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9 SEXUALITYBackground on Women's SexualityTheoretical Perspectives

Female Sexual Anatomy

Sexual Responses

Sexual Desire

Sexual Attitudes and Behavior

Attitudes About Female and Male Sexuality

Sexual Scripts

Sex Education

Sexual Behavior in Heterosexual Adolescents

Sexual Behavior in Heterosexual Adults

Communication About Sexuality

Lesbians and Sexuality

Older Women and Sexuality

Sexual Disorders

Low Sexual Desire

Female Orgasmic Disorder

How Gender Roles Contribute to Sexual Disorders

Therapy for Sexual Disorders

Birth Control and Abortion

Birth Control Methods

Who Uses Birth Control?

Obstacles to Using Birth Control

Contraception and Family Planningin Developing Countries

Abortion

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2. The gender differences in sexual desire are larger than most other gender differences.3. In the current decade, people consistently judge a sexually active unmarried male more positively

than a sexually active unmarried female.4. Most U.S. parents say that they want high-school sex education courses to discuss birth control.5. Almost all women have very positive memories about their first experience of sexual intercourse.6. A woman who discusses her sexual likes and dislikes with her partner is likely to be more satisfied with

her sexual relationships than a woman who does not disclose this information.7. When a woman has difficulty reaching orgasm, one common reason is that she is worried about losing

control over her emotions.8. During sexual activity, women often tend to worry about their physical attractiveness.9. An adolescent female in the United States is more than twice as likely to become pregnant as an

adolescent female in Canada.___ 10. When women with an unwanted pregnancy have an abortion, they typically do not experience serious

psychological consequences.

On the day I began editing this chapter about sexuality, I happened to walk pastthe magazine racks of a drugstore. The "women's section" oozed with sexualmessages. A headline from Self proclaimed "The Best Sex Ever: Make ItHappen." Glamour was even more alluring, with its claim, "The Sex StuffWomen Keep Secret: We've Got 3,000 X-Rated Confessions." However,Cosmopolitan won the contest. One headline shouted, "Naughty Sex: 8 HotNew Positions We've Never Published Before." Others on the same coverboasted "How to Keep Your Guy Totally Turned on by You," "The SexiestThings to Do After Sex," and "Four Facts Men Wish Their Girlfriends Knew."

Our North American culture is so intrigued with sexuality that we mightexpect people to be well informed about the topic-but studies suggest oth-erwise. Mariamne Whatley and Elissa Henken (2000) asked people in Georgiato share some of the "information" they had heard about a variety of sexualtopics. Some people believed, for instance, that a woman can become pregnantfrom kissing, from dancing too close to a man, or when having sexual inter-course during her menstrual period (rather than midcycle). Other peoplereported that when gynecologists have conducted pelvic exams, they havediscovered snakes, spiders, or roaches living in women's vaginas. Still otherstold how they had heard that a tampon, inserted into the vagina, can travel intoa woman's stomach. Apparently, people can be seriously misinformed aboutpregnancy and women's sexual anatomy!

Our chapter begins with some background information about sexuality.(However, I will assume you know that the vagina is not connected to thestomach.) In the second section, we'll discuss sexual attitudes and behavior.We'll briefly describe sexual disorders in the third section, and in the finalsection, we'll examine the topics of birth control and abortion. (In Chapter 11,we will discuss the related issue of sexually transmitted diseases.)

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In most of this chapter, we focus on people's attitudes toward sexuality and onwomen's sexual behavior; sexuality is much more than just a biological phe-nomenon (Easton et aI., 2002; Marecek et aI., 2004). To provide an appropriatecontext for these topics, however, we need to address some background ques-tions. What theoretical approaches to sexuality are currently most prominent?What parts of a woman's body are especially important in her sexual activities?What sexual responses do women typically experience? Furthermore, are theregender differences in sexual desire?

Feminist psychologists have pointed out that discussions about sexuality oftenrepresent a limited view of the topic (L. M. Diamond, 2004; Marecek et aI.,2004; Tiefer, 2004). For insta ce, consistent with Theme 3, researchers payrelatively little attention to female sexuality. Instead, researchers frequentlyconsider men's sexual experiences to be the normative standard. This andro-centric emphasis is reflected in descriptions of sexuality in several textbooksdesigned for middle-school and high-school students. For example, these booksapproach the sex organs from the male perspective. In one textbook, forexample, the word penis is defined as "the male sexual organ," whereas vaginais defined as "receives penis during sexual intercourse" (cited in C. E. Beyeret aI., 1996). Also, notice the heterosexist bias. Consistent with much of thesexuality research, the woman's partner is assumed to be a man.

Another bias in the discussion of sexuality is that sexual experiences areoften viewed from a purely biological framework, so that hormones, brainstructures, and genitals occupy center stage (Tolman & Diamond, 2001a; J. W.White et aI., 2000). Furthermore, such discussions often assume that thesebiological processes apply universally to all women (Peplau, 2003; Tiefer, 2004).

This overemphasis on biology is consistent with the essentialist perspective.As we discussed in Chapter 1, essentialism argues that gender is a basic, stablecharacteristic that resides within an individual. According to the essentialistperspective, all women share the same psychological characteristics (Mareceket aI., 2004). Essentialism ignores the widespread individual differences inwomen's sexual responses, consistent with Theme 4 of this textbook (Baber,2000). When researchers adopt this essentialist perspective, they often neglectthe social and cultural framework, which is especially important becausesexuality is so prominent in our popular culture.

In contrast to the essentialist perspective, social constructionism empha-sizes that social forces have a major impact on our sexuality. As we discussed inChapters 1 and 6, social constructionism argues that individuals and culturesconstruct or invent their own versions of reality based on prior experiences,social interactions, and beliefs. For example, in North American culture, malesare supposed to have sexual desires, but females' sexual desires are rarelymentioned (Tolman, 2002). However, in another culture, women may beconsidered highly sexual (Easton et aI., 2002; Fontes, 2001; Tiefer, 2004).

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have sex." Most North American women use this term to refer only to sexualintercourse with a man, even if that experience was not sexually pleasurable(Rothblum, 2000). These women probably would not say that two people "hadsex" if their sexual activity was limited to oral sex. Let's briefly discusswomen's sexual anatomy and sexual responses, as well as the important topicof sexual desire. Then, in the remaining sections, we will consider women'ssexual attitudes and behaviors in greater detail.

FEMALE SEXUAL ANATOMY

Figure 9.1 shows the external sexual organs of an adult female. The specificshapes, sizes, and colors of these organs differ greatly from one woman to thenext (Foley et aI., 2002). Ordinarily, the labia fold inward, so that they coverthe vaginal opening. In this diagram, however, the labia fold outward to showthe urethral and vaginal openings.

Mons pubis is a Latin phrase referring to the fatty tissue in front of the pubicbone. At puberty, the mons pubis becomes covered with pubic hair. The labiamajora are the "large lip ," or folds of skin, located just inside a woman's thighs.Located between these two labia majora are the labia minora, or "small lips."

Notice that the upper part of the labia region forms the clitoral hood,which covers the clitoris. As we will see later in this section, the clitoris (pro-nounced klih-tuh-riss) is a small sensitive organ that plays a central role in

Labia majora(large lips)

Labia minora(small lips)

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women's orgasms. The clitoris has a high density of nerve endings, and its onlypurpose is to provide sexual excitement (Foley et aI., 2002).

Urine passes through the urethral opening. Notice that the vaginal openingis located between the urethral opening and the anus. The vagina is a flexiblecanal through which menstrual fluid passes. During heterosexual intercourse,the penis enters the vagina. The vagina also provides a passageway during thenormal birth of an infant. At this point, you may want to return to Figure 4.1,on page 115, to review several important internal organs that are relevant forwomen's sexuality.

Women report a variety of reactions during sexual activity, and they emphasizethat emotions and thoughts are extremely important. Certain visual stimuli,sounds, and smells can either increase or decrease arousal (L. L. Alexanderet aI., 2004). Let's consider the general phases that many women experienceduring sexual activity, and the we'll discuss some gender comparisons.

GENERAL PHASES. William H. Masters and Virginia Johnson (1966) wrote a book,called Human Sexual Response, which summarized their research on individualswho readily experienced orgasms during sexual activity. As you can imagine,these findings should not be overgeneralized; sexuality shows much more varietythan the neatly ordered sequence of events that Masters and Johnson described(L. L. Alexander et aI., 2004; Basson, 2006; Foley et aI., 2002). Masters andJohnson described four phases, each focusing on changes in the genitals. As youread about these phases, keep in mind a caution raised by C. Wade and Cirese(1991): "The stages are not like the cycles of an automatic washing machine; weare not programmed to move mechanically from one stage to another" (p. 140).

Masters and Johnson called the first phase the excitement phase. Duringthe excitement phase, women become sexually aroused by touching and eroticthoughts. During the excitement phase, blood rushes to the genital region,causing vasocongestion (pronounced vaz-owe-kun-jess-chun), or swellingresulting from the accumulation of blood. Vasocongestion causes the clitorisand the labia to enlarge as they fill with blood; it also produces droplets ofmoisture in the vagina.

During the plateau phase, the clitoris shortens and draws back under theclitoral hood. The clitoral region is now extremely sensitive. The clitoral hoodis moved, either by thrusting of the penis or by other touching. The movementof the clitoral hood stimulates the clitoris.

During the orgasmic phase, the uterus and the outer part of the vaginacontract strongly, at intervals roughly a second apart. (Figure 4.1, on page 115,shows the female internal organs, with the uterus located above the vagina.) Awoman generally experiences between 3 and 10 of these rapid contractionsduring an orgasm (Foley et aI., 2002).

