e ound out conversation starters for parents

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Conversation Starters for Parents

I am pleased with how you did this work because...

Can you explain your thinking about this... ?

What I like about this work is...

What do you like most about this work?

Do you think you need some help with… ?

What do you think you could do differently

next time?

How could you have done that differently?

What would you like to get better at? Why?

What do you think you will try next time?

Tell me (more) about …

Fresh Tip

Be specific, focusing more on perseverance and

less on “ability”, avoiding phrases such as “you are so

smart” or “you are such a talented artist”

I notice how you...

What are you most proud of? Why?

I am so proud that you are now able to…

I can see you tried really hard to....

I can see evidence of growth. You used to… but

now you…

When I compare what you used to do with what

you do now, I notice...

What do you notice when you compare these

two pieces of work?

English

What do you notice when you compare these two pieces of work?

I found that I understand the novel’s theme much ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I understand the novel’s theme as well as I could. ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

How could you have done that di�erently?

I could have focused more on the problem and less on the ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

But I found out that copper nails were the only ones that work.ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

What do you

notice when

you compare

these two

pieces of work?

I found that I

understand

the novel’s

theme much

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme as

well as I could.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

How could you

have done that

di�erently?

I could have

focused more

on the problem

and less on the

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

But I found out

that copper nails

were the only

ones that work.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO


Démarreurs de Conversation Suggérés

Je suis satisfait de la façon dont tu as

travaillé parce que...

Peux-tu expliquer ta façon de penser à ce sujet...?

Ce que j’aime à propos de ce travail est...

Que préfères-tu dans cette activité?

Penses-tu avoir besoin d’aide avec...?

Que penses-tu que tu pourrais faire différemment

la prochaine fois?

Comment aurais-tu pu faire cela différemment?

Où aimerais-tu t’améliorer? Pourquoi?

Que penses-tu essayer la prochaine fois?

Dis m’en plus à propos de...

Fresh Tip

Soyez précis, concentrez-vous davantage sur la

persévérance et moins sur la «capacité», en évitant des

phrases telles que «tu es si intelligent» ou «tu es un

artiste talentueux»

Je remarque comment tu...

De quoi est-tu le plus fier? Pourquoi?

Je suis tellement fier que tu sois maintenant

en mesure de...

Je vois que tu as travaillé très fort à...

Je peux voir une preuve de croissance. Tu avais...

mais maintenant tu...

Lorsque je compare ce que tu faisais avec ce que

tu fais maintenant, je remarque...

Que remarques-tu lorsque tu compares ces

deux travaux?

French

Français

对比这两件作品，你发现了什么？

I found that I understand the novel’s theme much better ADDED 4 DAYS AGO


你认为下次再做的话，你会使用什么不同的方法？

I could have focused more on the problem and less on the solutionADDED 4 DAYS AGO


对比这两件作品，

你发现了什么？

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme

much better

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme as

well as I could.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

你认为下次再做的

话，你会使用什么

不同的方法？

I could have

focused more on

the problem and

less on the solution

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

But I found out

that copper nails

were the only

ones that work.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO


바람직한 대화

시작 요령

네가 공부를 이렇게 해냈다는 것이 만족스럽구나.

왜냐하면 ......

이 것에 대한 너의 생각을 설명해 볼래?

이 일에 대해 내가 좋아하는 부분은 ......

이 일에 대해 네가 가장 좋아하는 것은 어떤 거니?

...... 하는데 도움이 필요하다고 생각하니?

다음에 만약 다르게 해볼 수 있다면 어떤 식으로 할

수 있을까?

어떻게 다르게 해낼 수 있었니?

더 잘 하고 싶은 것이 있다면 무얼까? 왜?

다음에는 무엇을 해보고 싶어?

내게 (더) 말해 보겠니?

Fresh Tip

구체적이어야 하며 “능력” 보다는 끈기 쪽에 더 많은

초점을 두어야 합니다. “너는 아주 영리해” 혹은 “

너는 예술가 재능이 무척 많아”라는 등의 말은 피해야

합니다.

네가 ...... 한 것을 알게 되었단다

가장 자랑스러운 게 뭐니? 왜 그렇지?

네가 이제 ...... 할 수 있는 게 참 장하다.

네가 ...... 를 해내기 위해 무던히도 노력했다는 걸 알

수 있겠구나.

네가 성장한 걸 알겠구나. 예전의 넌 ...... 하곤 했지만

지금의 너는 ......

