree/disagree and why.• If you could kick the person in the pants who

is responsible for most of your troubles, you would not sit for a month.

Full Responsibility• Imagine standing on one leg….now someone gives you a slight or huge

shove on the shoulder. What happens…even with a slight shove?• Symbolically, this is what happens when”• When we worry what everyone thinks of us• When we try to change other people• When we don’t get enough sleep• When you abuse substances• When you worry about the future• When you are taking full responsibility:• Focus on your business• Tell the truth• You take care of yourself physically/emotionally• Ask for help• Letting what everyone thinks of us not matter• Letting go of the fear of the future and living each day in the present

• * We live is a society that is rampant with blaming..

• -the government, our schools, neighbors, the “other” political party…..

• * Our thoughts create our reality.• Think of Terry Fox, Marcus Dupree, “Stand and

Deliver,” Zig Ziglar, Tony Robbins……they created the world they live in.

• * You must come to realize that you are the most powerful person in your life.

AD/BC

• Learn to own responsibility for your decisions• You must move from B.C ing(blaming and

complaining) to A.D ing (Acting and Dreaming)• You will also come to learn others will treat

you in regard to how you treat yourself.• The happiest and most successful people in

the world feel like they have power (A.D)• Victims feel powerless over their lives (B.C)