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BEETLE BAILEY SNUFFY SMITH BORN LOSER HAGAR THE HORRIBLE BIG NATE FRANK & ERNEST BLONDIE HI AND LOIS Tuesday Evening January 22, 2013 8:00 8:30 9:00 9:30 10:00 10:30 11:00 11:30 12:00 12:30 WPTA/ABC The Taste Private Practice Local Jimmy Kimmel Live Nightline WHIO/CBS NCIS NCIS: Los Angeles Vegas Local Late Show Letterman Ferguson WLIO/NBC Betty Betty Go On Normal Parenthood Local Tonight Show w/Leno J. Fallon WOHL/FOX Rais in g B en -K a te New Gi rl M in dy L oc al Tuesday, January 22, 2013 The Herald Tomorrow’s Horoscope By Bernice Bede Osol Dad should be gracious to adult children’s friends Dear Annie: My 20-something children attend school in other cities. On oc- casion, they have asked to bring their current boyfriend or girlfriend home for a visit to meet the family. The friend then stays in a separate room for a night or two. The problem is my hus- band. He gets extremely upset about these visits and accuses me of encouraging immoral behavior. He says that allow- ing these friends to stay at our house gives tacit ap- proval for them to spend the night away from home. I say it is normal hospitality to open our home to our kids’ friends. Is he being irrational, or am I missing something? Conicted Mother Dear Conicted: There is absolutely nothing wrong with a child spending the night away from home, and certainly not a 20-something adult. Your husband appar- ently is convinced that the kids are sneaking around and getting into bed together when you are asleep. But that is ungenerous of him. These friends are guests in your home and should be treated as such. And your husband might keep in mind that should these friends turn out to be his future sons-in-law or daughters-in-law, reacting poorly to them now could set him up for future difculties. Dear Annie: May I vent a little about the extended family of a caregiver? My relatives live out of state and rarely visit. This is for them: Please don’t tell the pri- mary caregiver what to do and how to do it. You don’t have all the details, and you do not control every situ- ation. Good caregivers are proactive and vigilant. You are loved, and your opinion matters. But unless you are a medical expert in these areas, please listen rather than resort to preconceived ideas. When you do visit, don’t say, “I guess you get the day off.” There is never a day off, especially if the loved one is in the hospital or rehab and preparations need to be made for what happens after they are discharged. And while you may think it’s “too ear- ly” to discuss assisted living or nursing home care, some of those places have waiting lists. It’s never too early. You may want to have a light, en-  joyable visit, but some things still need to be handled, even unpleasant things. Life doesn’t get put on hold sim- ply because you’re in town. If you want to take over the full-time care, you are more than welcome. Other- wise, please respect the pri- mary caregiver’s role and re- sponsibilities, and keep your interference with the medi- cal providers to a minimum. You have no idea what it is like to have a family plus el- derly parents to care for, with all the activities, medical appointments, medications and therapies to coordinate and facilitate. You purposely choose to live states away. Please don’t y in and out telling me what to do. Serving as a pri- mary caregiver is an honor and a priv- ilege. It carries with it a tremendous re- sponsibility, as well as accountability and self-sacrice. I do it out of love, and I want what is best for them. — Walk a Mile in My Shoes Dear Walk: We have heard this plea many times and know you speak for thou- sands of devoted caregivers. But we also know that many relatives who live away need to feel as if they are contribut- ing and often react by making demands and trying to take over. Sometimes, all they need is a task to perform that will make them feel they are needed in a concrete way. We hope that helps. Dear Annie: Like “Heart- broken Mom in Connecti- cut,” I, too, left a controlling husband, and it created con- icts at family gatherings. Our solution was to have two birthday parties. My ex could attend one with whomever he wished, and I attended the other. The grandchildren loved the idea of having two birthday par- ties. Over time, some of the conicts lessened, but they never completely stopped. Sometimes they just can’t let go. — Don’t Stress, Cel- ebrate Twice Annie’s Mailbox www.delphosherald.com WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 23, 2013 If you want more out of life, it’s extremely important to elevate your sights in the year ahead. Additionally, no one should have to tell you that it takes hard work to make things happen. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- You won’t have to be told that duties that require your immediate attention should be given top priority . Sweeping them under the rug wouldn’t give you any peace. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- A convivial atmosphere will help immensely if there is some kind of business matter that needs to be discussed with others. Find a pleasant, social setting in which to talk things out. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- Because you’re usually such an upbeat person, merely going along with things could make you look as if you’re down in the dumps. You won’t be -- you’ll just be in a quiet mood. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- Listen attentively to someone who always has something new to share. If you retain what you hear, chances are you’ll later find some effective ways to put it to use. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- It’ll pay to focus on endeavors that could enhance your material security. There are likely to be several constructive steps you can take if you’re willing to take action. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- It’s OK to spend some time on the advancement of one of your primary interests, even if you have to break plans with another. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- The best way to achieve a critical objective is to keep a low profile. You need to pursue your intentions as unobtrusively as possible. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- Because friends will sense your concern for them is genuine, they’ll appreciate your efforts on their behalf. Sincerity is the key to a harmonious relationship. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- An objective that you couldn’t achieve in the past looks like it can be attained, mostly because this time you’re likely to be more flexible and tenacious in your efforts. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- You’re likely to find out that some knowledge you recently acquired can benefit a close friend as much as it does you. Be sure to share it openly and honestly. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Your instincts regarding a commercial matter are likely to be a shade sharper than usual. Follow your impulses, but be sure to use plenty of logic as well. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Try to avoid an acquaintance who always takes it upon him or herself to make decisions for everybody. You’re not likely to have too much patience for this kind of behavior. COPYRIGHT 2013 United Feature Syndicate, Inc.

