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insidethe teamEditor in Chief
Jody CoxGraphic Designer,
Katie Salvacion
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Welcome to Spring Issue ofShe Said Yes!, the perfect purse-
size magazine designed for the bride who wants style and
substance in a quick andeasy-to-digest format. Every
season, She Said Yes! will deliver
steal-worthy ideas, expert advice,
and insider tips every bride needs when planning her dream
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publication consideration. We hope you enjoy this issue ofShe Said Yes! and have a blast
planning your big day!
Guide to Guy’s Fashion 5
Budget Calculator 6
The Reception Lounge 9
Real Weddings 10
Distinct Décor 13
Lovely Locks 14
Countdown to...I do! 16
Real Weddings 20
Assistant to Editor& Trend Researcher,
Molly Heffernan
on the covers:mr.&mrs. neisslie
Front: Sara and Jeff’s engagement session in downtown Decatur.Back: Sara and Jeff on their wedding day in South Shores near Maranatha Assembly of God where the couple tied the knot.Photos: courtesy of the talented gals at H&H Photography.
Something Borrowed 23
Weddings 2.0 25
DIY Ideas Explained 26
Sweet Secrets 29
Quick Fixes 31
Seasonal Trends 32
Pearls of Wisdom 35
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guide toguy’s fashion
Steel Grey TuxedoLooking for a modern look for your groom? This steel grey tux tailored in a soft, super fine wool with satin notch lapels is the perfect choice. Pair your groom & grooms-men with a coordinating vest that matches with your theme or colors.
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ReceptionReception Venue & Rentals
Food & ServiceBeverages & Bartenders
Cake(s) & Cutting FeeTotal Reception (includes taxes)
Attire & Beauty
The Gown & Alterations Headpiece/Veil & Bridal Accessories
Hair, Makeup & Pre-wedding PamperingGroom’s Tux or Suit
Groom’s AccessoriesTotal Attire & Beauty
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MusicCeremony Musicians
Cocktail Hour MusiciansReception Music
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StationaryInvitations & Reply Cards
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services you have to rent/purchase
when planning your big day, so it’s
easy to forget all the things you’ll
need. It’s no wonder most couples
go over budget!
Use this mock budget as a guide
by applying these percentages to
your budget.
Budget:Groomsmen:
Bridesmaids:Total Guests:
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There are countless goods and
services you have to rent/purchase
when planning your big day, so it’s
easy to forget all the things you’ll
need. It’s no wonder most couples
go over budget!
Use this mock budget as a guide
by applying these percentages to
your budget.
Wedding RingsHis Ring
Her RingTotal Wedding Rings
Transportation & LodgingBride/Groom Hotel Room(s)
Guest Shuttle or ParkingLimo(s) or Car Rentals
Total Transportation & Lodging
GiftsAttendant Gifts
FavorsParent Gifts
Total Gifts
MiscellaneousWedding Coordinator
Total Miscellaneous
Total
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$25,000This budget doesn’t necessarily reflect the fee your particular vendors will require. After meeting with vendors, you must identify what your priorities are and reallocate your budget to fit your wants. Budget maintenance is the least fun partof wedding planning, but it should be given the utmost attention. All couples have a number they want to stay under; it’s up to you (or your planner) to make it happen!
Blend more expensive elements with
cost-effective alternatives
Don’t have enough money for that
gorgeous overlay or linen? Utilize the overlay on half
or a third of the tables and introduce a coordinating
runner on the remaining tables. Design your
centerpieces that way, too. Your guests’ eyes will
immediately see the pops where you splurged, and
the alternative tables will coordinate nicely and
make the design look intentional.
That Eye Sore Is A Money PitDon’t waste money covering up
what you think may be an “eye
sore” at your reception. When you
try to cover up a spot you think
detracts from the space, you’ll only
draw eyes toward. Spend money on
what you want the guests to focus
on, and the spot will disappear. Think Beyond yourColor Scheme
When you go with a full-blown theme, you can incorporate unusual elements into your décor, allowing you to get more creative in your design. For example, with a garden or nature theme, you can utilizeelements found in yourbackyard. Going for a vintage theme? Utilize your family’s antiques or scope out garage sales and thrift stores to find great vintage pieces.