During the resolution phase, the sexual organs return to their earlierunstimulated size. The resolution phase may last 30 minutes or more.

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reso utlon p ase.You'll notice that the clitoris is extremely important when women expe-

rience an orgasm (L. L. Alexander et aI., 2004; Crooks & Baur, 2005). AsMasters and Johnson (1966) observed, orgasms result from stimulation ofthe clitoris, either from direct touching in the clitoral area or from indirectpressure-for example, from a partner's thrusting penis. Physiologically, theorgasm is the same, no matter what kind of stimulation is used (Hyde &DeLamater, 2006).

Current feminist researchers and theorists emphasize that women's viewsof sexuality do not focus simply on genitals and orgasms during sexual activity(Conrad & Milburn, 2001; J. W. White et aI., 2000). As Naomi McCormick(1994) wrote:

Cuddling, self-disclosing, even gazing into a partner's eyes are highly valued bywomen. A feminist vision of sexuality considers whole people, not just their geni-tals. Intellectual stimulation, the exchange of self-disclosures, and whole bodysensuality may feel just as "sexy" as orgasms. (p. 186)

GENDER COMPARISONS IN SEXUAL RESPONSES. The studies by Masters and Johnsonand by more recent researchers allow us to conclude that women and men arereasonably similar in the nature of their sexual responses. For example, womenand men experience similar phases in their sexual responses. Both men andwomen experience vasocongestion, and their orgasms are physiologically similar.

In addition, women and men have similar psychological reactions toorgasm. Read Demonstration 9.1 and try to guess whether a man or a womanwrote each passage. Vance and Wagner (1977) asked people to guess whichdescriptions of orgasms were written by women and which were written bymen. Most respondents were unable to guess at better than a chance level.Another gender similarity is that women can reach orgasm as quickly as menwhen the clitoral region is directly stimulated (Tavris & Wade, 1984). Weneed to emphasize, however, that women typically do not consider "faster" tobe "better"!

In general, then, men and women are reasonably similar in these internal,physiological components of sexuality. However, we'll see that gender differ-ences are larger in some other aspects of sexuality, such as sexual desire and itsconsequences.

If your high-school di cussions about "sex education" were typical, youlearned some basic information about the anatomy of sex organs, and the restof the messages focused on "just say no," including the dangers of pregnancyand sexually transmitted diseases. You were unlikely to hear the phrase "sexualdesire," especially in connection with females (Tolman, 2002). One definitionof sexual desire is "a need or drive to seek out sexual objects or to engage insexual activities" (L. M. Diamond, 2004, p. 116). A variety of sex hormones

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PSYCHOLOGICAL

REACTIONS TO

ORGASM

Try to guess whether a female or a male wrote each of the following descriptions of anorgasm. Place an F (female) or an M (male) in front of each passage. The answers appearat the end of the chapter, on page 321.

1. A sudden feeling of lightheadedness followed by an intense feeling of relief andelation. A rush. Intense muscular spasms of the whole body. Sense of euphoriafollowed by deep peace and relaxation.

2. To me, an orgasmic experience is the most satisfying pleasure that I haveexperienced in relation to any other types of satisfaction or pleasure that I'vehad, which were nonsexually oriented.

3. It is like turning a water faucet on. You notice the oncoming flow but it can beturned on or off when desired. You feel the valves open and close and the fluidflow. An orgasm makes your head and body tingle.

___ 4. A bUildup of tension which starts to pulsate very fast, and there is a suddenrelease from the tension and a desire to sleep.

___ 5. It is a pleasant, tension-relieving muscular contraction. It relieves physicaltension and mental anticipation.

___ 6. A release of a very high level of tension, but ordinarily tension is unpleasant,whereas the tension before orgasm is far from unpleasant.

7. An orgasm is a great release of tension with spasmodic reaction at the peak.This is exactly how it feels to me.

8. A building of tension, sometimes, and frustration until the climax. A tighteninginside, palpitating rhythm, explosion, and warmth and peace.

are associated with sexual desire, but social and cultural factors are similarlyimportant. In most North American communities, for instance, teenage femalesare not supposed to feel sexual desire (Tolman & Diamond, 2001a).

Feminist researchers are beginning to conclude that the gender differencesin sexual desire are larger than most other psychological gender differences(e.g., Diamond, 2004; Hyde & DeLamater, 2006; Hyde & Oliver, 2000).Compared to women, men (a) think about sex more frequently; (b) want sexualactivities more frequently; (c) initiate sexual activities more frequently; (d) aremore interested in sexual activities without a romantic commitment; and (e)prefer a greater number of sexual partners (Impett & Peplau, 2003; T. A.Lambert et aI., 2003; Mosher & Danoff-Burg, 2005; Peplau, 2003; Vohs &Baumeister, 2004).

How can we explain these gender differences in sexuality? One factor isobvious. A nude woman rarely sees her clitoris, and she may not even knowwhere to find it. A nude man can see his penis by simply looking down. He maytherefore think about masturbating, so he may be more familiar with sexualsensations (Hyde & DeLamater, 2006). Obviously, too, women are more

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concerned about pregnancy than men are. As we'll soon see, the double stan-

~~l~~I~I~~Ul ~~~lt!J~jjJ '~' II~1~1II,11~11~J 1~IWjin hormones are probably not relevant (Hyde & DeLamater, 2006).

Furthermore, some portion of these gender differences might be traceableto using male-normative standards-for instance, focusing on sexual inter-course rather than other measures of sexual desire (Peplau, 2003). In the nextdecade, researchers may draw more clear-cut conclusions about gender com-parisons in sexual desire. Furthermore, they may pay more attention to gendercomparisons in the subjective quality of sexual desire, rather than simply thestrength of sexual desire (Tolman & Diamond, 2001a).

As our theme of individual differences suggests, some women may behigher than most men with respect to sexual desire. However, the gender dif-ferences in sexual desire will help us understand several topics throughout thischapter, such as masturbation, sexual scripts, and a sexual disorder called lowsexual desire.

Backgroundon Women'sSexuality

1. Feminist psychologists argue that discussions of sexuality have paidrelatively little attention to women's perspectives and that the discussionsoveremphasize biological factors (consistent with essentialism) rather thansocial and cultural factors (consistent with social constructionism).

2. The clitoris is a sexual organ that plays a major role in women's orgasms.

3. Emotions, thoughts, and sensory stimuli are central to women's sexualresponses. Individual differences are large, and sexual responses do notfollow a rigid sequence; Masters and Johnson (1966) described four phasesof sexual response: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.

4. Female orgasms are similar whether they are produced by direct stimulationof the clitoris or by indirect stimulation; current theorists emphasize aspectsof sexuality other than genitals and orgasms.

5. Women and men are similar in their psychological reactions to orgasm, butmen are often higher in some components of sexual desire.

The previous section emphasized the biological side of sexuality-the swellinggenitals and the contracting uterus. Let's now turn to the humans who possessthese sex organs as we address several questions, such as these: What arepeople's attitudes about sexuality? How are these attitudes reflected in sexeducation aimed at young people? What sexual experiences do people report?Before you read further, however, try Demonstration 9.2 on page 297.

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JUDGMENTS

ABOUT SEXUAL

BEHAVIOR

Suppose you discover some information about the sexual behavior of a 25-year-oldunmarried person whom you know slightly. Questions 1 through 4 provide informationabout four possible people. Rate the person in terms of this person's moral values. Try torate each person separately, witho t considering the other three persons.

__ 1. A man who has had no sexual partners__ 2. A man who has had 19 sexual partners__ 3. A woman who has had no sexual partners__ 4. A woman who has had 9 sexual partners

In the current era, most North Americans believe that nonmarital intercourse isacceptable, for example, in a committed relationship. In one cross-culturalstudy, only 12% of Canadian participants and 29% of U.S. participants saidthat sex before marriage is always wrong (Widmer et a!., 1998). However,attitudes varied widely across the 24 countries in this study. Less than 5% ofrespondents in Austria, Germany, and Sweden said that premarital sex wasalways wrong, in contrast to 35% in Ireland and 60% in the Philippines.

In North America, men typically have more permissive attitudes towardsex than women do (Brehm et aI., 2002; N. M. Brown & Amatea, 2000; Hyde& Oliver, 2000). For example, a meta-analysis conducted by Oliver and Hyde(1993) demonstrated that men are significantly more permissive about pre-marital sex; the d for this gender difference was a substantial 0.81. That is,gender as a subject variable is important.

How about gender as a stimulus variable? Do people judge a man's sexualbehavior differently from a woman's sexual behavior? Before the 1960s, mostNorth Americans held a sexual double standard: They believed that premaritalsex was inappropriate for women, but it was excusable or even appropriate formen. In general, the prime-time television dramas still demonstrate the doublestandard (Aubrey, 2004). However, in real life, the double standard is lesscommon (Crooks & Baur, 2005; Marks & Fraley, 2005; Milhausen & Herold,1999). For example, both genders believe that premarital intercourse is equallyappropriate for both men and women if a couple is engaged to be married(Hatfield & Rapson, 1996).

Michael Marks and R. Chris Fraley (2005) provide some current infor-mation about the sexual double standard. Demonstration 9.2 is a greatlysimplified version of their study; also, each of the participants in their study

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rated only one person. These researchers tested both undergraduate students

Jpeop' J,espJJ toLquesaoooa", ont Lmet ~l,pame-ipants in both samples gave a lower rating to a person who had 19 sexualpartners, compared to a person who had zero sexual partners. Surprisingly, theparticipants supplied about the same ratings for the male target as for the femaletarget. In other words, they did not find evidence of a sexual double standard.It is not clear whether researchers would discover a sexual double standard ifparticipants completed the survey in a face-to-face setting, rather than on theInternet.

