handling competitions v13 feb09
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Dedicated to His Divine GraceA.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada
(Founder Acharya- ISKCON)
Dedicated to His Divine GraceA.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada
(Founder Acharya- ISKCON)
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Agenda
• What is competition?
• Why do we compete?
• How do we handle competition?
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What is competition?
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Definition
Rivalry between individuals, groups, nations or animals for territory or
resources in short supply
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Human beings compete for
• attention• wealth• prestige• fame etc
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Is competition
good or bad?
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Without competition there would be no drive for
excellence
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Competition is what makes us
work harder towards our goals
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Healthy competition is good,however…
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In present times competition
has gotten to dangerously high levels
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• Pressure• Frustration• Fear • Depression• Fatigue• Self Hatred• Ill temper
Consequences
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Workplace
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Education
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Startling facts!
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90% of teens show
extreme reluctance to go
to schoolSource: Child & Adolescent Psychiatry Clinic, AIIMS
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Source: Child & Adolescent Psychiatry Clinic, AIIMS
56% of teen suicides in India are
reported between March and July (exam stress) every year
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Over 150 students ended their lives across
the country in March 2008
Source: Child & Adolescent Psychiatry Clinic, AIIMS
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Examination related stress
Suicides or suicidal
tendencies among students tends to peak before class X and XII board
exams!
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Few principles to remember
How do we handle competition?
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Remember
Money and Material prosperity don’t
guarantee happiness
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The happiest countries in the
world
Index compiled by New Economic
FoundationSurvey done in 178
countries
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Vanuatu - South Pacific Island with very low per
capita Income1st Rank
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UK US Russia India Pakistan
UK 108
US 150
Russia 172
India 62
Pakistan 112
Among 178 nations
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Interestingly, the
happiest countries are not
necessarily rich,
having high GDP
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Material Progress
Happiness
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Don’t be too attached to the outcomes22
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According to Bhagavad-gita (18.14), there are five factors of action:
• The place of action [the body]
• The performer
• Various senses
• Different kinds of endeavor
• The Supersoul
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We as a matter of duty
can put sincere efforts
& endeavor
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Do not be excessively and obsessively attached to
R.E.S.U.L.T.SR.E.S.U.L.T.S
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God knowswhat is best for us
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Maybeso
Maybe not
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Lord Krishna also says in the Bhagavad-gita
karmaëy evädhikäras temä phaleñu kadäcana
mä karma-phala-hetur bhürmä te saìgo 'stv akarmaëi
Bhagavd-Gita 16.21
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“You have a right to perform your prescribed duty, but you are not entitled to the fruits
of action.”
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“Never consider yourself the cause of the results of your
activities, and never be attached to not doing your duty.”
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33Avoid being
greedy
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99 Club
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Lord Krishna mentions in Bhagavad-Gita
Bhagavd-Gita 16.21
“There are three gates
leading to this hell – lust, anger & greed.
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Bhagavd-Gita 16.21
Every sane man should give these up, for they lead to the degradation of
the soul.”
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GOOSE & GOLDEN EGGS
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God has provided enough to satisfy every man's
need, but
not every man's greed
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“It was like riding a tiger, not knowing
when to get off without being
eaten,” Mr Raju said, describing the fraud.
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Black hole
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We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come
as a result of getting something we don't
have…
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but rather of recognizing and
appreciating what we do have
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Do not compare
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Each one of us have strengths and weaknesses
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There have been examples of people with severe
deficiencies and drawbacks, who have excelled in life
Walt Disney Agatha ChristieAlbert Einstein
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55
Beware of a bigger demotion
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We compete to get ahead of
others
We all look for promotions
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Who would like to get
demoted?
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Who would like to
loose a year
and repeat the same class?
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TREE
BUTTERFLY
BIRD
TIGER
MAN
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Competing fiercely in this
world we can become CEO of a big multinational
company
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TREE
BUTTERFLY
BIRD
TIGER
MAN
FISH
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DEATHBIRTH
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We have failed
miserably in the overall
competition of life!
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Summary
• Competition is good only as long as it motivates you. Don’t make it a question of life and death
• Avoid being greedy & hankering for more and more
• Don’t be obsessively attached to the results
• Beware of a bigger demotion
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Q & A
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Thank You