Splurge on the Guest Experience Resist the temptation to splurge on your dress
or the flowers and skimp on the entertainment, food and/or bar. It is your day, but ultimately
you want your guests to have a great time and be talking about your wedding for months.
During the planning process, put yourself in their shoes before you take money from one area to
fund another.
Tips to MaximizeYour Budget!
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Guys love the reception lounge and guests do too. It’s a great area for guests to mix, mingle, and kick-back during thereception.
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Jessica Grader& Caleb Long
July 28, 2012
Jessica dreamt of a wedding inspired by
Water for Elephants!to achieve the vintage circus themed affair
she worked with An Affair To Remember
Jessica held a bouquet ofbaby’s breath that enhanced the romance
of her Vera Wang gown.
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Sarah Jane took the wedding party to Scovill Zoo to capture these circus inspired shots.
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As a wedding photographer I love to see the ways that couples infuse theirpersonalities into every detail oftheir big day. The Grader-Long Wedding wasunforgettable! Not only was this wedding
fun and absolutely beautiful, but the couple provided their guests with a spectacular
experience. I’m so happy to have been a part of capturing the essence of the day -
it’s certainly one they’ll remember!
A Word fromSarah Jane Photography
Their circus themedreception was held at the DecaturConference Center and Hotel where Duo Rose Trapeze from Chicagoperformed aerial acrobatics directly above their guests.
Jessica’s centerpieces were designed with vintage suitcases and hatboxes accented with lace doilies, umbrellas, and florals of hydrangea, garden roses,crespedia, dahlias, lamb’s ear and hanging amaranthus.
Kari Killen designed circus style table numbers andplacecards that enhanced the overall theme.
Designed by Kari Killen
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Photos by societybride.com
From cakes to linens andaccent pieces, chevron is hot in 2013! Mix with the colors of the
season to bring a fresh and unique flair to your wedding.
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Photo left via 100layercake.com
Photo below via Pinterest -original source undefined
lovelylocks
Up-do’s of all kinds will never go out of style, but brides in 2013 won’t be afraid
to think outside the bun and let their hair down! Here are some of the hottest styles we’ll see this year. Try a few with
your stylist before you decide!
Waterfall BraidsBraids will be big in 2013. It’s a perfect style for girls with long locks who want a soft, romantic look. Long braids falling to the side with loose ends to frame your face is perfect for destination weddings or brides who want a vintage look.Photo via prettychicblog.dk
WavesThe look of loose wavy beach hair doesn’t look to be going out of styleanytime soon. Glam it up with agorgeous tiara or hair piece.Photo by Bela Alder & Salvador Fresnada
Gettin’ it StraightWhether it’s a super straight look or tucked behind an ear with a little volume and curl, brides won’t be afraid to take their natural every day styles and kick it up a notch.If possible, have your stylist on hand to change it into an up-do during the reception so you can dance the night away without worry.Top Photo by Lora Grady PhotographyBottom Photo via Glendalough Manor Bride
French TwistA classic style ismaking its wayback! For classic elegance, choose a tighter twist or have
your stylist create amessier version to soften it for a more natural appearance.
Photo via 2.bp.blogspot.com
Ballerina BunBallerina buns are stylish and classic up-dos for brides. This style is perfect for brides donning large ball gowns, tiaras, or fitted gowns where your silhouette is the star of the show. They come in all shapes and sizes from sleek donuts to messy knots.Photo via bridalmusings.com
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I DO!countdown to...