However, in many cultures outside North America, the double standardfrequently has life-threatening consequences for women. For example, in someAsian, Middle Eastern, and Latin American cultures, a man is expected touphold the family honor by killing a daughter, a sister, or even a mother who issuspected of engaging in "inappropriate" sexual activities (Crooks & Baur,2005; P. T. Reid & Bing, 2000; Whelehan, 2001). They typically ignore thesame sexual activity in a male family member.

A script for a play describes what people say and do. A sexual script describesthe social norms for sexual behavior, which we learn by growing up in a culture(Bowleg et aI., 2004; DeLamater & Hyde, 2004; Mahay et aI., 2002). In thetwenty-first century, our North American culture provides a sexual script forheterosexual couples: Men initiate sexual relationships. In contrast, women areexpected either to resist or to comply passively with their partner's advances(Baber, 2000; Impett & Peplau, 2002, 2003; Morokoff, 2000). According tothe traditional script, for example, the woman is supposed to wait for her dateto kiss her; she does not initiate kissing. Only one person is in charge in thisscript-based kind of relationship. Even in a long-term relationship or marriage,the male's erotic schedule may regulate sex.

Two kinds of relationships do not follow the traditional sexual script. Forinstance, women in egalitarian relationships feel free about expressing theirerotic interests, and they also feel free to decide not to have sex (Pepla u, 2003).

Furthermore, as we will see in Chapter 13, men sometimes violate thestandard sexual script. They may continue to make sexual advances, ignoringtheir partner's indication that these advances are not welcome. The male mayuse coercion, for example, by saying that he will break off a relationship if hisgirlfriend doesn't have sex with him (Brehm et aI., 2002). The most coercivesexual interaction is rape, which is forced sexual intercourse, without consent.As we discuss in Chapter 13, a woman can be raped-not just by a stranger-butalso by an acquaintance, a boyfriend, or even a husband.

In some cases, it's not clear whether a man and a woman are following asexual script. Consider, for example, a 35-year-old woman who described howher partner felt that she "should be very accessible and happy to have sex withhim when he chooses to" (Bowleg et aI., 2004, p. 75). Does this quotationrepresent the standard script, or does it sound like coercion?

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Take a moment to think about your early ideas, experiences, and attitudesabout sexuality. Was sex a topic that produced half-suppressed giggles in theschool cafeteria? Did you worry about whether you were too experienced ornot experienced enough? Sexuality is an important topic for adolescents andmany preadolescents. In this section, we will examine how children and ado-lescents learn about sexuality--at home, at school, and from the media.

PARENTS AND SEX EDUCATION. Young women are much more likely to hear aboutsexuality from their mothers than from their fathers (Baumeister & Twenge,2002; Raffaelli & Green, 2003). Furthermore, parents are not likely to talkabout pleasurable aspects of sexuality (Conrad & Milburn, 2001; Tolman &Diamond, 2001a, 2001b). As a consequence, certain topics are never discussed.For example, fewer than 1% of students in a college human sexuality coursehad heard a parent mention the word clitoris (Allgeier & Allgeier, 2000). Otherwomen recall hearing mixed messages from their parents, such as "Sexis dirty," and "Save it for someone you love" (O'Sullivan et aI., 2001;K. Wright, 1997).

Some studies have examined parent-child communications among womenof color. Latina and Asian American adolescents often report that sex is aforbidden topic with their parents, who may have conservative ideas aboutdating (Chan, 2004; Hurtado, 2003; Raffaelli & Green, 2003). Black mothersseem to feel more comfortable than Latina or European American mothers inspeaking to their daughters about sexuality. For example, one Black motherreported, "I can't remember a specific age when I first talked .... I'm real openwith my daughter as far as sex and things like that" (O'Sullivan et aI., 2001,p.279).

SCHOOLS AND SEX EDUCATION. What do our school systems say about sexuality?Many sex education programs focus on the reproductive system, in otherwords, an "organ recital." Students don't hear about the connections betweensexuality and emotions. They rarely hear about gay and lesbian perspectives,and many programs avoid discussion of contraceptives. As a result, sex edu-cation in school often has little impact on students' sexual behavior (Eastonet aI., 2002; Feldt, 2002; T. Rose, 2003).

In recent years, many school programs emphasize an oversimplified "justsay no" approach. These abstinence-only programs typically include mis-information (Bartell, 2005; Wagle, 2004). They also fail to reduce teenagers'sexual activity or their rate of sexually transmitted diseases (Daniluk & Towill,2001; S. L. Nichols & Good, 20 4: Schaalma et aI., 2004; Tolman, 2002). Still,the U.S. government spends about $300 million each year on these ineffectiveprograms (Hahn, 2004).

However, some communities in the United States have developed a morecomprehensive approach to sexual education. In addition to providing rele-vant information, these programs address values, attitudes, and emotions.

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They also provide strategies for making informed choices about sexuality

~.t~jlW~~jJjl, ]~~l~~l~ll~,]~~1.~~~~mm~ij!!~~m~~!program helps students to develop skills and behaviors, such as how to discusscontraceptives with a partner and how to actually use them. Teenagers whoparticipate in these comprehensive programs-as opposed to the abstinence-only programs-typically postpone sexual relationships until they are older,and they also have a lower pregnancy rate (S. L. Nichols & Good, 2004;Tolman, 2002).

We often hear reports about parents protesting sex education in theschools. Surprisingly, however, most parents acknowledge that high-school sexeducation classes should take a comprehensive approach (Hahn, 2004). Forexample, one large-scale U.S. survey reported that 94% of parents wanted theclasses to include information about how to deal with pressure to have sex,90% wanted information on birth control, and 79% wanted information onabortion (Hoff & Greene, 2000; S. L. Nichols & Good, 2004).

THE MEDIA. According to a survey, many teenagers report that they havelearned information about sexual issues from the media: 40% pointed totelevision and movies, a d 35% mentioned magazines (Hoff & Greene, 2000).The Internet is also an important source of information-and misinformation-about sexuality, though it has not been studied extensively (G. Cowan, 2002;Escobar-Chaves et aI., 2005; Lambiase, 2003).

Most media research focuses on the magazines. For example, the mag-azines that young women read tend to provide narrowly defined sexual scriptsabout how they can make themselves alluring to young men (J. L. Kim &Ward, 2004). Meanwhile, the magazines that young men read tend to teachthem that women are sex objects, and men can improve their sex lives by takingspecific steps (c. N. Baker, 2005; L. D. Taylor, 2005).

According to M. J. Sutton and his colleagues (2002), the average adoles-cent witnesses about 2,000 sexual acts in the media each year. Unfortunately,adolescents probably won't learn accurate information from the media. Onestudy noted that the risks of pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases arementioned in less than 0.01 %-that's 1 in 10,000-of the sexual portrayals intelevision or the movies ("Pediatrician Testifies," 2001). The clear majority ofpopular programs also do not show any consequences-either positive ornegative-for sexual activity (Cope-Farrar & Kunkel, 2002).

Furthermore, young women often report feeling that they cannot attain theperfect look portrayed in the media images of female sexuality. In one dis-cussion group, Latina women were especially likely to say that they could notmeasure up to the European American images (Delio Stritto & Guzman, 2001).Furthermore, these media images often suggest that young women are acombination of innocence and seductiveness (Kilbourne, 2003; J. L. Kim &Ward, 2004). For instance, one ad shows a young woman dressed in an old-fashioned white dress, but the dress is unbuttoned and pulled down over oneshoulder. How can a real-life teenager make sense of this mixed message to beboth sexually innocent and sexually active?

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Adolescent females are more likely to have early heterosexual experiences ifthey reached puberty before most of their peers (Bergevin et ai., 2003; Weich oldet ai., 2003). Other important predictors of females' early experiences includelow self-esteem, poor academic performance, poor parent-child relationships,poor parent-child communication, extended exposure to sexually explicitmedia, poverty, and early use of alcohol and drugs (Crockett et ai., 2002;Escobar-Chaves et ai., 2005; Farber, 2003; Furman & Shaffer, 2003; Halpern,2003; Sieverding et ai., 2005; Spencer et ai., 2002).

Ethnicity is also related to adolescent sexual experience. In the United States,for example, Black female adolescents are likely to have their first sexual inter-course one or two years before European American or Latina female adolescents(Joyner & Laumann, 2002; O'Sullivan & Meyer-Bahlburg, 2003; P. T. Reid &Bing, 2000). Asian American female adolescents are typically the least likely tohave early sexual experiences (Chan, 2004). In Canada, adolescents born in othercountries and immigrating to Canada are much less likely than Canada-bornadolescents to have early sexual experiences (Maticka-Tyndale et ai., 2001).

As you might imagine, peer pressure encourages some teenagers to becomesexually active (Kaiser Family Foundation, 2003; O'Sullivan & Meyer-Bahlburg,2003). These teenagers risk unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitteddiseases-topics we'll examine later in this chapter and in Chapter 11. In otherwords, biological, psychological, and cultural variables all have an impact onyoung women's sexual experiences (Crockett et ai., 2002).

