Personality DevelopmentAssignment

Index• Introduction • What is open self ?• Importance of having an open self • How can one develop an open self

personality • What is interpersonal behaviour ?• Johari window• Ego states and Transactional analysis• Basic attitude

• Name : Fenil Patadiya

• Batch Coed : D4

• Subject : Personality Development Assignment

Open self

• Person know one’s personality and is willing to share ideas , thoughts , feelings and values with others , that person is called an open self personality.

Importance of having an open self

• In service sector like…..successfully.

• Very clear to others.

• Share …without shyness , lack of confidence.

• Make helpful , positive interpersonal relations.

• Get better opportunity.

• Give respect to other and get respect .

• Every one wants to talk me.

How can one develop an open self personality

• Know your self

• Decide your objective

• Say ‘ HELLO ‘ first

• Be pro-active at all time

• Share your dreams , hobbies and ambition

• Be on time

• Smile a lot

• Help others

• Friendly with all• Keep small success on

going on

Interpersonal behaviour • A study of ones own inner traits of perception

knowledge….ones motivation and how these....behaviour are….success in today’s competitive environment.

• Why winner has excellent interpersonal behaviour ?

• Ans : because , success…upon…positive attitude. I have a good….win…competitive environment.

Johari window

• Johari window is method or tool to describe one’s personality.

• Johari window helps us to know our self.

• The four types of self in the johari window format :

• Open , blind , hidden , unknown self personality.

I have done johari window related example

• By using johari window know our self and improve open self area. If I have open self area, I make a good relationships and I win today’s competitive environment.

Following diagram shows my relationship with my friend pratik on first day of Frank Finn

After few months and with the help of johari window .It looks like this.

• I have hidden self personality because I am not share my thoughts , ideas with other person. I have also blind self personality because I don’t know , I have a many good qualities.

Ego states• Ego states are unrelated to

chronological age. Each human being are several human beings , existing at the same time depending upon how the person is behaving at any moment.

• We operate from three ego states.• Parent • Adult• Child

I have done ego states related example

• My cousin always give advise about my education , career , etc… I listen to them , that time he was in parents ego states , I am in positive child ego states. When I give advise my sister about education , career , etc.. That time I was in parents ego states , my sister is in positive child ego states.

• Adult ego state is good .

• Adult ----- Adult solving problem

• Adult control over the transaction.

Transactional analysis• Transactional analysis is one’s

ego states and type of communication.

• Transaction is an arrangement

between human beings to give and take products and services from each

other thus providing gratification

to all involved in the transaction.

Example• When I went to old age home , there was a

elder person. He told to me that you can’t analysis of my SWOT. But after few minutes he told me that you can analysis of my SWOT. Then we had a cross and parallel transaction.

• Cross transaction : Fenil Elder person• Parallel transaction : Fenil Elder person

Basic attitude and strokes

• The four basic attitude : • I’m ok ; you are ok • You are ok ; I’m not ok • I’m ok ; you are not ok • I’m not ok ; you are not ok • The person having these qualities can

have a interpersonal skills and parallel transaction and that person become popular , maintain relations.

change

• I think I need to be open self• I have to show abilities , share ideas

others.• Say ‘ HELLO ‘first to everyone to met • Give positive strokes whenever I go

and take positive stroke

Conclusion

• By using johari window can be improve open self area and get better opportunity

• By interpersonal behaviour can be maintain good relation and success in life

• By ego states and transaction analysis can be maintaining adult control over the transaction

Acknowledgement• Ms. Smita Desai

• Friends

• Personality development module

• www. Business balls .com

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