• Introduce both families and officially announce engagement• Begin planning engagement party (if applicable)• Discuss who will want to contribute financially to the wedding • Decide on an overall budget• Discuss with groom the type of wedding you want: style, size, location, etc...• Start a wedding file• Draft preliminary guest list (discuss with both sides of family and groom)• Interview and hire wedding planner• Compare calendars and select a date(s) • Scout, interview, review contract details, and check available dates for ceremony location • Scout, interview, review contract details and check available dates for reception location• Research gown styles, colors, and shapes
12-16 Months
• Create a wedding website to share your wedding details o Check out : www.wedbuddy.com o Under settings, enter WB41 in the “referred by” field• Decide upon ceremony and reception locations and book your date• Begin detailed excel sheet for guest list with names and addresses• Begin shopping for your wedding gown o Don’t forget to bring heels, strapless bras and hair clips• Begin designing save-the-dates• Settle on color scheme and/or theme• Research marriage license and residency requirements if you’re getting married abroad• Select wedding party members• Reserve rooms for out of town guests• Gather vendor recommendations from friends, family and/or planner• Set appointments with vendors (decorators, DJs, florists, videographers, transportation, photographers, caterers, ceremony/re- ception musicians, equipment rentals,etc.)
10-12 Months
• Interview officiants (if applicable)• Order and mail save-the dates• Order/update passports for weddings or honeymoons abroad• Interview and book vendors: decorators, DJs, florists, videographers, transportation, photographers, caterers, ceremony/re ception musicians, equipment rentals, etc.• Research honeymoon locations and prices• Research invitation designs and book a designer• Order gown and bridal accessories• Research tailors and schedule fitting when gown is scheduled to arrive (2-3 months out)• Shop and select bridesmaids and flower girl dresses and tuxes • Begin shopping for bridal party and parent gifts• Finalize wedding theme and color scheme with your decorator• Book baker and schedule a tasting to finalize cake flavor, design and style o Discuss groom’s cake (if applicable)• Finalize any remaining contracts• Start registering for wedding gifts (choose items in various price ranges)• Finalize guest list and mailing addresses• Schedule a meeting with your officiant to begin counseling and/or to discuss
ceremony details
6-9 Months
• Finalize invitation design and order invitations (get extra envelopes for errors!) o Test drive directions before sending directional cards• Confirm bridesmaids have ordered dresses
select accessories• Provide bridal shower guest list to maid-of- honor or shower’s host• Update registry lists before bridal shower invitations are mailed o Update wedding website with info• Book honeymoon• Work with officiant to finalize ceremony details. Finalize songs, readings, etc. Be sure to give ceremony musician requested songs and ceremony outline• Develop reception timeline including specific songs and playlists• Select and order wedding rings• Reserve tuxes and give instructions to groomsmen on reservations• Draft ceremony timeline and program
4-5 Months
Plan the perfect day with our comprehensive planning timeline that takes you from the moment you say “yes” to the day you say “i do”!
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o Ask those who you wish to participate in the ceremony: readers, singers, guest book attendants, etc• Schedule ceremony rehearsal with officiant and wedding party• Schedule make-up and hair trials
(take photos!)• Discuss menu options and ideas with
caterer • Select and order favors and wedding accessories (unity candles, garters, guest book, ring bearer pillows, toasting glasses, etc)• Confirm dates and plans for bachelor/ bachelorette parties
• Attend first dress fitting • Plan rehearsal dinner: book space and order invitations • Research signature drink options• Attend pre-marriage counseling or classes• Begin dance lessons, if desired • Request time off from work for honeymoon• Order wedding programs • Finalize hair and make-up choices with stylist (remember to take photos!)• Mail wedding invitations (some choose to number the back of the RSVPs cards in case someone mails it back without a name. You can cross check it with your excel sheet to find out who it was) • Keep a record of RSVP cards you receive (use master excel sheet you used to gather and organize mailing addresses) • Order gifts for attendants and parents• Attend bridal shower • Write and mail shower thank-you notes• Start drafting your wedding vows, if writing your own • Schedule a tasting with your caterer and finalize reception menu • Send wedding announcement to local newspaper, if desired • Confirm tuxes have been reserved and ordered • Prep for your honeymoon• Take care of business: look into joint bank accounts, insurance, and merging your money.• Finalize your music for the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, and review with musicians, singer, DJs.• Check that there are enough options left on your registry and update your wedding website.• Finalize rehearsal dinner plans and order rehearsal invitations, menus, table numbers, escort cards, and any other stationery accessories.
