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The directors of Westfield High’s “Ho Ho HolidayShow” are (back row, from left) Marty Bernier, Ian

Balderston, Drew Tobin and Charlie Parsons;(second row, from left) Kaley Haller, Aubrey

Cervarich and Sara Bresnahan; (third row, fromleft) Ruby Tippl, Maya Hossain and Allie Bush; and

(in front) stage manager Lauryn Bailey. (Not pic-tured: Miles Josephh and Nate Riester).

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Centreville Labor CenterTo Celebrate Five YearsNews, Page 2

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By Bonnie Hobbs

The Connection

When the Centreville LaborResource Center (CLRC)opened its doors, five yearsago, to serve the

community’s immigrant population, it washoped that it would be a success. But noone knew for sure.

Now, though, it’s safe to say that thingsare going well for this local job center.

And that’s thanks to the workers, them-selves, and to the dedicated volunteers ofthe Centreville Immigration Forum (CIF),which runs the daily operations of theCLRC.

It’s also due to the local residents whohave come to embrace the center and hireits workers regularly to perform a variety ofjobs, both inside and outside the home. Soit’s only fitting that the public is invited tohelp the CLRC celebrate its fifth anniversary,this Sunday, Dec. 11, from 2:30-6:30 p.m.

The festivities will be held at the centerat 5956 Centreville Crest Lane in the lower

level of the Centreville Square ShoppingCenter. The fun includes a professional,Guatemalan marimba band performing

throughout the afternoon, traditional foodprovided by the worker community, and apiñata.

“In the 5 years since opening the center,the workers, volunteers and staff there —more than 1,000 of us — have not only sur-vived, we have thrived,” said CIF PresidentAlice Foltz. “Joining our talents together tobe a local solution to a local problem, CIFcreated a space that has served more than900 residents who needed to hire tempo-rary labor.”

The center has become a communityhome for immigrants from Central America,South America, the middle East, Ghana andSierra Leone, Korea and Afghanistan. Work-ers have learned trade skills and the En-glish language while also learning abouthealth, finances and traveling in NorthernVirginia. Even unemployed, life-long resi-dents have benefited from the CLRC jobofferings.

CLRC is the only trade-skill-based, indoorjob and job-training site in Northern Vir-ginia. Workers who obtain jobs through thecenter are protected from wage theft by theCLRC staff, and employers know the skillsof the workers they’re hiring. And, addedFoltz, “We pride ourselves on customer ser-vice and follow-up.”

For more information, or to hire a worker,call the center at 703-543-6272. DirectorJasmine Blaine or one of her assistants willbe glad to answer questions.

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Public invited to eventthis Sunday.

Photo by Bonnie Hobbs/The Connection

Preparing to cut the ribbon when the center officially opened in Decem-ber 2011 are (from left) Alice Foltz, workers Alejandro Santiago and MikiCarrillo, former Sully District Supervisor Michael Frey and landlord A.J.Dwoskin.

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By Bonnie Hobbs

The Connection

Sugarplum fairies, theGrinch, Charlie Brown,the Muppets and even“Back to the Future’s”

Marty McFly are all in WestfieldHigh’s upcoming “Ho Ho HolidayShow.” Student-directed, it’s com-prised of five short plays andtakes the stage Friday, Dec. 16,at 7 p.m., and Saturday, Dec. 17,at 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Tickets are$5 at the door, and attendees areencouraged to bring new, un-wrapped toys for Toys for Tots.Here’s what’s on tap:

‘Hanukkah Story – Back tothe Maccabees’

Directed by Miles Josephh,Marty Bernier and Nate Riester,“Hanukkah Story – Back to theMaccabees” is based on themovie, “Back to the Future,” ex-cept that the characters will travel to 200B.C. to the time of the Maccabees and thefirst Hanukkah.

The cast of nine features John Henry asMarty McFly, Nathan Marshak as DocBrown, Josh Moore as Biff Antiochus, AjaRene as Lorraine, and Braeden Andersonas George. “When they go back in time,Marty runs over Mathias and Judah withthe DeLorean, so Doc and Marty have topretend to be them,” said Josephh.

“They’re trying to save Hanukkah fromthe Greek oppressors,” said Bernier. “Martydrops and loses a copy of the Torah, andBiff picks it up and uses it to try to preventHanukkah from coming.” Bernier and thisplay’s stage manager, Pressley Johnson, co-wrote the script.

“Every year, we try to do something dif-ferent with the Hanukkah story,” saidJosephh.

“After last year’s show, we joked aboutwhat it could be for the next year, and werealized that ‘Back to the Future’ could ac-tually work,” added Bernier. “We have agreat cast, and the actors are really figur-ing out and getting into their characters.”

“This is a comedy, and we wanted to ap-peal to the whole audience, not just kids,”said Josephh. “The parents will be familiarwith the movie, and we’ll also introduce itto a new generation, while teaching themabout Hanukkah.”

‘The Muppets’ Christmas Carol’With a cast of 16, seniors Charlie Parsons

and Maya Hossain are directing “The

Muppets’ Christmas Carol.” The story is toldby Muppets Gonzo (Kaili Fox) and Rizzo(Nora Lewis). Harry Schlatter portraysKermit the Frog as Bob Cratchit, HaydenCutler plays Scrooge, and Cassie White isbaby Kermit as Tiny Tim.

“I really appreciate how open they are totrying new things and making strong char-acter decisions,” said Parsons. “A lot of thecast are underclassmen, but they’ve gottenright into being Muppets.”

