bullying and the role of the ra @mountidacollege
DESCRIPTION
A workshop developed for student leaders at Mount Ida College to help Resident Assistants deal with bullying in the residence halls, and tools to help them be successful mediators.TRANSCRIPT
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Bullying, Cyberbullying & CyberSecurity: THE ROLE OF THE RA
Information you NEED to know!Sponsored By:
Massachusetts Aggression Reduction
Center
@BridgeStateU
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Goals of this Session:
• Define Bullying & the difference between fighting
• Identify Helping Skills you can use with your residents
• Provide you with resources and ways to be an effective helper
• Understand the “publicness” of the Internet and consequences for improper use as well as how to be safe while online
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Power
Suppo
rtOver & Over Sad or
Afraid
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DESTROY or DAMAGE friendships and status
RUMORS
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Someone reports being bullied....
What do you do?
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Remember…They will say anything!!!
Everyone’s a target
Made up so you feel bad!!
Don’t buy it!!!
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Helping Skills...
The Helping Relationship
Foundational Skills
• Listening• Empathy• Affirmation• Modeling• Appropriate Self-Disclosure
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• Don’t be one. Think about what you are doing.
Don’t laugh along
Don’t join in.
Don’t spread rumors.
Talk about it!!!
Stay out of it!
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Help get the victim outWalk away
CALL THE BULLY OUT
Show the victim support
BYSTANDERS
The Audience That
Says Nothing
Could be anyone
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It’s ALL called cyberbullying but…
Most online
problems are
CONFLICT, not
Cyberbullying
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Before you get mad…
Talk to them
Write it down
What else could it mean?
24 hour rule
IS IT WORTH IT?
VENT
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The Internet…
You can learn a lot.
Others can learn A LOT about you!!!
What do you want them to know??
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Your Billboard
Great GPAActivities
Stuff that makes you look GOOD!
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430 friends
Right click, copy, & paste
Your “friends” can join you into any group they want - without
your permission.
What about your “friends”???
GEOTAGGING
They can tag you in photos
Meet Josh…
He was tagged in a photo
What about your “friends”???
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Passwords + “privacy”PRIVACY SETTINGS
Check them at least once a week
What do your apps know about you?
But remember…NOTHING online is ever
really private!!!
A STRONG password:
At least 8 charactersUpper case, lower case, numbers, and
symbols
Which is more secure??J0g!@!@!@!@!@!Mh65GH8c10Sy1j
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Biggest problems residents face...
SEXTINGAGGRESSION
DRINKING / DRUGS
Belonging to a racist, prejudiced, biased,
or “hate” group
POLICY VIOLATION
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Helper-Centered Skills
Solution Giving Offering
Alternatives Information Giving Offering Advice ???
Feedback Support Constructive
Criticism
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Characteristics of Effective Helpers:
• Being Real
• Being Open• Being Empathetic
• Having High Integrity• Being an Experiencer of Life• Having Good Emotional Health• Being an Alliance Builder• Being Competent
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• Invasive? Maybe.• Fair? It’s public information. The person who posts it is making it public.
Is it fair for adults to judge
you on your profile?
Can you really get in
trouble??
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Impressions...
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Bullying & the Law in Mass• Criminal harassment
• Civil rights violations
• Taking photos
• Taking video
• The new law
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•Don’t Respond!
•Ignore it!
• Print it.
•Tell the service provider.
•Talk about it.
•Think about what you post!
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One final thought…
Treat your passwordlike your
toothbrus
Don’t share it!!!
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