2-3 Months
1-2 Months• Schedule pre-wedding pampering spa appointments, if desired• Finalize ceremony readings and songs,
and review with performers• Order liquor/beverages if not handled by caterer• Meet with your officiant to finalize the ceremony• Begin writing thank you notes for early wedding gifts• Apply for marriage license • Prepare a photo and video shot list, naming important family guests
and send to your photographer/ videographer• Schedule the bridesmaids’ luncheon and buy attendant gifts if you haven’t already.• Draft seating chart for reception • Confirm that each bridesmaid has received her dress • Distribute copies of selected readings to ceremony participants • Write wedding speech/toast • Prepare bride and groom emergency kits• Assemble guest room gifts for out-of-town guests • Start breaking in your wedding day shoes • Schedule a haircut for the groom for the
week or two before the wedding • Find something old, new, borrowed & blue • Attend final dress fitting • Pick up wedding rings • Send seating and place cards to planner, calligrapher or printer • Mail rehearsal dinner invitations
• Finalize reception timeline and music choices with DJ including “must play” and “do not play” lists• Practice first dance with bridal shoes• Design and order wedding programs, if you haven’t already• Confirm honeymoon and travel arrangements; give loved ones your itinerary in case of emergency• Call guests who have not RSVP’d• Pick up wedding rings• Get marriage license• Research how to change your name• Purchase candles, candies, etc for the powder rooms at your reception• Work with planner on the creation of your day-of timeline for vendors and bridal party to ensure everything is accounted for and flows smoothly• Call vendors to confirm all deliveries and contract details
3-4 Weeks
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1-2 Weeks • Finalize wedding-day schedule and share with attendants, parents and all vendors.• Confirm beauty and spa appointments.• Confirm pick-up times, schedules, and addresses with wedding day transportation.• Pick up wedding dress and make sure all accessories are together• Pick up the groom’s tux, make sure it fits, and gather accessories together.• Finalize vows for the ceremony• Get hair colored and trimmed• Confirm final head count • Give final attendance numbers to vendors and confirm final date/time for deliveries and pick-ups after wedding• Finalize your seating arrangements (making sure you involve both sets of parents) and submit to appropriate vendors• Pack for wedding night and honeymoon.• Create a “ceremony box” to gather accessories (marriage license, candles,
ring pillow, basket, guest book) andassign someone to transport to ceremony
• Prepare a “reception box” for accessories (guest books, cameras, toasting goblets,
cake toppers, etc.) and assign someone to transport
• Prepare all of your wedding favors and place cards for transportation to reception venue and assign someone to set them out• Confirm dates/times/locations for all photo and video sessions for the day of the wedding.• Confirm dates/times/locations with all vendors• Assign any day-of responsibility to attendants, family or friends• Arrange for someone to send wedding
gown to a preservationist and return groom’s tuxedo
• Prepare a list of payment envelopes, including tips, earmarking who is responsible for distributing to vendors• Hand out assignment lists and checklists to ensure everyone knows their tasks, including persons responsible for transporting gifts• Give ceremony box and reception boxes to
appropriate person• Hand out favor box and place cards to appropriate person• Gather together your wedding dress, accessories, and bridal emergency kit• Get a manicure, pedicure, and massage• Rehearse ceremony with officiant and wedding party• Attend rehearsal dinner and distribute bridal party gifts
The Day Before
• Your day has arrived! You may be nervous, but try to eat breakfast and drink plenty of fluids.• Be sure to wear a button-down shirt for hair and makeup appointments.• Don’t sweat the small stuff – soak up every moment of this day! o At some point during the day, take yourself out of the moment and reflect on what’s really happening
The Wedding Day
• Get wedding dress cleaned and preserved• Preserve your bouquet• Write and mail thank-you notes (these should be done within four weeks after your honeymoon)• Complete your name-change kit• Meet with photographer and videographer to finalize albums/video
After the Wedding
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Jey Smith &Greg Owens
November 24, 2012
Jey is a girly girl who loves sparkle, lace and Parisian culture. Her groom is fresh with a mordern edge. The couple settled on a color scheme of black and white with pops of Tiffany blue (for him) and blush (for her).The couple worked with An Affair To Remember to achieve a design thatmarried both styles.
