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AFTER AFFAIR Moving On Affair – How And Why? Deceived , Betray ed Lied To Sweeping away th e Ashes Rebuildi ng the t rust The Heal ing Proc ess Real For giveness

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Satan may tend to overdo the gloom in most marriages. Ask yourself: Did God say tolerate each other in marriage? He says to value one another without interference from a third party. Don’t underestimate the word of God in that verse of the scripture concerning your marriage, it is the introductory crash course we need to make our marriage work, there are many other notable crash courses .... - Ivan Ukiwah May God richly bless your marriage and illuminate your understanding of His word concerning your marriage. It may seem quite difficult because of the transition going from being single to being couple and being a family but God in His infinite grace , wisdom and mercy will provide round the clock care for you and your partner. He will never leave you or forsake you. His promise will abide in your home and your heart in Jesus’ name Amen

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AFTER AFFAIRMoving On

Affair – How And Why?

Deceived, Betrayed

Lied To

Sweeping away the Ashes

Rebuilding the trust

The Healing Process

Real Forgiveness

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An "emotional affair" is an affair excluding sexual intimacy but including emotional intimacy. - Source: Wikipedia

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An “emotional Affair” involves intimate sharing with someone other than a spouse.

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Exploring the motives behind Emotional Affair

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Genesis 2:25 (New International Version) 24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

Understanding the Fundamental Equation Of Marriage

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25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.

Understanding the Fundamental Rules Of Marriage

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Is an Emotional Affair Wrong?

24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

WIFE

MAN

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Emotional Affair Is Wrong

24 For this reason a

………united to his

they will become

one flesh.

WIFE

MAN +

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What is wrong with me not confiding my thoughts and feelings with my spouse?

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You have probably broken the golden rule of transparency God

intended for marriages

25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.

Hide nothing from one another says God. We should not let the aberration of the minority of out-of-control marriages blind us . Always take an optimistic look at the benefits of Gods desire for your marriage. Make a practical decision to follow what He says about the mix of excitement and expectations concerning marriages

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Hide nothing from one another says God. We should not let the aberration of the minority of out-of-control marriages blind us . Always take an optimistic look at the benefits of Gods desire for your marriage. Make a practical decision to follow what He says about the mix of excitement and expectations concerning marriages ....

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The seeds of emotional cheating are sown when couples misunderstand the fundamental rules of marriage, writes Gary Neuman in Emotional Infidelity: How to Avoid it.

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Define your roles and work within the perimeters of your roles helping and supporting each other to get through each day.

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A tragic example and cause is -Broken communication, Cracks, froze in communication which often stimulate

emotional affair shattering the heart and surface of any happy relationship.

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Redirect or re-route your emotional energy into your relationship, you pave the way, set the pace for your partner to follow. Make yourself a good example

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COMMON MISTAKESPutting your Friends Job Lifestyle before your marriage amounts to changing your marital landscape as these factors will effectively help preside over the slow making of marital disasters.

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Over committed Work and LifestyleJuggling so many different options and ...

Not making enough time for marriage or your partner

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It’s nice to have someone to love. Love goes round in circles, make your home a

fortress of love and humour. Always remember that your partner deserves

better.

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TOLERATE EACH OTHER? NO24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

Satan may tend to overdo the gloom in most marriages. Ask yourself: Did God say tolerate each other in marriage? He says to value one another without interference from a third party. Don’t underestimate the word of God in the verse above concerning your marriage, it is the introductory crash course we need to make our marriage work, there are many other notable crash courses ...

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Satan may tend to overdo the gloom in most marriages. Ask yourself: Did God say tolerate each other in marriage? He says to value one another without interference from a third party. Don’t underestimate the word of God in that verse of the scripture concerning your marriage, it is the introductory crash course we need to make our marriage work, there are many other notable crash courses ....- Ivan Ukiwah

FIRST LESSON

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APPRECIATE ONE ANOTHER? ABSOLUTELY YES

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Talking through meals while gazing through candle-light in a restaurant or get a little inspiration for your own meal in the comfort of your home.

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“Life is like a box of chocolates....” make your relationship fat and rich, invest yourself, energy, time and money not just because they make it fat and rich they also make you a dependable and enjoyable company.

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Life is easier if you are good at encouraging you partner, be supportive of your partner, get your partner to tell you about their day, could be the

briefest of discussions but make it a routine.

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There is nothing worse than a heartacheYet with gentle touch of passion and divine wisdom A stormy and troubled relationship is calmed Unexpectedly co-operative attitude discuss solutionsBringing some sparkle in the most unrecognisable way

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WATCH OUT FOR A DAY IN THE LIFE OF JESUS

May God richly bless your marriage and illuminate your understanding of His word concerning your marriage. It may seem quite difficult because of the transition going from being single to being couple and being a family but God in His infinite grace , wisdom and mercy will provide round the clock care for you and your partner. He will never leave you or forsake you. His promise will abide in your home and your heart in Jesus’ name Amen

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