예전에 네가 늘 했던 일과 지금 일을 비교해 보니,

...... 한 것을 알겠네.

이 두가지를 비교하면 어떤 차이가 있는지 알겠니?

Korean

한국어

이 두가지를 비교하면 어떤 차이가 있는지 알겠니?


I found that I understand the novel’s theme as well

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

다음에 만약 다르게 해볼 수 있다면 어떤 식으로 할 수 있을까?



이 두가지를

비교하면 어떤

차이가 있는지

알겠니?

I found that I

understand

the novel’s

theme much

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I

understand

the novel’s

theme as well

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

다음에 만약 다르게

해볼 수 있다면 어떤

식으로 할 수

있을까?

I could have

focused more on

the problem and


ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

But I found out

that copper nails

were the only

ones that work.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO


बातचीत श ु र ू करन े क े विषयो ं क े बार े म ें स ु झाव

आपन ेजि स तरह यह काम कि या उसस ेम ै ंखशु ह ूं कय्ो ंकि ...।

कय्ा आप इस .......क ेबार ेम े ंअपन ेवि चार समझा सकत ेह ै ?ं

मझु ेइस काम क ेबार ेम े ंजो बात पस ंद ह ैवह ह .ै..।

आपको इस काम क ेस ंब धं म े ंसबस ेअधि क कौन स ी बात पस ंद ह ?ै

कय्ा आपको लगता ह ैकि आपको ....क ेस ंब धं म े ं कछु मदद क ी आवशय्कता ह ?ै

आपक ेवि चार म े ंआप अगल ी बार कय्ा अलग तर ीक ेस ेकर सकत ेह ै ?ं

आप इस ेकि स तर ीक ेस ेअलग कर सकत ेथ ?े

आप कि स काम म े ंब हेतर बनना चाह े गं ?े कय्ो ?ं

आपक ेवि चार म े ंआप अगल ी बार कय्ा आजमाए गं ?े

... क ेबार ेम े ंमझु े(और) बताए।ं

Fresh Tip

वि शि षट् बात कर े,ं द ढृ़ता पर अधि क और “योगय्ता” पर कम फोकस कर े,ं “आप बहतु सम्ारट् हो” या “आप बहतु ह ी पर्ति भाशाल ी आरट्ि सट् हो” ज सै ेवाकय्ा शंो ं स ेबच । े ं

म ै नं ेनोट कि या कि क सै ेआप ...।

आपको सबस ेअधि क गरव् कि स बात पर ह ?ै कय्ो ?ं

मझु ेबहतु गरव् ह ैकि अब आप.......कर सकत ेह ै।ं

म ै ंसमझ सकता ह ू ंआपन.े........क ेलि ए बहतु म हेनत क ी ह ।ै

म ै ंवि कास का पर्माण द ेख सकता ह ू।ं म ै.ं...कि या करता था ल ेकि न अब आप......।

जब म ै ंतलुना करता ह ू ंकि आप कय्ा करत ेथ ेऔर अब कय्ा करत ेह ै,ं तो द ेखता ह ू ंकि .....।

जब आप इन दो कारय्ो ंक ी तलुना करत ेह ै ंतो कय्ा द ेखत ेह ै ?ं

Hindi

हि दंी


I found that I understand the novel’s theme as well

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

जब आप इन दो कार्यों की तुलना करते हैं तो क्या देखते हैं? आपके विचार में आप अगली बार क्या अलग तरीके से कर सकते हैं?I could have focused more on the problem and less on the solutionADDED 4 DAYS AGO


I found that I

understand

the novel’s

theme much

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I

understand

the novel’s

theme as well

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

जब आप इन दो

कार्यों की तुलना

करते हैं तो क्या

देखते हैं?

आपके विचार में आप

अगली बार क्या अलग

तरीके से कर सकते हैं?

I could have

focused more on

the problem and


ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

But I found out

that copper nails

were the only

ones that work.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO


与孩子对话时建议

的开场白

这件作品我喜欢的地方是…

这件作品你最喜欢的是什么？

你认为你需要得到哪些帮助来完成…?