Jey and Greg tied the knotat the Decatur Club. The couple was married in the ballroom where the backdrop was used for both the altar and head table.
A custom black and white damask runner added interest to the aisle. The ceremony was lit in blush pink and was switched over to teal for the reception.
Photos byApt Foto
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While the guests had cocktails on the Mezzanine, An Affair To Remember flipped the room for the reception.
Black and white striped runners were chosen to evoke both a modern and Parisian look. A pop of Tiffany blue came from the ornate picture frame table numbers, that spoke to both Greg and Jey’s styles.
Greg wanted a modern centerpiece. Tall glass cylinder vases, accented with black lace, held bouquets ofhydrangea and carnations tiltedto the side. The candles in thealternating vases gave Jey theromance she was looking for.
Photos byTravis Lickey of Apt Foto
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Acrylic table numbers are chic and modern!
We’ve gathered a plethora of“steal-worthy ideas” to inspire your
creativity while designingyour perfect day!
borrowedsomething
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Try this envelope guest book wall. So unique!
Wrap invitations or any
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Rock candychampagne...LOVE!
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Collect rocks/shells from your honeymoon and display in ashadow box!
Try an etched mirrow
table number to amp up the glam factor!
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When the festivities are over, send them
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Under “settings”, be sure to enter wb41 in the “referred by” field.
Create a unique hashtag (#) for your wedding. Guests can tag pictures on Twitter and Instagram creating areal-time photo album that you can enjoy immediately!Be sure to put the hashtag on yoursave-the-dates and invites so friends and family can start the buzz early. When the big day arrives, make sure it’s on programs and at the reception on table numbers or menu cards.
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DIY Ideasexplained
Idea by Style Me PrettyPhotography by Kari Herer
What You Need:• Glass vase
• Foam Paintbrush
• Liquid Leaf Gold Paint
• Newspaper or Paper Towels
• Bowl or dish
What To Do:1. Pour some liquid leaf gold paint into a bowl you
don’t mind ruining.
2. Dip your foam brush in the paint and carefully apply
to the bottom of the jar with inconsistencies in the
strokes to make it look more one-of-a-kind. Make sure
you get full coverage.
3. Let dry for 2+ hours.
4. Add your favorite flowers from your florist/designer
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What To Do:1. Dip your paint brush into the ModPodge and dab some on the bottom,sides and top of the vase (get crafty)2. Add sequins inside the vase and shake so that the sequins stick where you placed the glue3. Presto! An once average vase now ready for a glam inspired wedding!Idea by www.twiggstudio.com
What You Need:• Clear glass vase • Sequins in your color of choice• Water
What To Do:1. Empty a bag of sequins in the color of yourchoice into an empty vase 2. Fill vase with water3. Some sequins will float and some will sink4. Pop in your favorite flowers and BAM!A glam centerpiece in seconds!Idea by hostingessence.com
What You Need:• Clear glass vase • Sequins in your color of choice• Mod Podge Glue• Paint brush
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sweetsecrets 1. Size Does Matter - Manyinspiration pictures are of cakes that could feed an army. Most brides don’t need all that cake. It’simportant for you to know if you’re more interested in a cake that makes a statement with size or style. Your inspiration cake can be designed for your appropriate guest count, budget and style if you’re willing to be open and creative.2. You’re No Dummy – A growing trend is the “dummy cake”. Inreference to Tip #1, if you have a large guest count and want an intricately designed cake, a dummy cake allows you to get what you want without breaking the bank. On the flip side, if you have a small guest count, dummy cakes give you the ability to have a large statement cake without all the cake that will undoubtedly be left over. 3. It’s Not Always Peachy -Certain flavors may be yourfavorite, but do they blend well and will your guests also enjoy them? If you and your groom like a particular flavor that may not be popular, have your baker design your cake topper in that flavor. That way you can have your cake and eat it too!4. Fondant vs .Buttercream -Translation: Style vs. Taste.Fondant looks great, but doesn’t taste the greatest. If you’re notdoing a dummy cake, talk to your baker about what she can do to give the appearance of fondant without using the ingredient. You’ll havehappier guests.5. Be Prepared - Bring inspiration pictures (and even color or fabric swatches) to your appointment. Be prepared to explain what you like and don’t like about your inspiration pictures. This will help your baker understand your style and vision.
