Download - J.C. Meets Ban-righ
J.C.isabitafraidofdogs.HismotherisgoingtohavesurgeryandJ.C.willbespendingtimeatthehomeofmyfriends.
TheyhaveaScottishTerrierpuppywholoveslittleboys.IfJ.C.canlearntoplaycomfortablyandconfidentlywithBan-righ,hewillfeelmoresecurewhenhestaysthere.
IofferedtohelpJ.C.developskillsinplayingwithBan-righbyusingfactualdescriptionsandnon-verbalandvocalrecognition.
J.C.says,"She'stryingtobiteme!"
Six-year-oldJ.C.MeetsThree-month-oldBan-righ
AfterIhadgivenJ.C.somereassuringhugsandpatsalongwiththumbsup,Isaid,"J.C.isplayingwithBan-righ."
Afterthat,J.C.waswillingtogetdownfromthecouchandgooutside.
Heisstillnotcomfortablewhenshejumpsup,butheisnotrunningaway.
Backinthehouse,J.C.startedtoplaywithBan-righ.
ThisiswhatIsaid.
"Wow!"
"Youarebothpullingontherag."
"J.C.islookingatBan-righ."
"Heissmiling."
"Sheissmiling,too."
Iwaspleasedtoseethattrustwasgrowingbetweenboyandpuppy.
ThatwassomuchfunthatJ.C.tookBan-righoutsideforadigginglesson.
"Youareshowingherhowtodig."
"Sheisaterrier.Terriersliketodig."
"Thatholeisgettingdeep."
DaringtogetdownonherlevelandworktogetheronaprojectearnedJ.C.apatonthebackandakissonthetopofhishead.
AfterracingaroundthebackyardwhileIcheeredthemon,theyheadedbacktothehouseforawaterbreak.J.C.letBan-righfollowrightonhisheels.
"Youbothranfast."
"Youhavealittleblackshadow."
Byplayingtogether,J.C.andBan-righarelearningtolikeandrespecteachother.Icanseefriendshipgrowing.
WhenBan-righhadstartedchewingonmysandal,Igaveheratoytochewon.Sheacceptedthereplacement.
Whenshestartedchewingonthebasket,J.C.gotherboneandencouragedhertochewonitinstead.
"Youaretrainingher,too."
"Yougothertostopbitingherbasket."
ItwasgoodtoseeJ.C.worksowellwithBan-righ.Icouldtellthattheywerelearningtogetalongwell,soeachgotafriendlypat.
Ban-righislearningtocometouswhenwesay,"Ban-righ,come."Sheoftengetsatreatforthis.
J.C.askedifhecouldtry.Hecalledher,andshecamerighttohim.Hebentdown,handedherthetreat,pattedher,andalsousedafactualdescription.
"YoucamewhenIcalledyou!"
ItlooksasifJ.C.islearningmorethanonething.Iwassopleased,IgaveJ.C.ahug.
Afterhehadhisowndinner,J.C.heldafrozentreatinhishandwhileBan-righateit.Whatashowofconfidence!
WeareallhappywithJ.C.'snewskillsinplayingwithBan-righ.Weknowthathehasovercomehisfearandisreadytocomeandstay.
J.C'smomanddadareproudofhim,too.Theyknowhewillfeelcomfortablewhilehevisitstherewithoutthem.
UsingthemethodsIlearnedinthismoduletoaccomplishthismademefeellikeIwanttokeeppracticingexpressingwarmththisway.
AndIwanttotakethenextmodule.
ProjectofUnderstanding
ModuleD1ExpressingWarmthtoChildren
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