Emotional Intelligence

Hilary Nunns

Assertiveness

We may not be sure about what rights we actually have

Sometimes we do not realise that there is an alternative to pleasing others or being aggressive

Experiences as a child & young adult – can affect assertiveness long term

From an early age, by doing what others want us to do we are often praised.

We may lack confidence or have low self esteem.

Cultures and belief systems often discourage assertiveness.

Why don’t we assert ourselves?

Creating a positive ethos and climate

Remember: All adults in the classroom are role models

Do you have emotional buttons?

Press 1 for anger

Press 2 for tears

Press 3 for getting sent out

Press 3 for getting sent out

Press 4 for an argument

Prevention

Look for the signs of boredom Discuss behaviour, when its good and when

it’s bad Do not focus attention on the negative

behaviour A quiet word is better than a loud one

Who is in control?

Corey and the party organiser.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xc0CB6URrV0