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Introduction to Basic Relationships

Name is witheld by RequestName is witheld by RequestSoc.Psy.222Soc.Psy.222

September 11September 11thth, 2001, 2001

Social Psychology 222Social Psychology 222

DefinitionsDefinitionsConceptsConcepts

PerspectivesPerspectivesQ/A - HomeworkQ/A - Homework

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“Hook Up”Cultural/CasualCultural/Casual

1.1. A specific time when two people meet to A specific time when two people meet to join in – together- for a mutual event, or, join in – together- for a mutual event, or,

2.2. Two individuals from diverse backgrounds Two individuals from diverse backgrounds form a cheap/easy intimate relationship, form a cheap/easy intimate relationship, or...or...

3.3. An epiphany moment-a time-when a An epiphany moment-a time-when a certain couple are shaking hands and certain couple are shaking hands and discover that they are ‘equallyoked.’ discover that they are ‘equallyoked.’

- Slang Dictionary/Urban Words- Slang Dictionary/Urban Words

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Morality  ..is a valuable ‘personal’ code, based on....is a valuable ‘personal’ code, based on.. ……a set of spiritual values, that…a set of spiritual values, that… ....affects attitudes, motives, and there for......affects attitudes, motives, and there for.. ..effecting an individual’s trademan’s skills, ..effecting an individual’s trademan’s skills,

appropriateness of behavioral patterns, appropriateness of behavioral patterns, and the upholding ethical and legal and the upholding ethical and legal societal standards.societal standards.

- Word Meanings / Philosophy- Word Meanings / Philosophy

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“Positive Regard” Also, “unconditional positive regard”Also, “unconditional positive regard”   Means: …a complete acceptance, love, Means: …a complete acceptance, love,

favor towards an individual – especially favor towards an individual – especially those who are ‘equallyoked’, also... those who are ‘equallyoked’, also...

……parents who devotedly and deliberately parents who devotedly and deliberately indoctrinate their children with a ‘clear’ indoctrinate their children with a ‘clear’ sense of ‘civil identity’ in a multicultural sense of ‘civil identity’ in a multicultural society with respect for the child’s future.society with respect for the child’s future.

- Word Meanings / Psychology- Word Meanings / Psychology

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“Soul-mates” A couple who experience their A couple who experience their very firstvery first sexual sexual

encounter together and their baby is born out of encounter together and their baby is born out of that union are “Soul-mates”that union are “Soul-mates”11 and,.. and,..

..a couple who bond with each other, falls ..a couple who bond with each other, falls deeply in love and is the happiest they have deeply in love and is the happiest they have ever been with each other are “Soul-mates”ever been with each other are “Soul-mates”2 2

and,…and,… ..a couple who are ‘married’ and truly ..a couple who are ‘married’ and truly

“equallyoked” are “Soul-mates.”, i.e., of the “equallyoked” are “Soul-mates.”, i.e., of the ‘same’ or ‘very similar’ “civil-identities.” ‘same’ or ‘very similar’ “civil-identities.” 33

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

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“Endogamy” EndogamyEndogamy means, “means, “InIn-marriage” – and is when -marriage” – and is when

an individual according to his/or her own social an individual according to his/or her own social customscustoms11…………((Comment: this maybe more like community health - a social mores - or an Comment: this maybe more like community health - a social mores - or an

actual religious ‘lawactual religious ‘law’)….’)…. ……..marries another individualmarries another individual within his or within his or her her

ownown cultural cultural22 “Social group”*. “Social group”*. *Note; a “Social group” may be a village, a tribe, *Note; a “Social group” may be a village, a tribe,

a sect or cult, a geographic region, or a sect or cult, a geographic region, or a de facto a de facto ‘Civil identity’‘Civil identity’, etc., etc.

- Sociocultural Anthropology- Sociocultural Anthropology

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“Intimacy” Latin: Latin: Intimus, Intimus, “innermost”“innermost” The process of “..stating or making The process of “..stating or making

known” one’s innermost thoughts, moral known” one’s innermost thoughts, moral values, and feelings.values, and feelings.

……sharing something from the inside… sharing something from the inside… Genuine intimacy in human relationships Genuine intimacy in human relationships

requires dialogue, honesty/transparency, requires dialogue, honesty/transparency, vulnerability, and mutual reciprocity. vulnerability, and mutual reciprocity.