For many adolescents, decisions about sexuality are critically important indefining their values (Tolman, 2002). For instance, one young woman wasneither judgmental nor prudish, but she had decided not to be sexually active asa teenager. As she explained:

I have certain talents and certain gifts, and I owe it to myself to take care of thosegifts. I'm not going to just throw it around, throw my body around. And I see thatsexuality is part of that. The sexual revolution-I guess we grew up in that-I thinka lot of it has cheapened something that isn't cheap. (Kamen, 2000, pp. 87-88)

Romance novels portray idealized images of young women being blissfullytransformed by their first sexual experience. However, many women do nothave positive memories of their first intercourse (Conrad & Milburn, 2001;Tiefer & Kring, 1998). The experience may also be physically painful (Tolman,2002). Furthermore, about 10% of high-school females say that they wereforced to have sexual intercourse (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention,2004a; S. L. Nichols & Good, 2004).

Some young women, in contrast, recall a highly positive experience:

We were totally in love. We wanted this to be the best experience of our lives. Wewere at his apartment and we had done everything right. We had talked about it,planned for it, saw this as the highest expression of our joint future. He was verycaring, very slow with me. I felt empowered, beautiful. It was a great night.(P. Schwartz & Rutter, 1998, p. 97)

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In summary, young women often learn about sexuality in a less-than-ideal

~lnl~111~JIIIH1rl JJI~UIIJjl, ~~~~,m UllJ J ~~~help young people make informed decisions about sexuality. In addition, manyyoung women's early sexual experiences may not be as romantic or joyous asthey had hoped.

Any survey about sexual behavior inevitably runs into roadblocks. How canresearchers manage to obtain a random sample of respondents who representall geographic regions, ethnic groups, and income levels-on a sensitive topicsuch as sexuality (Dunne, 2002)? Sociologist Edward Laumann and hiscolleagues (1994) conducted one of the most respected U.S. surveys of sexualbehavior. They interviewed 3,432 adults about a wide range of topics. Theresults showed, for example, that 17% of men claimed to have had more than20 sexual partners during their lifetime, in contrast to 3% of women.

A meta-analysis of 12 earlier studies confirmed a general trend for men toreport a somewhat greater number of sexual partners, with a d of 0.25 (Oliver &Hyde, 1993). In all these surveys, men probably overreport their number of sexualpartners, whereas women probably underreport (P. Schwartz & Rutter, 1998).

Surveys also show that masturbation is much more common for men thanfor women (Hyde & Oliver, 2000; Vohs & Baumeister, 2004). Oliver and Hyde(1993) reported a d of 0.96, a much larger gender difference than others we'vediscussed in this book. For instance, in the survey by Laumann and his colleagues(1994),27% of men and 8% of women reported that they masturbated at leastonce a week. As researchers note, it's strange that this risk-free sexual activity ismissing from many women's sexual scripts (Baber, 2000; Shulman & Horne,2003). Some of the gender differences in masturbation can be traced to the moreobvious prominence of the male genitals (Oliver & Hyde, 1993) and to genderdifferences in sexual desire, discussed on pages 294-295. The gender differenceswith respect to masturbation may well have some important theoretical signif-icance as well as practical implications for male and female sexuality.

COMMUNICATION ABOUT SEXUALITY

We mentioned earlier in this section that parents often feel uncomfortable talkingabout sex with their children. Actually, most couples also feel uncomfortabletalking with each other about sexual activity. Most people try to communicatetheir sexual desire by nonverbal communication, such as kissing or touching.Women are somewhat more likely than men to use verbal messages, such asasking if their male partner has a condom (Hickman & Muehlenhard, 1999).

One problem, however, is that it's difficult to convey some messages aboutsexuality. Suppose that you are a female, and you want to convey to a male,"I'm not certain whether I'm interested in sexual activity." Most women reportthat they have trouble communicating this message verbally (Brehm et aI.,2002; O'Sullivan & Gaines, 1998). Now try imagining how you would convey

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THE SEXUAL

ASSERTIVENESS

SCALE FOR

WOMEN

The items listed in this demonstration were shown to women students at a large stateuniversity in the Northeast. The women were asked to rate each item, using a scale where1 = disagree strongly and 5 = agree strongly. Your task is to inspect each item andestimate the average rating that the women supplied for that item (e.g., 2.8). When youhave finished, check page 321 to see how the women actually responded. (Note: Thisdemonstration is based on Morokoff et aI., 1997, but it contains only 6 of the 18 items; thevalidity of this short version has not been established.)

1. I let my partner know if I want my partner to touch my genitals.2. I wait for my partner to touch my breasts instead of letting my partner know

that's what I want.3. I give in and kiss if my partner pressures me, even if I already said no.4. I refuse to have sex if I don't want to, even if my partner insists.5. I have sex without a condom or latex barrier if my partner doesn't like them,

even if I want to use one.6. I insist on using a condom or latex barrier if I want to, even if my partner

doesn't.

Source: From Morokoff, P. J., et al. (1997). Sexual Assertiveness Scale (SAS) for women: Developmentand validation. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 73, 804 (appendix). © 1997 by theAmerican Psychological Association. Reprinted with permission.

this ambivalent message nonverbally to a romantic partner, and you cananticipate some communication difficulties. Women may try to communicatethis uncertainty, but men may ot understand the message (Tolman, 2002).

One important development in the area of sexual communication focuseson women's sexual assertiveness (P. B. Anderson & Struckman-Johnson,1998). Previous research had suggested that women may hesitate to say no tomen's sexual advances because they don't want to hurt their partner's feelings.Patricia Morokoff and her colleagues (1997) developed a Sexual AssertivenessScale for women. Try Demonstration 9.3, which includes some of the questionsfrom the Sexual Assertiveness cale. Then check the answers at the end of thechapter. Were you fairly accurate in predicting the women's answers? Did thisexercise provide any new insights into your own communication patterns withrespect to sexual activity?

Another important topic focuses on sexual self-disclosure. For instance,E. Sandra Byers and Stephanie Demmons (1999) surveyed Canadian collegestudents who had been dating for at least 3 months. These researchers foundthat respondents were relucta t to talk with their partner about the sexualactivities that they liked or disliked. However, those who provided more self-disclosure were likely to be more satisfied with the sexual aspects of theirrelationship. This correlation is consistent with some information from Chapter 8:Married couples are more satisfied with their relationship if they have goodcommunication skills.

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Most of this chapter focuses on heterosexual relationships. Is sexuality dif-ferent in lesbian relationships? As you can anticipate, it is more challenging tofind a representative sample of lesbian women who are willing to be interviewed.The research suggests that lesbian couples value nongenital physical contact,such as hugging and cuddling (Klinger, 1996; McCormick, 1994). However, ourNorth American culture tends to define sexual activity in terms of genitalstimulation and orgasm. Researchers with that operational definition ofsexual activity might conclude that lesbian couples are less sexually activethan heterosexual couples or gay male couples (L. M. Diamond, 2003a;Peplau & Beals, 2001). This conclusion would be especially true for coupleswho have been together for many years (Haley-Banez & Garrett, 2002; Vohs &Baumeister, 2004).

When lesbians do engage in genital sexual activity, they are more likelythan heterosexual women to experience an orgasm. Some possible explan-ations for this difference are that lesbian couples may communicate moreeffectively and be more sensitive to each other's preferences. They may alsoengage in more kissing and caressing than heterosexual couples do (Hatfield &Rapson, 1996; Herbert, 1996).

Laura S. Brown (2000) wrote that lesbians are like the early mapmakerswho must construct their own maps about the unknown territories of lesbiansexuality. After all, the well-established maps-or scripts-represent hetero-sexual territory. Also, some adolescent lesbians mention that they had to keeptheir sexual desires hidden. Later, when they entered a romantic relationship,they found it difficult to express these desires. An additional challenge is thatour culture does not tolerate evidence of sexual affection between two womenin public places. I recall a lesbian friend commenting that she feels sad andresentful that she and her partner cannot hold hands or hug each other inpublic, and kissing would be unthinkable.

Women's reproductive systems change somewhat as women grow older. Aswe'll discuss in Chapter 14, estrogen production drops rapidly at menopause.As a result, the vagina loses some of its elasticity and may also produce lessmoisture (Foley et ai., 2002). However, these problems can be at least partlycorrected by using supplemental lubricants. Also, women who have beensexually active throughout their lives may not experience vaginal changes(Hyde & DeLamater, 2006). Furthermore, it's worth questioning a popularbelief that a decrease in hormone levels causes a decrease in sexual interest; nosolid research supports that proposal (Kingsberg, 2002; Rostosky & Travis,2000).

Researchers often report that the frequency of genital sexual activity declinesas heterosexual and lesbian women grow older (Burgess, 2004; Dennersteinet ai., 2003). However, a woman's age doesn't have a strong influence on her

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enjoyment of sex (Burgess, 2004; Laumann et aI., 2002). The best predictorsof a woman's sexual satisfaction are her feeling of well-being and her emo-tional closeness with her partner, rather than more "biological" measuressuch as vaginal moisture (Bancroft et aI., 2003).

In a study by Mansfield and her colleagues (1998), many older womenemphasized the importance of "sweet warmth and constant tenderness" and"physical closeness and intimacy." As one woman wrote, "Touching, hugging,holding, become as or more important than the actual sex act" (p. 297). Notice,then, that these studies emphasize a broad definition of sexuality, rather than afocus on the genitals.

In general, older women maintain the physiological capability to expe-rience an orgasm as well as an enthusiastic interest in sexual relationships.However, they may no longer have a partner. In addition, some heterosexualolder women may have male sexual partners who are no longer able tomaintain an erection. These men may stop all caressing and sexual activitiesonce intercourse is not possible (Ellison, 2001; Kingsberg, 2002; Leiblum &Segraves, 2000).

