GODLY HOMES

In an ungodly world (9)

An ongoing study of the Home as God’s Word teaches.

The Role of the

Husband

I Do!

The Role of Husband The role of husband the

foundation of the home It is only one part of his life It takes priority over all

other human relationships

The Role of HusbandWhy the role of husband is the

priorityIt has bearing on other relationships (children, extended family, friends, etc.)Jobs, friends, etc. changeYou will need your wife to support you in all your decisionsThe damage neglect does within society

The Role of HusbandMan of Steel and Velvet

Steel – he is a guide, protector and provider. Masculine, confident and contributor to societyVelvet – He is gentle, humble, understanding, personable & refined. Easy to love!

Aubrey Andelin, © 1982

The Role of HusbandMan of Steel and Velvet

The perfect example of a godly man - JesusThe premise of the book was that godly husbands begin by being godly men

Godly Husbands Lead He is the head of the house A God given responsibility Ephesians 5:23

1 Cor. 11:31 Tim. 3:5 – “Rule his own house” spoken of elders

Godly Husbands Lead Why is he head of the

household? Unpopular in society 1 Tim. 2:11-15

– Adam formed first- Eve was deceived and sinned (first)

Godly Husbands Lead This does NOT mean she is

his slave or footstool. NOT a piece of property to be abused

Created as his helpmeet from his side – Gen. 2:18-24

1 Peter 3:7 - Honor his wife

Eph. 5:28-29 –love her as his own body (himself)

Godly Husbands Lead They lead by example,

cf. 1 Cor. 7:13-14 They lead by listening 1 Peter 3:7 dwell with her

with understanding He makes up his mind and

acts in the best interest of his family

He takes responsibility

Godly Husbands Love Their Wives Love is absolutely necessary

in marriage Eph. 5:25, 28-29 In Greek language, at least 4

different words translated love in English language – agape, storge, phileo & erosAll 4 involved in marriage relationship

Godly Husbands Love Their Wives

1 Cor. 7:3-5 Render unto her “due affection”, i.e. the marriage bed.He is not to deprive her.

Col. 3:19, “Do not be bitter toward her.” Not hateful, abusive, of despising her

Godly Husbands Love Their Wives

Keep the fire burning, even after the honeymoon is over - Go on dates - Little things - Remember your anniversary, her birthday, etc. - Praise her – Prov. 31:28-29

Let us Respect God’s Role for

Us as We Fulfill Them