chapter 7
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Chapter 7. Conflict Resolution. Health Inventory. 1. When I am involved in a conflict, I try to listen to what the other person has to say. a)alwaysb)sometimesc)never 2. I walk away from conflicts that are not worth my time and energy. a)alwaysb)sometimesc)never - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
Chapter 7
Conflict Resolution
Health Inventory
1. When I am involved in a conflict, I try to listen to what the other person has to say.a)always b)sometimesc)never2. I walk away from conflicts that are not worth my time and energy.a)always b)sometimesc)never3. I seek help when I cannot resolve a conflict on my own.a)always b)sometimesc)never
Lesson 1
I CAN:-Explain some reasons why conflicts occur.-Describe different kinds of conflict.-Develop healthy and effective ways to deal with bullying.
Words to Know
~conflict ~bully~labeling ~prejudice~escalate~revenge~mob mentality ~conflict resolution~win-win solution ~mediation~neutral~compromise
Conflict
Lesson 1 ~ The Nature of Conflict
What is Conflict?~a disagreement between people with opposing viewpoints, ideas, or goals
WHY DO CONFLICTS OCCUR?Conflicts can be caused by a difference of opinion over just about anything. They can occur over relationships, space or property. They can also be about power, rewards, or privelages.
Where do you think kids your age encounter conflict the most?
Kinds of Conflict
Interpersonal & Internal
Interpersonal-between two or more people
Internal-take place inside your own mind(Examples??)
Conflicts at Home
What kinds of conflict occur at home?
Conflicts with parents or guardians usually occur over limits, responsibilities, and expectations.
When conflicts like these come up, try to remember that parents set limits to ensure their children’s well being. They are responsible for keeping you safe and healthy.
Conflicts Outside the Home
What kinds of conflict occur at school?
You spend much of your day at school. As a result, many of the conflicts you have outside the home relate to school, friends, and peers.
Bullying
Imbalance of POWER-walking away takes the bully’s powerLabeling - name-callingPrejudice - a negative and unjustly formed opinion, usually against people of a different racial, religious, or cultural group
**Words should be used to build people up, not to tear them down.
Lesson 2I CAN:~identify factors that build conflicts~prevent conflicts from becoming serious~develop stress-management techniques to release anger
Lesson 2 ~ Preventing Conflict
Why Conflicts Build~Many conflicts do not go beyond an exchange of words.
Others escalate, or become more serious.
THE WARNING SIGNSThe Warning Signs of Building ConflictPHYSICAL SIGNS EMOTIONAL SIGNS
A knot in the stomach Feeling concerned
Faster heart rate Getting defensive
A lump in the throat Wanting to cry
Balled up fists Not feeling valued
Cold or sweaty palms Wanting to lash out
A sudden surge of energy Wanting to escape
Conflict
MOB MENTALITY-this is acting or behaving in a certain and often negative manner because others are doing it
Conflict Causes
AngerJealousy
Alcohol & Other DrugsGroup
Pressure
ConflictRevenge - punishment, injury, or insult to the person seen as the cause of the strong emotion, “payback”
Talking about feelings of jealousy or anger with a trusted adult is a better idea than seeking revenge.
**You could end up hurting someone or getting hurt your self.
Preventing Conflicts from Building
• Learn to understand your feelings.• Keep your conflicts private.• Avoid using alcohol or other drugs.• Show respect for yourself and for
others.• Learn to accept others.• Try putting yourself in the other
person’s situation.
Exit Slip1. EvaluateAndy and his best friend, Jake, tried out for the concert band. Jake made it, but Andy did not. Now Andy can not bring himself to congratulate Jake, but he is not sure why. Tell what Andy may be feeling and what he can do about it.
2. Name two ways to prevent conflicts from building.
Lesson 3: Resolving Conflicts
I can…
Demonstrate effective skills for resolving conflictRecall the steps of the mediation processIdentify traits of a good mediator
Resolving Conflicts
conflict resolution
win-win solution
mediation
compromise
Resolving Conflicts
Quick Write Activity
Write two ways of communicating that could lead to conflict. Next to each, write how the same idea could be expressed in a more positive way.
Finding Constructive Solutions
Conflict Resolution means solving a disagreement in a way that satisfies both sides
Conflict Resolution
Conflict Resolution is a skillRemember the acronym T.A.L.K
Take a time-out:Wait at least 30 minutes
before you discuss the situation with the other personThis will give you a chance to calm down and think clearly.
Conflict Resolution
Allow each person to tell his or her side.
Each person should have a chance to explain his or her feelings without interruption.
Conflict Resolution
Let each person ask questions.Each person should have the
chance to question the other. Stay calm and respectful.
Conflict Resolution
Keep brainstorming.Be open to trying different
solutions that will satisfy you both.
Conflict Resolution
Winners or Losers?
When one person gets their way, it doesn’t mean that they have ‘won’ and you have ‘lost.’ When the T.A.L.K. strategy is used, a win-win situation is possible.
A Need for Mediation
If you can not reach a solution, a third person, or