gar kellom men and service webinar presentation
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Presentation for the 9/29/2010 "Engaging Men in Service" webinar hosted by Iowa and Minnesota Campus Compacts.TRANSCRIPT
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Gar E. Kellom PhDDirector, Student Support Services, Winona State University, Winona,
MN Editor: Designing Effective Programs and Services for College Men,
Jossey-Bass New Directions Series – 107 -2004Editor: Engaging College Men, Men’s Studies Press, 2010
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Our Purpose TodayThis presentation will highlight several
strategies and different types of programming that have been successful for increasing engagement in male students in order for participants to apply these to their campuses.
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Outline For the SeminarWhy aren’t men involved? National data on
lack of male involvement in college
What research tells us men need, tools, mentors, etc.
Examples and strategies from Saint John’s University, Augustana College, Luther College and eleven other schools
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Your Campus NeedsWho would you like to target (some men, all
men)?
What type of service volunteering?
What type of barriers/challenges do your men face?
How does this relate to the institutional mission?
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Measureable Outcomes What assessment instruments can help you find
some of these campus needs? NSSE, CSEQ, CIRP, etc—which questions to look at Other internal tools Qualitative measure (particularly finding out key
campus culture challenges) Focus groups, etc.
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The Situation: National DataVolunteering/Service (Campus Compact): 35% maleStudy Abroad (Institute for International Ed): 35% maleTRIO – Talent Search, Upward Bound, etc,: 36% maleSpending 6 or more hours/week studying: 26%Use of Career Services: no gender data even collectedUse of Health Services: ample data to show fewer menHealth Promotion Activities: ample data – fewer menDiscipline Cases: more men (eg. 900 SJU, 300 CSB)Disturbing: 3 our of 4 completed college suicides: men
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Male/Female Participation in Programs on Theological Exploration of Vocation Research by Catherine Brooks of Brooks Research Group, Feb. 2008
PTEV Participation by Gender
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Overall gender balancein PTEV programs
Gender balance relativeto overall enrollment
More often male thanfemale
About equally distributedbetween male and female
More often female thanmale
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Why Aren’t Men Involved?Gender imbalance on many campusesCampus culture: not a man’s placeOther Choices: sports, video gamingSocial Construction of Masculinity?
1. Be a “Big Wheel” – in charge2. Be a “Sturdy Oak” – self-sufficient3. “Give ‘em Hell” – risk taking, take it to the limit4. No “Sissy Stuff” – no “girl’s” activities
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What Research Tells UsMen need mentors
(“Pied Pipers”):Example:
Trinidad/Tobago Service and Study Trip to work with HIV Infected orphans and study at University of the West Indies
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Design Activities They SeekOsborne Study: College Men Teaching Children
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Add adventure? India/Nepal/Tibet
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Mentors/Intergenerational Connections
Annual Conference on the College Male
Father/Son Luncheon
Spirituality GroupsLilly Grant to
Increase College Men’s Involvement in the Common Good
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14 Pilot Schools and ProjectsAugustanaDavidsonDukeGeorgetownGustavus AdolphusHope HastingsLuther
MorehouseSienaWabashWagnerUniversity of
PortlandSaint John’s
University
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Two Sample Pilot ProjectsAugustana CollegeBob Haak
Luther CollegeStu Johnston
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Augustana CollegeFraternity Alumni Network
http://www.augustana.edu/fan
Robert D Haak, Director Center for Vocational ReflectionBecca Poock, FAN Coordinator
Kevin Conte, Student Leader
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Where did we start?Questions from earlier work
College Students’ Beliefs and Values Survey (2004-07) M FParticipated in religion organization 2.5 28.0Participated in volunteer work < 1 hr/wk 61.5 52.8Think community action important 30.0 40.5Integrating spirituality important 30.8 54.8
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FAN Overview
WHY?Foster mentoring relationshipsEncourage vocational reflectionEquip younger & older generation
WHO?140 alumni from 6 active fraternitiesJunior/Senior fraternity studentsProgram coordinatorStudent leader
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WHAT?Mentoring relationshipsNetworking with fraternity alumni for studentsRe-connection to Augustana CollegeConnection to “real world”
WHEN?Monthly – at least two contacts Mid-year eventEnd of year event
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The WHYs & The HOWsMatched alumni & students from respective
fraternities – 15 matchesMatched careers & majorsTrained alumni in mentoring skills and
objectives
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Connecting with Students
CommunicationPhone Calls and Face to FaceStarting Early and Talking to Greek CouncilEmailingFraternity Meeting Visits
CommitmentNetworking Is AttractiveStudent-Initiated Professional NetworkFAN Chairs Did Not Commit
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Working with AlumniCommunicationReflectionCommitmentSchedulingMatches
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•Liberal arts college, ELCA•Majority of students from Iowa, Minnesota, Wisconsin and Illinois•2500 students, 2000 living on campus•42% male, 58% female
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Focus Group: Football TeamApproached new coach in December 2007Large number of menLow participation in Lilly (vocational
discernment) activitiesStrong interest from coachesIntegrated into new coaching philosophy
“developing the whole player”
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Summer Read: Season of LifeDiscussion of masculinity before vocational
discernment“False Masculinity”“Strategic Masculinity”Group discussions with the team
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Luther Athletes Serving Others
Started at Augustana CollegeProvide service opportunities for student-
athletesCompetition between teamsCollaboration between Counseling, AD
office, Career CenterPoster campaign483 community services hours in 9 weeks
(fall semester)
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Vocational Discernment Through FilmPTEV web site“Fight Club”“Good Will Hunting”25 football players at each event
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Spring Vocation Dinners5 captains, 5 invited underclassmenInvited guestFocused on leadership and serving othersGuest provided reflection questionsSpeakers include: local community leaders,
successful football alums
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Feedback From StudentsSummer ReadLASOVocational Discernment through filmVocational dinners
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What We Are LearningCollaboration across campusGo where the men areCommon ground & peer supportSafe space
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Hastings College – ResearchMen and Service Women and ServiceMen more externally
motivatedMen spent less time
(CIRP data) is this developmental?