Another problem is that North Americans seem to think that olderwomen should be asexual. Our culture has constructed images of grand-mothers baking cookies in the kitchen, not cavorting around in the bedroom.In some cultures that are generally negative about sexuality, such as thepeople of Uttar Pradesh in Northern India, older women are expected notto be sexually active. In contrast, in sex-positive cultures, such as the San ofAfrica or Chinese Taoists, sexuality is considered healthy for the elderly(Whelehan,2001).

Sexuality seems to be condemned more in older women than in older men(c. Banks & Arnold, 2001). People often view a sexually eager older womanwith suspicion or disgust. A manufacturer of lingerie has tried to revise thisview with ads of older women in lacy underwear and quotes such as "Time is apurification system that has made me wiser, freer, better, some say sexier. Arethose the actions of an enemy?" Of course, this advertising strategy may not bemotivated by altruism or feminist convictions. Still, the ads may help to changeviews about women's sexuality in later life.

Sexual Attitudesand Behavior

1. Most North Americans believe that sex before marriage is acceptable insome circumstances. The double standard about sexuality is no longerwidespread in North America. However, in some Asian, Middle Eastern,andLatin American cultures, a woman may be killed for suspected sexualactivity, whereas a man is allowed sexual freedom.

2. Sexual scripts specify what women and men in a certain culture aresupposed to do in sexual interactions; for example, men are supposed totake the initiative in sexual activity.

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3. Young people typically report that their parents do not discuss pleasurable

~~[ ~11I~~·~~~~r~)In~.~~.~~~~[~~~~~~~"abstinence-only" sex education programs; they usually fail to explorethe topics most relevant to adolescents. More comprehensive schoolprograms discuss emotions and decision-making strategies. The mediafrequently portray sexuality, but they seldom show the consequences ofsexual activity.

4. Most women report that their first experience with intercourse was notpositive; about 10% of women report that their first experience was forcedintercourse.

5. The research shows that men report more sexual partners than women doand that men are much more likely to report masturbating.

6. Couples seem to experience difficulty communicating about sexual issues;an important component of communication is sexual assertiveness; coupleswho discuss their preferences about sexual activities are more likely to besatisfied with the sexual aspects of their relationships.

7. Lesbian couples typically value nongenital physical contact; compared toheterosexual women, they are more likely to experience an orgasm, perhapsbecause of better communication.

8. Many older women experience subtle changes in their sexual responding,but not necessarily decreased enjoyment; however, lack of a partner is oftenan important obstacle to older women's sexual activities.

A sexual disorder is a disturbance in sexual arousal or in sexual responding thatcauses mental distress (L. L. Alexander et aI., 2004; Hyde & DeLamater,2006). As you might guess, it's difficult to estimate how many women expe-rience these sexual problems. However, one survey sampled 1,749 sexuallyactive women in the United States. According to the women's reports, 43% ofthe women had sexual experiences that were less than ideal (Laumann et aI.,2002). Sexual dissatisfaction was especially high among women who had littleeducation and women who experienced general depression or economicproblems. Furthermore, sexual problems may arise because people are simplytoo tired at the end of the day (Deveny, 2003; Shifren & Ferrari, 2004).

In this section on sexual disorders, we first examine two of the morecommon sexual problems in women: low sexual desire and female orgasmicdisorder. Then we will ee how traditional gender roles are partly responsiblefor sexual problems. Finally, we'll discuss therapy for sexual problems,including some thought-provoking questions raised by feminist theorists andresearchers (e.g., Kaschak & Tiefer, 2001; Tiefer, 2004).

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As the name suggests, a woman with low sexual desire (also called hypoactivesexual desire disorder) has little interest in sexual activity, and she is distressedby this lack of desire (Basson, 2006; Hyde & DeLamater, 2006; LoPiccolo,2002). Earlier in this chapter, we noted that women maybe somewhat lower insexual desire than men. One woman who reported low sexual desire had beenhappily married for 31 years, and she reported that her husband was a gentleand considerate lover. However, she remained entirely passive during love-making. In fact, she kept her mind busy creating menus and making shoppinglists (H. S. Kaplan, 1995).

A disorder of low sexual desire may be caused by a variety of psychologicalfactors, including a more general problem such as depression or anxiety(Wincze & Carey, 2001). A woman who is not satisfied with her romanticpartner or their relationship may also experience little sexual desire (Hyde &DeLamater, 2006; O'Sullivan et aI., 2006; Schnarch, 2000).

Low sexual desire is one of the most common sexual problem that lesbiansface. In many cases, a lesbian couple may have a harmonious social relation-ship. However, they no longer have sexual interactions because the moresexually interested member of a lesbian couple is reluctant to pressure her lessenthusiastic partner (M. Nichols, 2000).

A woman with female orgasmic disorder experiences sexual excitement, butshe does not reach orgasm. Exactly what constitutes an orgasm problem? Somewomen want to have an orgasm every time they engage in sexual activity.Others are satisfied if they feel emotionally close to their partner during sexualactivity. The diagnosis of female orgasmic disorder should not be applied if awoman is currently satisfied with her situation. For example, suppose that awoman reaches orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but not during inter-course. If she feels satisfied with her sexual experiences, most feminist sextherapists would say that she s ould not be diagnosed with female orgasmicdisorder (Hyde & DeLamater, 2006).

One common cause of female orgasmic disorder is that women who areaccustomed to inhibiting their sexual impulses have difficulty overcoming theirinhibitions, even in a relationship where sex is approved. Other women haveorgasm problems because they are anxious about losing control over theirfeelings (LoPiccolo, 2002). They may be embarrassed about experiencing suchintense pleasure. Still others are easily distracted during sexual activity. Theymay suddenly focus on a distant noise rather than on the sexual sensations(Wincze & Carey, 2001). And many women may not have orgasms becausetheir partners do not provide appropriate sexual stimulation. Unfortunately,female orgasmic disorder is a relatively common sexual problem (Baber, 2000;Heiman, 2000).

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Sexual problems are extremely complex. Some are caused by a painful medicalproblem or a side effect of medication (Wincze & Carey, 2001). The problemsmay also be caused by a psychological trauma experienced many years earlier(Offman & Matheson, 2004). Other psychological factors include low self-esteem and problems in a couple's interactions (Crooks & Baur, 2005).

Gender roles, stereotypes, and biases may also contribute to sexual prob-lems. As feminists have pointed out, a heterosexual marriage is typically anunequal playing field, with the man having more power (Tiefer, 1996; Tolman &Diamond, 2001b). Here are some reasons that gender roles can create orintensify sexual problems (Baber, 2000; Crooks & Baur, 2005; Foley et aI.,2002; LoPiccolo, 2002; Morokoff, 1998):

1. Many people believe that men should be sexual and aggressive, whereaswomen should be asexual and passive; people therefore believe that womendon't need to enjoy sexual activity.

2. Our culture emphasizes the length, strength, and endurance of a man'spenis (Zilbergeld, 1999). When a man focuses on these issues, he probablywon't think about how to make the interactions pleasurable for his partner.

3. Because of the emphasis on male sexuality, researchers know how physicalillness and drugs affect men's sexual responses. However, they know muchless about their effects on female sexuality. Consistent with Theme 3 of thisbook, women are relatively invisible.

4. Women are hesitant to appear selfish by requesting the kind of sexualactivity they enjoy, such as tender caresses or clitoral stimulation.Stereotypes suggest that women should give rather than request.

5. Physical attractiveness is emphasized more for females than for males, andso women may focus on their physical appearance, rather than on theirown sexual pleasure.

Let's consider this last point in more detail. We discussed the importance offemale attractiveness in the sections on adolescence and dating. Furthermore,we'll encounter this issue again in Chapter 12 in connection with eating dis-orders and in Chapter 14, on older women.

The reality is that many men may prefer to think about women's bodies asthey are airbrushed into perfection in a magazine like Playboy, rather than thebodies that belong to the women they know. Gary R. Brooks (1997) referred tothis problem as the "Centerfold Syndrome." Women who feel less than per-fectly attractive-that is, almost all women-may worry about their physicalappearance. Women may therefore experience self-objectification, by adoptingan observer's view of their body-as if their body were an object (T. Roberts &Waters, 2004). In a cleverly designed study, Tomi-Ann Roberts and JenniferGettman (2004) encouraged one group of young women to think about wordsrelated to their body's competence, such as health, energetic, and strong. Youngwomen in a second group were encouraged to think about "objectifying" wordssuch as attractive, shapely, and slender. Compared to the women in the "physical

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competence" condition, those in the "objectifying" condition were moreashamed, disgusted, and anxious about themselves. The women in the "objec-tifying" condition were also less positive about the physical aspects of sexuality.

In summary, our culture emphasizes men's sexuality, focusing on malegenitals and the treatment of male sexual problems. In contrast, women'ssexual enjoyment receives little attention. In addition, self-objectificationencourages women's sexual problems.

THERAPY FOR SEXUAL DISORDERS

In 1970, Masters and Johnson introduced a kind of sex therapy called sensatefocus. Sensate focus encourages couples to focus on their sensual experiencesand to avoid trying to quickly reach a goal such as orgasm. Partners touch andstroke so that they can discover sensitive areas on their own body and on theirpartner's body, and they are encouraged to focus on these pleasant sensations(LoPiccolo, 2002; Wincze & Carey, 2001). Later in the therapy, clitoralmasturbation is encouraged for female orgasmic problems.