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BEETLE BAILEY

SNUFFY SMITH

BORN LOSER

HAGAR THE HORRIBLE

BIG NATE

FRANK & ERNEST

GRIZZWELLS

PICKLES

BLONDIE

HI AND LOIS

Tuesday Evening January 22, 20138:00 8:30 9:00 9:30 10:00 10:30 11:00 11:30 12:00 12:30

WPTA/ABC The Taste Private Practice Local Jimmy Kimmel Live Nightline

WHIO/CBS NCIS NCIS: Los Angeles Vegas Local Late Show Letterman Ferguson

WLIO/NBC Betty Betty Go On Normal Parenthood Local Tonight Show w/Leno J. Fallon

WOHL/FOX R ai si ng B en -K at e N ew G ir l M in dy L oc al

ION Cr im in al Mi nds C ri mi na l Mi nds C ri mi nal Mi nd s Fl ash poi nt Fl as hp oi nt

Cable ChannelsA & E S to ra ge S to ra ge S to ra ge S to ra ge S to ra ge S to ra ge S to ra ge S to ra ge S to ra ge S to ra ge

AMC Gone in Sixty Gone in Sixty

ANIM F ro ze n P la ne t W il d D ee p W il d D ee p R iv er M on st er s F ro ze n P la ne t W il d D ee p W il d D ee p

BET The Game The Game Second Husbands Husbands Second Husbands Second Wendy Williams Show

BRAVO R ea l H ou se wi ve s H ou se wi ve s/ At l. M at ch ma ke r H ap pe ns H ou se wi ve s/ At l. R ea l

CMT Reba Reba Redneck Island Redneck Island Redneck Island Ridic. Ridic.

CNN Anderson Cooper 360 Piers Morgan Tonight Anderson Cooper 360 E. B. OutFront Piers Morgan Tonight

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FX The Ultimate Fighter Justified Justified Justified

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Tuesday, January 22, 2013 The Herald

Tomorrow’s

HoroscopeBy Bernice Bede Osol

Dad should begracious to adultchildren’s friends

Dear Annie: My20-something children attendschool in other cities. On oc-casion, they have asked to

bring their current boyfriendor girlfriend home for a visitto meet the family. The friendthen stays in a separate roomfor a night or two.

The problem is my hus-band. He gets extremely upsetabout these visits and accusesme of encouragingimmoral behavior.He says that allow-ing these friends tostay at our housegives tacit ap-proval for themto spend the nightaway from home.I say it is normalhospitality to open

our home to ourkids’ friends. Is hebeing irrational,or am I missingsomething? — ConictedMother

Dear Conicted: Thereis absolutely nothing wrongwith a child spending thenight away from home, andcertainly not a 20-somethingadult. Your husband appar-ently is convinced that thekids are sneaking aroundand getting into bed togetherwhen you are asleep. But thatis ungenerous of him. Thesefriends are guests in yourhome and should be treated

as such. And your husbandmight keep in mind thatshould these friends turn outto be his future sons-in-lawor daughters-in-law, reactingpoorly to them now could sethim up for future difculties.