- Word Meanings / Philosophy- Word Meanings / Philosophy

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“Equallyoked” EquallyokedEquallyoked, (is pronounced, Eek quel ee yoak‘d) , (is pronounced, Eek quel ee yoak‘d)

and is when a couple-who believe in, bonds with, and is when a couple-who believe in, bonds with, and marries one other purposefully of the same (or and marries one other purposefully of the same (or nearly the same) ‘Civil identity’nearly the same) ‘Civil identity’** thus are multi- thus are multi-cultural society, ‘equallyoked’cultural society, ‘equallyoked’11..

** ‘ ‘Civil identityCivil identity’ is a Social Psychology term -’ is a Social Psychology term -describing a collective of features concerning an describing a collective of features concerning an individual’s individual’s present present ethnicity, political party ethnicity, political party membership, race and color, religious membership, race and color, religious membership, disability/handicap, age group/ membership, disability/handicap, age group/ generation, sexual orientation and marital status.generation, sexual orientation and marital status.22

- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

Also, ‘equally yoked’Also, ‘equally yoked’

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“Civil Identity” Ethnicity: Scandinavian Ethnicity: Scandinavian Political Party: LibertarianPolitical Party: Libertarian Race: Anglo Color: Light complexionRace: Anglo Color: Light complexion Religion: Fundamental ChristianReligion: Fundamental Christian Disability: None KnownDisability: None Known Gender: Male Sexual Orientation: HeterosexualGender: Male Sexual Orientation: Heterosexual Marital Status: Single/1Marital Status: Single/1stst Marriage Annulled Marriage AnnulledCouples who share: the same (or very similar) ‘civil Couples who share: the same (or very similar) ‘civil

identities’, beliefs, bonding, marriage - living in a identities’, beliefs, bonding, marriage - living in a multicultural society are considered to be multicultural society are considered to be ‘equallyoked’.‘equallyoked’.11

- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology

An Example:

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“Equallyoked”

The term 'The term 'EquallyokedEquallyoked' (also, equally yoked) …' (also, equally yoked) … an adverban adverb::

““Equally” - means “alike” Equally” - means “alike” 11, in a “, in a “balancedbalanced” manner, “the ” manner, “the same” or to “the same” degree of, etcsame” or to “the same” degree of, etc an verban verb::

““Yoked” - means (Yoked” - means (Latin; Latin; jungerejungere ‘to join‘) ‘to join‘) 22, something , something fastened around the neck to join together, burdened with. fastened around the neck to join together, burdened with.

in history:in history: Evolved from synonyms, with meanings, such as: Evolved from synonyms, with meanings, such as:

Equitably, Fairly, JustlyEquitably, Fairly, Justly33

Sentence: “They were an ‘equally yoked’ couple from Sentence: “They were an ‘equally yoked’ couple from families of just ordinary means.” families of just ordinary means.”

- Word Meanings - Etymology- Word Meanings - Etymology

(equally yoked)(equally yoked)

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“Life Partner”

A “A “Life PartnerLife Partner” refers to a lifetime, romantic ” refers to a lifetime, romantic and very close “mate”. A couple who are true and very close “mate”. A couple who are true ‘life partners’ are ‘equallyoked’.‘life partners’ are ‘equallyoked’.11

It is true that ‘life partners’ usually develop It is true that ‘life partners’ usually develop strong platonic relationships as a mutual serious strong platonic relationships as a mutual serious long term goal together.long term goal together.22

‘‘Life partners’ may based their relationship on Life partners’ may based their relationship on moral/or immoral grounds whether married/ moral/or immoral grounds whether married/ monogamously or can be individuals such as monogamously or can be individuals such as divorcees/celibate.divorcees/celibate.33

- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology

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Sharing of… Vision & Mission in Vision & Mission in

life.life.11

Activities of Daily Activities of Daily Living & Routine.Living & Routine.22

Reflection of meaning Reflection of meaning of life & Devotion to of life & Devotion to duty.duty.33

God, Religious Beliefs God, Religious Beliefs & Spiritual Values.& Spiritual Values.44

Family life & Family life & Friendships.Friendships.55

Good Health & Good Health & Preferred Enjoyments.Preferred Enjoyments.66

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies

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..a Social Phenomena

– A couple (usually a heterosexual dyadic) who A couple (usually a heterosexual dyadic) who are of are of very similarvery similar or or the samethe same ‘Civil identity’ ‘Civil identity’ 11

– Any couples who are bonded together and Any couples who are bonded together and who are of the ‘same’ or ‘very similar’ Civil who are of the ‘same’ or ‘very similar’ Civil identities…identities…22