Men more rational and analytical in their descriptions of service
So the picture becomes more complex
Women more intrinsically motivated
Women spent more timeWomen more emotional
and subjective in their descriptions of service
Linda Sax, Ron Chesborough and I do spring forum on men and women service
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Georgetown – Micro-grantsSolicited student ideas for increasing male
service#1 – Trip to a Bolivian Orphanage
#2 Camp “No More Deaths” in Arizona working with migrants from Mexico
#3 Homeless Project in Lexington , KentuckyAll three showed passion and engagement –
their ideas
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Road Trips and Sky DivingDavidson chose Road
Trip Nation as a modelFunded students to
visit alumni they admired
Did filming of the tripsThe actual trip was
often more impactful but they met dedicated men working for the common good
Duke University used a more ritualistic approach
Dinners together with reflection
To bring out each man’s inner commitments and passions
Sky diving together helped
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University of PortlandThe League of Extraordinary GentlemenMet regularly and actually formed a men’s
group that did serviceAt each meeting they would ask each
member to make a pledge to do an “extraordinary action” between meetings
Membership went from 0 to 70 in three yearsNow active in continuing their group past the
grant
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Gustavus and Larry DalozDeep M-Pact was their groupRetreats and breaking bread around the fireLarry Daloz as a consultant – mythological
approachFour traditional pillars: procreation, provide
and protectTimes are making those obsoleteHow do we harness the “heroic imagination” of
Peter Pan and “knights” or “Jedi” or “iron man”Transforming outer strength to inner strength
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Wagner College – Staten IslandFormed the “Core Four”Men’s group that had as one of its four founding
principles the expectation of serviceWorked with United Activities Limited in New
York City that provided mentors for middle school boys
Student writing in our book shows reasons like “changing the image of men to a positive one”
Understanding and changing traditional masculinity
Mentors are key – now expanding men’s centers
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The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen at the University of Portland
The Siena College Men’s Spirituality Groups
Wagner College
Forming Men’s Groups: Big News
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Men’s Groups are part of the culture Maybe it is just exploring deeper levelsOr addressing specific issues in groupsChanging women’s rolesChanging men’s rolesHow to adjustDomestic abuse – men’s role
Might This Not Be a Good Approach at Your School?
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1st Conference of College Men’s Groups Working to Stop Violence
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Working to Stop Gender Based Violence in California
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Byron Hurt and Shyam Sriram
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4 themes from this workKnowledge or Empathy is a reason to do this
work
Guidance and encouragement from a mentor or someone admired (Don McPherson)
Self-improvement and altruism – a “calling”
Social/peer support and exploration of masculinity
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Winona State UniversityFathers who are student formed Dedicated
Academic Dads (DAD) and meet twice a week
Sharing stories of their lives and parenthood
How to balance school and raising children
Forming a student organization for fathers and mothers and developing activities for both
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Voices from DADBronson
Peter
Chris
Craig
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Best Practices for Engaging College Men
Summary
Conclusions and New Directions
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#4 Best Practice: themes, process Creating safe spaces, sacred spaces Confidentiality and building trust are essential Facilitating disclosure, deeper sharing – reflection, allowing us to
“go deeper” Allowing bonding to occur – bonding is what displays authenticity
Men are socialized not to be in touch with emotions and affections – this is the challenge
Bringing men together to struggle to overcome racism, sexism, etc. A “pilgrimage out of our comfort zone”, expanding men’s roles Empowering student ideas Mentors and mentoring – intergenerational communication,
acknowledgement (affirmation, validation) of younger men by older men. We see a hunger for interaction. Yoda, Gandolf, Darth Vader,
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Themes continuedFellowship/brotherhood (the art of treating a non-
biologically related person as if he were biologically related). Holy-ethical friendship
Discipline and responsibility to avoid abuse of power/privilege, turning the outer armor into inner strength to work for good.
Generating energy and hopeConnecting to othernessEmploying support/challenge/inspire
Working through homo-phobia – fear of other men Becoming part of something bigger – Obama
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Key on - Your Campus NeedsWho would you like to target your outreach to?What type of programming/outreach does your
campus need?What type of cultural challenges do your men
face?How to find this informationHow will you measure engagement so you
know you are successfulThere is no right way – many paths to
increasing male engagement in service