Sensate focus is widely used in sex therapy, even though few studies havebeen conducted to document its effectiveness (Christensen & Heavey, 1999). Itmay sometimes be helpful, but it doesn't offer a complete answer (Wincze &Carey, 2001). For example, this approach may not pay enough attention to thetender, loving, and caring aspects of lovemaking (Tiefer, 2004).

Sex therapists have developed many other techniques (e.g., LoPiccolo,2002). For example, cognitive-behavioral therapy combines behavioral exer-cises, such as those that Masters and Johnson (1970) suggested, with therapytechniques that emphasize people's thoughts about sexuality. In a populartechnique called cognitive restructuring, the therapist tries (1) to changepeople's inappropriately negative thoughts about some aspect of sexualityand also (2) to reduce thoughts that interfere with sexual activity and pleasure(Basson, 2006; Wincze & Carey, 2001).

However, all Of these traditional approaches to sex therapy may be toolimited. Leonore Tiefer (1996, 2001, 2004), one of the leading feminist sextherapists, points out that sex al problems must be addressed from a broadsocial perspective rather than by focusing on biological aspects:

The amount of time devoted to getting the penis hard and the vagina wet vastlyoutweighs the attention devoted to assessment or education about sexual motives,scripts, pleasure, power, emotionality, sensuality, communication, or connected-ness. (Tiefer, 2001, p. 90)

So far, unfortunately, sex therapists have not devised a comprehensiveprogram that addresses gender inequalities in a relationship while also cor-recting specific problems in sexual responding. An ideal comprehensive pro-gram would award equal value to women's and men's pleasurable experiences.Tenderness, emotional closeness, and communication are also essential (Basson,2006; O'Sullivan et al., 2006).

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1womanllas aLL caJ ow sexuaLe las ,~e,Jer~l,nsexual activity and is unhappy about the situation. Depression, otherpsychological problems, and relational issues may contribute to this disorder.

2. A woman who has female orgasmic disorder feels sexual excitement butdoes not experience orgasm. Psychological factors (e.g., anxiety aboutlosing control) and inadequate sexual stimulation are often responsible.

3. Gender roles contribute to sexual disorders in several ways: (a) Womenaren't supposed to be interested in sex; (b) male gender roles createproblems; (c) sexuality research emphasizes male sexuality; (d) women arehesitant to request their preferred sexual stimulation; and (e) physicalattractiveness is emphasized for females more than for males, so thatfemales may experience self-objectification.

4. Masters and Johnson's (1970) sensate focus therapy may sometimes behelpful and so may cognitive-behavioral therapy techniques such ascognitive restructuring.

5. A feminist perspective on sex therapy emphasizes that the traditionalapproaches are too narrow; instead, therapy should adopt a broaderperspective that includes gender equality, tenderness, and communication.

Birth control and abortion are highly controversial topics in the current cen-tury. The most publicized data about birth control and abortion in the UnitedStates typically focus on teenagers. Unfortunately, U.S. adolescents are morelikely to give birth than adolescents in any other industrialized country inthe world (Singh & Darroch, 2000; United Nations, 2005b). In Table 9.1 onpage 311, you can see estimated birthrates for Canada, the United States, andmany countries in Western Europe. (We'll discuss the abortion rates inTable 9.1 later in this chapter.)

Figure 9.2 shows estimates of the outcomes for the more than 800,000 teenpregnancies in the United States each year (Alan Guttmacher Institute, 2004).]A young woman who does not experience a miscarriage or a stillbirth mustmake an extremely important decision: Should she carry the pregnancy to term,or should she seek an abortion? Should she choose marriage, or should shebecome a single mother? Should she give up her baby for adoption?

In this section, we will first discuss women's decisions about contraception,and then we'll look at some information about abortion and other alternatives.

lUnfortunately, no comparable analysis is available for the options faced by pregnant teenagers inCanada. However, as Table 9.1 shows, a teenager in Canada is less than half as likely as a U.S.teenager to become pregnant. Also, the abortion rate is somewhat lower in Canada.

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Miscarriagesand stillbirths

117,350

ANNUAL RATE OF ADOLESCENT BIRTHS (PER 1,000 WOMEN,AGES 15-19) FOR CANADA, THE UNITED STATES, AND 10COUNTRIES IN WESTERN EUROPE.

Country Birth Rate Abortion Rate

Belgium 14 5Canada 20 21Denmark 8 14France 9 10Germany 10 4Italy 7 5Netherlands 8 4Norway 11 19Spain 9 5

Sweden 7 17United Kingdom 29 18United States 49 29

Note: Several countries in Western Europe are missing because data on abortion were nor available.Source for birth data: United Nations (2005b).Source for abortion data: Reproduced with the petmission of The Alan Currmachet Institute from Singh, S., &Darroch, J. E. (2000). Adolescent pregnancy and childbearing: Levels and trends in developed countries. FamilyPlanning Perspectives, 32, 14-23 (data selected from Table 2, p. 16).

Teenagepregnancies

821,810

Pregnanciesterminated -352,820

live births468,990

Abortions235,470

Marriagesbefore birth

98,490

Unmarriedmothers

370,500

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~I~III,I~~~i~~~~I~I ~ ~[ ~ [ ~!~[have widespread political and economic consequences, for instance in thebillions of dollars that the United States spends each year in costs related toteen pregnancy. For example, in New York State, every dollar spent on familyplanning saves at least three dollars later, just on the cost of prenatal andnewborn care (Family Planning Advocates of New York State, 2005).

If a sexually active woman uses no form of birth control whatsoever, she hasan 85% chance of becoming pregnant within 1 year (Hatcher et a!., 2004).Table 9.2 describes the major forms of birth control, together with someinformation about their effectiveness. You'll note that abstinence is the onlymethod of birth control that is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. Inearlier decades, people who recommended abstinence might have been con-sidered prudish. However, in the current era, sexual intercourse presents notonly a substantial risk of pregnancy for women but also a significant risk ofcontracting a deadly disease. As we will discuss in Chapter 11, very few birth

Effectiveness WhenUsed Consistently

100% effective

Tubal ligation (severing offemale's fallopian tubes)

Vasectomy (surgery to preventpassage of male's sperm)

Oral contraceptives (synthetichormones taken by woman)

Spermicidal creams (but nocondom or diaphragm)

No physical disadvantages (assuming nosperm contact whatsoever).

Minor surgical risk; typically not reversible;possible negative emotional reactions.

Minor surgical risk; typically not reversible;possible negative emotional reactions.

Slight risk of blood-clotting disorders,particularly for women over 35 and smokers;other medical side effects possible; must betaken regularly.

Must be applied before intercourse;may decrease pleasure for male.

Must be applied before intercourse;may irritate genital area.

Must be applied before intercourse;may irritate genital area.

Note: Fat more information, consult L. L. Alexander et aJ. (2004), Crooks and Baut (2005), Hatcher et aJ. (2004), and Hyde and DeLamater(2006).

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control methods can reduce the risk of AIDS. Even condoms cannot completelyprevent the transmission of this disease. Yes, they make sex safer, but notcompletely safe.

Incidentally, Table 9.2 does not list two behavioral birth control methods:(1) withdrawal (removal of the penis before ejaculation) and (2) the rhythmmethod, also known as natural family planning (intercourse only when awoman is least fertile). These methods are not listed because their effectivenessis unacceptably low: less than 80% (Alan Guttmacher Institute, 2005; Foleyet aI., 2002; Hatcher et aI., 2004).

Let's focus on the psychological aspects of birth control. We need toconsider the personal characteristics related to using birth control, the obstaclesthat prevent its use, and family planning in developing countries.

Many heterosexual women who are sexually active use either an unreliablebirth control method (such as foam, withdrawal, or rhythm) or no contra-ception at all. Because they do not always use effective birth control methods,many women have unplanned pregnancies. We saw, for example, thatapproximately 800,000 U.S. teenagers become pregnant each year. If weconsider women of all ages in the United States, about half of all pregnancieswere unintended at the time of conception (Alan Guttmacher Institute, 2005).

Here are some relevant factors related to women's birth control use:

1. Social class. Women from the middle and upper socioeconomic classes aremore likely to use birth control (Allgeier & Allgeier, 2000; Farber, 2003).

2. Ethnicity. In the United States, birth control use is higher for EuropeanAmerican women and Asian women than for Latina women and Blackwomen (Kaiser Family Foundation, 2003). We do not have comparabledata about other ethnic groups.

3. Level of education. Women who have had at least some college educationare somewhat more likely than other women to use birth control (E. Beckeret aI., 1998). However, according to one study, only 52% of womenwho had at least a master' degree reported that they consistently usedcontraception (Laumann et aI., 1994). In other words, about half of thesewell-educated women could face an unplanned pregnancy.

4. Personality characteristics. Research on adolescents shows that youngwomen are more likely to use contraceptives if they are high in self-esteemand if they dislike taking risks (E. Becker et aI., 1998; N. J. Bell et aI., 1999).

OBSTACLES TO USING BIRTH CONTROL

Why are half of all U.S. pregnancies unplanned? The problem is that manyobstacles stand in the way of using effective birth control. A woman whoavoids pregnancy must have adequate knowledge about contraception. Shemust also have access to it, and she must be willing to use it on a consistent

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basis. In Canadian and u.s. surveys of sexually active young adults, only about

]{ [ l~~~[ IIMII~~I~~~ml!~~~llij~~~~~I~~~[~t~[~I~t~~I[(Fields, 2002; Statistics Canada, 2000).