Although it’s his first time directing, he’sin his fourth year of theater at Westfield.And, said Parsons, “It’s nice to pass downthat knowledge to others, as well as to beon the other side of production. Directingis a lot about how you interact with people.And you have to think about the process asa whole — for example, how the costumesand set will fit into the scene — and notjust directing the actors.”

This show is the traditional “ChristmasCarol” story by Charles Dickens, but por-trayed by Muppets. “That makes it funnierand more entertaining to kids,” said Par-sons. “People will like the genuine goodtime the cast members are having playingMuppets, and that really translates to howmuch fun it’ll be for the audience to watch.”

‘Merry Christmas, Charlie Brown’Featuring the characters from the “Pea-

nuts” comic strips and TV cartoons, “MerryChristmas, Charlie Brown” is co-directed byKaley Haller and Ruby Tippl. The cast of 17includes Ryan Kirby as Charlie Brown,Diana Witt as Lucy, Anna Krelovich as Sally,

Paul Lee as Linus, and Sean Egan as Snoopy.“The cool thing is that we have a lot of

underclassmen, so this show gives them anacting opportunity,” said Haller. “It’s goodto see fresh, new faces, and they each haveat least one line to speak. They’re reallyexcited about being on the Westfield stage.”

This play is the familiar story of “A CharlieBrown Christmas,” but condensed. “But itstill has the iconic theme song and the foot-ball kick,” said Haller. “The audience willlike the energy the actors are bringing to it,and there’s always something going ononstage.”

Calling the storyline “heartwarming,”Haller said it will “bring people back to theiryouth. And it’s fun to watch because, thistime, it’s all right for the actors to becartoonish onstage — because that’s theessence of Charlie Brown.”

As a director, she’s been making sure thateach actor gets his or her moment to shine.“I’ve also learned how much wiggle roomthere is in directing a play while, at the sametime, staying true to the story,” said Haller.“I’m also Westfield’s thespian [chapter]president, so I’m happy to give some of ourunderclassmen their start in their theatercareers here.”

‘The Grinch’It wouldn’t be the holidays without the

story of “The Grinch,” and co-directing itare Allie Bush and Ian Balderston. The castof 10 features Valerie Spiegelthal in the titlerole; Hana Hossain plays Max the dog, andLauren Levine is Cindy Lou Who. The Whos

of Whoville sing “Dahoo Dores” andDrew Tobin sings “You’re a MeanOne, Mr. Grinch.”

“Things are going well,” said Bush.“The cast is very easy to work withand are happy to be part of thisshow, so I’m excited to see how it’sall going to work out. And Valerie’sdoing a great job acting like a per-son she wouldn’t normally act likein real life.”

Bush has acted in the Ho Ho show,the past three years, so she’s enjoy-ing getting to direct now. “I learnedthat you think you’re organized, andthen things happen that you don’texpect and have to adapt to,” shesaid. “So you have to listen to theideas of the other directors and themembers of your cast.”

“This is a very fun show,” saidBush. “The Grinch has unique waysof moving around the stage, and thisis a classic Christmas show, so manypeople have watched the movie andare familiar with the story. All theWhos wear pajamas and have theirown personalities, which will be re-flected in the types and colors oftheir pajamas. We also have funprops, such as Christmas packages,a chimney and a Christmas tree. Andwhen the Whos eat ‘Who Pudding,’they’ll eat snack packs.”

‘Twas the Night’An all-dance production, ’Twas the Night’

is co-directed by Aubrey Cervarich and SaraBresnahan. The 20-person cast featuresfreshman Keeley Rogers as the SugarplumFairy, sophomore Bridgette Carey asRudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer and jun-ior Gene Kim as the Nutcracker.

“It’s a great cast, and Nik Glover narratesthe story,” said Cervarich. “He reads thepoem, ‘’Twas the Night before Christmas,’while the children are dreaming of the Nut-cracker and act out that story with the fair-ies and the mice. And then Rudolph andthe other mice join in.”

Cervarich is also happy to be directing.“The students who’ve played the SugarplumFairy and Rudolph get to direct this showas seniors, so it’s something Sara and I haveboth been looking forward to and carryingon the tradition.”

“We do ballet and jazz dancing and usethe same choreography every year,” shecontinued. “But each director puts their ownspin on it and tailors the choreography tothe strengths of the dancers. The actors arealso making this story their own, and it’scool to see the different generations do thisstory at Westfield. They play different roleseach year as the legacy of this show herelives on.”

She said the audience will enjoy seeingthis production. “It’s really fun,” saidCervarich. “They’ll get to see ballet and jazz,beautiful fairies, scary mice and lovable re-indeer — and it’s all very high-energy.”

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By Mercia Hobson

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One hundred twenty-fivechildren with life-chal-lenging illnesses, their

families and a support team ofdoctors, nurses and volunteers, fora total of 216 people, arrived atGate 7, Terminal D at Dulles In-ternational Airport, Dec. 3, andheaded for the hottest destinationof the season.

Children’s Hospice Interna-tional, located in Alexandria, inpartnership with United Airlineshad invited children and theirfamilies to experience a specialtrip. Earlier that morning eachperson had checked in at theUnited Airlines counter and re-ceived a complimentary ticketaboard Flight 2135, IAD-NTP, non-stop service from Washington tothe North Pole, aboard FantasyFlight 2016, call sign Sleigh RideOne.

They lined up at the boardinggate shortly before 8:30 a.m.,awaiting an adventure so manyfamilies had anticipated formonths. Going down the jetbridge, parents lifted their childrenout of wheelchairs leaving thechairs behind for the support crew.Others held the hands of their illchild and the hands of their otherchildren as the line moved forwardto enter the plane.