Dear Annie: May I venta little about the extendedfamily of a caregiver? Myrelatives live out of state andrarely visit. This is for them:

Please don’t tell the pri-mary caregiver what to doand how to do it. You don’thave all the details, and youdo not control every situ-ation. Good caregivers areproactive and vigilant. You

are loved, and your opinionmatters. But unless you are amedical expert in these areas,please listen rather than resortto preconceived ideas.

When you do visit, don’tsay, “I guess you get the dayoff.” There is never a day off,especially if the loved one isin the hospital or rehab andpreparations need to be madefor what happens after theyare discharged. And whileyou may think it’s “too ear-ly” to discuss assisted livingor nursing home care, someof those places have waitinglists. It’s never too early. Youmay want to have a light, en-

 joyable visit, but some thingsstill need to be handled,even unpleasant things. Lifedoesn’t get put on hold sim-ply because you’re in town.

If you want to take overthe full-time care, you aremore than welcome. Other-

wise, please respect the pri-mary caregiver’s role and re-sponsibilities, and keep yourinterference with the medi-

cal providers to a minimum.You have no idea what it islike to have a family plus el-derly parents to care for, withall the activities, medicalappointments, medicationsand therapies to coordinateand facilitate. You purposely

choose to live statesaway. Please don’ty in and out tellingme what to do.

Serving as a pri-mary caregiver isan honor and a priv-ilege. It carries withit a tremendous re-sponsibility, as wellas accountability

and self-sacrice.I do it out of love,and I want what isbest for them. —

Walk a Mile in My ShoesDear Walk: We have

heard this plea many timesand know you speak for thou-sands of devoted caregivers.But we also know that manyrelatives who live away needto feel as if they are contribut-ing and often react by makingdemands and trying to takeover. Sometimes, all theyneed is a task to perform thatwill make them feel they areneeded in a concrete way. Wehope that helps.

Dear Annie: Like “Heart-broken Mom in Connecti-cut,” I, too, left a controllinghusband, and it created con-icts at family gatherings.Our solution was to havetwo birthday parties. Myex could attend one withwhomever he wished, andI attended the other. Thegrandchildren loved the ideaof having two birthday par-ties. Over time, some of theconicts lessened, but theynever completely stopped.Sometimes they just can’tlet go. — Don’t Stress, Cel-ebrate Twice

Annie’s Mailbox

www.delphosherald.com

WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 23, 2013

If you want more out of life, it’sextremely importantto elevate yoursights in the yearahead. Additionally,no one should haveto tell you that ittakes hard work to

make things happen.AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) --

You won’t have to be told that dutiesthat require your immediate attentionshould be given top priority. Sweepingthem under the rug wouldn’t give youany peace.

PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20)-- A convivial atmosphere will helpimmensely if there is some kindof business matter that needs to bediscussed with others. Find a pleasant,social setting in which to talk thingsout.

ARIES (March 21-April 19)-- Because you’re usually such anupbeat person, merely going alongwith things could make you look as if you’re down in the dumps. You won’tbe -- you’ll just be in a quiet mood.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20)-- Listen attentively to someone whoalways has something new to share. If you retain what you hear, chances areyou’ll later find some effective waysto put it to use.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20)-- It’ll pay to focus on endeavorsthat could enhance your materialsecurity. There are likely to be severalconstructive steps you can take if you’re willing to take action.

CANCER (June 21-July 22)-- It’s OK to spend some time on theadvancement of one of your primaryinterests, even if you have to breakplans with another.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- The best way to achieve a criticalobjective is to keep a low profile.You need to pursue your intentions asunobtrusively as possible.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22)-- Because friends will sense yourconcern for them is genuine, they’llappreciate your efforts on their behalf.Sincerity is the key to a harmoniousrelationship.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Anobjective that you couldn’t achieve inthe past looks like it can be attained,

mostly because this time you’re likelyto be more flexible and tenacious inyour efforts.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22)-- You’re likely to find out that someknowledge you recently acquired canbenefit a close friend as much as itdoes you. Be sure to share it openlyand honestly.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec.21) -- Your instincts regarding acommercial matter are likely to be ashade sharper than usual. Follow yourimpulses, but be sure to use plenty of logic as well.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19)-- Try to avoid an acquaintance whoalways takes it upon him or herself tomake decisions for everybody. You’renot likely to have too much patiencefor this kind of behavior.

COPYRIGHT 2013 United Feature Syndicate, Inc.