families & friends of murder victims july 2014 newsletter
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FAMILIES & FRIENDS OF MURDER VICTIMS, Inc.
(FFMV) Newsletter July 2014
Thank-you: *Carol Anderson – Website
*Kaiser – Oakland *Avaxat Elementary School- Murrieta
*St. Anthony’s Catholic Church-Upland *Christ The Redeemer Catholic Church
Grand Terrace *Palm Desert Library
*First United Methodist Church of La Puente *San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office of
Victim Services/Victim Advocates *Riverside County District Attorney’s Office of Victim
Services/Victim Advocates
* Dola Wiedemann – Mother of Lisel - Memory Cards *Family of Kris Flores
*Janet Garcia & Barbara Christian facebook administrators
* Ellie Rossi – Mother of David and Lisa *The Community Foundation –
YGC – Charity of Choice – Briana Palencia – In Memory of Vanessa Martinez
* San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office for
sponsoring newsletter for 2014*
. Inmate Locator, Department of
Corrections is now making it easier for people to locate prison inmates; it’s a free online search and is open to the general public.
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Need Someone to Talk To?
* Bertha Flores - Parent - Spanish speaking
(909) 200-5499 (after 3pm) Rialto CA
*Rose Madsen – Parent (909) 798-4803 (after 4pm)
Redlands CA
*Dawn Hall – Parent (951) 757-4419 –
Murrieta CA
*Mary Stewart -Parent (951 698-5317) Emergency
Consult for Suicidal or
Homicidal Participants
*Linda Atencio -Parent – 760-662-4373 –
High Dessert
*Linda Rodriguez -Parent – 951-369-0010-Home –
951-732-3255 - Riverside
* Ellie Rossi - Parent - 909-810-8133 Redlands CA
* Delores Maloy- Parent – High Desert
Contact – 760-530-7027
* Shayla Adams – 760-475-3774
* Richard McVoy – Adult Sibling –
909-503-5456 – Grand Terrace CA
* Tanya Powell - Parent – 760-596-2293-
Upland CA
Families & Friends of Murder Victims: A non-profit organization Dedicated to providing information, support, and friendship to persons who have experienced the death of a loved one through the violent act of murder Share Sorrow….. Share Strength Mission: To restore a sense of hope and to provide a pathway to well-being to those who have lost a loved one to murder and to those who are victims of attempted murder.
Love Gifts
Love gifts are a specific tax deductible donation made to the memory of a loved one’s birthday, anniversary of a death, holiday, or just because which are posted in newsletter. They are also made by caring professionals, organizations to help in the work that FFMV does with victims/survivors. These gifts help with the expenses incurred in reaching out to others and operating expenses. When making out a check, please make payable to FFMV and note Love Gift on
check or envelope. Love Gifts can be mailed to FFMV- P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. - 92423-1222
Join Families & Friends of Murder Victims on
Thank-you
Janet Garcia Mother of Jesse Garcia – 6/10/78 – 6/27/94
Barbara Christian Mother of Terri Lynn Winchell–
4/10/63 – 1/8/8
FFMV - Riverside Chapter
Meets on the 3rd Wednesday of every month at 7pm
Avaxat Elementary School, 24300 La Brisas Road in Murrieta, CA
Contact Dawn (951) 757-4419 For directions ask for PJ at-
951-696-1600 x2177 – M-F 9am-4pm (1-2pm lunch)
FFMV - Colton Chapter
1st Tuesday of every month Christ The Redeemer Catholic Church
Robinson Hall – Room 6 12745 Oriole Ave Grand Terrace, CA
92313 Time: 6:00pm - 8:00pm
Contact person for directions or information Rose – 909-754-6969
FFMV -Coachella Valley Chapter
Suspended until new leader is replaced
Oakland Chapter
1st Tuesday of every month
Kaiser in Oakland, Howe St. at Broadway,
12th floor Room 1200 East Contact: Robin – 510-653-8069
Sandra – 510-691-7089
Grief Support Group ALL are welcome at our monthly meetings.
Whether you are a parishioner or not. If you
are suffering the loss of a loved one and in
need to talk to someone, we are here to listen
and share emotions.
Together and with the help of the Lord, we
can help each other heal.