The flight crew greeted the pas-sengers as they boarded the planefor their all-expense paid trip tothe North Pole and personal visitswith Santa Claus.

HOLIDAY MAGIC, a mix of com-munity spirit and care, fueled thisyear’s United Airlines FantasyFlight 2016, a program in its 27th

year of operation. Through thesupport of United Airlines, its part-nership with Children’s HospiceInternational, the giving of dozensof local and regional corporationsand hundreds of volunteers in-cluding United employees whodonated their time and talent,United’s Flight to the North Poleprepared to depart.

Francis Parker and her husbandhad eagerly anticipated this daysince May when the youngest oftheir four sons, Case, age 2, wasdiagnosed with cancer. While wait-ing to board Fantasy Flight 2016,Parker’s boys had crayoned letters

to Santa and mailed them with thehelp from members of HerndonRotary Club. Paul Williams,Rotarian, said, “It’s a happy timehere today, to celebrate with thefamilies.”

As the boys colored, Parker said,“Case is receiving treatment atWalter Reed. His nurses told usabout the flight when Case wasdiagnosed. We woke them up thismorning, put them in the car anddidn’t tell them where they weregoing until we got to the airport.Everybody’s been wonderful.”Looking around, she added: “Whata great opportunity this is.”

Although Case’s brothers hadflown before, this was to be Case’sfirst flight, as it was for many chil-dren aboard Fantasy Flight 2016.While the flight attendants helpedthe families settle in, UnitedAirline’s Captain “Bubba” wel-comed everyone aboard. He ex-plained that there were some veryspecial rules on the nonstop flightto the North Pole.

“Window blinds have to remaindown,” he said, adding that theplane uses a very special fuel,making it travel so fast it’ll be ex-tremely bright outside. “And every-one knows, where Santa lives,”Captain Bubba said, “is a secret,only United has clearance fromSanta Claus” to land at the NorthPole.

The flight is real and so is thedestination. Sandy Steinmeyer, aUnited Airlines flight attendantand key organizer of the DullesFantasy Flights said: “All Fantasy

North Pole BoundIn spirit of season, communityorganizations and businessesdonate hundreds of servicehours and supplies.

A child at United AirlinesFantasy Flight knows thebest gift of any season isa welcoming hug.

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Flights across the United States and Guam,a total of 14 flights, will really take off thisyear.”

According to Randy Cox, managing direc-tor United Airlines, United Airlines donatesthe fuel for the flights while employees,flight attendants, crews and support teamsdonate their time.

Julia Wislocka, United Airlines staff rep-resentative corporate communication, com-mented that there is no doubt in her mindFantasy Flight is the most amazing event ofUnited Airlines. She said, “It’s a great ex-ample of employees and the communitycoming together. The event, takes hundredsof volunteers, and the concourse where thefamilies will arrive, really is transformed tobe the North Pole.”

As Fantasy Flight 2016 prepared to land,Captain Bubba came on the intercom onelast time. To everyone on board, he wished:“Fill your days with laughter; fill them withpeace and with joy. Welcome to the NorthPole.”

The children, their families and the sup-port teams deplaned. They headed up thejet bridge to the concourse. There, much totheir surprise, with eyes wide open,storybook characters, Minions, StormTroopers and hundreds of volunteers hadformed a gauntlet, and were applaudingtheir arrival. High fives were slapped; chil-dren hugged Minions and the Red, Whiteand Blues band played.

Earlier, Cox described the effort it tookto transform the concourse to be the NorthPole; “We begin decorating the night beforeat 6 p.m. It takes 350 volunteers to deco-rate the North Pole. All the work and thedecorations are donated.”

Jim Lynch from Michigan attended theevent with his teenage daughter Emily.Lynch said, “Emily completed a weeklongresearch program at NIH. This is a fun day.And to just walk off that plane, we wereblown away.”

Another element of the day is the impactthe event has for the siblings of a challengedchild. Wislocka said, “Today’s event is soimportant for the sick kids, but also for theirsiblings because their parents’ focus hasbeen on the sick child. United Airline em-ployees and our volunteers make sure thesiblings get just as much attention and love.”

Xin Huang’s 3-year old daughter, Heidi,

attends the Maryland School for the Deafand Blind. While Heidi rested in her wheel-chair, Huang said that this was the secondtime they had attended the event. Sheadded, “It’s an important family event. Lastyear, every other month, Heidi’s brother,Leon, would ask about it. He absolutelybelieves we are at the North Pole.”

DURING THEIR VISIT to the North Pole,guests experienced an entertainment lineup of 13 bands; various support groups suchas Summit Therapy Animals and Red DoorSalon and entertainers like Aerial GraffitiJugglers, who all donated their time andtalents for the cause.

But the event everyone waited for washis or her personal visit with Santa and Mrs.Claus. Each child had an extended time withSanta and received a bag full of age-appro-priate toys or items, purchased specificallyfor that child.

At 21, Montel Flipping was the oldest in-vitee. He sat in his wheelchair, eyes alert.His mother, Sonja Flipping said, “Montelwas diagnosed with pediatric brain cancerat Children’s Hospital. This has been a 4-year journey, and God is awesome.” Sheadded that Montel, her only child, had beenaccepted into the Police Cadet Program onemonth prior to his diagnosis. “Where trustis, is what matters most,” she said as theyleft to get in line for Montel’s visit withSanta.