– A marital couple who marries-with their A marital couple who marries-with their backgrounds related to their ‘Civil identities.’ backgrounds related to their ‘Civil identities.’ 33

- Sociology 101:Social Phenomenology- Sociology 101:Social Phenomenology

- Introduction to Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

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“Un-equally Yoked” Inequitable - Inequitable -

– Unjust, an injustice.Unjust, an injustice. Iniquious - Iniquious -

– Unrighteous, a sin.Unrighteous, a sin. Inequality - Inequality -

– Unfair, imbalanced.Unfair, imbalanced.11

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies

II Corinthinans 6:14-18II Corinthinans 6:14-18

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Multi-cultural Statistics Caucasians Caucasians (European) (European)

- Marrying amongst those who were from their own tribes, - Marrying amongst those who were from their own tribes, social culture, and nation.social culture, and nation.11

NegrozoidsNegrozoids (Africa) (Africa)- Marrying amongst the same in their own areas.- Marrying amongst the same in their own areas.22

South AmericansSouth Americans (Indians) (Indians)- Intermarrying within their own peoples.- Intermarrying within their own peoples.33

OrientalOriental (Asians) (Asians)- Couples’ mates were often chosen by their own - Couples’ mates were often chosen by their own parents from own family lineage.parents from own family lineage.44

- Sociology 101- Sociology 101

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“Equallyoked” The term 'The term 'EquallyokedEquallyoked' (also, equally yoked) ' (also, equally yoked)

probable came about from the Bible – wherein probable came about from the Bible – wherein Jews marrying Jews, Muslims marrying Muslims, Jews marrying Jews, Muslims marrying Muslims, Christians marrying Christians, etc, etc, etc.Christians marrying Christians, etc, etc, etc.11

It is a phenomena that exists in all multicultural It is a phenomena that exists in all multicultural societies-peoples of societies-peoples of the samethe same de facto ‘ de facto ‘Civil Civil identityidentity' marrying one another for reasons of ' marrying one another for reasons of self-esteem, religious beliefs, and preserving the self-esteem, religious beliefs, and preserving the integrity of their family identity-for abiding in integrity of their family identity-for abiding in social mores (contributing to) community health.social mores (contributing to) community health.22

- Word Origins/Philosophy- Word Origins/Philosophy

(equally yoked)(equally yoked)

- Sociology 101- Sociology 101

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Dyadic: Social Psychology EquallyokedtariansEquallyokedtarians are of interest to social are of interest to social

psychologists because they represent dyadic psychologists because they represent dyadic groups of the groups of the samesame ‘Civil identity.’ ‘Civil identity.’11

Couples who primarily choose to bond and Couples who primarily choose to bond and marry together ‘because’ they are the ‘same’ or marry together ‘because’ they are the ‘same’ or ‘very similar’ Civil identities, among other ‘very similar’ Civil identities, among other reasons, may contribute to marital reasons, may contribute to marital longevitylongevity--staying together for a lifetime as * evidenced.staying together for a lifetime as * evidenced.22

The The measuredmeasured ‘self esteem’ of individuals of a ‘self esteem’ of individuals of a marital couple who marry with backgrounds marital couple who marry with backgrounds related to their own ‘Civil identities’ are worthy of related to their own ‘Civil identities’ are worthy of marital satisfaction studies as well.marital satisfaction studies as well.33

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

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“Boundaries”

I will not wait for I will not wait for anyone.anyone.11

I will halt unequal I will halt unequal relationships.relationships.22

I will not idealize I will not idealize others.others.33

I will conduct my life I will conduct my life by inspired truth.by inspired truth.44

I will assert against I will assert against any disrespect.any disrespect.55

I will abide in social I will abide in social ethics and laws. ethics and laws. 66

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal StudiesAlpha & Omega

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Social Perspectives““Equallyokedtarians” are those people-who are Equallyokedtarians” are those people-who are

‘equallyoked’ yet having varying points of ‘equallyoked’ yet having varying points of views* about marriage:views* about marriage:11

* Liberals:* Liberals: a couple marrying one another while a couple marrying one another while sharing in vague beliefs, i.e., explained as the sharing in vague beliefs, i.e., explained as the same ‘spirit’ or attitude about some issue.same ‘spirit’ or attitude about some issue.

* Moderates:* Moderates: marrying one another r/t ‘very similar’ marrying one another r/t ‘very similar’ civil identities-close enough for them.civil identities-close enough for them.

