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Flexible Mindset Task Cards (Adults)

These task cards will show your group members the importance of having a more flexible mindset. When things happen to us, we tend to overreact or internalize what

is going on. When our thinking is more flexible, we can see things from the

perspective of others & realize that the world is not out to get us!


Instructions

• Group members will pick a card and read the scenario. • They should first discuss the person’s (likely) reaction in the scenario. They should then give at least one possible reason for the scenario. See the example on the next page.


Example • Scenario: In the morning, Brooke’s boss asks her to meet with him in one hour. • First reaction: “I must be in trouble!” • Two possible reasons: 1. Maybe he wants to get her opinion

on something 2. Maybe he wants to offer her a

promotion


Instructions

If you want, you can also give the group members the cards on page 13. Print as many as you’d like, and mix them in with the other cards.

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Maggie gets along with her boss, but he yelled

at her this morning.

Troy thinks things are going well with his new

girlfriend, but she breaks up with him

unexpectedly.

Pam thinks she did great on her

interview, but she does not get the job.

Ralph always chats and jokes around with his co-worker, but today she hasn’t spoken

to him or even made eye contact with him.


Courtney likes her roommate, but her

roommate has informed her that she will be

moving out.

Jose is in graduate school. He is placed in an internship.

A month later, he asks his supervisor for a letter of recommendation, but she

says no.

Bianca’s friend lives out-of-state. She

hasn’t been returning her phone calls this

past week.

Bill’s friend just got out of rehab. He wants to hang out with him, but his friend says that he needs some “space”

for a while.


Mia is a single mother, and she is trying her best to parent her two children.

However, she was just informed that they are

struggling in school.

Melissa really likes the man she is dating, but he has cancelled their

past two dates.

Drew expects his closest friend to pick him as the “Best Man”

for his wedding, but he ends up picking his brother (even

though they aren’t as close!)

Luke and his wife adopt a baby boy. Luke thinks that

the baby is more attached to his wife, and he often cries when Luke is holding him.


Christine meets her boyfriend’s daughter. She seems angry and

doesn’t talk to her much throughout the day.

Will wants to make his new co-worker feel

welcome, so he invites him out to lunch.

However, he says no.

Tyra finds out that she was not invited to a

friend’s wedding.

Neil is working on an important assignment with his co-worker. His co-worker was supposed to email him some documents by 8pm, but it’s past 8 and Neil

hasn’t received anything.


Jenny is friendly with all of her neighbors. She

hosts a BBQ one weekend, but her new neighbors don’t attend.

Mitch has been in recovery for 1 year. He stopped attending AA 6 months ago. He wants to get back together with his ex. She feels the same, but she says he must attend

AA regularly.

Anita loves her therapist. However, her therapist has just referred her to another

clinician because she believes she will be a better

fit for Anita.

Jay’s wife has been very stressed lately because she has been planning a charity event.

Jay wants to ease his wife’s stress, but she rejects his offer

to help.


Stephanie’s roommate has a friend staying over for a

few days. Stephanie leaves her necklace on her dresser,

but it goes missing one morning.

Pete is at work, and he sees two of his co-

workers whispering to each other while looking

at him.

Maria sent a Facebook “friend request” to the guy she is dating one week ago, but he has not accepted it yet.

Today is Aiden’s birthday. He’s at work, and he notices that his girlfriend hasn’t texted him yet to say, “Happy birthday”


A little over a year ago, Karen broke up with her

boyfriend because he never wanted to get married.

Now, she finds out that he is engaged!

Randall has always had a close relationship with

his son. However, his son has been distant since he

started high school.

Grace’s husband is 20 minutes late to dinner. He is never late! He is

not picking up his phone when she tries

to reach him.

John recently married. He notices that his wife still has

photos around the house that include her ex-

husband.


Miles and his co-worker each pitch an idea to their boss. A few days later, the

company informs Miles that they will be moving forward

with his co-worker’s idea.

Julia cooks for her boyfriend for the first

time. She notices that he does not eat as much as

he usually does.

Kevin is on a blind date. When he reveals that he was recently laid off from work, his date quickly

changes the subject & starts talking about the restaurant

they are in.

Anna notices that her mother-in-law is often

critical of her.


This is a free pass! Use this when you want to give your card away to another group member.

This is a free pass! Use this when you want to give your card away to your group leader/facilitator.

Credits

Creative Clips by Krista Wallden -Thank you for the colorful task card borders!


https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Store/Krista-Wallden-Creative-Clips



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