top 5 T IPSfrom Carly Larson, expert baker and owner of Carly’s Cakery
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Quick FixesSOLUTION: Whether it’s a makeup
stain or a clumsy guest
sloshing red wine, a stain
on your dress can ruin
your mood. Here’s how to
avoid it from ruining your
day or your dress. First,
resist the urge to rub or
scrub the stain. Take a
clean, white towel to blot
up any excess moisture.
If the stain is oily, sprinkle
baby powder then blot
with the towel to absorb
the oil. Spot treat the
stain from the outside in –
treat from the stain’s
edges to its middle. For
spot treating, we LOVE
Dryel On the Go Instant
Stain Remover. It works
miracles. Resist using a
bleach pen because if it
does take the stain out, it
might leave a large white
spot. Don’t oversaturate
the material and keep
blotting with white cloths.
Always test a hidden part
of the dress to make sure
the treatment doesn’t
damage or discolor the dress.
Need quick fixes for specific
stains or repairs? Visit
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CRISIS: “There’s
a stain on my dress!”
SOLUTION: Remember that viral video
that circulated a few years back of that bride
who freaked out in front of her bridesmaids and
cut off all her hair?! That video might have been
a fake, but it’s a very real problem many brides
face. Here’s how you can avoid it and how to fix it
if you’re a victim.
1. Ask for recommendations from people you trust.
2. Ask to see a portfolio of his/her past work.
3. At your trial, make sure he/she takes photos
and/or detailed notes so they can duplicate the
look, and be sure to get a copy!
4. Go with your gut. If something doesn’t feel right
during your trial, it probably isn’t.
5. Pack an emergency hair/makeup kit with the
products used during your trial, just in case…
6. If it’s the BIG DAY and your hair or makeup is a
disaster, do not pay until they get it right. In most
cases, he/she will not want you to leave dissatis-
fied. If they refuse to redo the style, here are a
couple options: 1) Call a trusted local salon ASAP.
Give them your story and see if they can give you
an emergency appointment. 2) Wash your face,
unpin your hair and if you have bridesmaid, friend
or family member who’s hair/makeup savvy, pull
out the photos from your trial and let them fix it.
This is where your emergency kit comes in handy.
CRISIS: “I Look Like a Street Walker!”
Hair & Makeup Disaster
SOLUTION: So, you’ve got a guest who’s indulged a bit too much on
the free booze and he/she is making a scene. Here’s what you can do. Talk to the
event coordinator or manager and ask them to handle the situation. If he/she
cannot be located, ask a responsible groomsmen, family member or friend to
encourage the guest to step outside or to an area where there are not many
guests. Offer the guest some food and a glass of water. If he/she is being
belligerent or refusing the attention, call the guest a cab or ask a friend to drive
them back to the hotel or their residence.
CRISIS: “Shots, shots, shots, shots, shots, shots... everybody!”
for big day disasters
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PANTONE
Fashion Color Report
Spring 2013
Monaco Blue
Grayed Jade
Emerald
Tender Shoots
Nectarinetrendsseasonal
Mint is back in full force for the spring.