* Conservatives:* Conservatives: marriage between two people who marriage between two people who share the same or fairly ‘equal’ ‘Civil identities’. share the same or fairly ‘equal’ ‘Civil identities’. 22

- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

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“Coupling up”…. NonequallyokedNonequallyoked

– Couples who Couples who do recognizedo recognize equallyokedtarianism as a equallyokedtarianism as a social mores and yet for their own ulterior motives still social mores and yet for their own ulterior motives still choose to violate social mores as an rash option.choose to violate social mores as an rash option.11

UnequallyokedUnequallyoked– Couples who are naïve, thus inadvertently demonstrate Couples who are naïve, thus inadvertently demonstrate

opposition to equallyokedtarianism-as a social mores.opposition to equallyokedtarianism-as a social mores.22

Anti-equallyokedAnti-equallyoked– Couples who are a bit mentally/emotionally disturbed Couples who are a bit mentally/emotionally disturbed

and are deliberately active against proper socialization, and are deliberately active against proper socialization, contrary to equallyokedtarianism and social mores,contrary to equallyokedtarianism and social mores,33

- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology

……in a ‘hook up’ culturein a ‘hook up’ culture

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“Love” is a… ....aa conscious, meaningful, and focused conscious, meaningful, and focused

attention towards a ‘special’ mateattention towards a ‘special’ mate1 1 and, and, ....aa person toward whom love is shared; a person toward whom love is shared; a

dearly beloved; an ‘equallyoked help dearly beloved; an ‘equallyoked help meet’, a ‘heterosexual’ love matemeet’, a ‘heterosexual’ love mate22 and, and,

....aa ‘feeling’ of warm personal attachment ‘feeling’ of warm personal attachment or deep affection for, as for a sweetheart, or deep affection for, as for a sweetheart, or as for a spouse.or as for a spouse.33

- Word Meanings / - Word Meanings / PhilosophyPhilosophy

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Why “Equallyoked”? MotivesMotives - a couple who are ‘equallyoked’ may do - a couple who are ‘equallyoked’ may do

so for a variety of reasons-some of which include: so for a variety of reasons-some of which include: – Beliefs about life, self-image, truth and God, death, etc. Beliefs about life, self-image, truth and God, death, etc.

– Bonding for long term love, romance, and sex. Bonding for long term love, romance, and sex. – Marriage, family/children, and financial goals.Marriage, family/children, and financial goals.11

Self esteemSelf esteem – individuals with a clear sense of – individuals with a clear sense of self-marrying someone of a ‘like’ civil identity.self-marrying someone of a ‘like’ civil identity.22

Family identityFamily identity – to maintain the integrity and the – to maintain the integrity and the longevity of the extended family identity.longevity of the extended family identity.33

Social moresSocial mores – a preserved cultural standard in – a preserved cultural standard in a a multicultural society for the sake of community health.multicultural society for the sake of community health.44

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

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Pronunciation:Pronunciation: “Eek quel ee yoak‘d tar ee ins” “Eek quel ee yoak‘d tar ee ins” 11. . Definition:Definition: - are any individuals who by choice, - are any individuals who by choice,

i.e., purposefully choose to bond with and marry i.e., purposefully choose to bond with and marry another of the same (or very nearly the same) another of the same (or very nearly the same) ‘Civil identity’‘Civil identity’*,*, within any culture are called, within any culture are called, ‘Equallyokedtarians’ - couples ‘equallyoked’.‘Equallyokedtarians’ - couples ‘equallyoked’.22

*Recall:*Recall: a ‘Civil identity’ - describes a collective a ‘Civil identity’ - describes a collective of features about a person’s of features about a person’s presentpresent: ethnicity, : ethnicity, political party membership, race and color, political party membership, race and color, religious membership, disability/ handicap, age religious membership, disability/ handicap, age group/ generation, proper sexual orientation, group/ generation, proper sexual orientation, and marital status.and marital status.33

- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology

…….are couples who are .are couples who are ‘equally yoked’‘equally yoked’

“Equallyokedtarians”

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“Social Mores”The term ‘The term ‘Social MoresSocial Mores‘‘** refers to…. refers to….

““SocialSocial” meaning - to associate in a social way, ” meaning - to associate in a social way, i.ei.e.,., “folkways”, socializing, socialization “folkways”, socializing, socialization 11, ,

““MoresMores” - concerns that of moral codes, mental ” - concerns that of moral codes, mental health values, standards, spiritual ideologies health values, standards, spiritual ideologies 22. .

