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How Cults Evangelize
By
Dr. Mel WhittingtonLicensed Professional
CounselorIn Private Practice, Tulsa, OK
Minister of Equipping MinistriesWill Rogers United Methodist Church, Tulsa, OK
How Cults Evangelize
A cult is a group or movement that exhibits great devotion to some person, idea, or thing.
The group uses a thought-reform program to persuade, control, and socialize members.
Systematically induces dependency in members
Exploits members to advance the leadership’s goals
Causes harm to members, their families, the community
Destructive Groups
Destructive organizations exhibit many of these common traits: - Totalitarian in structure: strict top-down centralized control with a "we-they," "us versus them" attitude. Groups become totalistic islands in the midst of society, which reinforces an adversarial relationship with outside groups.
Destructive Groups
- Creating enemies: the government, other races, other religious groups, other communities, other nation states, other ideologies.
- Attempts to control all communication into and out of the group as well as the individual's inner thought processes.
Destructive Groups - Leaders' ideas, politics, mission
and agenda are "sacred," or "inspired," beyond reproach. This could result in an presumed superiority over all others who do not hold the same views.
Destructive Groups
- Frequent use of public confession or testimonials to entrap members/citizens
Attempts to dominate the social lives of members
Destructive Groups
- A special language, beyond what would be considered normal jargon.
-Radical separation of pure and impure:
- Exclusiveness
The Power of Influence
THE POWER OF INFLUENCE
The Power of Influence
Perceptual Contrast- But, they seemed so different
Reciprocation- The old give and take ….and take and take
Commitment & Consistency- Hobgoblins of the mind
Social Proof- Truth R Us
The Porwer of Influence
Liking- The Friendly Thief
Authority- Directed Deference
Scarcity- The Rule of the Few
The Psychology of Cults
Strategies for Resistance1. Perceiving Discontinuities 2. Normal Appearances3. Assumed Similarities4. Apparent Competence5. Cognitive Confusion6. Emotional Confusion
The Psychology of Cults
Strategies for Resistance (continued)
7. Plays on Choice8. Impersonal Structures
Taking Every Thought Captive
20 Ways to Resist Unwanted Social Influence
1. Practice being deviant sometimes.2. Practice saying “I made a mistake.”3. Be aware of others’ frame of reference4. Be willing to suffer short-term losses5. Assess the interpersonal perspective to
determine if it has gained more significance than it merits.
6. Resist taking actions that you are uncertain of.
20 Ways to Resist Unwanted Social Influence
7. Insist on an understandable explanation8. Be sensitive to the situational demands9. Especially note the guest-host
relationship established that compromise your freedom to choose and act.
10.Don’t believe in simple solutions [if it sounds to good to be true …]
Taking Every Thought Captive
20 Ways to Resist Unwanted Social Influence
11.Remember there is no such thing as instant, unconditional love from strangers.
12.Maintain/establish healthy boundaries between you and the agent of influence.
13.Immediately test the limits of your autonomy
14.Practice detached concern. Disengage your emotions during confrontation.
15.Be the most honest, self-assured person you can be.
20 Ways to Resist Unwanted Social Influence
16.Recognize Guilt and guilt-inducing actions of others.
17.Resist reacting or making decisions on impulse or habit.
18. It is not necessary to maintain consistency. You may change your mind.
19. Illegitimate authority must be rejected, disobeyed & exposed
20.Be willing to openly defy, disobey, & challenge
Recovery MYTHS: Things NOT to say
“Why didn’t you leave that group?” “You are the last person I would have expected
to join a cult.” “Why see a psychologist? You know you were
deceived in your own spiritual walk. You need to repent of your sins so the deceiver can not tempt you again.”
“It’s been my experience that people who join these groups are troubled or come from dysfunctional families. I didn’t know you had problems. I guess I was wrong.”
Recovery
Stages of Recovery Stage One: Developing a
Conceptual Framework Stage Two: Grieving,
Reconciliation and Reaching Out Stage Three: Reintegration into
Society
Recovery Stage One: Developing a
Conceptual Framework Focus: Education & self-
acceptance Exit Counseling - gives a
framework for post-cultic problems
Recognize the importance of relationships
Recovery Stage One: Developing a
Conceptual Framework Evaluate the Group Recovery of Fellowship and
Recognition Floating Trauma
Recovery Stage One: Developing a
Conceptual Framework Thought reform
Recovery Stage Two: Grieving,
Reconciliation, and reaching out Regaining purpose A need for Reconciliation Request for Information Need for Support Rediscover the Gospel
Recovery Stage Two: Grieving,
Reconciliation, and reaching out Rescue others Contact by the Cult Retribution of the Cult Reemergence of the Past
Recovery Stage Three: Reintegration
into Society Identify the positives of the Cult
Experience Recovery of the whole self The Self & Religious Commitment Impossibility of Reconciliation to God
by works
Recovery Stage Three: Reintegration
into Society Affirming Acceptance of Self Recover of the Practical Recognition of Sexuality & intimate
relations Longing for the friends in the cult