helping kids be naughty no more
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Helping Kids Be naughty no more. Jodi Mullen, Phd Integrative Counseling Services. Introductions. The naughty No More Story. Identifying feelings & Communicating Understanding. Verbally Non-verbally facial expressions body language Para-verbally. - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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HELPING KIDS BE
NAUGHTY NO MORE
J O D I M U L L E N , P H D I N T E G R A T I V E C O U N S E L I N G S E R V I C E S
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INTRODUCTIONS
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THE NAUGHTY NO MORE STORY
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IDENTIFYING FEELINGS& COMMUNICATING UNDERSTANDING
VerballyNon-verbally
facial expressions body language
Para-verbally
Even when freshly washed and relieved of all obvious
confections, children tend to be sticky.
Fran Lebowitz
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WHAT’S THE FEELING?
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WHEN THEY CAN TALK IT OUT THEY DON’T HAVE TO ACT OUT
• Use feeling words• Use interjections
• Use developmentally appropriate language
• Use culturally-centric language• Exaggerate your tone
• Exaggerate your non-verbal language• Match non-verbal & verbal language
Play is the Way
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Changing your lens:
Manipulative >
Hyper>Stubborn>Childish>Whiny>Disrespectful>
THE POSITIVES DETECTIVEWhat are
some positives in yourself as a parent/teacher/caregiver?
What are some positives in this child?
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I’M THE BOSS OF ME! Below put an X next to all this times when you have let anger be the boss. I get angry with myself when I… feel tired say things that are mean hurt other people make a mistake don’t do well in school when I lose say things that I do not
mean You add some more…
Now try this, put an X next to the ways that you can be the boss of you even when anger is trying to be the boss.In order to feel better I can…
take a breath give myself a time out go for a walk (My mom says you
have to ask a grown up first) PLAY draw pretend talk to someone You add some…
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STABILITY & CONSISTENCY
How do you create it in your home or classroom?
TimeSoundSightsResponsesRitualsTraditionsCelebrationsWays of getting recognition
MealsDaysExpectationsConsequencesOf your wordEmotionResponsibilitiesSmells
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HOW TO FIND M
E…www.integrativecounseling.us
www.jodiannmullen.com
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/freakishlywellbehavedkids
Twitter: @DrJodiMullen Linked in: Jodi MullenInstagram: drjodimully
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Facebook: NaughtyNoMore