ed batista, the art of self-coaching @stanfordbiz, class 9: endings
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The art of
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self-coachingEd Batista
CLASS 9: ENDINGS
Spring 2017
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Mind map
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Mind map
What is self-coaching to me?
What have I learned at the GSB?
What will I do out in the real world?
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Endings
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Everything ends badly; otherwise it wouldn’t end.
~Cocktail
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The end of a melody is not its goal.
But, nonetheless, had the melody
not reached its end it would not
have reached its goal either.
~Human, All Too Human
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Transitions
Change is situational. Transition is psychological.
Transitions start with letting go of what no longer
fits the life stage you are in.
~William Bridges
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Transitions
To become something else, you have to stop
being what you are now… Even though it
sounds backwards, endings always come first.
~William Bridges
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Transitions
The process of transformation is essentially a
death and rebirth process rather than one of
mechanical modification.
~William Bridges
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A transition,
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not just a change
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A transition
What are you letting go of?
What is ending for you?
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Final paper
2,000 word limit
20% of your grade
Due Wed June 7, 6pm
Early submission appreciated
The content is entirely up to you
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Evaluations
Course evaluations on Axess
Open until Thurs June 8, 11:59pm
A personal request to every one of you
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Closing remarks
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The good life
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Everyday life poses demands & I am not saying
that we should ignore those we do not like.
I am saying don’t sweat the small stuff & most
of it is small stuff.
~Christopher Peterson
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Growth
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Growth
Exhortation will not suffice to change anyone.
What is needed is a concrete strategy of
behavior change.
~Christopher Peterson
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Habits
Could the young but realize how soon they will
become mere walking bundles of habits, they
would give more heed to their conduct while in
the plastic state.
~William James
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In serviceof what?
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Moments
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Gratitude
A little while & you will be
nobody & nowhere, nor will
anything which you now behold exist,
nor one of those who are now alive.
~Marcus Aurelius
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Thank you!
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