Ashtin Parker from West Springfield HighSchool and Bryson McDaniels from LakeBraddock High School were two of the giftpurchasers for the event. Parker said, “Thisyear we got to buy 800 toys.”

McDaniels added: “We got toys everychild would like, from ages newborn to 21.If we can make a difference, we will do thisany day.” Both Parker and McDaniels hadformed gift and fund drives, Ashtin’s drivewas named Ashtin’s Angels and McDaniel’swas Bryson’s Blessings.

McDaniel’s added: “We really put a lot ofthought into what to buy, headphones,books, puzzles, then he added: “The head-phones are for the 21-year old.”

For more information about FantasyFlight, contact United Airlines. For moreinformation about Children’s Hospice Inter-national that ensures medical, psychologi-cal, social, and spiritual support to all chil-dren with life-threatening conditions andtheir families, contact www.CHIonline.org.

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The nonprofit OurNeighbor’s Child(ONC) provides fi-nancially struggling,

local families with new toys andclothes for the holidays. Childrenunder 12 also receive brand-newbooks, and every family gets twodozen, home-baked cookies madeby the local high schools.

“Fairfax County is an expensiveplace to live; and for many resi-dents, it’s hard to make endsmeet,” said ONC Executive Direc-tor Kelly Lavin. “So our efforts re-lieve stress on what are mostlysingle moms worrying about howthey’ll provide for their childrenfor the holidays. And in mostcases, we’re preventing them fromusing next month’s electric-billpayment or rent money for it, in-stead.”

This year, ONC will brightenChristmas for some 800 families— but that’s a big task, and it can’tdo it alone. It really needs the com-munity to step up and lend a handtoward the effort. Here’s howpeople may help:

❖ Sunday, Dec. 11, from noon-2 p.m., set-up day at the ware-house.

❖ Monday-Tuesday, Dec. 12-13,from 3:30-6:30 p.m., Westfield,Centreville and Chantilly highschool SGAs - warehouse gift drop-off.

❖ Wednesday, Dec. 14, from3:30-6:30 p.m., bag check andshopping night.

❖ Thursday, Dec. 15, from 9a.m.-6 p.m., packaging day.

❖ Thursday, Dec. 15, from 10a.m.-4 p.m., Cookie drop-off at theVirginia Run Community Center,15355 Wetherburn Court, offRoute 29 and Pleasant ValleyRoad, in Centreville. ONC will de-liver approximately 20,000 home-made cookies along with the gifts,so plenty of baking help is needed.Each family gets a mixed assort-ment; bring the cookies in dispos-able containers.

❖ Sunday, Dec. 18, from 1-4p.m., delivery day.

❖ Wednesday, Dec. 21, fromnoon-2 p.m., warehouse clean up.

To help with any of these things,people may email ONC [email protected] sign up atwww.ourneighborschild.org, andclick on “volunteer” at the top ofthe page. They may pick whateverappeals to them; baking cookies,shopping, packaging gifts, deliver-ing gifts, or setting up or cleaningup the warehouse.

— Bonnie Hobbs

Ways to Help Our Neighbor’s Child

Last Saturday, Dec. 3,students in Stone MiddleSchool’s National JuniorHonor Society held aPanther Drop-Off giftcollection for OurNeighbor’s Child. Commu-nity members broughtdonations of brand-newtoys, books, games andclothing to the school, andthe students packaged itall up and loaded it in atruck for transport toONC’s warehouse.

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As Bridget O’Brien took inventory of her liquorsupply recently, she checked off vanilla rum,white chocolate liqueur, peppermint

schnapps, Champagne and Crème de cassis. Thesefanciful ingredients would be the key ingredients ofthe signature drinks — candy cane cocktails and kirroyale — that guests had come to expect at herfamily’s annual Christmas carolingparty. This year, however, therewas a new item on her checklist:keeping a close eye on her 13-year-old daughter, 16-year-old son andtheir friends, who would be amongthe guests at the family-friendly af-fair.

“The party begins at our houseand we stroll to the end of thestreet singing carols,” said O’Brien.“There are so many people that itwould be easy for kids to wanderoff back to the house where they’dbe alone with the alcohol. They’restarting to want more indepen-dence now, so we naturally losesome of the control that we had when they wereyounger.”

A recent study from the Substance Abuse and Men-tal Health Services Administration shows that in-creased access to alcoholic beverages for underagedrinkers, combined with less oversight from dis-tracted adults and mixed messages from parents mayfuel surges in underage drinking during the holidays.

“A lot of parents would be surprised that their childwould drink, but there are a lot of ways for childrento get alcohol,” said Allen Lomax, executive directorof the Substance Abuse Prevention Coalition of Al-exandria. “It’s easy for them to get alcohol from theirparents’ home if it’s not locked up. You have to con-stantly monitor parties in your home when teens arethere because there’s a good chance that someone,even if it’s not your own child, could have alcohol.”

According to the Centers for Disease Control andPrevention, underage drinkers are responsible forbetween 10 and 20 percent of all alcohol consumed.They also make up the highest percentage of im-paired drivers, and during the holiday season, twoto three times more people die in alcohol-relatedcrashes than they do during the rest of the year. Infact, 40 percent of traffic fatalities during this pe-riod involve a driver who is under the influence ofalcohol. As a result, child safety advocates encour-age parents to have frequent conversations with theirchildren about alcohol.

“It is best to start the conversation … long beforethe child might be in a situation where they partakein underage drinking,” said Linda R. Cote-Reilly,Ph.D., a developmental psychologist, certified fam-ily life educator and professor at Marymount Uni-versity in Arlington. It’s not that different from con-versations about sexual activity. One big difference,though, is that the child will have observed his orher own parents’ alcohol use, so parents should beprepared to … answer pointed questions.”

