discovering our sexuality
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“Discovering Our
Sexuality”
Randy B. Ame
National Director for Education of 2nd Genaration – Family Federation for World
Peace and Unification, Philippines (FFWPU)
Vice President (BOT) – Pure Love Alliance(PLA)
Vice President (BOT) – International Research for Global Peace and Harmony, Inc.
Objectives
1. Realize the value of our sexuality
2. Know the origin of sexual degradation
3. Understand the result of sexual misuse
4. Attain the highest sexual ideal
“ The youth is the
fair hope of our fatherland. ”
“ Ang kabataan ang
pag-asa ng bayan. ”
Dr. Jose P. Rizal National Hero
Realize the Value of Our Sexuality
Discovering Our Sexuality
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WHAT IS SEXUALITY?
IT IS THE MAIN TOOL FOR GENERATION
PROGRESSION.
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IS IT NATURAL? YES
• SEXUAL FUNCTIONING IS THE SAME AS OTHER NATURAL BIOLOGICAL FUNCTIONS LIKE RESPIRATION,DEFECATION & NUTRITION.
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HUMAN SEXUALITY
• TWO IMPORTANT THINGS TO
CONSIDER ABOUT SEXUALITY:
1. MATURATION – INTERNAL
2. EXCITATION - PHYSICAL
PURPOSE OF SEXUALITY
Joy
Love
Object
Beauty
Joy
Subject
Parent Child
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Importance of an Ideal Family
• The family is the
framework and
environment for
human growth.
Moon, Dr. Rev. Sun Myung. (2005).
The Providential Path to True Liberation and Complete Freedom. Washington D.C.: IIFWP.
• CHRISTIANITY:
• ‘in the beginning 'God made them male and female.' ….two shall become one flesh.' What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder."
• - Gen. 3:24; Mark 10:6-9
Marriage & Family: Universal
• ISLAM:
• "He has created spouses for you
and planted affection and mercy
between you."
• - Quran 30.21
Marriage & Family: Universal
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Be fruitful, multiply, and have dominion over
all things. Gen.1:28
1.Perfection of Individual Character
2.Multiplication of Family Values
3.Perfection of Dominion
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Mind Body
Mature
M/W
True Love
Our ability to
Develop our
Given Personality
“Be perfect … as your Heavenly Father is perfect.”
“Love … God with all your hearts, soul and mind.”
Matthew 5 : 48
Matthew 22 : 37
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True Love
Ideal
Wife
Child
Ideal
Husband
Ideal
Man
Ideal
Woman
School of true love
Basic unit of the Ideal World
Qualities of True Love
Eternal
Unchanging
Unconditional
Husband
Father
Wife
Mother Ideal
Wife
Child
Ideal
Husband
Son
Brother
Daughter
Sister
Our ability to Practice and Multiply
the Values of Family
Third Blessing – Perfection of Dominion
Our right of
experiencing true love
over the creation
Ideal
Person
All
Things
Ideal
Creation
True Love
Dominion of Love over Creation
Art and technology reflecting
God’s Heart and creativity
Material prosperity
Ecological harmony
With the universe
Our relationships of true love We live to bring joy to God and our
Parents through multiplying a
relationships of true love
Everybody dreams of a peaceful and happy Family.
Are our Families
like this? No! Definitely not just
yet…
1. Why did our world become like this?
2. What is the root cause of these problems?
3. Who is responsible to solve these problems?
4. How do we solve this in order to give a better future to our children?
Origin of Sexual
Degradation
Discovering Our Sexuality
Tree of the knowledge
of good and evil
Tree of life
Fruit
Adam Eve
Serpent
１. God of love does not give a test punishable by death
２. More desirable than life itself
３. Affected future generations
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Adam & Eve’s reaction – Ashamed of their sexual organs
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After the Fall
After Adam and Eve sinned,
what part of their bodies
did they cover?
Gen. 3: 7
“They sewed fig leaves together and made
themselves loin coverings.” (Sexual area)
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Crime of Adam & Eve – Illicit sexual relationship
Adam & Eve’s reaction – Ashamed of their sexual organs
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Trees reproduce by their fruit People have children through
their sexual love
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The premature and illicit
sexual relationship of the
first human ancestors
The origin of human evilness
1. Considered among one of the
worst sins by major religions
2. Effect passed on through
generations
3. Degradation of sexual love
4. Family breakdown
5. Cause of crime
6. Decline of civilizations
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In the result, they both ate of the tree, and so their nakedness appeared to them: they began to sew together, for their covering, leaves from the Garden: thus did Adam disobey his Lord, and allow himself to be seduced.
The Fall: Quran 20.121
Exodus 20:14
(The Ten Commandments)
“Do not commit adultery”
Do Not Misuse Love
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Quran 17:32
Do not come near adultery: for it is a
shameful (deed) and an evil, opening
the road (to other evils).
Do Not Misuse Love
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Dhammapada 22:309-10 Four things happen to the thoughtless man who takes another man's wife: 1) the degradation of the soul, 2) a frightened pleasure, 3) the danger of the law, and 4) the path of hell.
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When unrighteous disorder
prevails, the women sin and are
impure… This disorder carries
down to hell the family… [and]
destroys the righteousness of
birth…
Bhagavad Gita 1:41-45
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Uttarangasutram 22.42 (Jainism)
It is better to die than to indulge
in partaking of forbidden
lustful pleasure…
Do Not Misuse Love
Bahá’í Writings
The Bahá'í faith… condemns the
illegitimate and improper expressions
(of the sex impulses) such as free
love… all of which it considers
positively harmful to man and to the
society…
Do Not Misuse Love
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萬惡淫為首 Prostitution is the
head of evil.
