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Parent Workshop:. Bullying. Bullying defined:. Bullying is when someone intentionally and repeatedly hurts another person. There are 3 things present in bullying situations… An imbalance of power (size, strength, or even social status) Intent to harm A repeated behavior. More than one time. - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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BULLYINGParent Workshop:
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Bullying defined:Bullying is when someone intentionally and repeatedly hurts another person. There are 3 things present in bullying situations…
An imbalance of power (size, strength, or even social status)
Intent to harm A repeated behavior. More than one
time.
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4 Types of Bullying Behavior Physical
Harm to a person or property Verbal
Taunting, name-calling, threats Relational Aggression
Harm to someone’s self esteem or group acceptance
CyberbullyingUse of technology to harass or intimidate
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Bullying is NOT…
Normal
A rite of passage
Ever the target’s fault
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Teasing, Conflict, or Bullying? Teasing
Everyone involved is having funCan be inappropriate for school, but everyone is
participating equally and nobody is getting hurt. Conflict
Can be physical or verbal, but there is no difference in power.
A problem, a fight, an argument Bullying
Someone is intentionally hurting another person physically or emotionally.
The people involved are not usually friends and the power is unequal.
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Which is it? You decide.
Teasing? Conflict? Bullying?
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Normal Conflict vs BullyingNormal conflict/mean
behavior
Equal power or are friends Happens occasionally Accidental Not serious Equal emotional reaction Not seeking power Remorse-will take
responsibility Effort to solve the problem
Bullying
Imbalance of power Repeated negative actions Intentional Physical or emotional harm Unequal emotional reaction Seeking control/material
things No remorse-blames target No effort to solve the
problem
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Warning Signs that your child may be a target to bullies Frequently teased, taunted belittled, ridiculed, intimidated
threatened, dominated or subdued Has a derogatory nickname Regularly has bruises or injuries that can’t be explained Has belongings taken or damaged Few or no close friends at school Frequently socially isolated Less assertive or lacks the skills to respond to others’
teasing or harassment Appears weak or easily dominated Tries to stay close to a teacher or other
adult at recess or breaks
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Talk with your ChildResearch tells us that children really do look to parents and caregivers for advice and help on tough decisions. Sometimes spending 15 minutes a day talking can reassure kids that they can talk to their parents if they have a problem. Start conversations about daily life and feelings with questions like these:
What was one good thing that happened today? Any bad things?
What is lunch time like at your school? Who do you sit with? What do you talk about?
What is it like to ride the school bus? What are you good at? What do you like best
about yourself?
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What to do if your child is being bullied… Talk with your child
If your child is being bullied, they need to have a voice in how the situation is handled.
Contact the schoolSet up a meeting with your child’s teacher(s) or
counselor.Develop a plan for keeping your child safe,
particularly during vulnerable times (class breaks, lunch, recess).
Find out what activities or counseling options are available for your child.
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Bullying @ MES Survey given to 4th-8th grade
20 out of 142 students reported being bulliedAbout 14% of students surveyedOut of the 20 students who reported being
bullied…○ 12 reported being bullied VERBALLY○ 7 reported being bullied RELATIONALLY○ 2 reported being bullied PHYSICALLY (pushing,
shoving, making them drop their books)
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MES Bullying Policy Everyone has a right to feel safe,
respected, and to learn! Encourages reporting by :
StudentsParentsTeachersAdministration
Bullying Concern Form
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What about the Bully? Studies show that children identified as
bullies by age 8 are six times more likely to be convicted of a crime by age 24. Brewster & Railsback
60% of kids characterized as bullies in the 6th-9th grade had at least one criminal conviction by age 24. Brewster & Railsback
Bullies are five times more likely to end up with a serious criminal record by age 30. National Association of School Psychologists
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Factors associated with BullyingFamily Factors Lack of attention and warmth Modeling of aggressive behavior at home Poor supervision
Individual Factors Active, impulsive personality Lack of empathy for others Craves attention and approval from others
School School climate is perceived as uncaring or indifferent Teachers/staff unaware or unclear of bullying definitions or
how to respond
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Warning Signsthat your child may be bullying others Frequent name-calling Regular bragging A need to always get his/her own way Spending more time with younger or less
powerful kids A lack of empathy for others A defiant or hostile attitude; easily takes
offense Frequent misbehavior at school
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What To Do if you suspect your child may be bullying others Talk with your child
Never condone bullying behavior; speak up and tell your child that the behavior they are engaging in is considered bullying.
Encourage empathy for others Remind your child that everyone has a right to be themselves,
to choose their own friends and to feel safe at school. Review consequences of bullying behavior
Both discipline consequences and relationship consequences Reinforce respectful behaviors at home Help your child deal with feelings in positive ways Contact the school for help
Set up a meeting with your child’s teacher(s) or counselor. Develop a plan for change.
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Run Away Pepper Trick
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Encouraging Students to be Upstanders
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WE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE!
[teachers, students, parents]TOGETHER…