In fact, personal experiences, even those that areunpleasant, can be teachable moments and shouldnot be avoided or sugarcoated, said Cote-Reilly. In-form older children of any family history of alcohol-ism or alcohol abuse. “Some children will have an

alcoholic in the family, and parents should alwaysaddress that situation honestly and in child appro-priate language. For example, a child might say, ‘Whydid Uncle Jim fall asleep during Thanksgiving din-ner?’ and the parent could respond, ‘Because hedrank too much alcohol.’”

Because alcohol is a legal substance that childrenoften observe adults consuming, and that they them-selves might legally consume themselves later in life,the issue can be confusing.

Cote-Reilly advises parents to start by mulling overtheir own views on alcohol. “Parents values will vary,”she said. “If the child is an older adolescent, parents

can explain why they made thechoices they did, for example, to bea teetotaler, regular drinker or some-where in between.”

While parents want to curb under-age drinking to keep their highschool children safe and avoid legalpenalties, rather than simply ban-ning alcohol, parents “need to laythe groundwork for their children toconsume alcohol responsibly inearly adulthood,” said Amy L. Best,Ph.D., professor and chair, Depart-ment of Sociology and Anthropol-ogy, George Mason University. Thisis especially important for studentstransitioning to college, where binge

drinking is more common.Engaging in a straightforward discussion that is

void of mandates and hard-lined rules is the mosteffective approach in getting children to be recep-tive, advised Best.

“Research suggests that when parents focus onrules and discipline, adolescents tend to be morelikely to engage in surreptitious drinking and suc-cumb to peer pressure,” agreed Shannon N. Davis,Ph.D., associate professor of sociology at GeorgeMason University. In fact, parents who talk to theiradolescents about drinking as something that is for-bidden might actually enhancing its desirability. In-stead, [discuss it] as something that in moderationis part of adult life.

“Children often harbor ideas about alcohol that aredownright wrong,” said Best. “Sometimes this meansparents just listen and then can share their own ob-servations, as well as the strategies they used to navi-gate the complex world of adolescent and adultdrinking.”

Ask a child to research the consequences of un-derage drinking, both legal and safety, and reviewthat list with your child. Develop a family positionon alcohol consumption, set clear boundaries andask your child to commit to those standards. Decideon consequences for breaking the commitment andmake sure children understand those repercussions.

“It is important that teens have the means to forgea sense of self that is separate from their parents,”said Best. “That is the fundamental developmentalproject of adolescence. When teens have productivemeans to forge a sense of self independent ofparent(s), alcohol holds less appeal.”

One overarching factor that affects not only un-derage drinking, but other adolescent temptationsis the process of developing a healthy sense of self-worth. “Parents want to ensure that their adolescentshave high levels of self-esteem that allow them tofeel comfortable saying ‘no’ to any circumstancewhere they are uncomfortable or pressured by theirfriends,” said Davis. “Reminding adolescents that itis OK to be different is a hard thing, and it is a hardthing for the adolescents to hear.”

Preventing Underage DrinkingExperts suggest holdinghonest conversations.

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UNTIL DEC. 31Holiday Giving Projects. The

Democratic Women of Clifton andNorthern Virginia kicked off it’sannual Holiday Giving project andchose Britepaths (britepaths.org) andFairfax Firefighters and Friends tothe Rescue (www.ffandfriends2therescue.org) to receive donations.Dll donations are tax deductible.Donations to Britepaths, a localnonprofit organization that providesassistance to Northern Virginiafamilies experiencing financialhardship, will be distributed to thefamilies in January. Grocery store giftcards as well as checks for theorganization to purchase cards,should be made out to Britepaths andsent to: DWCNV, P.O. Box 143,Clifton, VA 20124. Donations will beaccepted until Dec. 31, 2016 forJanuary [email protected]

Sheehy Cares Toy Collection.Through Dec. 9, Sheehy Auto Storesin Chantilly will collect new,unwrapped toys as part of thecompany’s annual Sheehy Cares ToyCollection to benefit the U.S. MarineCorps Reserve Toys for Tots Programat 25 dealership locations. SheehyCares Toy Collection drop-offlocation in Chantilly: Sheehy Infinitiof Chantilly, 4145 Auto Park Circle

HomeAid NOVA Year-EndDonation. Help with a year-enddonation of $100, $200, $500,$1,000 or more, and make adifference in the lives of the morethan 5,000 homeless men, women,and children living in NorthernVirginia. [email protected],571-283-6300 HomeAid NorthernVirginia, 3684 Centerview Drive,Suite 110B, Chantilly, VA 20151.

Long & Foster, Toys for Tots.

Through Dec. 14, Long & Foster RealEstate in Chantilly is once againparticipating in the U.S. MarineCorps Reserve in its Toys for Totsprogram. Community members maydrop off new, unwrapped toys.Employees at the company’scorporate headquarters are alsoparticipating in the annual initiative,collecting donations at the buildinglocated at 14501 George Carter Way.