**Also, customs, proper conduct/etiquette, health Also, customs, proper conduct/etiquette, health

behaviours/norms, healthy lifestyle. behaviours/norms, healthy lifestyle. 33 Use in a Sentence: “Use in a Sentence: “Their family abided in good Their family abided in good

social mores that reflected their sense of social mores that reflected their sense of integrityintegrity.” .” 44

- Word Meanings - Etymology- Word Meanings - Etymology

adjective adjective

plural noun plural noun

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..a Public Health Issue As a Public Health Issue, As a Public Health Issue, EquallyokedtarianismEquallyokedtarianism as a as a

social mores – is a social mores – is a phenomenaphenomena observed amongst the observed amongst the most conservative segments of a multi-cultural society.most conservative segments of a multi-cultural society.11

Marriage Family and Child Psychology Marriage Family and Child Psychology addresses addresses the the Self-esteemSelf-esteem of the individuals who are (or aren’t) of the individuals who are (or aren’t) equallyoked as an important issue in mental health/ equallyoked as an important issue in mental health/ emotional health/ and naturally, self-preservation, as well emotional health/ and naturally, self-preservation, as well as of the integrity of their family identity.as of the integrity of their family identity.22

As a Civil Rights issue, justice of the As a Civil Rights issue, justice of the peaces-as peaces-as civil servants who perform marriage ceremonies attaching civil servants who perform marriage ceremonies attaching a signature may be held responsible as attesting to the a signature may be held responsible as attesting to the competence (or incompetence) of the individuals present competence (or incompetence) of the individuals present while performing marriages considering community while performing marriages considering community ((psychosocialpsychosocial) health matters.) health matters.33

- Introduction to Public Health- Introduction to Public Health

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“You ‘be’ the Man”Boys ‘Boys ‘becomebecome’ Men ’ Men

when they:when they:

Follow you when you walk Follow you when you walk out.out.

Call you back when you Call you back when you hang up.hang up.

Hug you when you punch Hug you when you punch him.him.

Kiss you when you nag.Kiss you when you nag. Watch click-flicks with you.Watch click-flicks with you.

Tolerate crying over love Tolerate crying over love stories.stories.

Hand you the remote Hand you the remote control.control.

Pass on boys-night just to Pass on boys-night just to listen to your rantings.listen to your rantings.

Don’t flare up when you Don’t flare up when you give car directions.give car directions.

Says “I’m sorry” and tells Says “I’m sorry” and tells you he needs you.you he needs you.11

- Ecclesiastic 9:9 of the Holy Bible- Ecclesiastic 9:9 of the Holy Bible

……thethe Alpha-male Alpha-male..

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An “Unpreferred”– Yoked…An “Unpreferred”– Yoked… A Couple:A Couple:

One very fat weight – one very skinny weightOne very fat weight – one very skinny weight One very poor income – one very rich incomeOne very poor income – one very rich income One is very ‘sociable’ – one is very ‘homebody’One is very ‘sociable’ – one is very ‘homebody’ One talks very fast – one talks very slowOne talks very fast – one talks very slow One very tall in height – one very short in heightOne very tall in height – one very short in height One highly educated – one lowly educatedOne highly educated – one lowly educated One ill mannered – one well manneredOne ill mannered – one well mannered11

- The True Phenomenology of “Opposites Attract”- The True Phenomenology of “Opposites Attract”

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“Social Forces” EquallyokedtariansEquallyokedtarians are the most targeted social are the most targeted social

groups for destruction by world tyrannical powers groups for destruction by world tyrannical powers there is in global multi-culturalism.there is in global multi-culturalism.11

Degradation of people’s ‘self esteem’ comes from Degradation of people’s ‘self esteem’ comes from the of demise of family and destruction of individual the of demise of family and destruction of individual “Civil identity” by the powers“Civil identity” by the powers22 that be in order to that be in order to attain and maintain governmental rule. attain and maintain governmental rule.

The empowered The empowered liberalliberal: media, public education, : media, public education, and multicultural secularism perpetuates and multicultural secularism perpetuates community ‘amalgamation’ for the sake of ‘cultural community ‘amalgamation’ for the sake of ‘cultural confusion’ - and in such, thereby ruining the confusion’ - and in such, thereby ruining the individual identities of a country’s peoples.individual identities of a country’s peoples.33

- Concepts in Social Psychology- Concepts in Social Psychology

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“Un-equally Yoked” Out of place priorities.Out of place priorities.

Misused gifts.Misused gifts.

Unconfessed sin.Unconfessed sin.

An unforgiving spirit.An unforgiving spirit.

A wrong association.A wrong association.