In more detail, here are some of the obstacles to using birth control:

1. Parents and educators often avoid discussing birth control with youngpeople because they "don't want to give them any ideas." As a result, manyyoung people are misinformed or have gaps in their knowledge (Feldt,2002; Kaiser Family Foundation, 2003; Tolman, 2002).

2. Some young women cannot obtain contraceptive services or products, sothey use less reliable forms of birth control (Feldt, 2002; Hyde & DeLamater,2006). Other women in the United States have no health insurance, or theirhealth insurance does not cover birth control (Alan Guttmacher Institute,2001).

3. Many young women have sexual intercourse without much planning. In asurvey of Canadian female college students going to Florida over springbreak, 13% reported that they had sex with someone they had just met(Maticka-Tyndale et aI., 1998). In a sample of U.S. college students, 26%reported having had intercourse with someone they had met earlier thesame night. Casual sex does not encourage conversations and carefulplanning about contraception strategies (M. Allen et aI., 2002; Hyde &DeLamater, 2006; . L. Nichols & Good, 2004).

4. People may not think rationally about the consequences of sexual activity.For example, sexually inexperienced women often believe that theythemselves are not likely to become pregnant during intercourse (Brehmet aI., 2002; Hyde & DeLamater, 2006). A survey of adolescents in theUnited States revealed another example of irrational thinking. Forinstance, 67% of adolescent females in this sample reported that theyuse condoms "all the time," yet only 50% of them said that they had usedcondoms during the last time they had sexual intercourse (Kaiser FamilyFoundation, 2003). A Canadian survey reported a similar discrepancy(H. R. L. Richardson et aI., 1997).

5. Traditional women believe that, if they were to obtain contraception, theywould be admitting to themselves that they planned to have intercourseand are therefore not "nice girls" (Luker, 1996; Tolman, 2002). In fact,college students downgrade a woman who is described as providing acondom before sexual intercourse (D. M. Castaneda & Collins, 1998;Hynie et aI., 1997).

6. People often believe that birth control devices will interrupt the love-making mood, because they are not considered erotic or romantic (Perloff,2001). Condoms and other contraceptives are seldom mentioned inmovies, television, romantic novels, and magazines, as Demonstration 9.4shows. We can see a woman and a man undressing, groping, groaning, andcopulating. The one taboo topic seems to be contraception! Interestingly,women who read romance novels are especially likely to have negativeattitudes toward contraception (Diekman et aI., 2000).

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CONTRACEPTION

AS A TABOO

TOPIC

For the next two weeks, keep a record of the number of times you see or hear aboutcouples in sexual relationships in the media. Monitor television programs, movies, storiesin magazines, books, and the Internet, as well as any other source that seems relevant. Ineach case, note whether contraceptives are mentioned, shown, or even hinted at.

7. Many young women are forced to have sexual intercourse, often with amuch older man (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2004a).When a 14-year-old female has a partner who is a 21-year-old male, she isunlikely to persuade him to wear a condom.

Earlier in the chapter, we noted that schools must develop more compre-hensive sex education programs. Communities need to be sure that adolescentsreceive appropriate information before they become sexually active. We alsoneed to change people's attitudes toward contraception. People might usecontraceptives more often if the women in soap operas were shown discussingbirth control methods with their gynecologists and if the macho men of themovie screen carefully adjusted their condoms before the steamy love scenes.

CONTRACEPTION AND FAMILY PLAN ING IN DEVELOPING COUNTRIES

In the United States, 74% of couples who are of childbearing age use some kindof contraceptive. The percentage is almost identical for Canada: 73%. Howabout developing countries throughout the world? The data vary widely. Fewerthan 5% of couples use contraceptives in Ethiopia, Angola, and many otherAfrican countries. However, in Cuba, 70% of couples use contraceptives-almost the same as in North America (Neft & Levine, 1997; Stout & DelioBuono, 1996). Even in some countries that are predominantly Catholic, therates of contraceptive use are high (Neft & Levine, 1997). These countriesinclude France (81 %), Brazil (78%), and Italy (78%).

One of the best predictors of contraceptive use in developing countries isthe female literacy rate (Winter, 1996). For example, if we consider the entirecountry of India, 31 % of high-school-age girls are in school, and the averageadult woman has 3.7 children. Kerala is one of the states in India. In Kerala,93 % of high-school-age girls are in school, and the average adult woman hasonly 2.0 children (B. Lott, 2000). That number is nearly identical to the averagenumber for U.S. women, which is 1.9 (Townsend, 2003).

When women are well educated, they are likely to take control of their livesand make plans for the future. By limiting their family size, they can increasetheir economic and personal freedom-and not contribute to the world'soverpopulation (P. D. Harvey, 2000). They can also provide better care for thechildren they already have.

The use of contraceptives throughout the world has been rising steadily,with between 50% and 60% of couples practicing contraception (David &

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Tiirmen, 1995). When we add the millions of unmarried couples who also haveno available family planning, the numbers are staggering. In fact, in the next5 minutes, about 950 women throughout the world will have conceived apregnancy that is not wanted (David & Russo, 2003). Each woman willprobably need to make choices about continuing with a pregnancy, giving thechild up for adoption, or having an abortion. Let's now explore the contro-versial topic of abortion and the alternatives.

Before 1973 in the United States, many abortions were performed illegally,often by untrained individuals in unsanitary conditions. Each year, an esti-mated 200,000 to 1,200,000 illegal abortions were performed and about10,000 women died from these illegal abortions (Gorney, 1998). Before 1973,countless women also attempted to end an unwanted pregnancy themselves.They swallowed poisons such as turpentine, and they tried to stab coat hangersand other sharp objects through the cervix and into the uterus (Baird-Windle &Bader, 2001; Gorney, 1998).

In 1973, the U.S. Supreme Court's Roe v. Wade decision stated thatwomen have the legal right to choose abortion. However, throughout NorthAmerica, health-care professionals who perform abortions have been harassedor even murdered by so-called pro-life groups. Abortion clinics have also beenbombed (Baird-Windle & Bader, 2001; Feldt, 2002; Quindlen, 2001b). In1998, anti-abortionists murdered gynecologist Barnett Slepian in Amherst,New York, about an hour's drive from my home.

It's worth noting that cigarette smoking nearly doubles a woman's chancesof having a miscarriage and losing her baby (Ness et a!., 1999). However, pro-life groups have not yet harassed the tobacco companies.

Let's emphasize an important point: No one recommends abortion as aroutine form of birth control. We need to provide more comprehensive edu-cation about sexuality so that women do not need to consider the abortionalternative (Adler et a!., 2003). As you can see from Table 9.1 on page 311, theadolescent abortion rate is higher in the United States and Canada than in allother countries on this list. Worldwide, about 50 million abortions are per-formed each year for women of all ages. About 40% of these abortions areillegal (Caldwell & Caldwell, 2003; C. P. Murphy, 2003; United Nations,2000). Worldwide, about 120 women die every 5 minutes from an unsafeabortion (David & Russo, 2003). Most of these abortions could have beenavoided by using effective birth control methods.

About one-quarter of all pregnancies in the United States and Canada areterminated by means of a legal abortion (Singh et a!., 2003; Statistics Canada,2000). Compared to women who continue an unwanted pregnancy, pregnantwomen who seek abortions are more likely to be single women from middle-classor upper-class backgrounds (S. S. Brown & Eisenberg, 1995; L. Phillips, 1998).

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Abortion may be a controversial issue, but one aspect of abortion is notcontroversial: its safety. A woman in the United States is about 30 times morelikely to die as a result of childbirth than as a result of a legal abortion (Adleret aI., 2003). As a general rule, women who have abortions performed shortlyafter conception have fewer medical complications, and they recover morequickly than women who had later abortions (Allgeier & Allgeier, 2000). Incontrast to this objective information about methods, numbers, and safety, wemust now consider the more difficult topics, focusing on the psychologicalaspects of abortion.

PSYCHOLOGICALREACTIONSTOA ABORTIO. Most women report that their primaryreaction following an abortion is relief (David & Lee, 2001; Russo, 2004).Some women experience sadness, a sense of loss, or other negative feelings.Consistent with Theme 4 of this textbook, individual differences in emotionalreactions are large (Major et aI., 1998; Russo, 2004). However, studies showthat the typical woman who has an abortion suffers no long-term effects, suchas problems with depression, anxiety, or self-esteem (N. E. Adler et aI., 2003;E. Lee, 2003; C. P. Murphy, 2 03; Russo, 2004).

What factors are related to psychological adjustment following an abor-tion? In general, women who cope most easily are those who have the abortionearly in their pregnancy (Allgeier & Allgeier, 2000). Another important psy-chological factor related to adjustment is self-efficacy, or a woman's feelingthat she is competent and effective (Major et aI., 1998). Not surprisingly,adjustment is also better if the woman's friends and relatives can support herdecision (N. E. Adler & Smith, 1998; David & Lee, 2001). A medical staff thatis helpful and supportive during the abortion also contributes to good adjust-ment (De Puy & Dovitch, 1997, p. 56).

CHILDRENBORNTOWOMENWHOWEREDENIEDABORTIONS.In many cases, a womanwants to obtain an abortion, but circumstances (such as lack of money) preventthe abortion. As a result, many women will give birth to children who are notwanted. Let's focus on these unwanted children: How do they develop psy-chologically under these circumstances?

Abortion has been legal in the United States since 1973, so researcherscannot accurately examine that question in this country. However, severalstudies in other countries provide some answers. Consider a long-term studyconducted with 220 children whose mothers were denied abortions in theformer Czechoslovakia (David et aI., 1988; David et aI., 2003). Each of thesechildren was carefully matched-on the basis of eight different variables suchas social class-with a child from a wanted pregnancy. As a result, the twogroups were comparable.