FRIDAY/DEC. 9“A Fairfax Nutcracker.” 8 p.m. at

GMU Center for the Arts ConcertHall, 4400 University Drive, Fairfax.The Fairfax Symphony Orchestra andthe Fairfax Ballet Company, based inChantilly, have created “A FairfaxNutcracker.” Fairfax Ballet Companymember Lilah Fortin will dance themajor role of Clara, the young girlwho dreams of magical moments onChristmas Eve. Dancing with Fortinwill be artistic staff and studentsfrom Fairfax Ballet and experiencedprofessional dancers. 888-945-2468or visit www.fairfaxsymphony.org/nutcracker-1/

SATURDAY-SUNDAY/DEC 10-11“The Nutcracker.” 3 p.m. at

Centreville High School Theater,6001 Union Mill Road, Centreville.Proceeds will benefit CVHS DramaScholarships and St. Jude Children’sResearch Hospital. [email protected].

SATURDAY/DEC. 10Christmas Open House. 11 a.m.-3

p.m. at Oakton Baptist Church ofChantilly, 14001 Sullyfield Circle.This will include a tour of the church,free hot chocolate, and three food

trucks selling Taco/Latin, GrilledCheese, and a Carnival/Kid-Friendlytruck. Children 12 and under canparticipate in Christmas shopping inthe Fellowship Hall with new andgently used wrapped items whilesupplies last. A small donation willbe accepted for each item.

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SUNDAY/DEC. 11Family Advent Workshop 3-5 p.m.

at Centreville United MethodistChurch, 6400 Old Centreville Road.

Event for the entire family thatfocuses on the birth of Jesus andhomemade crafts. Free. Call 703-830-2684.

WEDNESDAY/DEC. 14Blue Christmas Service. 7 p.m. at

King of Kings Lutheran Church, 4025Kings Way. Prayers, scripture, candlelighting and music. 703-378-7272

BEFORE DEC. 15U.S. Postal Service Letters from

Santa Program. The U.S. PostalService can help with Santa replies toa child’s letter — complete with aNorth Pole postmark. Visitabout.usps.com/holidaynews/letters-from-santa.htm to learn how a childcan get a letter back from Santa. .

SATURDAY/DEC. 17Candlelight Events at Sully

Historic Site. 4:45-8 p.m. at SullyHistoric Site, 3650 Historic SullyWay. Meet Sully’s Santa and hear areading of “A Visit from St. Nicholas.”See a Christmas tree decoratedaccording to an 1885 memory, andmake a decoration. Take the 45-minute house tour with start timesevery 15 minutes from 4:45-7 p.m.Stay to enjoy outdoor festivities until8 p.m. $10. 703-437-1794www.fairfaxcounty.gov/parks/sully-historic-site/

SUNDAY/DEC. 1835th Annual Manassas-Bull Run

Christmas Bird Count. 7-11:30a.m. at Various points aroundCentreville. Birders of all skill levelsare invited to participate.audubonva.org/contact-bob

‘A Fairfax Nutcracker’The Fairfax Symphony Orchestra and the FairfaxBallet Company, based in Chantilly, have created “AFairfax Nutcracker” 8 p.m. at GMU Center for theArts Concert Hall, 4400 University Drive, Fairfax.

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ONGOINGWhite House Ornament Sale. GFWC Western

Fairfax County Woman’s Club is selling 2016White House Christmas ornaments. This year’sornament honors our 31st President, HerbertHoover. The ornament, inspired by a WhiteHouse fire on Christmas Eve, 1929, is a firetruck carrying a Christmas tree. Ornaments are$21. Call 703-378-6841 or 703-378- 6216. It ispossible to order previous years’ ornaments.

Art Guild of Clifton Exhibit. 10 a.m.-8 p.m. atClifton Wine Shop, 7145 Main St., Clifton.Includes oil paintings of European settings;doors, windows, and flower shops. Free. Call703-409-0919 for more.

Lego Block Party. Every other Tuesday, 3 p.m. atthe Chantilly Library, 4000 Stringfellow Road.Legos will be provided for an afternoon ofbuilding. Grades 3-6. Free. Call 703-502-3883 toreserve a spot.

Duplo Storytime. Every other Wednesday, 10:30and 11:30 a.m. at the Chantilly Library, 4000Stringfellow Road. Develop and reinforce earlyliteracy skills for reading success. Ages 1-3 withadult. Free. Call 703-502-3883 to reserve a spot.

PET ADOPTIONSAdopt a Cat or Dog. Fridays, 6:30-8:30 p.m. at

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Adopt a Dog. Saturdays, 12-3 p.m. at Petco,13053 Lee Jackson Highway. Visit hart90.org formore.

Adopt a Dog. Sundays, 1-4 p.m. at Petco, 13053Lee Jackson Memorial Hwy. Adopt a puppy ordog.Visit aforeverhome.org for more.

Adopt a Dog. Saturdays, 1-4 p.m. at PetSmart,12971 Fair Lakes Center, Fairfax. Adopt a puppyor dog. Visit www.lostdogrescue.org for more.

THURSDAY-SATURDAY/DEC. 8-10“Guys and Dolls” Musical. Thursday, Dec. 8 at

2:30 p.m.; Friday, Dec. 9 at 7:30 p.m.; Saturday,Dec. 10 at 3 p.m. Thursday performance ispresale tickets only at Stone Middle School,5500 Sully Park Drive. [email protected] or 703-631-5500

FRIDAY-SATURDAY/DEC. 9-10A Madrigal Feaste Renaissance Dinner. 6:30

p.m. at Centreville United Methodist Church,6400 Old Centreville Road. A four-coursedinner, comedic drama, music by brassensemble and harp, concert by the Royal Court;all presented by costumed performers. Tickets:$30. Call 703-830-2684.