Meetings are held every 2nd Wednesday of the
month 7 to 9 P.M. ~ Room 8
St. Anthony’s Church 1640 Western Ave. San
Bernardino (909)887-3810
Contacts: Hope Morfin (909)820-6163
Ralph & Arlene Payan (909)887-4387
(FFMV Participants)
Danny & Rose Equihua (909) 887-3744
FFMV West End Chapter -Bi-lingual
Meets every 2nd Thursday of every month
at 7:00pm-8:30pm St. Anthony’s Catholic Church
Conference Room 2210 North San Antonio Upland, CA
91786 Participants have the option of the
English & Spanish Meeting
Local Grupo Bilingue Los participantes pueden escoger en
Inglés o en Español Se reunen cada Segundo Jueves del mes
a las 7:00 p.m. Contact persons/ Personas de contacto:
Rita Marin (909) 215-7063 [email protected]
Contact Rita on by Wednesday July 10th to confirm you will be attending
FFMV – SGV Chapter
Meetings are currently held on the 2nd Tuesday of each month in a classroom at the First United Methodist Church of La Puente, located at. 15701 Hill Street, La Puente, CA
91744. Contact information:
* Luz Ruiz (626) 388-6403 *Tracy Ponce (626) 533-3121
FFMV – SFV Chapter satellite chapter of FFMV SGV
Meets every 1st Thursday of every month 6:00pm-8:00pm at
United Methodist Church in the Fireside Room
15435 Rayen St. Sepulveda, CA 91343
Contact information * Luisa (818) 445-2077
FFMV Fundraisers Office Depot - Staples – Office Max If you shop at Office Depot or Staples please use FFMV’s Rewards Number for Office Depot which is 1139461170 Office Max – 650756207, Staples- or use just give them 909-798-4803 for all three. We get reward points that help defray the cost of printing, ink cartridges and office supplies.
PLEASE….Don‘t throw away your old ink cartridges! Continue to bring them to us, or take them to Office Max, Staples or Office
Depot and give them 909-798-4803 It’s an easy way to help
FFMV purchase office supplies.
FFMV SGV Chapter News Announcements Luz shared that she would like to sell bracelets as a fundraiser for our chapter. These bracelets would be personalized with our loved one’s names on it and Luz Ruiz will make them herself. Each bracelet will cost $15. She will be posting pictures of the bracelets on her Facebook Page soon. She is taking orders now.
Resources and Additional Support Services
San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office
of Victim Witness Centers: San Bernardino
(909) 387-6540
Rancho Cucamonga: (909) 945-4241*
Victorville/Desert area: (760)552-6947
Riverside County District Attorney’s Office of
Victim Witness Centers:
Riverside: (951) 955-5450
Murrieta: (951) 304-5680 * Banning: (951) 922-7130
* Indio: (760) 863-8408
*Los Angeles County District Attorney's Victim
Witness Assistance Program offices:
Pomona: 909) 620-3381
*Life.After.Uncivil.Ruthless.Acts.
323-816-9651 www.laurala.org
* WINGS OF JUSTICE – Website
www.murdermislabeledsuicide.com/WingsofJustice
*Women Against Gun Violence – 310-204-2348
www.wagv.org
*www.CrimeVictims.gov—public awareness Web
site
* H.E.A.L. Helping Everyone Acknowledge Loss –
818-378-2072– [email protected]
* Crime Victims United of California –
530-885-9544 www.crimevictimsunited.com or
* North American Victim Assistance (NOVA)
www.trynova.org
* Victims of Crime Resources Center (800)
VICTIMS
* POMC - (888) 818-POMC www.pomc.org
* Greater Orange County POMC –
Marie – 714-999-7132 – 562-508-2397
* Citizens Against Homicide - (415) 455-5944
* Justice for Murdered Children - (310) 547-1367
* Memory of Victims Everywhere - (949) 248-5470
* Resource for the Grieving and
Bereavedwww.griefcompanion.com
* Crime Survivors – 949-872-7895
www.crimesurvivors.com Bi-monthly meetings
held in Orange County
* Adela Lavine~Medium: www.adelalavine.com
* MADD – (909) 888-6233
www.maddsanbernardino.org
*JUSTICE FOR HOMICIDE VICTIMS - (310) 457-
0030 [email protected]
* Striving Towards Eradicating Violence In Ennercities
-S.T.E.V.I.E. [email protected]
* www.psychic4themissing.com
* Survivors of Murdered Children SGV Chapter – Alhambra Police Dept.RM# EDC 2nd Floor 211 South First Street, Alhambra, CA., 91801) 3rd Wednesday of the Month
Time: 6:30PM - 8:30PM Tina-626-298-9054 -
July 2014 Birthdays
Aaron Luis Angulo Andrae J. Davis
Angela Lynn Merth Bella Villapando
Brian Douglas Kischell Bryan O’Meara
Carlos Angelo Centino Cesario Valdez
Clasten Jr. Vaughn Daniel Perez Jr.