Killing God for Killing God for secularistic pleasure.secularistic pleasure.11

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal StudiesAlpha & Omega

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…an “Art and Science” Couples-who are Couples-who are bonded bonded together and who are together and who are

“equallyoked help meets”- amongst a class are worthy “equallyoked help meets”- amongst a class are worthy of study-not unlike those who aren’t.of study-not unlike those who aren’t.11

……the study of theoretical equallyokedtarianism as an the study of theoretical equallyokedtarianism as an ‘social science’, as an ‘art’, and as a inquiry into ‘social science’, as an ‘art’, and as a inquiry into biologic “genetic wholesomeness.” biologic “genetic wholesomeness.” 22

A marital couple who A marital couple who becomes engagedbecomes engaged-with -with intension of preserving the integrity of their family intension of preserving the integrity of their family identity related to their backgrounds and related to identity related to their backgrounds and related to their ‘civil identities.their ‘civil identities.33

-The Humanities & Biopsychosociocultural Sciences-The Humanities & Biopsychosociocultural Sciences

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Pastoral Counselor

- Word Meanings / - Word Meanings / TheophilosophyTheophilosophyAlpha & Omega

  An educated/trained Pastor specialist in…An educated/trained Pastor specialist in… ……Psychological therapies and…Psychological therapies and… ……Mental disorders and ‘unequally yoked’ Mental disorders and ‘unequally yoked’

coupling (e.g., a malsuited couple) coupling (e.g., a malsuited couple) – combining moral spirituality, practical problem combining moral spirituality, practical problem

solving, progressive decision making, and solving, progressive decision making, and personal ‘informed’ personal ‘informed’

choices.choices.11

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College StudiesSome Suggested* Schools: Some Suggested* Schools:

SociologySociologyOakwood University, Grinnell College, Occidental College, Shaw University, Oakwood University, Grinnell College, Occidental College, Shaw University, Gallaudet University, Central State University, Gallaudet University, Central State University,

Social PsychologySocial PsychologyKentucky State University, Livingstone College, Claremont McKenna College, Kentucky State University, Livingstone College, Claremont McKenna College, Reed College, Swarthmore College, Cheyney University of Pennsylvania, Reed College, Swarthmore College, Cheyney University of Pennsylvania,

Civil Rights or Public HealthCivil Rights or Public HealthEast Texas Baptist University, Presbyterian College, Franklin College, East Texas Baptist University, Presbyterian College, Franklin College, Sewanee-University of the South, Inter American University of Puerto Rico-Sewanee-University of the South, Inter American University of Puerto Rico-Barranquit, Benedict College,Barranquit, Benedict College,

Marriage Family and Child PsychologyMarriage Family and Child PsychologyHampshire College, Pomona College, Hiram College, Oregon Health & Science Hampshire College, Pomona College, Hiram College, Oregon Health & Science University, Wilmington College, Saint Augustine’s University,University, Wilmington College, Saint Augustine’s University,

*Advanced Studies: Equallyoketarianism*Advanced Studies: Equallyoketarianism11

Ask about*…

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“Basic Relationships”1.) What is the origin of the term “Soul-mate? How is 1.) What is the origin of the term “Soul-mate? How is it significantly related to Social psychology? it significantly related to Social psychology? Marriage, Family, Child Psychology?Marriage, Family, Child Psychology?2.) How has the social sciences become involved in 2.) How has the social sciences become involved in the investigation of practiced social mores, i.e., the investigation of practiced social mores, i.e., people that ‘hook up’ and who are ‘equallyoked’? people that ‘hook up’ and who are ‘equallyoked’? 3.) What U.S. studies in Sociology pertain to tribes, 3.) What U.S. studies in Sociology pertain to tribes, sects or cults, and de facto ‘Civil identities’? ..where sects or cults, and de facto ‘Civil identities’? ..where around the world, what countries?around the world, what countries?

Q/A - HomeworkQ/A - Homework Your nameYour nameSocial Psychology 222Social Psychology 222September 11September 11thth, 2001, 2001

Homework: Choose ONE. Write Answer on 1 1/2 Pages, Homework: Choose ONE. Write Answer on 1 1/2 Pages, Typed, double-spaced, 35 Points, Due Next Class.Typed, double-spaced, 35 Points, Due Next Class.

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CONTACT:CONTACT:Dr. Dr. Xxx X. XxxxXxx X. Xxxx, PhD, Professor, PhD, Professor-Emeritus-Emeritus

Professor of the HumanitiesProfessor of the HumanitiesEmail: [email protected]: [email protected]

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