SATURDAY-SUNDAY/DEC 10-11“The Nutcracker.” 3 p.m. at Centreville High

School Theater, 6001 Union Mill Road,Centreville. Proceeds will benefit CVHS DramaScholarships and St. Jude Children’s ResearchHospital. [email protected].

SATURDAY/DEC. 10Christmas Open House. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. at

Oakton Baptist Church of Chantilly, 14001Sullyfield Circle. This will include a tour of thechurch, free hot chocolate, and three food trucksselling Taco/Latin, Grilled Cheese, and aCarnival/Kid-Friendly truck. Children 12 andunder can participate in Christmas shopping inthe Fellowship Hall with new and gently usedwrapped items while supplies last. A smalldonation will be accepted for each item.www.facebook.com/OaktonBaptistChurch

SUNDAY/DEC. 11Arts and Crafts Activities. 1-4 p.m. at the

Fairfax Station Railroad Museum, 11200 FairfaxStation Road. A volunteer in Civil War attire willdo candle dipping. Lead acrylic painting,painting wooden train ornaments and othercrafts may be offered that day. Most activitiesare appropriate for ages 8 and above. Supplycosts included with admission. Museummembers and children 4 and under, free; ages 5-15, $2; ages 16 and older, $4. www.fairfax-station.org, 703-425-9225

WEDNESDAY/DEC. 14Blue Christmas Service. 7 p.m. at King of Kings

Lutheran Church, 4025 Kings Way. Prayers,scripture, candle lighting and music. 703-378-7272

THURSDAY-FRIDAY/DEC. 15-16INOVA Fair Oaks Hospital Auxiliary $5

Jewelry and Accessory Sale. 8 a.m.-4 p.m.at the Hospital Atrium 3600 Joseph SiewickDrive.

SUNDAY/DEC. 1835th Annual Manassas-Bull Run Christmas

Bird Count. 7-11:30 a.m. at Various points in a15-mile diameter circle around Centreville.Birders of all skill levels are invited toparticipate in the 35th Annual Manassas-BullRun Christmas Bird Count, sponsored by theAudubon Society of Northern Virginia.audubonva.org/contact-bob

MONDAY/DEC. 19PTA Spirit Event. noon-11 p.m. at Buffalo Wild

Wings, 11204 Swart Circle. 10 percent of thetotal bill (food, all beverages, carry-out anddine-in) goes to Centreville Elementary School’sPTA. Don’t forget to mention, “CentrevilleElementary School.” [email protected]

THROUGH DEC. 31Local Author Gives. Local author K.L. Kranes

book “The Travelers,” is set in the fictitious FallsCity, Virginia, follows Dagny and Marc, 16-year-olds who meet by chance and fall in love. Theyare forced to hide their relationship from theirfamilies or else face dire consequences. Aportion of the proceeds from book sales throughDec. 31, 2016 will go to charities that promotereading and discourse through [email protected], 703-966-2336www.klkranes.com



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Rocking theChair

Not that I was ever a CB person (CitizensBand radio), good buddy, but right now, Iam in the middle of both my four-to-fiveweek infusion interval and my quarterly-scan interval. Far enough past that I don’thave any residual food or emotional issuesand not close enough that I have any anxi-ety about the food and emotional issuesthat will inevitably occur. I am between arock and a hard place, and I mean that inan atypical way: I am under no pressure,but no illusions either, oddly enough. I amsailing smooth and riding high, mindful ofmy reality, but appreciative of the relative— and comparative calm with which thisinterval affords.

Not that I can be normal (not a cancer“diagnosee”), but this is as close to ‘normal’as it gets — for me. After all, I do have a“terminal” form of cancer (non-small celllung cancer, stage IV), not a cold, so it’s notas if it will go away with time. Nevertheless,I am grateful for the particularly good times— now, while trying to manage my expec-tations for the bad times — later, after thishoneymoon-type period ends. But sincethere have been many more good timesthan bad since I was diagnosed in lateFebruary 2009, I am not bogged down,emotionally by my circumstances, althoughI am somewhat compromised, physically.Nothing I can’t live with, however. Actually,I’m thrilled to live with any of it, ‘live’ beingthe operative word.

At this juncture, nearly eight years postinitial symptoms (New Year’s Day 2009),mostly I can handle what happens to me, sofar any way. But when similar stuff happensto others: death, disease, disability, demen-tia; I feel their pain, sort of; and suffer emo-tionally. It’s not as if I take in all their anxi-ety, but in a way, the weight of it does affectme. And sometimes, I get weepy over it. AsI’ve written before, and heard many timesas well in the cancer world, negative any-thing is extremely harmful to cancerpatients — or most other “terminal”patients I would imagine as well. From myown experience though, I certainly under-stand the difficult circumstances underwhich all us patients/survivors endure;remaining positive and being surrounded bypositivity is key as is humor, encourage-ment, compliments, congratulations, com-passion and empathy. All are crucial to ourcore. Healthy bodies we may no longerhave, but healthy minds we have to main-tain. And the stronger and healthier thatmind is, the more it will help us to mind ourown business and do so in a manner thatwill prevent the cancer from taking overthose minds.

Just as The United Negro College Fund“slogans” “A mind is a terrible thing towaste;” in the cancer world, it’s terriblewhen patients are unable to use their mindsto fight their disease. In many cases, canceris a killer, there’s no doubt about that, butallowing negative emotions to take over isreally unhelpful. Accentuating the positive(like the subject of this column) and mini-mizing the negative has to be the order ofthe day — and the night, too. You have tofind the good or the funny and embrace it,exaggerate it, extend it, elongate it, andreinforce it. Anything to make sure it mat-ters more than the bad. Bad is bad enoughon its own. It doesn’t need any help fromus. Focusing on what I can enjoy hopefullywill enable me to keep on trekking, and to“Live long and prosper.”