The study showed that, by 9 years of age, the children from unwantedpregnancies had fewer friends and responded poorly to stress, compared tochildren from wanted pregnancies. By age 23, the children from unwantedpregnancies were more likely to report that their mothers were not interested inthem. These children were also likely to receive psychological treatment. In

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these two groups continues to show psychological problems when theseunwanted children are adults, whereas the wanted children have relatively fewproblems (David & Lee, 2001; David et al., 2003).

Other similar studies show that many mothers of unwanted childrencontinue to report negative emotions and a lack of concern about those chil-dren many years later (J. S. Barber et al., 1999; Sigal et al., 2003). Theseimplications for children's lives should be considered when governments try tomake informed decisions about abortion policies.

ALTERNATIVES TO ABORTION. Unplanned pregnancies can be resolved by methodsother than abortion. For example, people who oppose abortion often suggestthe alternative of giving the baby up for adoption, and this might be anappropriate choice for some women. However, adoption may create its ownkind of trauma and pain when the birth mother continues to feel guilty (David &Lee, 2001; Feldt, 2002; MariAnna, 2002). One woman who gave up herdaughter for adoption commented two years later:

I'm sad that I don't see her-the first steps, the first tooth. I'm missing everything,missing her discovering life. I love her, I love her to death. If tomorrow they were tocall and say there's a problem, we need a heart, we need something, I'm there. Iwouldn't even think twice about it. If that means I have to give my life for her, I'll doit. (Englander, 1997, p. 114)

Another alternative is to deliver the baby and choose the motherhoodoption. In many cases, an unwanted pregnancy can become a wanted baby bythe time of delivery. However, hundreds of thousands of babies are born eachyear to mothers who do not want them. This situation can be destructivefor both the mother and the child. In the United States, most adolescentswho choose to give birth are currently choosing to become single mothers(Farber, 2003; Florsheim et al., 2003). Unfortunately, most unmarried teenagemothers encounter difficulties in completing school, finding employment,fighting poverty, obtaining health care, and facing the biases that unmarriedmothers often confront in our culture (Hellenga et al., 2002; MariAnna, 2002;S. L. Nichols & Good, 2004).

We have seen that none of these alternatives-abortion, adoption, ormotherhood-is free of problems. Instead, family planning seems to create lesspsychological pain than the other alternatives.

Birth Controland Abortion

1. More than 800,000 U.S. adolescent females become pregnant each year;pregnancy rates are much lower in Canada and Western Europe.

2. No birth control device offers problem-free protection from pregnancy andsexually transmitted diseases.

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3. Many heterosexual, sexually active women do not use reliable birth controlmethods. Female contraceptive use is related to social class, ethnicity,education, self-esteem, and risk taking.

4. Couples avoid using birth control because of inadequate information,unavailable contraceptive services, inadequate planning, irrational thinking,reluctance to admit they are sexually active, and the feeling that birth controldevices are not romantic. A man who is sexually assaulting a woman isunlikely to wear a condom.

5. Some developing countries have instituted family planning programs,whereas others do not support these programs. Literacy is highly correlatedwith women's contraceptive use.

6. Before Roe v. Wade, thousands of U.S. women died each year from illegalabortions; legal abortions are much safer than childbirth.

7. Following an abortion, most women experience a feeling of relief; adjust-ment is best when the abortion occurs early in pregnancy, when the womanfeels competent, and when friends, family, and the medical staff aresupportive.

8. Children born to women who have been denied an abortion are significantlymore likely to experience psychological and social difficulties than childrenfrom a wanted pregnancy.

9. In general, giving up a child for adoption is not an emotionally satisfactoryalternative; women who choose the motherhood option also face manydifficulties. Pregnancy prevention is therefore the preferable solution.

1. At several points throughout this chapter, wehave seen that sexuality has traditionally beenmale centered. Address this issue, focusing ontopics such as (a) theoretical perspectives onsexuality, (b) sexual scripts, and (c) sexualproblems. Also, compare how the essentialistperspective and the social constructionistperspective approach sexuality.

2. In the first section of this chapter, we notedthat men and women differ more in theintensity of sexual desires than in most otherareas. What are some of the potentialconsequences of this difference, with respectto sexual behavior and sexual disorders?

3. In many sections of this chapter, wediscussed adolescent women. Describe theexperiences a young woman might face asshe discusses sexuality with her parents,listens to a sex education session in her highschool, has her first sexual experience,makes decisions about contraception, andtries to make a decision about an unwantedpregnancy.

4. How are gender roles relevant in (a) theinitiation of sexual relationships, (b) sexualactivity, (c) sexual problems, (d) therapy forsexual problems, and (e) decisions aboutcontraception and abortion?

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5. What information in this chapter would be 8. Describe the two sexual problems discussed

e p u o. x 1 jj J l~jlH~~I~III. ~I ~II~I~~Iregarding communication about sexuality, especially likely to experience these prob-self-objectification, and methods of birth lems? Also, summarize the kinds of thera-control? peutic approaches currently used to treat

6. Describe attitudes about sexuality in the sexual problems.current era. Does the sexual double standard 9. Imagine that you have received a large grantstill hold true in North America in the to reduce the number of unwanted pregnan-twenty-first century? cies, at the high school you attended. What

7. What information do we have about sexual- kinds of programs would you plan, to achieveity among lesbians, including sexual activity both immediate and long-term effects?and sexual problems? Why would a male- 10. What information do we have about thecentered approach to sexuality make it dif- safety of abortion, the psychological con-ficult to decide what "counts" as sexual sequences to the woman, and consequencesactivity in a lesbian relationship? Why is this for children whose mothers had been deniedsame problem relevant when we consider an abortion?older women and sexual activities?

".essentialism (291)

".social constructionism(291)

"·clitoris (292)

"·vagina (293)

excitement phase (293)

vasocongestion (293)

plateau phase (293)

orgasmic phase (293)

resolution phase (293)

".sexual desire (294)

"·sexual doublestandard (297)

"·sexual script (298)

"·rape (298)

"·sexual disorder (306)

"·low sexual desire(307)

"·hypoactive sexualdesire disorder (307)

female orgasmicdisorder (307)

".self-o bjectification(308)

"·sensate focus (309)

".cognitive-behavioraltherapy (309)

".cogni ti verestructuring (309)

"·self-efficacy (317)

•0/ Note: The terms asterisked in the Key Terms section serve as good search terms for InfoTracCollege Edition. Go to http://infotrac.thomsonlearning.com and try these added search terms.

Brown, J. D., Steele, J. R., & Walsh-Childers, K.(Eds.). (2002). Sexual teens, sexual media: In-vestigating media's influence on adolescent sexu-ality. Mahwah, NJ: Erlbaum. Here is an excellentcollection of 13 chapters about the kind of"information" that adolescents learn from themedia, including television, magazines, movies,and the Internet.

Florsheim, P. (Ed.). (2003). Adolescent romanticrelations and sexual behavior: Theory, research,

and practical implications. Mahwah, NJ: Erlbaum.This book considers the romantic and the sexualaspects of adolescents' lives, focusing on bothmale-female and same-gender couples.

Hyde, J. 5., & DeLamater, J. D. (2006). Under-standing human sexuality (9th ed.). Boston:McGraw-Hill. Janet Hyde and her husband,John DeLamater, have written a clear, compre-hensive, and interesting textbook about sexuality,from a feminist perspective.

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Tider, L. (2004). Sex is not a natural act and otheressays. Boulder, CO: Westview Press. I stronglyrecommend this book, which provides a feministperspective on sexuality-rather than a biological!medical approach. The book includes sometheoretical essays, but also some intended for thegeneral public.

Tolman, D. L. (2002). Dilemmas of desire: Teenagegirls talk about sexuality. Cambridge, MA:Harvard University Press. I recommend this bookbecause it provides an opportunity to learn aboutyoung women's thoughts regarding their sexual-ity, rather than the dangers of disease andpregnancy.

Demonstration 9.1: 1. F; 2. M; 3. F; 4. F; 5. M; 6. M;7. M; 8. F.

Demonstration 9.3: 1. 2.7; 2.2.7; 3. 4.2; 4.4.1;5.4.6; 6. 4.4.(Note that a woman who is high in sexual assertivenesswould provide high ratings for Items 1,4, and 6; she

would provide low ratings for Items 2, 3, and 5. Alsonote that respondents answered numbers 5 and 6inconsistently-both having sex without a condom andinsisting on a condom.)

1. True (pp. 292-293); 2. True (p. 295);3. False (pp. 297-298); 4. True (p. 300);5. False (p. 301); 6. True (p. 303);

7. True (p. 307); 8. True (pp. 308-309);9. True (pp. 310-311); 10. True (p. 317).

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10 PREGNANCY, CI-IILDBIRTH,AND MOTHERHOODPregnancy

The Biology of Pregnancy

Physical Reactions During Pregnancy

Emotional Reactions During Pregnancy

Attitudes Toward Pregnant Women

Employment During Pregnancy

ChildbirthThe Biology of Childbirth

Emotional Reactions to Childbirth

Alternative Models of Childbirth

Motherhood

Stereotypes About Motherhood

The Reality of Motherhood

Motherhood and Women of Color

Lesbian Mothers

Breast Feeding

Postpartum Disturbances

Returning to Employment After Childbirth

Deciding Whether to Have Children

Infertility


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