David Allen Parrish Devon Michael Williams
Dominic Andrew Ortega Elmer Benson
Frankie Cayetano Fernando Ortiz Josslyn Dinso-Brooks
Laura Sanchez Mauro Valle
Michael Reed Jr. Miranda Daly
Norma Gates Paul Griego
Raymond Moreno Rebecca R. Andrews
Renee Smith Bradley Scott Campbell
Thomas Charles Pagent Jr. Victor Bernard White Jr.
July 2014 Memories
Chelsea Buckley Daniel Svoboda
David Charles Nystrom Dominic Ortega
Don J. Burt Elsie Redmond Frank Salinas
Flores Family: Richard, Richie, Matthew, & Nena
Brother’s: Dillon Ray Keyes & Jerald Eugene Svec
Greselda Gonzalez Joshua Chambers
Joyce Nelson Kristhopher Flores
Manuel Rodriguez Michael Alexander Corrales
Michael Hernandez Michele Lynette Baily
Otillia Burton Paul Griego
Ryan Blakeslee Roberto “Junior” Grijalva
Roghie (Ruhie) Ebrahimpour TimothyGaines
Tom Meyers Victoria Lee Castro
Goodbyes are not forever….Goodbyes are not the end
They simply mean I’ll miss you…Until we meet again
LOVE GIFTS
In Loving Memory of In Loving Memory of In Loving Memory of
Tommy Pagent Chelsea Buckley Kris Flores 7/28/89 - 11/21/10 9/11/91 – 7/10/10 10/10/77 – 7/24/96
Still Unsolved
In Loving Memory David Charles Nystrom – 2/2/64 - 7/27/98 & Lisa Cummings – 11/13/66 – 3/12/11 Brother and Sister in Heaven ….. now together watching over their Mom (Ellie Rossi)
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Donation $_______________
Name (please print):_________________________________________________________________
Address____________________________________City/St.________________________Zip__________
Email address: __________________________________________________________
Your Phone # ( ) ____________________Relationship to Victim: _____________________________
Name of Victim: _________________________________________________________________
Date of Birth: Date of Death: ______________________
Please post my loved ones message and/or picture(s) for the month of: ___________
# of pictures enclosed/attached ____________ Use picture on file___________
In 2007, Congress designated September 25 as the "National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims." This special day gives us the chance to honor our nation’s murder victims and pray for surviving family members whose lives were forever changed by an act of violence. While our actions today cannot change the horrific past, it is my hope that our shared efforts will, at the very least, seek to remind us of the common bond we share as Americans. Their loss is our loss, and their pain is our pain. We must never forget. San Bernardino County District Attorneys’ Office online memorial boards is to do just that—honor the memories of those who lost their lives to a senseless act of violence in San Bernardino County.
If you would like to have your loved one's photo placed on our online memorial board, please send us one digital image along with
the name of your loved one, date of birth and date of passing to [email protected]. Our memorial only dates back to 2011 when the
District Attorney's website was revamped; however, if your loved one's date of passing
is prior to 2011, you are also invited to submit your photos and be included in the memorial. The image must be at least 230 pixels wide and 290 pixels high (230x290).
We will update this page once a year on September 25.
One Step at a Time
Confront Sorrow,
Express your Grief.
Face your fears and your ANGER.
Determine to live again.
Accept the help of others.
Make a start to put the stars back into
your sky.
"DETOUR" - a documentary
Multilevel Entertainment is passionate about producing a documentary entitled "DETOUR" to benefit Families & Friends of Murder
Victims, Inc., a 501(c)3 non-profit organization since 1995, dedicated to providing information, support, and friendship to persons who
have experienced the death of a loved one through the violent act of murder. This documentary collaborates with real people and
stories from the survivors: the families and friends of the murder victim. Their journeys from loss to beginning a new life is also told by
law makers and enforcers, medical professionals, and clergy.