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Divisional ChampionsThe Chantilly 1, Under 13 boys soccer team hold up their trophies atDraper Drive Park in Fairfax after winning their divisional champi-onship game on Nov. 13. The team is led by Coach Eric Schuchardand Assistant Coach Nate Jencks.

Author’s InsightStudents and teachers at Poplar Tree Elementary School enjoyed avisit with Eric Litwin, the author of the “Pete the Cat” books,“Groovy Joe” and “The Nuts.”

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The Fairfax County Fire and Rescue De-partment is participating in this year’s An-nual National Capital Region Fire and EMSDepartments’ 2016 Toys for Tots Campaign.The intent of the campaign is to “bring holi-day joy and deliver a message of hope tochildren.”

Last year, thanks to the generosity of thosewho live and work in Fairfax County, theFire and Rescue Department collected morethan 13,000 toys.

Children who are served by this campaigninclude toddlers and youths through age 17.The campaign will only accept new un-wrapped toys and they can be dropped offat any of fire and rescue station. Toys usedas weapons or considered to be weapons(i.e., toy guns or knives of any kind) willnot be accepted. Checks or money ordersfor donations must be made payable to Toysfor Tots.

Fairfax County Fire and Rescue stationswill accept donations through Friday, Dec.16.

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Certified technicians from the Sully Dis-trict Police Station will perform free, childsafety carseat inspections Thursday, Dec. 8,from 5-8:30 p.m., at the station, 4900Stonecroft Blvd. in Chantilly. No appoint-ment is necessary. But residents should in-stall the child safety seats themselves sotechnicians may properly inspect and ad-just them, as needed.

Because of time constraints, only the first35 vehicles arriving on each date will beinspected. That way, inspectors may haveenough time to properly instruct thecaregiver on the correct use of the child seat.Call 703-814-7000, ext. 5140, to confirmdates and times.

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By Will Palenscar

The Westfield Bulldogs andSouth Lakes Seahawksbattled in the 6A North

Regional Final — with Westfieldsecuring the trip to Hampton Uni-versity, on Dec. 10 for the Virginia6A State Championship.

In the 1st quarter Sean Eckertopened scoring with 7:44 remain-ing in the quarter when RehmanJohnson connected with him from

7 yards out. After Brian Delaney’spoint after, Westfield took an early7-0 advantage. Johnson wouldthrow his second touchdown passwith 5:41 to play in the 1st whenhe hit Ivory Frimpong for a 35-yard TD. Westfield now led 14-0after another Delaney PAT. Later,with: 24 seconds to play in the 1st,Johnson would score from 2 yardsout and Westfield’s third touch-down in the opening quarter.Delaney again was successful with

his third PAT of the opening quar-ter.

In the 2nd quarter Johnson wentto the air again. Once again it wasEckert. The score covered 80yards. With 7:22 to play in thequarter. Johnson had now thrownhis third touchdown pass of thefirst half. Following anotherDelaney PAT, Westfield was up 28-0. Eckert and Delaney were notfinished. The duo would onceagain connect for Johnson’s fourth

TD pass of the game and Eckert’sthird TD reception, this one from8 yards out with 19 seconds to playin the 2nd.

Now leading 35-0, Westfieldwould score their final points withjust 2:07 to play in the 3rd whenSaadiq Hinton crossed the goalline, and Westfield would go up42-0.

In the 4th quarter South Lakescontinued to battle even withWestfield resting many of their

starters. Albert Mensah burst fora 45-yard touchdown run just 52seconds into the 4th. The extrapoint was blocked by the Westfieldspecial teams and the score was42-6. South Lake’s Mensah wouldscore once again on a 2-yardtouchdown run with Westfieldthen leading 42-12. On the ensu-ing 2-point conversion, it wasKevin Petrillo who put a hit on TreVenable on the 1 yard line, thwart-ing the Seahawks 2-point conver-sion. The hit could be heardthroughout the stands and reso-nated in the crowd’s reaction.Petrillo also intercepted a pass ear-lier in the game.

Statistically, Westfield was led byQB Rehman Johnson who ran fora TD, completed 11-14 passes withfour TDs and one interception.Eckert caught six passes for 176yards and three scores. IvoryFrimpong, caught three passes for84 yards and a TD.

Westfield used five players toaccount for just over 100 yardsrushing. Devin Miles, QB for SouthLakes completed 9 of 19 passes for80 yards and two interceptions.Spencer Alston and Albert Mensahtogether carried the ball 22 timesfor 141 yards and two touch-downs. South Lakes ends the yearwith a (12-2) record. Westfieldimproves to (12-2) and will playOscar Smith (13-1), of Chesa-peake, whose only loss came inweek 1 when DeMatha defeatedthem, 42-7. This will be the sec-ond consecutive year thatWestfield and Oscar Smith willplay for the Virginia 6A title.Westfield won last year’s meeting49-42 in three overtimes.

Westfield’s basketball team alsowon the state title last season, de-feating Oscar Smith 74-56. OscarSmith will travel 27 miles toHampton while Westfield willtravel 180 miles. The 6A Champi-onship will be played on Dec. 10at Armstrong Stadium at 4:07 p.m.

Ivory Frimpong #4 catches one of his three receptions.

Rehman Johnson runsfor yardage againstSouth Lakes.

Westfield Coach Kyle Simmons holds the 6A NothernRegion trophy.

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