Famous Chinese proverb
Do Not Misuse Love
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Result of Misuse of Sexuality
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Sexual Disorder and Family Breakdown
Source: Heritage Foundation
The premature and illicit sexual relationship of the first
human ancestors
The origin of human evilness
We are in conflict
within ourselves
Alcohol Abuse…
Alcohol Abuse
Substance abuse…
Drug Addiction
Free Sex
as the leading cause of
Sexually Transmitted Infetions
Drug-using teens 5 times more likely to have sex
3 times more likely to have 4 or more partners
“Dangerous Liaisons: Substance Abuse and Sex,” Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at
Columbia University, December 7, 1999.
Vices Encourages
Free Sex
And, Unwanted and Teenage
Pregnancy
Main cause of the increase
in cases of abortions
and contraceptives use.
Major cause of unfulfilled
futures and reduced
career ambitions especially
among the youth / students.
In the Philippines, 2002 Young Adult Fertility
and Sexuality Study by the University of the
Philippines Population Institute (UPPI) and
the Demographic Research and
Development Foundation, 26 percent of our
youth from ages 15 to 25 admitted to having
a premarital sex experience. What’s worse
is that 38 percent of our youth are already in
a live-in arrangement. Teen pregnancies in the Philippines
By Rebecca B. Singson Philippine Daily Inquirer
Filed Under: People, Lifestyle & Leisure
02/22/2010
The alarming rate of
Divorce and Separation
is the main cause of the
increase in the cases of
Mental and
Psychological
Disorders.
Young Marriages and Child
Pregnancy
Common Cause of
Family Frustration
We are also in conflict
with each other
False and
Problematic Family Factory of criminals, rapists, killers in
the society
Source of misery and misfortune
Multiplies fallen and problematic families through sexual organs
Destroys the family, community, and hinders the development of our country
Breeding ground for disbelief in God
Breakdown of Family Relationship
Fact: More than 50% of all marriages end in Divorce.
The leading cause of Broken and Dysfunctional Families
Hell on Earth and in Heaven
Problematic Family
False Parents
Child
Fallen Eve
Fallen Adam
satan
False Love
Evil World
Family
Society
Nation
Remember the 2nd World War 37.6 Million Military Deaths
(Source: Atlas of Modern World History 1989)
Remember 9-11 ?
More or less 4,000 people died !
Armed Conflicts. . .
Afghanistan
Human Relation conflict in Nepal
. . . in Thailand, and . . .
Even in the Philippines
Political, Economic
and Social Conflicts,
Instability, Crises, etc,
Mad Nuclear Arms Race. . .
Initially only the US, then USSR, next are
China, France, et al. Now India, Pakistan …
The Race continues … in Iran, in North Korea,
Which country will join the race next ?
Fact: The next Nuclear War will be our planet Earth
and all of Humanity’s LAST !
Now, much more destructive than ever.
AUG 2007 TANATE CLAN 78
Can United Nations solve these problems?
We are also in
conflict with the
environment – we
Pollute the
Surroundings
In our land…
Solid Waste ( Garbage )
In our waters… Chemical Waste
In our atmosphere…
Industrial Waste
Our Planet,
Mother Earth
is in Pain !
It shows signs
of Suffering and Distress !
Alarming rate of
Ozone Layer Depletion
Green House Gases increase
Causing
Global Warming and Climatic Changes
God’s heart was deeply broken.
Shall we let this
Happening
Continue?
The Solution
Discovering Our Sexuality
Solution to Misery and Misfortune
Child
Ideal Mother
Ideal Father
God
True Love
Peaceful World
Ideal Family
Secured Barangay
Unified Nation
Child
Eve Adam
Satan
False Love
Troubled World
Problematic Family
Dangerous Barangay
Chaotic Nation
False Parent True Parent
Responsible Citizens
Former U.S. Surgeon General Koop
“Young people must be told the
truth...the best way to avoid AIDS is to refrain from sexual activity until as adults they are ready to establish a mutually faithful and monogamous relationship.”
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Written on the Tomb of an Anglican Bishop in Westminster
Abby
"When I was young and free and my
imagination had no limits, I dreamed of
changing the world. As I grew older and
wiser, I discovered the world would not
change, so I shortened my sights
somewhat and decided to change only
my country.
But it, too, seemed immovable”
"As I grew into my twilight years, in one
last desperate attempt, I settled for
changing only my family, those closest to
me, but alas, they would have none of it.
"And now, as I lie on my deathbed, I
suddenly realize: If I had only changed
myself first, then by example I would
have changed my family.
"From their inspiration and
encouragement, I would then have been
able to better my country, and who knows,
I may have even changed the world."
God’s Commandment:
“ Do not eat the fruit… for on the
day you shall eat of it, you shall
surely die.” Genesis 2:7
Today’s Translation:
“ Do not commit sexual immorality… for
on the day you shall do it, you shall
surely die because of AIDS.”
Let us all Practice
ABSOLUTE SEX Ethics
“Purity before marriage and Fidelity within marriage”
The Pure Love Pledge
The pure relationship of love between a man
and a woman is a sacred gift from God, to be
cherished and honored, for the sake of building
a true family, a healthy society and a world of
peace for future Generations. Once that love is
consummated, it should never be broken.
Therefore, from this day forward, I commit
myself to:
•Respect and honor the ideal of purity in
myself and others.
•Practice pure love as a child, friend, spouse
and parent.
•Refrain from all sexual relationship before
marriage.
•Dedicate myself to absolute fidelity within
marriage.
•Encourage others to do the same.
Be Pure and Proud
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