Incorporate mint into your cake, colors, or
even in a signature drink! Who wouldn’t
like a refreshing white peach mojito or
homemade mint chocolate-chip ice
cream at a spring or summer wedding?
foodMini Menus are all the rage in
2013 incorporating fun-sized des-
serts and appetizers. Get family
involved or talk to your caterer to
create something your guests will
remember. Get creative with your
theme! Your guests will appreciate
each small serving.
Photos viaZankyouWeddingszankyou.us
Different textures, especially lace, are
still going strong this year. Try mixing
and matching lace with ruffles, to
give your cake the romance we all
love with vintage themes. Ombre is
also still hot this year for food and
fashion.Cake Designs via
weddingsbylilly.com
We’ll see a vintage feel carried out through florals, but be prepared to amp up the romance with more
natural earth tones and a splash of color. The color of the year is anemerald green, so add different
textures and shades of greenery in your bouquet to evoke a soft,
garden-style romantic feel. Detailed handle treatments are hot so get
creative - ribbon, vintage brooches, pearl adornments, and ruffles!Floral Designs by Zankyou Weddings
florals
2013 Check out theseSeasonal Trends for food, florals,décor, and fashion!
Photo by Chris Hynes Photography
Photo by Emily Steffen Photography
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PANTONE
Fashion Color Report
Spring 2013fashion
This is the year to be bold! A few
trends to watch this year:
1. Brides are getting daring with
non-white wedding dresses. Even
celebrities are sporting dresses in
new and exciting colors to show off
their individually.
2. Walk the aisle in style with a high
neckline and a low back.
3. Try the Peplum! It’s a classic, high-
fashioned look that is vintage inspired
and timeless.
Photos byConde NastDigital Studio
Photos byRobert Mitra
Photography
Patterns will be hot this year. From chevron to stripes and evenpaisley and polka dots, adding pattern to your linens, invitations or bridal party attire will take your décor to the next level!
Mix and Match – Don’t be afraid to mix it up this year! Tabletop designs will involve lots oflayering with props, patterns and textures. Metallics will be all
the rage this year so bring in the glitz and the glam with rich golds, pewters and silvers!
Vintage Glam and TraditionalElegance – Last year we saw brides roll up their sleeves for truly DIY décor. While that trend isn’tgoing away, 2013 brides will draw inspiration from old world glamour
with influences like “The Great Gatsby” and “Anna Karenina” and turn to professionals to achieve an upscale application. With more
decadent fabrics, ornate lace details, metallics and costume jewelry, receptions will begin to become more formal again.
DécorPoppy Red
Lemon Zest
Linen
Dusk Blue
African Violet
Photo via glendaloughmanor.com
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to making your experience apleasant one. We can help you with
all the details from beginning to end whether you’re having a quiet,
intimate gathering or a lavish affair. We have items to rent and a large selection of fresh and silk
flowers. We are a traditional florist with progressive ideas to fit your budget and style. Stop by or call
for your personalized consultation.
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PearlsWords of advice if local brides could do it all over again...
Maggie Stewart“When discuss-
ing plans with your caterer or reception
hall, make sure to ask them to pack up to-go boxes for you and your new spouse. You will be
so busy enjoying the wedding, you won’t have much time to eat. At the end of the night, you may realize you’re starv-ing. The to-go boxes are the perfect late
night fix!”
Shannon Richards“At some point in
the day take yourself out of the moment to reflect on what isreally happening. I did this while we
were getting ready and at our
reception. It is the best feeling to see all your friends and
family who are there to celebrate with
and for you. It allows you to really
appreciate allof the hard work that went into putting this
day together.”
of Wisdom
Ashley Birkey“Begin with the end in mind! Prioritize what is most important to
you on your day and splurge on those areas.
Also, I highlyrecommend creating
a binder with individual pages and dividers to
organize all thedetails of your wedding.
I scrapbooked the outside with pictures of my husband and me and my new last
name. Now, after the wedding, it serves as a memento from all the fun and memories that were made during the
planning process.”
Photo by:Studio 21 Photography
Photo by:Sarah Jane Photography
Photo by:Alida Duff Sullivan Photography
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