你可以用什么不同的方法来做？

你希望哪些地方做得更好些？为什么？

你认为下次你会尝试什么？

告诉我（更多）有关…

Fresh Tip

请具体一点，重点更多放在毅力上，少讲一些“能力”，

避免使用诸如“你太聪明了”，或“你真是一个天才的艺术

家”之类的话

我留意到你是如何…

你最自豪的是什么？为什么？

我为你现在可以…而感到自豪

我看到你真的很努力去…

我能看到进步的表现。你以前…但现在你…

我对比你过去和现在所做的事，我发现…


我很高兴你是这样做出这件作品的，因为…

你可不可说一说对这件…你是怎么想的？

Chinese

中文


I found that I understand the novel’s theme much better ADDED 4 DAYS AGO





对比这两件作品，

你发现了什么？

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme

much better

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme as

well as I could.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

你认为下次再做的

话，你会使用什么

不同的方法？

I could have

focused more on

the problem and


ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

But I found out

that copper nails

were the only

ones that work.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO


Sugerencias Para Entablar Conversaciones

Me agrada la forma en que hiciste este

trabajo, porque...

¿Me puedes explicar tu pensamiento sobre este ...?

Lo que me gusta de este trabajo es...

¿Qué es lo que más te agrada en este trabajo?

¿Te parece que necesitas ayuda con…?

¿Qué piensas que podrías hacer de manera

diferente para la próxima?

¿De qué otra manera podrías haberlo hecho?

¿En qué quisieras mejorar? ¿Porqué?

¿Qué piensas intentar para la próxima?

Cuéntame (más) sobre...

Fresh Tip

Sea específico, enfocando más en la perseverancia y

menos en la “capacidad”, evitando frases tales como

“Eres tan inteligente” o “Eres un artista tan talentoso”

Veo cómo tú...

¿De qué estás más orgulloso? ¿Porqué?

Estoy tan orgulloso de que ahora tú puedes...

Puedo ver que te esforzaste mucho para...

Me consta tu crecimiento. Antes solías… pero

ahora, ...

Cuando comparo lo que solías hacer con lo que

haces ahora, veo...

¿Qué notas cuando comparas estos dos trabajos?

Spanish

Español

¿Qué notas cuando comparas estos dos trabajos?

I found that I understand the novel’s theme much better now. ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I understand the novel’s theme as well.ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

¿De qué otra manera podrías haberlo hecho?



¿Qué notas

cuando

comparas estos

dos trabajos?

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme

much better now.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme

as well.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

¿De qué otra

manera podrías

haberlo hecho?

I could have

focused more

on the problem

and less on the

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

But I found out

that copper nails

were the only

ones that work.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO


Mga Minumungkahing Panimulang Pag-Uusap

Ako ay nagalak sa iyo kung paano mo ginawa ang

trabahong ito dahil…

Maari mo bang ipaliwanag ang iyong naiisip

tungko dito…?

Ang pinaka-gusto ko sa gawaing ito ay...

Ano ang pinaka-gusto mo sa gawaing ito?

Sa palagay mo ba kailangan mo ng tulong sa...?

Ano sa palagay mo ang maari mong gawing

kakaiba sa susunod na pagkakataon?

Paano mo gagawing kakaiba yoon?

Ano o Saan mo gusto maging mahusay ka? Bakit?

Ano sa palagay mo ang i-susunod mong subukan?

Ikuwento mo (ang mga) tungkol sa...

Fresh Tip

Maging tiyak, higit na nakatuon sa pagiging matiyaga

at keysa sa “kakayahan”, iwasan ang mga salitang tulad

ng “ikaw ay napaka-talino” o “ikaw ay napaka-husay

na artist”.

Napansin ko paano mo...

Ano ang iyong pinagmamalaki? Bakit?

Pinagmamalaki kita dahil kaya mo nang...

Nakikita ko pinipilit mo talagang subukan...

Nakikita ko ang iyong pag-unlad/pagbabago. Dati

ikaw ay…pero ngayon ikaw ay...

Kapag inihambing ko ang dati mong gawain sa

ngayon, napansin ko…

Ano ang napasin mo kapag inihambing mo itong

dalawang trabaho?

Filipino

Ano ang napasin mo kapag inihambing mo itong dalawang trabaho?

I found that I understand the novel’s theme much better now. ADDED 4 DAYS AGO


Paano mo gagawing kakaiba yoon?



Ano ang napasin

mo kapag

inihambing mo

itong dalawang

trabaho?

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme

much better now.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

I found that I

understand the

novel’s theme as

well as I could.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

Paano mo

gagawing

kakaiba yoon?

I could have

focused more

on the problem

and less on the

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

But I found out

that copper nails

were the only

ones that work.

ADDED 4 DAYS AGO

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