Our goal is to create a poignant documentary that highlights the effects of homicide on society and the necessary coping skills for those
who are surviving the loss and grief of their loved one ... now, called the victim. By raising public awareness, we hope that Families &
Friends of Murder Victims, Inc. will receive the financial support they need to continue their work with survivors throughout Southern
California in Los Angeles, San Bernardino, and Riverside Counties, and become an international model program. For more information, visit igg.me/at/ffmvfilm – Update….funding is still in process.
CAMP GOOD GRIEF (SVP)
Camp Good Grief-Special Victims Program (SVP) is a joint effort between the San Bernardino County District Attorney's Office Bureau of Victim Services and Loma Linda University Medical Center Children's Hospital. The 3-day grief camp is geared toward homicide/suicide and is for children ages 10-16 who have experienced a violent death in their family. Campers board a bus at the Ronald McDonald House in Loma Linda and head to Camp Cedar Falls in the San Bernardino Mountains for a three-day camp and grief therapy experience. At camp the children participate in game and team building activities and therapeutic group activities designed to help them learn and understand how to cope with the grief over the violent death of their loved one. This camp has been so successful that it has been expanded to include Camp Good Grief - Special Victims Program Teen Retreat. It will be held annually and provides grief services for teens ages 14-18 who previously participated in Camp Good Grief - SVP and whose lives have been positively impacted by camp. It will be a combination of learning advanced grief management skills as well as a training camp for future Camp Good Grief Peer Counselors. Camp is free of charge to all campers and camperships are funded by unclaimed victim restitution. Therapists and interns from Loma Linda Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic, Loma Linda Child Life Specialists and District Attorney's Office Victim Advocates donate their time to the camp. The Bureau of Victim Services and Loma Linda University Children's Hospital have pledged to continue fundraising activities, presentations to service groups, and outreach events so they may continue hosting future Camp Good Grief-SVP programs. Contact: Dorothy Brooks 909-558-4073
Frank Girardot, editor of the Pasadena Star News and senior editor of the San Gabriel Valley Tribune Group
announced that he would to publish pictures and information regarding unsolved homicide cases on the
newspaper website. Many families that I know personally have UNSOLVED cases which have turned to COLD
cases…Everyone deserves JUSTICE
If your loved one was murdered in the greater Southern California area and the case is unsolved, Frank will get it
published in the newspaper. You can check out the Cold Case Project by going to www.PasadenaStarNews.com/coldcases. The paper also has
the project listed on Facebook … If I get a photo from a loved one I will post it on our website as soon as I can. Anyone who is interested can
contact me and I promise to get them set up.
Sincerely,
Frank Girardot
911 E. Colorado Blvd, Pasadena, CA 91106, 626-578-6300 ext.4478 [email protected]
Here is some basic information Frank needs when you send him a picture of your loved one: Your full name,
address, phone(s), e-mail address, Victims Full Name and age at time of murder, Victims DOB-DOD, your
relationship to victim, city where murder took place, any suspects arrested?, Detective’s name & phone, & short
bio on how your loved one was murdered
Many we love have passed away too soon….without reason.
We remember them often in a thousand different ways….
In the morning…In the night…
When we look at the stars….A date…
A song…A place…A smell
In Memory of all those who have left us too soon…
From Rose Madsen, Editor/Chair/co-founder of the
Colton & Coachella Chapter of FFMV
In Memory of my daughter Jennifer LeAnne Balber 12/02/73 – 11/10/94
A 20yr. old SoCal Gas Co. Meter Reader, Fatally Shot in the Line of Service in Rialto, CA
I attended the trial and sentencing of the three men convicted in April of the January 2011 Cinnamon Creek Apartment shooting in Redlands, they received life sentences on Friday June 20th. The three men were found guilty on April 29 in the deaths of three innocent young men, one was sentenced in San Bernardino Superior Court to 220 years in state prison, while the others received 197 years. The
three men were also found guilty of the attempted murders of three other innocent victims. The Mothers of the Victim’s stood strong as they delivered their Victim Impact Statements.
Bless these beautiful ladies and their families!! Justice Served!
Website - http://families-friends-murdervictims.simplesite.com/
My beautiful Jen…..I can no longer…See you with my eyes…Touch you with my hands… But I will feel you in my heart….Forever…Love, Mom
Send me your outcome of your court process or status of your case and I will post on our newsletter.
