HOW TO MAKE THE TOUGH CALL

Dr. Samuel R. Chand  

People calls are the toughest calls.

DISCERNING THE THREE CATEGORIES OF PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE

Those people who are there for a            —this is usually lost when the reason is over

reason

season

lifetime

Those people who are there for a            —this is usually lost when the season is over

Those people who are there for a            —this is never lost regardless of the nature and level of relationship

...Each one is dealt with differently...

Is my information               ?

What are the consequences—       and bad?

Am I being a          ?

QUESTIONS TO ASK WHEN MAKING THE TOUGH CALL

accurate

good

wimp

QUESTIONS TO ASK WHEN MAKING THE TOUGH CALL (con't)

credible

internal

emotional

Who can give me wise and              counsel?

Do I have             support when the tsunami hits?

Do I have internal                 reserves?

STEPS IN MAKING THE TOUGH CALL

Dismiss

Discipline

Document

Discuss

ISSUES               THE TOUGH CALL AFTER

Second guessing

everyone

agree

The need to explain to

The need for people to           with our decision

The need for the person affected to agree with our decision

ISSUES AFTER THE TOUGH CALL

loneliness

Dr. Samuel R. Chand, 950 Eagles Landing Parkway, Suite 295, Stockbridge, GA 30281 www.samchand.com

Misjudging people—their words, glances, body language—paranoia

Acute sense of