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Cultivating a Workplace of

Civility and Respect

It Starts at the Top!

Sheila Krejci, M Ed HRD, Sheila K Consulting, Inc.Sheila Krejci, M Ed HRD, Sheila K Consulting, Inc.Sheila Krejci, M Ed HRD, Sheila K Consulting, Inc.Sheila Krejci, M Ed HRD, Sheila K Consulting, Inc.

www.sheilakconsulting.comwww.sheilakconsulting.comwww.sheilakconsulting.comwww.sheilakconsulting.com

Cultivating Workplaces of Civility and Respect

It Starts at the Top!

Sheila Krejci, M Ed HRD

Sheila K Consulting, Inc.

651-402-1274

[email protected]

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Sheila Krejci, M Ed HRD

Sheila K Consulting, Inc.

651-402-1274

[email protected]

Cultivating Workplaces of Civility and Respect

It Starts at the Top!

Stand

if this is You

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An organization’s goal in written

policies should be to encourage

professional behavior at all times AND

ensure a ZERO tolerance for

inappropriate behavior, so that

everyone is treated with respect while

enabled to perform to the best of their

abilities.

Hit or Miss?

Policy

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The Trees

Gender, race, culture, religion, generation

Personal experiences, learning styles, educational

achievements

Values, Work Ethics, Life Lessons

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The Forest

“A workplace culture where we value

others immediately; become curious

about and actively engage the

differences we see, hear and experience

with them.”

Incivility is the exchange of seemingly inconsequential

inconsiderate words and deeds that violate conventional

norms of workplace conduct.

Christine Pearson & Christine Porath

The Cost of Bad Behavior

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Select Task Force

on the Study of

Harassment in the

Workplace

Report of Co-Chairs Chai R.

Feldblum & Victoria A. Lipnic

June 2016

Effects of incivility in the workplaceEmployees who experience incivility:

66% say performance declined

80% lost work time worrying about the incident

63% wasted time avoiding the offender

75% have less commitment to the organization

12% simply quit

Simply witnessing disrespectful behavior results in:

Reduced concentration, memory and focus

Negative responses from customers and citizens

Report of Co-Chairs Chai R. Feldblum & Victoria A. Lipnic

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2017 EEOC Claims

49% Retaliation

2017 EEOC Claims

49%

34% Race

32% Disability

30% Sex

22% Age

Retaliation

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Individuals

Humiliation

Loss of Pride

Increased Blood Pressure

Decrease Immune System

PTSD

Decreased Performance

OrganizationInability to Retain/ Recruit

Spread of toxic behaviors

Brand/Reputation Bashing

Who’s at Risk?

Homogenous

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Many

Young Workers

Some

Workers Do

Not Conform

to Workplace

Norms

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Cultural

and

Language Differences

High

Value

Employees

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Rely on

Customer

Service-

Satisfaction

Social

Discourse

Outside the

Workplace

#MeToo

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All of these are examples of protected

classes or protected activities under the

Law:

1. Physically or mentally disabled

2. Co-workers who are being interviewed

in an investigation of Hostile Working E.

3. Co-workers who have received a

promotion even though they didn’t

deserve it

4. Pregnant women

Hit or Miss?

All of these are examples of protected

classes or protected activities under the

Law:

1. Physically or mentally disabled

2. Co-workers who are being interviewed

in an investigation of Hostile Working E.

3. Co-workers who have received a

promotion even though they didn’t

deserve it

4. Pregnant women

Hit or Miss?Protected classes under federal law

race, religion, sex, national origin, age disability and pregnancy

More Marital Status, Age (over 18), Sexual Orientation, Status with regard to Public Assistance and Activity in local Human Rights Commission

Policy

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If someone doesn’t complain about being harassed and you, as leader, don’t know about it, your company cannot be held legally

responsible.

Hit or Miss?

All of these are reasons people give for not reporting harassment in the workplace:

Fear of losing their job or good reputation

Assuming they won’t be taken seriously

Belief that nothing will be done by management

anyway

Fear of retaliation from management or other

colleagues

Hit or Miss

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The courts consider that a

victim claiming harassment

should have told the potential

harasser that their behavior

was unwelcome.

Hit or Miss?

It is illegal for a company not to have a

written harassment policy with a

complaint procedure.

Hit or Miss?

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An organization is found to be

retaliating against an employee only if

the employee is fired or demoted

because they filed a harassment or

discrimmination claim.

Hit or Miss?

So What?

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A Leaders Plan forCivility and Respect

Respectful Workplace Training –General Session

Respectful Workplace Training—Supervisor Session

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"Not everything that is faced can be changed,

but nothing can be changed until it is faced.“

James Baldwin

Page

Training Checklist and

Key Messages Activity

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Supervisor’s

Interview Checklist

Who?

What?

When?

Where?

How?

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Your Role as a Leader

1. Is inappropriate behavior present?

2. Illegal? If so, what type ?

3. Who is the victim(s)?

4. What should “management do?”

5. Specifically; what would you do/say?

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How do we change workplace culture from

NO Harassment

toACCOUNTABILITY FOR RESPECT?

Page

Documentation Guide for Supervisors—

Specific Language

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Reality Check Exercise for Leaders

Examples of Uncivil and Retaliatory Behaviors

Tips to remind you of your Role as Leader when you become aware of a complaint of workplace violence or harassment under investigation

Training Key Messages, Design, Development and Follow Up from Leaders

The Supervisor’s Interview Checklist when you are the one receiving a report of inappropriate behavior

A Documentation Guide to Encourage Values of Civility and Respect.

Discussion Starters for Your Team or Organization

Ideas for Committing to Increase My Self Awareness Skills

Lead!!

Self Awareness

Review Policies/Processes

Reinforce Interactive Training

PRACTICE—It starts at the TOP!

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