Grief is not healed in a certain time frame, the heart does not work that way...
I continue to pray for the families of the victims and surviving victims for
PEACE, HOPE and JUSTICE!
Peace It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work.
It means to be in the midst of those things and still
Be calm in your heart (Unknown)
Thoughtfully,
Rose
FFMV is a non-profit organization dedicated to serving survivors of murder victims & victims of attempted murder. Our main purpose is to offer grief support for those victim/survivors. All assistance provided to victims is given free of charge by volunteers. Contributions and/or questions regarding the policies of FFMV may be addressed to: FFMV Executive Board at P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. 92423-1222, e-mailed to [email protected] or phoned to 909-754-6969 FFMV is a tax-exempt organization under the Section 501 (c) (3) of the Internal Revenue Service. Our Organization depends largely upon private donations which will cover operational expenses, Our Annual Family Christmas Memorial Luncheon, and Our Annual Victims’ Rights Week Memorial. We are seeking a sponsor (s) for our events. Please contact FFMV at the above e-mail or phone if you are interested. Tax ID #68-0299211 All Contributions Are Tax Deductible
2014 Participant /Photo Release Form for slide show & picture boards
Families & Friends of Murder Victims, INC (FFMV)
Circle one: New Participant ~ Update my information ~ Agency/Non Victim
Please Print
Date________________ Relationship to Victim_______________________
Victim’s First Name______________________________________________
Victim’s Last Name______________________________________________
Date of Birth _____________ Date of Death__________ Solved: Yes ( ) No ( )
Permission to use photo(s): Yes ( ) No ( ) Just add me to e-mail/mailing list to
receive monthly newsletter and event information
I grant to Families & Friends of Murder Victims, Inc. (FFMV), the right to use
photograph(s) of the above-identified subject. I authorize FFMV to use and publish the same in print and/or electronically.
I agree that FFMV may use such photographs with or without his/her name and for
any lawful purpose, including for example such purposes as publicity, illustration, advertising, and Web content.
I have read and understand the above.
Name of Agency/Non-Victim if applicable: ________________________________
Signature _________________________________________________________
Print Full Name _____________________________________________________
Address___________________________________________________________
City__________________________________ Zip Code____________________
Phone with area code _______________________________________________
E-mail ____________________________________________________________
Mail or e-mail participant/release form to: [email protected]
FFMV ~ P.O.Box 11222 San Bernardino, CA ~ 92423-1222
I have included a picture ( ) Yes ( ) No use the one on file
I have included a $_________ a donation for 2014
Thank-you… if you have already sent a donation
FORMA DE PERMISO
2014 Participante / Formulario de Autorización para la presentación de diapositivas de fotos y fotos juntas
Fecha: _____________ Relación con la víctima: ____________________________________ El Primer nombre de la victima: ____________________________________________ El Apellido de la victima: ________________________________________________ Fecha de nacimiento_________ Fecha de la muerte__________ Solucionado: Si ( ) No ( ) Permiso para usar la foto (s): Si ( ) No ( ) Sólo me agregar a la lista e-mail/mailing para recibir el boletín mensual, información de eventos Concedo a las FAMILIAS Y AMIGOS DE VICTIMAS DE HOMICIDIO, INC. (FFMV) el derecho a usar la fotografía (s) del sujeto identificado anteriormente. Autorizo FFMV a utilizar y publicar el mismo en forma impresa y / o electrónica. Estoy de acuerdo en que FFMV podrá utilizar dichas fotografías con o sin su su / nombre y para cualquier propósito legal, incluyendo, por ejemplo, con fines tales como la publicidad, la ilustración, el contenido publicitario y web. He leído y entendido lo anterior. Firma: ______________________________________________________________ Nombre en letra imprenta: ________________________________________________ Direccion: ____________________________________________________________ Ciudad: ____________________________ Estado: __________ Codigo postal: ____________ Telefono: (_____) _____-________ Celular: (_____) _______________________ e-mail: ___________________________________________________________________
Envíe por correo o e-mail participante / formulario de divulgación para
FFMV ~ PO Box 11222 San Bernardino, CA 92423-1222 ~
He incluido una foto () Sí () No utilizar el que está en el archivo He incluido una donación de $ _________ para 2014
Thank-you ... si ya ha enviado su donación 2014